FAKE IT OR SAY IT Ft. DOYIN | The Honest Bunch Podcast S4 EPS14 

Husband material is a good host. He asks the right questions and very eloquent even with his pigin english.

Nedu's quietness and speechlessness is the hallmark of this episode😂😂😂

Always looking forward to this Podcast and the Guest but ID CABASA AND DESTALKER will Remain the GOAT in this Podcast so Far 💯💯💯💯

All these weird sexual expectations comes as a result on how much time we've spent on watching porn but we forget most of these things we see there a very unrealistic because most of parts in porn are edited. Eating ass, choking, bdsm isn't the only way you can have orgasm during sex you're only seeing it that way based on the ideology you learnt from over time and before you know it your whole system start adapting to it and when this happens it now looks if is your reality while is not. Vibrators are good sexual enhancers but people still had good sex when it wasn't present you see is all about what we've fed our mind with over time which our bodies are now accustomed to.

20mins gone, Nedu hasn't said a word... That's strange😂

Let's be honest this is very educative, watch to the end and learn, weldone Doyin👏

Why does Nedu like asking personal questions? It’s so disrespectful

I like this doyin mentality. And also how open toun is not forgetting the maturity and wisdom from Zini porsh. Pple be pretending a lot these days

I love this episode because alot of pwople are ashamed to speak out and express themselves to their partners letting them know what they actually want sexually

Husband material is very intelligent. Listening to him, you can tell he is sound

What Doyin and Ezinne need to realise is that unrealistic expectations from intimacy is a result of some type of trauma or an unusual first time experience. It’s essentially a trauma response, or could be the result of a person’s introduction to sex and so they’ve built into their minds these strange versions of an ideal way to achieve sexual gratification that is based around these seemingly weird activities. That doesn’t make it a normal thing. It’s not their fault especially if that first experience was largely determined by someone else but we need to understand that it’s also not normal. Wanting to be led on a leash, demanding unhygienic conditions, wanting to be asphyxiated etc in order to attain the height sexual pleasure are unrealistic and weird, not to mention potentially dangerous. Such people need therapy to recalibrate their minds into finding pleasure in “normal” sexual activities. And by normal I don’t mean basic, the possibilities are endless but they don’t need to be weird or unusual.

My Best episode ever was ID cabasa, That man, that man.

Just look at Nedu's face every time they mention licking butt. 😂😂😂😂😂

I have never ever ever seen nedu this quiet 😂😂😂😂 Nedu Nedu Nedu

Sex is critical in every relationship. However, it’s best to preach sex in marriage only. When in marriage, it’s easier to have this deep conversations without getting embarrassed. That’s my take on this podcast! Great one guys!

Imagine pesin wey don fvck doyin bfr … he will be like so this girl pee on my bed no be squirt😂

Fetish wey you learn from PORN (sexual fantasies) nai ona dey bring come reality dey tag "what I like in a relationship"? Walahi, these things are nothing but pervasions! Abeg, Honest Bunch, make ona pair this kind person with health practitioner wey understand the benefits or disadvantage of these things next time. My humble suggestion.

Guys nasty is nasty 🤮 don’t justify stupidity as satisfaction. This is why people no longer can have a decent relationship. We are indulging in thing that just don’t make sense.

Nobody is asking you'all for your best episodes. Every episode has a topic and a message for a reason. Watch and geddifok off

This is the most foolish episode you guys have ever done. You guys just want to break marriages. This kind of topic is meant to be off the table for discussion. I see you guys looking down on who we are as Africans, our way of life, values, and moral values. If you want to be a pornstar good. Marriage is not an institution for porn stars and sex addicts.

pornography don corrupt doyin no be porno we need for marriage its LOVE MAKING LOVE MAKING AND PORNO SEX IS TWO DIFFERENT THINSG ONE CAN DO ALL THIS THINGS AND THERE IS NO LOVE: BECOS THERE ARE PROFFESSIONAL PPL WHO OFFER THIS THINGS AND THERE IS NO LOVE OR STRINGS ATTACHED: so this things those nt make love last forever.

Doyin keeps saying "that’s what they want" lake ….some of this fetishes just abnormal and it’s simply going too far…. Some people can’t resist stealing, they don’t need that thing but they’ll still take it, some people are just attracted to kids, kids below 10yrs does it for them, which is abnormal and mentally unstable, so the fact that it’s something that does it for you doesn’t make it normal or sensible. So fetish are just too much and it’s morally crossing a line.

Oga Nedu is traumatised 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Babarex for finish work with this topic😂

Destalker and ID Cabasa episodes still remain my best on this podcast, i learnt a lot from their episodes. If any of those two govern you, I’m very sure you won’t be misled or fail in life. 👏👏❤️

Doyin has what Mandy Kiss lacks. She refuses to respond to Nedu's too-personal questions with, "It's a personal information." One good example that "education no be scam".

This topic goes a long way. Because some people acts as if they don’t have sex. Till today I still wonder how deeper life parents give birth 😅

I loved this episode cos of the freeness to express. Never seen Nedu so cool and calm. He too learnt so much even more than he expected😂

When sexual perversion is rated as pleasure... It is quite sad because for those that know, understand that sex will not always be the priority in every season of marriage.

If you are to bring people to a supposed educative show, bring well schooled and enlightened people who can speak both facts and experiences. Not any random sex extemist with shallow knowledge of the topic pushing ill sexual desires on the audience. We are not all kids watching the show. The purpose of the show was to be educative I thought, not manipulative. Cos this is dangerous to young people. Just promoting immature and immoral behaviors. If your partner cant satisfy your sexual desires you walk away she said, are going into a relationship because of sexual satisfaction? What if you try 5 partners and they are all bad with sex, will you keep changing partners? Is that not prostitution?

I wish honest bunch could add a call line so we could also join in the conversation

Na too much porn the cause all this

I think this should be what's the difference between making love and having sex

Sex is a forbidden topic in Alot of Homes

Of all things, there's no how my guy fingers me without washing his hands first. I'm however turned on by the smell of tobacco after he just smoked! But in the morning, the stench is a turn off. Women, we're wired distinctly.

Toun......na one nasty gentle baby.......am so inlove with her kind of personality.

Oga Nedu quietness for this episode tells a lot about what’s is going through his head as this girls spit out beautiful nonsense 😂😂😂😂😂

I don't think any episode tops the last one that featured Id Cabasa... Although Desktalker and Baba D1 comes very close

I remember one day when I knáck and this babe keep saying faster...Subconsciously I told her if I go faster than this, na dęāth.

How is another man that isn’t your husband telling you to turn around? Call cheating what it is 😅

What’s sitting on your man’s face???? Just say you’re a sex addict.. Truth be told, Sex can still be enjoyed without being extreme…All I am hearing on this episode is just Sexual extremism

Oga Nedu entered one chance while Husband material tried to hold his constituency. However, as a fan, I stand to state that some of the turn ons mentioned in this adult conversation is associated to mental illness such as compulsive sexual disorder, and Psychosexual disorder.

Every 18+ should watch this and learn and leave hypocritical comments that’ll enable you shy away from your failures in sex

Destalker n ID Cabasa episode is the BEST ever.

People are different Sha Me once I have feelings for you, and we are in a relationship. Small touch I am gone. Feeling is involved for me . Sex has alot to do with feelings for me. I can't have random sex. Just Love me Treat me well N I do same We will make Love❤ not have sex.

You guys should invite VDM! and talk about "Nigerian girls and The worship of Money".

There's nothing wrong with discussing sex as adults for other adults to learn but let's understand that on a platform like RU-vid, an 11 year old could be watching this and you are practically sowing the wrong seed in that child. Again, ladies pls be careful how you expose your sexual behavior to strangers. I don't know for others but it's wrong that a woman who is supposed to be regarded as classy and co is just talking about sex and talking of different men as if it's an ashawo thing. Don't come and say what about men because it doesn't apply the same way. One day a woman will want to be married and really will want the men to forget about a period in her life. Let's all be very careful people pls. I'm a married man who married as a virgin and married a virgin lady too and we try very different things. It's not the same as a woman testing different things with different men. And let's begin to talk about evolution of things like technology and co. Nigeria needs exposure in better things than sex. Sex has been spoken about too much pls. Let's move on...let's grow. Big ups to people like Charles, Destalker, Cabasa, etc. Come and talk sense. And for aunty Doyin, learn manners pls. Your talk about 60% of the time tells a lot about you. You want to sit on man's face but when Nedu started asking questions about the other way then you are now talking about what works for you, don't be selfish pls. The same way your man should do anything for you, do the same Doyin. Nedu, thank you for your initial silence.

Please program is sponsored by dulux condom. That why they are talking sex and Nedu change his voice to sex voice 😂😂😂 money 😂😂😂

As for me giving your partner face or head as a man might be very risky due to discharge that comes out from a lady what if her period falls into your mouth when it about to flow probably early in the morning by 12am what if she had use a neat toilet in a neat environment and probably got infected because a neat toilet doesn’t mean it is 100% sure u might not be infected because when a lady has infection it very hard to notice what if she has Hpv virus it a skin virus having swollen wax on your organ and for a lady it happens inside her VJ it is a virus that even a girl that is a virgin can have not even using of infected toilet 🚽 if the guy licks an hpv girls plate the wax will swell in his organ or throat Even giving a guy head might be risky what if he is infected and discharge in your mouth as a lady we get infected na then our eye go clear because of s*x explore #pls let’s play safe there are more things to look in a marriage than sex explore you know why one day this same body will no longer have the strength to do that again Sex is important but don’t make it a priority over everything

Some of the sexual fetishes mentioned here are not far from mental health problems.there shud be a difference or a thin line btw what is normal and abnormal.

There is nothing like sexual compatibility please. That convo started because we don't want to accept self control & abstinence. No one is born knowing what they like in sex, its constantly having sex that teaches people what they like or don't like.

Doyin was so perfect on this episode. Loved how she didn’t answer those unnecessary personal questions Nedu asked. Loved all the ladies’ inputs as well. Well done HMat, this was fire from the start.

Stop saying‘I think’ it makes your point weak, are you not sure if what you’re saying?

Thank u Doyin for gracing my screen,love u 😘

I'm hella shocked Nedu is quiet on this episode. Is he in the right frame of mind? Is he okay?

God doesn't also considers sex as taboo if not he won't have made it anyway or he would have made it very boring. However it's meant to be done within the confines of marriage. Why because he cares for us and doesn't want us to hurt ourselves.

Interesting episode, but I expected to hear the importance of using condoms during sex and particularly why durex differentiates from the other

The girl on yellow is rational. You go see say she no spoil. So innocent 😇 ❤❤❤❤

U all are tryna live like the westerners but am sorry u roasted boom...

This nedu analogy make sense 😂

Doyin David the sex expect😂😂❤❤❤

There are right sex and wrong sex actually. In as much as we feel like it sex and should be done or enjoy in a manner that we call rough, let also remember that it doesn’t make it right because we don’t want to start treating something that we thought was supposed to be enjoyable.

How did we get here.... Every time sex and style. I pity next generation cos otilo

Doyin is so eloquent ❤love it

Nedu my man, U a bit quiet for the first time in this episode. Hope u good mate?

ID Cabasa remains the best episode for far! I took a lot from that conversation!

About sex toys, I think one shld not knock it until one tries it

Am a nedu fan ooo but nedu being quiet today makes me laugh ,like my guy ,i nor hear e get one friend ......... 😂

This has grown to become my best podcast. I love the way Husband Material brings in a lot humor and professionalism to the podcast. Doyin was very sound, factual and eloquent in this podcast. Smart baddie

If the mutual feeling is there it doesn't take much to satisfy your partner, you cant get enough of them. Everything else is extra, its the mindset.

There is nothing in this discussion to take home,we are Africa and guys keep shouting in this part of the world. Please guys moral is moral

Ezinne looking Ravishing

Please whats the name of ezinne's hair extension Abeg😊

I love Ezinne's funny cut-ins on this episode. 😂😂😂

Porn has infiltrated peoples mind and now Dey have personal unrealistic expectations

Surprised to see Nedu really calm on an episode that "wiping" is the topic 🤔

Husband Material oke mkpi 😂😂 why is he hold that pillow to his thighs Lol oga third leg don boost up

Nigerian babes have truly been liberated....power to the feminists!

Id Cabasa show was one my best thus far. I wish you guys can bring him back again

Husband Material is phenomenal! Nedu’s silence or quietness in the first 20 minutes or so, and general “gentle” demeanour in the course of the entire episode is ominous! I hope all’s well? We learn every day. I appreciate the realness and openness in the expressions here. Well done guys!

Nedu's explanation of good sex at 51:00 was good and how i personally see it.

Hope Bros Nedu is fine? This one wey him quiet 😂😂

Make nna dey see o, that girl wey dey think foreign never marry in 10yrs to come 😂

Ezinne looks so pretty! I love her braids too🥰❤

Why is Nedu talking with his bedroom voice?!

Doyin is very eloquent ❤

Wowb, what a conversation 🙆🏽‍♂️🙆🏽‍♂️🙆🏽‍♂️, Am like Oga Nedu here 🤣🤣🤣

I feel like I've missed you all😂 The studio is beautiful ❤

For a whole 21 mins Nedu was quiet gawdddd😂😂😂😂

Doyin speaks brilliantly ❤

Why does she keep insulting us on this part of the world??? Like she's better than us, or different from us😐

I like how OGA Nedu is quiet and observing 😂😂

Please get Aproko Doctor on this pod.

And guys that need their girls to loosen up can easily share a link of this podcast to them, this is amazing!💎

Pls don’t listen to this women

Abeeeeg make una feature ERRIGA that guy has alot

No doubts ..we are moving backwards in this country

Nedu just dey surprised shot of words

This episode is disgusting joor, Porn and Sex toys has destroyed these people.

Aaah e shock me that Nedu hasn’t said anything,even examples 😅