Father Disciplines His Son How To Behave Toward Mommy 

What he is teaching his son is that only men need to be listened to and obeyed. He says himself that he has to "handle" discipline issues. Why can't the mother handle them? She should be teaching the children right from wrong at the moments in question. He tells the child to be "nice" to Mommy but said nothing about listening to her and obeying her.

Why it's my house my door the mother should have handled that situation on her own why the big deal and put it on RU-vid what does he want a medal

Wow 🤩 now if every Dad would do this ! We would have a different society

Oedepus compkex just born

@@timothycrowley5065 the mother is only 3 feet tall and has no arms

Yup. No name calling no belittling. No crying no tears. 🤯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Plot twist he was listening cuz he was scared of the belt

My wife, my door , my happiness

He's removing his boy's ball's in the same way his were taken , this is learnt behaviour . leading us all into a world of darkness and self hatered

Indeed.

ND TELLS HIM THAT EVERYTHING BELONGS TO HIS DADDY AND CANNOT BE TOUCHED? nO THANKS.

My dad used to do this but not in front of me but on the phone since he used to work night shifts.....he wouldn’t yell he would just talk like this dad did but even if my dad still talked, it always scared the living crap out of me.

Why film it then post online? Point is to be a good parent without cameras..

Watch that shit backfire. Life has physical consequences and parents need to teach children that.

@@shiboof he never said they can't be touched stop being dumb he said "do not slam" he's telling treat them with care just like if I lend someone my phone I'd want them to treat it with care and respect.

Yep. As a child/ teenager I often found it frustrating that my parents ALWAYS took each other’s side, even if one of them was not 100% in the right. As an adult now I am SO grateful that they did that. Because at least I always knew that they had each other’s back, and by extension mine. And I always knew that there were rules and boundaries. Even though I didn’t always agree with them, I’m so grateful they were there.

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@@celticcheetah6371 So you’re gratefuI that your parents did not care!?

@@voiceofreason2691wow did you write the book ‘how to misunderstand what people say 10001?’

@@voiceofreason2691 l guess some peopIe Iove their parents more than they Iove themseIves

@gilles grindel See that’s what I was saying. We don’t even know why the child was angry in the first place.

It really is. My brother will scream and cuss at my mom with no problems 😬

@gilles grindel You know what he could’ve done? The father instead of trying to impose his will on to the his child he could’ve asked him what was going on and why did it happen and then tell him “We don’t do that. we don’t have to yell at people in order to get our point across” I heard a threat in his speech I I don’t like that. Personally my dad used to do the same thing if we had any type of anger or frustration but I don’t know maybe my dad was abusive I’m just saying there are easier ways or softer tones that you can use in order to talk to a child.

Strangely, men don't do that with their daughters when they act like entitled brats!

Amen.

Great parenting. I'll put it that aunts and uncles who will be capable of raising families are trainee parents to nieces and nephews.

Well said

@@valeriedhodson3014 Thanks. Valerie was my dead aunt's name. She was 68 and had three children and five grandchildren. A lovely lady. R.I.P.

Bs. He deployed misogyny and oriented females as subordinate. “My doors” “my house” “if i was home” and “mommy’s nice to you”. This taught this boy Fuk all about respecting women and girls as equals. He reinforced misogyny and male dominance. So you are arguing fathers are important because males are more important and males can’t respect females. Sh1t logic. So Men own and are in charge and be nice to women if they are nice to you aka give you what you want.

@@ChiChi-qd3go shitty bait.

That's right!

Amen!!!!

80th like! :)

Aq@Hanoi Andy ESL Mums the centre of the world for boys they tell mom everything for mom's give the best hugs and cookies from a skinned knees up to girlfriends

Not all the time kids make choices when they grow up

Great observation on your part!!

@@sheashea4622 thank you🙏

im only 12 but i agree fully, this is how I want to discipline my kids and have as good of a relationship

I was noticing that as well. I love seeing the healthy relationship between them both.

This is so true. Thank you for pointing that out.

@araggon shows your parenting

@Hanoi Andy ESL better teach this to yourself first...hah

@Hanoi Andy ESL same to u Hanoi

Hanoi Learn first and then apply... don't show off unnecessarily..and don't bother so much

@Hanoi Andy ESL genuinely not interested...go somewhere else...

& dads aren't just born: they're made out of situations like these 😏

Good dads to be specific.

​@@SienneBSame with Good moms

Only if they’re good dads. Drug dealing, criminal, lazy, disrespectful, anti-social dads are worse than no dads at all.

There’s plenty of them that have been destroyed in courts by viscious women who then label them deadbeats

That's because you're one pure soul and maybe your mom instincts.

yes until he yells at u and slams the door

Me too

It always does!

Blanca ravizza look at eyes hes thinking I see his lips moving but all I hear is blah blah blah get on with it you moran

100%. This would be a different world altogether.

Thank you. The excuse that parents give for their children being disrespectful " Respect is earned" is so lame and inappropriate.

I think we should give respect who deserves it.

in my house THAT WUD BE THE FIRST TIME !! ...as a mama when i whispered ... my kids TOOK OFF runnin!!!!!!!!

The fact that people are calling this "good parenting" makes me wonder what the previous generation has been doing to their kids. This good parenting deserves to be normal and practiced by all parents.

@@anneapolinario5958 well, spankings and more were considered good parenting. And I assume a lot more of us got a lot more than that. When you set the bar at spanking is good parenting, it can only go downhill from there.

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​@@torrielindeblad9534I disagree, but to each their own I guess.

@Ro Pi how is he being a creep for having a talk with his son?

@Ro Pi you’re not making any sense

@Ro Pi How's he being a creep by telling his son not to yell at his mother , to respect his mother and not to slam the door in his house . How the hell is he being a creep .

@@jvjustvibes9103 I agree I don't think he understood the video , hahahahaha hahahahaha

@M Redmond someone called the dad a creep but he deleted his comment

The most important thing a woman can do for her children is to love their father.

@@Amilakasun1 its got to do with the birthing bond. Nothing to do with man vs woman.

Amen

@@bari2883 I'm not sure what you mean by "birthing bond" ? Maybe you are talking about in the first 3 years of life for child to feel secure because mother is feeling secure but if the mother doesn't love the father it will cause turmoil for the children later on in life. Truly, the best thing for children is to be raised by both mother and father who love and respect one another and give to their children out of that abundant love. The man loving the mother may have a greater impact on the baby's immediate mental and physical well being more than the woman respecting the father does but that doesn't mean it continues to be true when baby grows older. Have you ever been in a household where the woman doesn't respect the man and right infront of the children, too ? Then you would know the impact it has on that environment. You'll know how it beats down the man and how that effects his ability to parent, partner, and love well. You really can't seperate the two as science or psychology tries to do if that is where you are getting your information from, for man was made in God's image and He made them both male and female. The human being is male and female. Indeed, it isn't about man vs woman as there is no such thing in the law of God. The law of God says, " these two will become one. " Therefore, neither one is more important than the other. I am convinced neither one is more important than the other but in their respective roles they do dominant. But rather how well they dominate in that area is dependent on one another. Yes, for a baby father loving mother is more important in that stage of life but we do not get to the truth of things by looking at one side and having but one perpective and basing our argument or judgement on one span of time and in this case an extremely short span of time. All things have to be considered. All things meet their connection. It may be more important for that baby that the father loves the mother more than she loves him but does it continue in that way as baby grows older and as mother and father continues to be together ? Or is it just as important that the mother respects the father as he loves the mother ? For rather she respects him or not and how she shows it or not will effect him and in that continual line effect the children and effect herself, as well. And for a husband not to love his wife will effect him in negative ways, as well. I would say, it does start with the love of the man but that love cannot continue if it is returned to him in vain. So then, if the mother doesn't love also the father then it is a love that is voided out and returned to him empty. A love she will no longer receive because love isn't meant to be empty or unprosperious. And that in return truly effects the baby or the children well being.

Amen, To Love Jesus 1st and their Mama !!!

Not right then. You give him a hug a few hours later. Hugging a child immediately after disciplining him waters down the discipline so it has less effect in changing behavior.

I know that sounds like you're a saint, but it's confusing to discipline then hug them. You hug them for doing something special or for no reason at all, but you never hug them for being disrespectful.

Respect has to be earned!!

First you learn respect

respect and fear appear the same, but are world's apart- that father may hear the same attitude when he's old and helpless

​@@JohnSmith-lt7jwNo it is given in the sense that you treat others with it regardless. You dont physically have to respect them, but the treatment is still that of respect...

@@GTRKT-qr5sf if respect is commanded/demanded that’s when it completely goes out the window

Well this man is more mature than that

wait til your father get's home, lol, i talked to my dad years later, and, he said, he would come home and we (5 boys) would scatter. he said all he wanted was to see everyone. don't know why we were so afraid, he was great, never remotely mean.

Yes, my Mom had a yardstick on hand if we kids got too wild, and my Dad had large, beefy hands! You learned NOT to mess around in those days before psych majors ruined discipline.

@S M Yeah the world has strayed too far from its roots where if you screwed up you got punished, usually brutally as cavemen and such, but 5-1000 years ago ,maybe longer with spankings and being disciplined.

A lot has change with the people, back then in school teacher usually hit the student with wooden ruler or throwing chalkboard eraser to our head and the whole class will laugh including the guy who get hit, coz we know that we do something wrong Nowadays there's teacher go to jail for pinching the student because the student messing around in the class, and even some student bullying / hit their teacher and the law cant do much coz they under age

Most tend to bellow and screech at the top of their lungs unfortunately.

What’s psycho-babble?

Your kid deserves a door in his room no matter what, how would you feel if you had no privacy in your own home? He isn't 2.. I'm guessing since you said his "earlier years." Your kids will never respect you if you do not allow them some privacy and at the very least a door on their room. Put yourself back in your 4/5/6+ yr old shoes and try to think how you would feel.

@@pamelabaxter2829 well considering he’s 20 now and is doing fantastic in his second year of college, with great grades and holding down a PT Job I say we did pretty AWESOME. Frankly, I don’t give a rats ass what you think of our chosen parenting techniques when he was 4 years old. Have a Blessed Day.

@@AM-qg6bj so he is a sophomore in College and is a Physical Therapist?! Ha! I think not.. get your lies straight before you put them out into the world. Also, you obviously give a rat's ass or you wouldn't have responded at all. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@@AM-qg6bj oh no, I will start running now! Lmao.. I'll send my son this link.. you are something else. And I am not self loathing, lmao.. you really know nothing about me. I am great actually! Buh-bye.

Buds Gun Shop and Range lmao.. girl, it isn't so serious that you need to state where your son works. Nobody cares.

Respect for ‘’women’’ l beIieve the word you were Iooking for is ‘’Moms’’

Linda Wild is that why he put his INNOCENT vulnerable kid on RU-vid are you for real?

May be they have an understanding that the house belongs to his wife while the doors in that house are his

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@@shivangimodirak8125 lool

@@shivangimodirak8125 The house belongs to the one who pays the mortgage. End of discussion. If she pays it's hers. If he pays it's his. If they divorce it's her house but he pays

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Teach not train 🤦🏻‍♀️

Animals are trained, not children. Children are taught and led by example.

@M Redmond Amen and Hallelujah to that!!

it’s always the religious freaks who talk about training kids.

Not "train", teach and show a child.