FATHERHOOD - FOR THE CULTURE EP 45 

Grown man talk. I travel 20 miles each way to get my son and 20 miles each way to take him home. Been court 3 separate times, child support each month including when I was withheld contact, been to parents evenings without him, taught his class fire safety, went on school trips... and these are the parts that I’m willing to even mention; the untold things would make your heart spin. Fathers have to look after their own mental health when they are stuck in certain predicaments, but overall, our kids didn’t ask to be here and it is our duty as men to try our absolute best for them. If you can’t see your kids and you are willing to do the court thing... it’s £215 to get the ball rolling with the courts via a C100 form. It’s not easy out here and we have to lift each other up as brothers and as Kings 👑

Lost both of my parents over the last handful of years. Which has left me at the age of 24 with parental guardianship over my 3 siblings(aged 9-15). I also have a 2 year old daughter. Shit is a madness right now my guys

Wagwan for the audio, I’ve got these earphones on the highest

Listen, you guys are THEE absolute dons for having these conversations. If there was an award for best podcast content I'd vote FTC without hesitation. Facts 💯 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Trickies laugh is quality🤣🤣

I like how you mentioned you got love for all children 👍

Lippy is so passionate about these debates 👏🏾💯

Bro’s this podcast helped me a lot, recently split with the baby momma but just focusing on me and my son now, I know things will get better over time but thanks still

20:00👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Standing ovation for Lippy Even as far as single in the sense of no grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins etc. A single mother is one that does it by herself no help from neither her family members or his just help and support from friends & peers. I'm so glad you see it Lippy😆😊

Real men chopping it up. An absolute pleasure to listen to. Respect from South Africa ✊🏿

Wrigz is a example of what you've been talking about, not seen his kids for years, always wrote tracks about his kids,and now he's back in there lives.

We’re too accepting of this baby mum culture.

I loved this episode. This has been the only podcast that has properly touched on the Mitcham case. I loved the breakdown on fatherhood. 💖🙏🏾

As a father rate this episode so much The culture, every type of people stand together against any badness towards children

Come on guys, consistency! Where you at?!

You two are great role models for the young boys growing up.keep it up

Lippy hitting nails on the head like a hammer said so many scenarios that iv seen iv seen in life rate this one 11/10

Just want to big up these two men for speaking up on camera about different issuses with in the culture. Show some appreciation 👊🏿🙏🏿

Your audio sound is too low because you're far away from the mic can't really hear you mate sorry

Loved this topic! I’m yet to become a father but I enjoyed hearing your positive outlook and experiences. Keep up the good work bro’s 👌🏾

I’m going through it atm, but I have to believe my child deserves my love and attention. I can’t allow myself to accept that my child will be better if I’m not there regardless of the issues me and the BM have. If I was ever faced with the decision, I have to ask myself, is there a better way I can approach this situation? Can I react to a situation differently? Do I need to go to court so there can be an order in place? Do I need to humble myself more for the sake of the kids? Do I bite my lip instead of arguing back? I just feel that walking away should never be on the table..

I swear this podcast come like my therapy💯💯💯

I really respect this conversation . There really needs to be more open dialogue on this same topic by both men and women .... 🍷 🍷 🍷❤❤❤

Is the audio low or just me

16:40 Tell yuh yout to put his hand back in the buggie, trying to say hi to gunman 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The saddest part of all this is how baby mothers and fathers are normalised and neither of them asked, 'why didn't I get married before having kids?'. There is a bigger responsibility between being a husband or wife versus simply being a baby father or baby mother. A big difference between saying I'm getting divorced vs we split up. I think it speaks to another ass backwards way of the culture, when young men and women think having kids makes them grown adults, instead of growing up before having kids.

Less of that baby mum and baby dad bs and more wives and husbands is what I’d like to see more of in our community and hopefully generations ahead. Interesting episode though, enjoyed the listen

These two chemistry is mad I noticed it from listening party 😂🔥

Big up you but I dunno what Sunday holds. Lmao realest ever

Nothing like fatherhood. Dont care what anyone says

Great conversation had here guys, you touched on a sensitive topic a conversation that should happen more frequently within the community.

This one touched me well, God bless you for this one

What you two are doing is amazing👏🏾

Love the consistency

Tbh I didnt even know who lippy was.. after watching castillos podcasts, I got hooked on him. So articulate, intelligent asf and he puts himself in others shoes to understand where people may be coming from. I rate him!

😂😂😂 “The Yutes all looking back”

Fatherhood definitely needs to be talked about moor. So this was 100% needed...undeniable facts or super facts?

Man said il buy you rizla 😂😂

This one here is called REAL REAL TLK .....so many points 💯 gd concept !

This is the realest thing i have ever watched in my whole life. From wanting the whole package, still want the pum pum, need to know which man is gonna be around them, everything in this is down to the t.......ps my TV volume is on 99 and its still sounds low lol

7:14 “the drama thing” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lippy had me cracking with this one

Lippy: I don’t understand your point Tricky: Dya get what I’m saying

Audio is mad low

Every word tricky said in the beginning is true mad ting I thought it was just me that thought like that

I'm only 15 mins in on my Xbox and I'm already jumping on my phone to comment this good fam but they all good g!!! keep going to 10000

Lippy is funny I rate lippy hes a G Big up Tricky aswell 😊😊😊😊

These man are Cultural Treasures for real.

On my life you lot shed some good light ere

43:00 bro was about to say a madting. Tricky’s tricky with it 😂

Some brothers got a lot of excuses moving loose

I never saw this podcast back in the day. I'm seeing it now for the first time. As a 'baby mother × 2😂' from what tricky says at the start the behaviour makes sense. It all makes sense. One would say "you don't know nothing" in response to me saying "you have a whole family why do you bother me, why can't you just be normal, pick him up from school on Friday take him back on Monday I don’t need to seeeeeee youuuuuuu😭" Men are wild😂😂😂😂 and I'm only at 5:55 😑🙄 the other ones says "IT'S NOT MY CHILD" all because I wouldn't put out. It all makes perfect sense. I knew I was right, but never really had proof. THANKS TRICKY 😆

Yo that crocodile ting sent me looool

had to turn my focusrite sound card up to the highest level just to listen to this. fucking hell man

Tricky's first point is a hard pill to swallow for certain fathers but is something some men need to hear out loud from another father...

mate mate mateeeeeeee ONLY REALLLLLLL WILLLLLL LISTENNN HEAR IT AND UNDERSTAND TO OVERSTAND inna real life big up ya damnnn selfs man u PUT IT OUT THERE FOR THEM WASTEMAN DADS TO TAKE A LOOK AT THEMSELVES this is what the culture needs facts of life MANNERS AND RESPECT GBU PODCAST

TRICKY IS SPEAKIN BIG FACTS. SOMETIMES YOU GOTTA CUT YOUR LOSSES

Nah. Rate the serious topics cah more of these podcasts chat about music, relationship madness and thats it. Never anything to inspire or educate

Lippy has a egghead lol 😂😂😂😂

Love the content 🔥🔥🔥

These man dropped 4 cold episodes & vanished again. 😐

16:43 I’m crying laughing

"Is my yutes jumping on Clive!?" 😂😂😂😂

Man been quiet for a minute still but man can’t stand that you guys got the best podcast coming out the uk an (1) it to short it need to be at LEAST 2 hours long and with this lockdown ting we need 3 hours to get man through the this crazy time and (2) one show a week is not acceptable we need minimum of a least 2 shows every week. The show is the one it really helps man out 👊🏿

28:56

Good reasoning . 🙏🏾

This is an amazing episode. Serious

This conversation 👌🔥💯 No ones spoken about fatherhood and it's complexities to this level. Men also need to publicly condemn men that are pedos, rapist, serial abuses, domestic violence against women waaaay more loudly. Production has to take a massive L for this episode, sound quality was so poor when the conversation was so rich.

Lippy Lickshot//Tricky Trickshot

Where is the next episode ?

Get that drink of Sugar off the table 🤣

The youths are looking back 🤣😂🤣😂😂 ☠️💀☠️

These guys talk so much sense. Big up the man dem!!!

best podcast on yt

another great one

I hope my baby father sees this 😩😂

Speak bout single fathers too

Crocodile 😂

My ears must me super duper because the audio seems fine to me and it’s not even on full volume 😭

Content getting better and better loveeeeeeeeeee it

New opening title visuals yeah, I see it I see it 🔥

They need to be 100% honest and address the issue of man laying down with women and not valuing their seed. Making babies with women they don’t see themselves marrying and creating a proper family unit. Pandemic levels of single parent families in the black community and the knock on effects of that mindset. All this weekend dad ting is dead and I don’t care what anyone says, the child suffers and grows up thinking that way of living is the correct standard

Instead of Black Lives Matter movement I think we need to change it to save our children movement

Finished 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

Did you apologise to Smokes?

❤️❤️❤️❤️ Great content

Tricky has a 20 year old daughter 😳

Could y’all work on the audio like compress it at least cuz my tv is on a 100 rn 😂

Who ever disliked dis is a eeediat

asap 💯💯

R.I.P. King Von

Shout you man out AGAIN

Well needed topic 💯 audio is low though bros

You guys best episode

cant even watch this one sound quality is dead come on boys gotta fix all that

turn the volume up on the mics when you edited ma geezas

You man need clip on microphones. The audio was quite low. Good discussion though. Keep them coming

I don’t know how they gain composure quick after lippy busses a joke I’m always gone for timeeeeee

Guys pleaseeeee sort out the audio youtube and computer on v100% it is very low other videos don't play like this

🍿🍿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿

you need a engineer bro the mics and low as shit