When we reject our parents, we likewise reject our ancestral story which can lead to feelings of shame. shavasti explores this subject of shame a little more deeply. www.familyconstellations.ney #familyconstellations
And can it be: I acknowledge, honour and respect you as my lifegivers, with all the limitations that are present, and at the same time it doesnt serve in my best interest to spent time with you )
Huh…see I find this as another way of the adults again gaining less of a consciousness and accountability in their part to the pain they caused and the hurt person AGAIN having to take on not only the sacrifice of self they had to make to take on the parents pain but now again almost be the parent role again. I don’t know how this could be healing in certain circumstances, especially with significant abuse. I feel it’s bypassing a validation that could lead to empowerment.
I am so glad you acknowledged the Zulus in relation to Family Constellations. I, for one, am immensely grateful to them and their traditions as the source of the deep origins of this work. 🙏💜