Feeling Judged By Your Family? Watch This | Mel Robbins 

Erika K thanks for posting that. So poignant!

@@raerae6422 have a beautiful day filled with love and light ! ♡

Yes💞

@Mescalinum Sunshine Right. It's always me, me and me with these people. They think they are so intellectual and smart doing all this not having the slightest clue on how to manage yourself.

Nope ...Jesus. No Jesus no life. No life no Heaven. No Heaven...Hell awaits.

KRUPA NAIK 👏👏👏👏😊✨

Jagdeesh Dogra your name says a lot about you being a true true TRUE elohssa. Ignorant as well because I know for a fact you won’t figure out what I just said to you. Go back to your mudhut

@@nbrown6051 And how does your name suggests that you aren't an absolute nincompoop? See. Makes absolutely no sense AT ALL. So you try to insult me in my 3rd language when I can do the same to you in mine in ways you can't even imagine. So better you shut it. And no I don't live in mud hut. I'm ok.

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KRUPA NAIK I hope you are happy with your decision!

Many people don't realize the adult they're getting that has survived 16 - 18 years of daily physical and emotional abuse, (this may not be YOU, but there are MILLIONS of adults from abuse walking around at there and 80% of them NEVER really deal withit), will NOT have typical Trust skills MOST adults have. Add any other stressor - disability, poverty, underemployment, illness, isolated - and you can MULTIPLY the response triggers of an abuse survivor by a thousand. Average abuse victims have 3x the suicide rate of nonabused people. Bump it up to 10 as you consider repercussions of additional stressors. So, it's pretty damn UNREALISTIC to think a few catchy pop-psychology phrases about "be nice to yourself" are gonna have any LONG TERM benefits on yourself. *Feeling* like you've had a break through and ACTUALLY BREAKING THROUGH, are two very, very different things. DO be good to yourself and stay away from the toxic, unless you're being paid. Otherwise? Nah. They'll never give you what you need they'll just promise to. When it comes to parents, recall that it wasn't you who brought them into the world. You didn't and couldn't ask them to, THEY CHOSE to. That fact alone makes THEM responsible for you, not vice Vera. If you don't like them or being around them, that's ok! :) You've arrived. You're here. It can't be undone so...make the best of your life and time while you have it because it won't always be good or always be bad, but it will be YOURS. No one else's :)

You are worthy of love! You must have a brave soul to have survived such an upbringing!

@@PhoenixProdLLC i think i still didn't have my break through , i'm still at home with them , they still hurt me , and i still have bad ideas , killing myself and things , i dont know how to deal with it , but i'm trying , i'm trying to stay here , to have control over my life , i'm trying to do something good , i think these videos just make me fell less alone , or just gets me out of my head a little , i know its not going to be for long . but i'm hoping it would be long enogh until i get out of here , away from this pain , maybe then i would have a break through , maybe i will feel okay , one day , i'm just hoping ❤

@@ourhopeisinjesusnotreligio9116 thank u so much for your limd words ❤😍

@@reemezz2775 Anytime! Reading your words at Beeble Brox: Moving out will definitely help your breakthrough! But the timing has to be right. I had a loving upbringing, but when I was 18 my parents got divorced and in short started behaving like selfish teenagers that neglected me and made me feel unwanted, in their way. I was not ready to be an adult yet and yet I had to be in these relationships. It was a toxic environment but I stayed in it, because I too was depressed and plagued by suicidal thoughts. The only thing worse than living at home seemed to come home in an empty apartment and have no distraction from my suicidal thoughts. So I stayed in the toxic environment until I started traveling. I'm not sure that was the best decision on hind sight. But know this: your life will get better!! I don't know how old you are, but you made it this far, that means you are incredibly resilient! With that quality you can and will break out of this. Have you made a plan? A plan for financial independence. A plan for creating a social network that can help you. For example join a club or sth, find someone to share a room with. But try to not get romantically involved until after you broke out and rebuilt your sense of self worth. Because until you realize what your worth and grow confident enough to demand respect it's likely you'll attract predators that will perpetuate the pattern of your upbringing in your life. And you deserve infinitely more! You deserve love and affection, genuine appreciation of who you are on the inside and the outside, respect and admiration. Please don't ever settle for less and hang in there! Life will get brighter! Are you getting help from a professional?

@Ari luvs Jesus Even women married at early 20s also being judge...better she dont married

Me too!!

Christopher Pape me too!

you cried after writing this ,didnt you ?

@@ashutoshprajapati5780 Actually I did not. It's largely true. I'd much rather have one or two real friends than hundreds of fake ones.

Me to, people bring nothing but stress and drama. Rather be with my dog he loves me unconditionally and his so loyal 🐾🐕💕

Ahmed S she is!

Same

How empowering Gracie 😂!

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And you are amazing god bless

I used to be that way, but then I started to watch You Tube Phil Good. He has been to hell and back and he can help everyone who struggles with relationships with people. You do not have to listen to all their crap anymore,, you are going to be fine. ❤️💛🧡💚❤️💙💜

From one Payne to another good luck

Are you related to the Shanahan coach going to the Superbowl? Ha

Miss Lana. M. Hudson I have the same problem with my sister-in-laws. It isn’t something we need to keep in our lives.

@@leannewith3 There is a song by kelly Clarkson called Sober, its a amazing song. She says I picked all the weeds and kept the flowers. I kept the people who loved me and get judge and cut off the people who were toxic and didn't care... I'm closer to people I'm not related to..

Ohh great! An Iranian! How's situation in your country now? Is it still riled up?

@@rx5241 not really...things are like always...i know how media can make things look what they're not...actually in iran everything went back to routines quite fast but the media in iran and other countries didnt shut up about it for weeks...we didnt have internet for a week which was outrageous as i had tons of things to search about for my university...and in some parts of the city just in two or three days there were some crazy riots..and some really regressed modes of suppressing people which terrified and angered a lot of people but everything's cool now. and people have their ordinary lives. probably with more resentment but the same...this time around just some small cities were affected then we had this bs about iraq happening and to top it all off the ukraninan plane which sort of hit a nerve cuz there were ordinary people and alot of brilliant young iranians studying abroad and going back to their lives...all in all cant say things are great...but it's diffused...tnx 4 asking

@@zorebnRAHAM I personally think that Iran is on a path of reformation in Islam if not complete rejection of it. Am I right? How are people behaving/reacting to Islamic notions there?

@@rx5241 this i think has happened already since what the regime has in mind and people's lifestyle is absolutely miles apart. people openly drink in their homes but it's against the law. we women cover out hair but we all want a chance to just take it off...these are just some small things but it shows how people are separated already...though the result is a messy salad bowl of so many ethnicities...the regime just legitimizes one out of many so yeah in some cases there is a complete rejection and in some cases a mild distance

Great comment. I've done that alot. But we don't have to believe them. What is it with people? Instead of encouragement they put you down. It's not constructive. It's destructive. Let me end on a positive note: Thank you.

@@jerrylisby5376 not my comment! it's what Mel Robbin said in the video!

@@samfdsd2134 oh okay. Well thanks for repeating it.

You are better off without them; they were no friend. ❤️💛🧡💚❤️💙💜

Amen and thank you Ken... and may He bless you too!!