Shiid , I'm in the house with 3 boys and feel like I don't give them enough time. Between work, the wife and 3 different sports going on at the same time, I'm always missing a game while attending another game split between myself, the wife, and the grandparents.
I’m right there with you bro… just missed my oldest sons first soccer game to attend my youngest sons first day of baseball. I think as long as we showing up our children will hopefully notice and feel loved.
It it’s but we also gotta afford our brothers grace sometimes. When he spoke I believe it came from a place of love because he loves his children but the long term affects are what you’ve gotta think about.
Even as a grown man i had resentment when i found out my dad had another child, 30 years after me! Only then i realised how much my upbringing and lack of parenting was deeply imprinted in me
Finally a real man speaking up for us children who have grown up with family dynamics like this. It’s not ok to be creating multiple broken homes like this and yes these are broken homes because you’re not giving every child the real time and attention that they deserve when you spread your seed like this. Thank you so much for your take on this.
Wayno with the back to back episodes! Man I love Cam and he is a good friend of mine but I totally agree with the young lady in this video. Cam's heart is as pure as they come but fathering thst many children with different women does leave the children lacking in certain areas which you spoke to Wayno. Love you bro! You turned out to be a hell of a dude and I hope we continue to uplift each other. Till next time.
Broken down perfectly! It's one thing if you try to start a family with one woman and shit just went left in the relationship, and y'all broke up. But to these niggas who just have babies just "CAUSE.." is just selfish to the kids and their siblings. The story about your sister is just like mine, I got neices and nephews I never see, and we all stay in the same city. I wish I could see them but my sister could care less about having a relationship. We didn't grow up together. Crazy part is we the same age too
Wayno, ty 4 speaking on such an important topic!! Kudos 2 u 4 doing things differently from ur dad & respect 2 u for keeping ur family within 1 home!! u were always sum1 2 look up 2 .. i hope more men follow ur example!! ❤✌🏾
Damn I don’t think I’ve ever related to a story more than this. That’s exactly how I met 3 of my siblings, just walking the street with my pops. Keep telling yo story bro it resonates with a lot of ppl 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing your story, so glad I discovered this channel after watching you on Everyday Struggle. My parents split when I was starting high school and my dad’s decision to start a new family kind of fucked me up at a time I needed his guidance most.
It’s real bro and just know man you’re not held to the trials and tribulations you go through. Hopefully it’ll give you clarity & make you better as you grow! I appreciate you watching for real
Aye Wayno i just wanna let you know i really love your videos and i think you bring a lot of value to the culture. I think having your own platform is bringing insight to the music business that is incredibly unique and there is no one out here talking about culture with such integrity in my opinion. I really rock with you! Keep doing your thing we all loving the everyday videos
this message needs to be spread far & wide! cam newton and Nick Cannon are in serious denial, they both work hard and then say they have enough time to be there for all their kids that is some bs, and the kids are in different states & cities, they gotta stop the cap!!
Salute, Wayno!! This vid is on time and on target for me. Currently in the struggle of learning to balance time between kids with multiple women (3 kids, 2 women). There's never enough time in a day but I'm doing the best I can every day to be present.
Wayno speaking facts especially on that cam newton situation i come from the same situation pops had 3 baby moms i wish we had a better relationship i only saw black love on tv never was in my home but i strive to be better when my time comes to be a father in the future
Peace Wayno. I will like to say, thank you for sharing a part of your personal story with the community. I definitely agree with you on having more of a discernment when it comes to creating life. However you have to share that same sentiment with the mothers as well; there are women whom have children with men not thinking about their child(ren) because of their own selfish reasons as well. As a husband/father and as a baby daddy, I can personally tell you that there’s a huge difference in the dynamics of the relationship between the child(ren) and the parents frfr. Thus the punch line of the message is “it’s about the kids when you choose to create a life”. Peace and love to you and yours 🖤♾️
It’s huge to see men expressing their experience and just being honest. It’s make a bigger difference than we could imagine. Thank you sir for the integrity. Bless you and yours. Cam however was being disingenuous, he was defensive and triggered by shame to protect his persona. I wish him, the women and children he calls family well. ❤
My pops has 10 kids I'm the youngest he didn't have time for my older siblings which I find sad but I can't judge him because he gave us everything we needed.
Indeed, living life a right way or wrong way is definitely dependent on the meaning each individual gives it. One woman...multiple women...multiple children whatever the case. You have to be in those children's ear before they reach 7 yrs old and reiterate...There is no right or wrong way to live life, create life how you want it to be... responsibly and at ease to themselves and others. Emotions are illusions. Have them, don't let them have you (note to self)
Wayno, I love the direction you're taking your content in. You're adding personal anecdotes and experiences to give context to social commentary. Brother, you're very articulate and passionate about what you want to convey. This is leadership in the black entertainment world which is very diluted and repetitive. Salute, king.
Not even a minute in and I side-eye the desire for children without the desire to also make the world a better place for those children. Idk if both are present for Cam or not
Really got me thinking about how I can't connect with my biological dad, or my half siblings. And I tried. I gotta force myself to not keep reaching out. They won't. Damnit.
got a lot of love for cam but i hate the fact that my daughter has to split time between her parents. that was never apart of the plan & i couldn’t imagine bringing another child into something like this
It’s tough , these children become adults and they endure the traumas of not having their parents when they gotta share him. The brother meant well I’ve been one of those kids so I know how it’s ends up in certain cases. Thank you for watching
I was a kid that realized starting new families means that you’re sacrificing time with your previous kids or other kids. Someone has to miss out on that bond
I’m 1 of 15…at times I damn near felt invisible 😂 thankfully tho we all have the same parents but once we started to get older…not every game could be attended,not every play could be watched that my sisters were in…regardless tho my parents were great but I wish my parents could’ve come to more games and boxing matches
That was really sad to listen to. I couldn’t imagine living my life knowing I have siblings and not being able to have relationship with them. Men have to do better in being responsible with their seed and how they handle women. Women have to be intentional about who they allow to access their womb.
this might be a long shot but how would i be able to send you my groups music before we drop ? i genuinely believe the music we have is what the world needs rn we just need a manager that knows the ins and outs i believe quiet mouths don’t get fed and there’s my shot hope you having a great week brother wayno god bless❤
What's hard for me to understand about Cam is that he's from an active two parent household. Both his parents have been married for a long time and are still married. Me and my siblings would've loved to grow up in a similar household.
More respect for human life and more respect for sexual intercourse. All male and female species reproduce - that's no great feat. But as human beings, we're supposed to understand that a human being is effected from the moment they are conceived. Who the parents are....how the mother is supported or not during the pregnancy...how the baby is supported during the pregnancy...labor, etc.
I understand what cam is saying but at the same time he knows that sounded crazy saying you 8 kids and want more it comes off like you want to create more single mom’s 🤷🏾♂️ I understand he got money but at least have more kids with the baby moms you already have leave some baddies for the rest of us lol 😂
