I feel like female friendships flourish when all parties are honest to themselves and to friends about how they feel about certain topics, relationships, politics etc. I need to understand your honest stand point if I am to deliver something to you whether advise or anything, I have found this to be the biggest rift point for most female friendships.
Do you guys have more videos? I feel like you guys are my kindred spirits. What you're talking about is called amatonormativity. And this discussion was fire!!!
I feel as though female friendships are undervalued in society, especially in a patriarchal society, you are rewarded for judging and abandoning your friends and deprioritising them, but it's super important to have a circle outside of your family so you don't lose that identity. Women should be allowed to hold onto multiple identities
I think relationships can be hard or easy depending on the work you put in or how much you value the relationship. I'm married and I still value the friends I had before getting married. Like I said it depends on how much one values the relationship