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VICE investigates the practice of Female Genital Mutilation in Asia, and how common it is even in progressive countries like Singapore. We follow VICE host, Natashya Gutierrez, as she meets women who speak openly about the harmful effects of FGM, and questions why there are no laws that protect against it.
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@Xenonmorph__
@Xenonmorph__ 3 года назад
Sexuality isn't bad. It's a human thing like eating or breathing. Stop FGM. Stop hurting people with no say.
@kriggo1
@kriggo1 3 года назад
People have right to their tradition
@clumsygallium6104
@clumsygallium6104 3 года назад
@@kriggo1 if that tradition is looting and plundering and killing, then a big no no.
@jo5206
@jo5206 3 года назад
@@kriggo1 this is abuse !!
@shampressakkash5339
@shampressakkash5339 3 года назад
@@TheZeus062 you are entirely stupid. ffs get over your fucking self not everything is about men
@shampressakkash5339
@shampressakkash5339 3 года назад
@@TheZeus062 both should be equally stopped.
@SanlyLiuu
@SanlyLiuu 3 года назад
I don’t know if this story is the same circumcision that this video talked about but long time ago I read this story and it really stuck in my head, it’s about a girl that undergo circumcision when she was young because of her parents belief and that actually made her genital hurts really bad during sex (almost not able to have sex) and when she confronted her parents she kinda found out its been done to every girl in her village to purposely make girls not able to enjoy sex so they’ll be loyal to the husband. And the one who demand the girls to get circumcised are usually the man of the family. What a story, I hope they’ll make this illegal worldwide soon.
@zoolz1186
@zoolz1186 3 года назад
well thats fucked thats culture not religion though.Similarly like men its only the foreskin gets removed.It should not make sex hurt in any way.Same to girls thats just culture
@Kobe_Bryant2.0
@Kobe_Bryant2.0 3 года назад
@@TheZeus062 I’ve been circumcised but never had any of the problems you mentioned, do you think the doctor that did it for you messed things up?
@hamilcross
@hamilcross 3 года назад
@@TheZeus062 cry about it
@brunto6se572
@brunto6se572 3 года назад
@@TheZeus062 look circumcising in general should be banned. They are better ways to make people abstain from sex or protect them from infection.
@brunto6se572
@brunto6se572 3 года назад
@@TheZeus062 sorry that happened to you but just because no one helped doesn’t mean people in your situation as well shouldn’t be helped because you weren’t helped. You should try end the cycle not enforce it so everyone suffers the way you did.
@rachaelprice363
@rachaelprice363 3 года назад
This is child abuse. I would sue my parents. Imagine the pain. Humans are deplorable.
@fritnat
@fritnat 3 года назад
@@scooteranklegod7609 Where girls are cut those doing it have had it done to them and often know full well what it feels like. Only mothers in cultures where only boys are cut haven't had it done to them eg some on this thread.
@scooteranklegod7609
@scooteranklegod7609 3 года назад
@@fritnat yyyeah, good point. Still though, it sucks that infants have to deal with this.
@fritnat
@fritnat 3 года назад
@@scooteranklegod7609 It sucks even more that not one government in the world has the moral stature to live up to it's duty to protect the most vulnerable of it's citizens from having their genitals mutilated.
@aiish223
@aiish223 3 года назад
In Malaysia our female politician support this. Can you imagine how depressing it is that this thing is normalised to such a degree..
@fritnat
@fritnat 2 года назад
​@@aiish223 That's peanuts when all the worlds' politicians support the practice in one form or another. Here in Denmark we've forced them to take the issue up in parliament with a citizens petition and after more than two years they've finally voted against a ban despite 9 out of 10 in the population supporting a ban. It's not the end though, we just have to vote them out of office. Face it, it's normalised throughout the whole world in one form or another.
@angelflora8468
@angelflora8468 2 года назад
Clitoris is the most sensitive organ. I can't even imagine how painful it is. It also known for most pleasurable organ . How pathetic people are 😭
@mr.peanut529
@mr.peanut529 Год назад
That is why they do so u get it
@JustapErson
@JustapErson Месяц назад
So is the frenulum for the man.
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
Tradition, religion etc. are no excuse - it's victimisation & oppression which has no good purpose.
@2011ListenerThe
@2011ListenerThe 3 года назад
@Jumana Dafaalla and this is why this video is biased. FGM has nothing to do with Islam. Do you also support banning male circumcision because it's performed on infant boys? Have you ever been to a brisk? Not easy to watch.
@Siddeo
@Siddeo 3 года назад
It's one of the greatest human rights violation after murder
@maximyles
@maximyles 3 года назад
Is Male circumcision genital mutilation ? Should we stop that too ?
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
@@maximyles Yes - with the exception of cases in which it's medically necessary.
@maximyles
@maximyles 3 года назад
@@davidz2808 interesting, how comes we don’t see a push for it? I’ve never once seen any campaign or even article in argument against Male circumcision.
@Jin420
@Jin420 3 года назад
I NEVER would've guessed that this happens in Singapore. 😔😔
@mgray999
@mgray999 3 года назад
Yeah, right?
@kimberlyelizabeth2049
@kimberlyelizabeth2049 3 года назад
It’s happening in the United States, why not Singapore?
@BrOnX_BoOyAH_86
@BrOnX_BoOyAH_86 3 года назад
When you think you’ve heard it all
@user-rm9nc2kv2g
@user-rm9nc2kv2g 3 года назад
They wanted everyone to think this only happens in Africa
@hansdottir1478
@hansdottir1478 3 года назад
Singapore is guilty of MANY human rights violations not just this 🤣 civil liberties as most leading countries know it is little to non-existent.
@aprilcherrybomb
@aprilcherrybomb 3 года назад
I dont understand why a mother would do something like this to her daughter. It just pisses me off that females are doing this other females!!
@rhyeras3446
@rhyeras3446 3 года назад
Because concept of loyalty , chastity , purity is applied on to women, part of the problem is men as well
@Bruh-kd9rx
@Bruh-kd9rx 3 года назад
@@rhyeras3446 I don’t get that tho how is feeling pleasure from sex gonna make you unloyal or impure it’s just so wrong to take that away from girls
@agees924
@agees924 3 года назад
I’m sure a lot of is that mothers don’t want to admit that their parents/loved ones violated them. So it’s easier to process if they just accept it and push it onto their own children as part of a necessary tradition.
@fritnat
@fritnat 3 года назад
​@@agees924 You mean like fathers in USA pushing it onto their own children?
@agees924
@agees924 3 года назад
@@fritnat Absolutely!
@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101
@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101 3 года назад
these poor babies not being able to defend themselves have to go through all of this. this is really horrible.
@rayonensb7945
@rayonensb7945 2 года назад
Baby boys go thru this around the world 😂🤷🏾‍♂️ get use to it
@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101
@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101 2 года назад
@@rayonensb7945 baby boys or boys need it but girls at any age doesn't. It's simple biology, now go and study this matter before saying nonsensical things.
@rayonensb7945
@rayonensb7945 2 года назад
@@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101 baby boys don’t need that crap lol that’s the hypocrisy there lol that’s why I’m kool with cultures circumcising it girls, why makes a female so special that they don’t need to get their genitals cut lol, it’s either we cut both or cut none 💯
@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101
@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101 2 года назад
@@rayonensb7945 because it has bad effects that's why it's not needed. it's really simple. if it doesn't have any side effects then why do we even have to debate? meanwhile, circumcision is important for boys because it could give many health benefits. what era are you living in to say that boys doesn't need it?
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
@@theirbrotherhoodandfriends6101 Time for you to study the matter. You couldn't be more wrong.
@zerotwo_.002
@zerotwo_.002 3 года назад
this needs to be banned in all nations for both men and women
@kapitansino9718
@kapitansino9718 3 года назад
Male circumcision is okay lol
@officiallyundead9380
@officiallyundead9380 3 года назад
@@kapitansino9718 no
@zoeg8349
@zoeg8349 3 года назад
@@kapitansino9718 why
@kevintan6490
@kevintan6490 3 года назад
@@kapitansino9718 mutilation is still mutilation regardless of gender
@2011ListenerThe
@2011ListenerThe 3 года назад
@@kapitansino9718 why is it ok? Think.
@BeautygyaanBG
@BeautygyaanBG 3 года назад
what is wrong with these people, stop harming babies n kids
@alex-vd4vm
@alex-vd4vm 3 года назад
they say its tradition / religion apparently
@aleksandrvolkov3835
@aleksandrvolkov3835 3 года назад
@@alex-vd4vm tradition is just peer pressure from dead people
@alex-vd4vm
@alex-vd4vm 3 года назад
@@aleksandrvolkov3835 you're not wrong
@nory1483
@nory1483 3 года назад
Yes I agree. Humans are worst! They can do better!
@andreahl3494
@andreahl3494 3 года назад
They're taking the intimacy and comfort in sex away from women and I bet it's the husbands who always frequent and are eager to start sexy time. I feel bad for the women who have to suffer torturous sex against their liking or consent.
@truecynic1270
@truecynic1270 3 месяца назад
Apparently men who really do care about their wives say that they feel badly for the pain the wife has to endure, every time.
@annikmatazuhra6296
@annikmatazuhra6296 3 года назад
I'm one of the victim of FGM. Somebody did that to me when I was a baby, I didn't know what that was until I found out that I have no clitoris.
@anisahfauji9701
@anisahfauji9701 3 года назад
Same sis, i was exploring my genital and realized that i don't have clitoris. My mother never give me any solid answers, she just said that it is for hygene purpose and girl with clitoris will act "naughty" so they removed mine without my consent. I feel so betrayed and disgusted😞
@Nahu__
@Nahu__ 3 года назад
Feel sad for you girls. 🥺 FGM isn’t Islam thing, it’s a horrible cultural thing which need to be stopped!
@oprahwinfrey6906
@oprahwinfrey6906 3 года назад
I’m not a cut female but I am a female, and I happen to have learned that there is a procedure to get your clitoris back after FGM. There is much more of that same clit tissue, like an iceberg under the skin. You could potentially get it back if it was something that really made you sad daily. So sorry someone did that to you.
@mildwild5313
@mildwild5313 3 года назад
So sorry this happened to you 💔 Your Parent’s had no right to do this
@user-ib8mj3wq2e
@user-ib8mj3wq2e 3 года назад
There is a surgery to reverse fgm I wish you luck
@yungmonsterxs8929
@yungmonsterxs8929 3 года назад
I wish older people could question whatever religion that requires a flesh "donation" instead of employing false pride and acting like it's ok as tradition.
@puraLusa
@puraLusa 3 года назад
I wish it to, but unfortunatelly it's not a heard enough wish.
@rileykinder1381
@rileykinder1381 3 года назад
A ‘flesh donation’ from a child at that. It’s disgusting.
@yungmonsterxs8929
@yungmonsterxs8929 3 года назад
@@TheZeus062 1. My weiner still got a hoodie on. 2. My initial comment did not use any gender-specific wording. 3. Flesh from *anyone* should not be used as payment towards Gods-yet-to-be-proven. Thank you.
@angela.luntian
@angela.luntian 3 года назад
Its not even religion, its their tradition
@yungmonsterxs8929
@yungmonsterxs8929 3 года назад
@RU-vid Moderator pretty sure you have 0.5 I.Q. bud. Go get some snacks.
@deeb3272
@deeb3272 3 года назад
Some traditions just needs to go away. We dont live in the ancient times. Such barbaric actions.
@LFSPharaoh
@LFSPharaoh 3 года назад
Exactly. I relate it to the Salem witch trials. Back then they all seriously thought witches were real, and killed innocent people. Today, we look back on those times like "what in the world were they thinking? How barbaric!" I hope society views all GM in that way one day. But somehow we still haven't put it in the past.
@rossevanricamara4169
@rossevanricamara4169 3 года назад
@@LFSPharaoh It was strange that the Salem witch trials were started by young girls.
@Jenvlogs404
@Jenvlogs404 2 года назад
@@LFSPharaoh Not remotely the same.
@Qresmaidapa
@Qresmaidapa 3 месяца назад
!
@honeybite99
@honeybite99 3 года назад
I used to think that fgm was a punishment i had to carry being born muslim until i realized that it wasnt islam, but culture. This is not islam, not one bit. I am a singaporean who undergo fgm and i felt absolutely betrayed, violated, and ashamed when i found out about it while shifting through my PARENT'S DIVORCED PAPERS, at 12 years old. It made so much sense why i couldn't feel as 'good', as the other girls in the pornos...i was cut and it scarred me more then anyone would ever know. It all happened when my grandmother took me as a baby while my mom was out at work and cut me WITHOUT her consent. It hurts even to write this, i wish i could give more context but if you have any questions i'll try my best to answer.
@phadenswandemil4345
@phadenswandemil4345 3 года назад
I'm sorry that happened to you. It is not a punishment because you did nothing wrong. Its an outdated practice meant to control women and girls.
@wellagelladooweegella965
@wellagelladooweegella965 3 года назад
Wait...its culture??? Not islam?? Where can i get more info on this?? 😭
@skulley100
@skulley100 3 года назад
@@wellagelladooweegella965 It is not Islamic and it is actually wrong. It is cultural and the best is looking up FGM and looking at credible websites online.
@XxSapphiregurlxX
@XxSapphiregurlxX 3 года назад
You are so brave for sharing your story, very sorry this happened to you :(
@honeybite99
@honeybite99 3 года назад
Thank you, i'm 19 now and in many ways i don't feel like a complete woman because of what happened. It doesn't get any easier and i do have a boyfriend who i intend to marry, but irrational fears of not being able to please him or even feel pleasure scares me.
@cardough550
@cardough550 3 года назад
This is a regular in Somalia, Sauda Arabia, Yemen and Syria. My girlfriend has been through this pain, mentally and physically when she was a adolescent in Sauda Arabia. I love her so much, so I'm here for her mentally, physically and spiritually.. I wish that no other females in the world go through this horrific thing. Guys if your wives, sisters and any females go through this. please be there for them because they do need a shoulder to lean on. God Bless our Women, without you guys "US MEN WE ARE LOST"💯💙😔
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
How does this affect her relationship with her parents?
@sondereve
@sondereve Год назад
im syrian and although not muslim, ive never heard anyone talking about fgm in our communities
@neckashi6971
@neckashi6971 Год назад
Very similar story was told by my friend about her ex's ex-girlfriend
@mr.peanut529
@mr.peanut529 Год назад
@@dingbop963 listen to dr fumbia ahmadu
@razamuhammadali8019
@razamuhammadali8019 Год назад
which countries still practice it? Can you name all of them?
@davidnyc487
@davidnyc487 3 года назад
I can’t watch this it’s too depressing, how could any parents allow this to happen to their children.
@2011ListenerThe
@2011ListenerThe 3 года назад
Have you ever seen a male circumcision? There is blood and the baby cries
@BLDUBMUSIC
@BLDUBMUSIC 3 года назад
happens to boys everyday in america and no one cares because its not a big deal....
@BLDUBMUSIC
@BLDUBMUSIC 3 года назад
maybe its because people dont care about men and this only matters to women... they dont care about how this happens to us in america everyday. NO ONE CARES, because its not a big deal!!!!! lol
@2011ListenerThe
@2011ListenerThe 3 года назад
@@BLDUBMUSIC they should ask why. And then realize there is no medical reason to do this
@sHaRiNgAn1011
@sHaRiNgAn1011 3 года назад
BL-DUB & FRIENDS! Male circumcision’s purpose is for medical and hygiene reasons. FGM’s purpose (type 1 anyway) is to negate pleasure from sex and to keep women “modest and restrained”. It scares me that people thing male and female circumcision is even remotely for the same purpose.....
@KitEKat-io9vu
@KitEKat-io9vu 3 года назад
FGM and MGM are both unnecessary, repulsive procedures. I couldn't imagine putting my own flesh and blood through such pain!
@forevaschemin
@forevaschemin 3 года назад
The men one actually has many benefits and completely different to the women’s one. In fact it’s incomparable
@wheypinapple6490
@wheypinapple6490 3 года назад
@@forevaschemin they are completely comparable they are both actions of genital mutilation on unaware unconsenting babies the health benefits are minor and scientist have been flip-flopping on which is better it can also go wrong and cause damage to the genitalia
@auroradash3676
@auroradash3676 3 года назад
@@forevaschemin just say you don’t know what you’re talking about and go. There are many different forms of circumcision for both males and females, some forms of female cutting is less invasive than some forms of male cutting, if you had any idea what you were talking about you would know that.
@forevaschemin
@forevaschemin 3 года назад
@@auroradash3676 I know exactly what I am talking about. There is no evidence that male circumcising has any negative effects on a man. In fact I am yet to meet a man circumcised that has told me they don’t like it or had any health issues. If is has no negative effects and actually has benefits then what is your problem. I know men who are not circumcised and they tell me problems they experience such as cleaniness and itching which isn’t something men who are circumcised experience. Maybe you should stop talking and listen more you will learn more that way.
@forevaschemin
@forevaschemin 3 года назад
@@wheypinapple6490 FGM causes problems and health problems. MGM doesn’t . Tell me any men stories you have heard that supports that it is just as comparable to FGM? Mulitation is causing damage and serious problems which the men’s ones doesn’t do it just removes the foreskin so why would you name it something that it doesn’t do? If you want to compare something at least make sure it’s comparable and makes sense otherwise you just sound silly and an excuse person
@annaledoan1330
@annaledoan1330 3 года назад
It's absolutely sick knowing parent's are willing to do this to girls because having sex should not be shameful because as humans it's natural. Sex as we know it a slightly touchy subject but the overall topic is something we have to educate children on better. It's even more sickening knowing there are people will to do this for the parents pleasure knowing that their kid is i guess "Pure".
@satishasekar5687
@satishasekar5687 2 года назад
It is the same as male circumcision!
@coquetteprincess8870
@coquetteprincess8870 Год назад
God literally ENCOURAGES sex!
@ameenahgaffar7383
@ameenahgaffar7383 9 месяцев назад
@@satishasekar5687It’s not, mutilation and circumcision are two different things. Boys can still have sex experience sexual pleasure after being circumcised. Girls cannot experience pleasure nor can they correctly urinate or menstruate after being mutilated. Learn the difference men and women are not biologically equal.
@user-ld6wo4rv8h
@user-ld6wo4rv8h 7 месяцев назад
It's for their own good. Look at how Western women have destroyed their society with their promiscuity.
@reachingbeyondskies6908
@reachingbeyondskies6908 3 года назад
Circumcision in a male is to cut off the extra skin. But circumcision in a woman is to cut off the central area that has nerves and sensitivity?
@cupcake3215
@cupcake3215 3 года назад
There is a difference between female circumcision & FGM what you are referring to is mutilation.
@kariw.160
@kariw.160 2 года назад
They both cut off nerves and sensitivity.
@victord9814
@victord9814 2 года назад
Who told you its extra, it could potentially lead to extra pleasure.
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
Nothing extra about it. It's quite a useful piece of anatomy.
@valeriemoore2762
@valeriemoore2762 3 месяца назад
As a retired nurse, l understand circumcision of male foreskin as a precaution to prevent infection from poor hygiene. If boys are taught to pull back their foreskin when cleaning themselves, the procedure would not be necessary. The sexual mutualation of woman is a control issue, completely different.
@hectormanuel8360
@hectormanuel8360 3 года назад
Male and female circumcision needs to be ilegal.
@ianhomerpura8937
@ianhomerpura8937 3 года назад
In other countries you will be ridiculed for not having one, since uncircumcised ones are considered "dirty".
@hectormanuel8360
@hectormanuel8360 3 года назад
@@ianhomerpura8937 Most females are socially molded to find uncircumcised men dirty or unappealing, which is contradicting human nature and the perfection of our bodies.
@RoMayDrako
@RoMayDrako 3 года назад
@@ianhomerpura8937 It's only dirty if it's the mans fault. That goes for uncircumcised and circumcised.
@kriggo1
@kriggo1 3 года назад
no, you would just make alot of criminals and people will move from hospitals to do it in their homes with unsanitary conditions.
@Biru_to
@Biru_to 3 года назад
@@hectormanuel8360 Only in the US
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
It shouldn't be referred to as female circumcision - it's much worse than that.
@micahned
@micahned 3 года назад
Exactly what words should a person use to refer to the practice? If you simply complain about something without proposing a solution then you're part of the problem.
@lavenderlatte13
@lavenderlatte13 3 года назад
THIS, and the fact that sex is extremely painful & giving birth is sooo fucking dangerous is like just putting trauma to your body
@accretor
@accretor 3 года назад
@@micahned I'm going to randomly suggest we call it "female genital mutilation" or "FGM" for short. What do you think?
@HiAdrian
@HiAdrian 3 года назад
Right should be called FGM, but the title at least uses that.
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
@@micahned Female genital mutilation is the usual term - I thought that so obvious that I didn't need to state it.
@JudgeyJudgeyable
@JudgeyJudgeyable 3 года назад
I’d be interested in learning about how FGM affects child birth. Reading that list of FGM classes and seeing “cauterization” sent chills. Child birth is hard enough, I can’t imagine how much harder it could be for women who have had FGM done to them
@mr.peanut529
@mr.peanut529 Год назад
Listen to dr fumbia Ahmadu she says Americans are hypocrite and how they are so called benefits of FGM or FGC as in hygiene and moral grounds in woman
@TheSeleneV
@TheSeleneV 3 месяца назад
I read once that in the most severe fgm cases, like in Somalian culture, it can cause complications during childbirth because there is actually such severe mutilation around the vaginal opening. In some cases the vaginal opening is partially sewed up to make it even more painful and less likely that a woman will cheat.
@pastelrust
@pastelrust 3 месяца назад
​@@mr.peanut529​ LOL! saying that someone mutilating without consent a part of your body that's MEANT to be there adds "moral grounds" is wild dude.. like think about what you just said, there's no hygienic benefits this is just torture and it's BAD. It has long terms effects too both psychologically and physically, it's literally abuse.
@truecynic1270
@truecynic1270 3 месяца назад
FGM effects childbirth a lot! There have been cases where the "cutter" actually sews up INSIDE the vaginal canal so that the "man is really getting a virgin." Because it causes the tissue to grown together, there's no elasticity ( this is true in ALL Type 3 cases) so there is much tearing, babies can get stuck ( both mother and child die), tearing can cause a hole (fistula) between either /or bladder or bowel so there is constant leakage of waste, in many cases, the women, if surviving (!) get SEWN UP AGAIN so that when they heal, the husband ......( you can figure this out) To sum, FGM IS BAD. Please look up FGM in Somalia to begin with because it's the most prevalent country - 98% of all females have been "cut"
@graek-mutt3164
@graek-mutt3164 3 года назад
I am Singaporean and this makes me so extremely angry.
@cx3929
@cx3929 3 года назад
It's a Muslim tradition...what did you as a Singaporean expect?
@user-xl1wm6xl9d
@user-xl1wm6xl9d 3 года назад
I am extremely angry that only men need to get caned according to Singaporean law
@Unknownplsyer
@Unknownplsyer 3 года назад
@@user-xl1wm6xl9d bad men like you needs to get some rotan
@user-xl1wm6xl9d
@user-xl1wm6xl9d 3 года назад
@@Unknownplsyer what a nice argument you make , guess you mom whipped your little head too much 🤣🤣🤣 try again with a nice argument 🙃 try to use your brain before commenting
@mika.8063
@mika.8063 3 года назад
@@cx3929 FGM was never mentioned in the Quran nor in any hadiths. Please research the things you claim before commenting. It’s simply tradition.
@chikenfrye5071
@chikenfrye5071 3 года назад
This makes me want to cry. NO Girl or Woman, should have to go through this... 😔 😔 😔
@SlackerU
@SlackerU 3 года назад
I'm a American Male & went through it. She'll be fine.
@TheGoat-dn4hx
@TheGoat-dn4hx 3 года назад
Im also an American male and went through it, she will be fine.
@thewiseowl8804
@thewiseowl8804 3 года назад
Nobody should have to go through this. Men and women. Everyone. To the both of you who said “she’ll be fine”, sure but this is a violation that can’t be overlooked.
@SlackerU
@SlackerU 3 года назад
@@thewiseowl8804 You can't be against it or it's hate against religion & anti-Semitic to our war-time allies. YT, FB, Twitter... will ban us for not supporting the cutting.
@fritnat
@fritnat 3 года назад
​@@SlackerU Yes, I've become increasingly aware of the role of the SM giants, all American supporting US culture, a massive challenge for our democratic systems. The issue of genital cutting cuts really deep exposing fundamental problems and being a litmus test for ethical standing of politicians and other significant societal figures. It is our era's slavery issue.
@bigaback
@bigaback 3 года назад
FGM is nowhere to be found in the Quran or Hadiths
@sumia444
@sumia444 3 года назад
Exactly why do people say “it’s in the Quran”
@chikooarin2715
@chikooarin2715 3 года назад
True
@9razzler9
@9razzler9 3 года назад
@@sumia444 you'd be surprised at how many religious people have never once opened to read the scriptures from their faith.
@mahi93162
@mahi93162 3 года назад
exactly, and now people are gonna use this against the religion when they don't even know that it's not a part of it in the first place
@mahi93162
@mahi93162 3 года назад
@@9razzler9 yeah that's sad but true
@laurenj432
@laurenj432 3 года назад
It is truly disgusting how a grown adult can hurt a child’s private area without any guilt. I know it’s a cultural difference, but I hope the people who did this at least feel remorseful and apologize
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
I hope they get what they deserve served to them by their victims
@joshuamalamion531
@joshuamalamion531 3 года назад
As someone who grew up here for my whole childhood, even I didn’t know this was a thing. Also praise for y’all showing some of the hidden dark sides of Singapore - critiquing the government isn’t so easy to do cus of the lack of free speech 😬
@elisewarnicke4767
@elisewarnicke4767 3 года назад
If an adult wants to get circumcised, then that is their decision.
@saumyasinha8447
@saumyasinha8447 3 года назад
But it's still wrong , just like damaging your body or suicide is wrong .
@thatonedog819
@thatonedog819 3 года назад
@@saumyasinha8447 not your body and I'm not sure how suicide comes into this.
@rayonensb7945
@rayonensb7945 2 года назад
Facts stop cutting kids girls or boys 💯
@_xiaotin8490
@_xiaotin8490 3 года назад
I learnt about FGM in criminology and a few classmates were almost about to pass out from another class. Honestly It’s hard for victims to stand up because they fear being an outcast in their community and it tends to be relatives who force it upon them or complete the procedure. Making it extremely hard for them to come forward, fear,shame and lack of knowledge :(
@MsBhappy
@MsBhappy 3 года назад
www.reddit.com/r/CircumcisionGrief/ men need support too. The shame is very sad.
@_xiaotin8490
@_xiaotin8490 3 года назад
@@MsBhappy yes! Men need support too!
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
@@_xiaotin8490 How could any GM victim get justice?
@_xiaotin8490
@_xiaotin8490 2 года назад
@@dingbop963 by getting whoever had performed the act on trial and convicted
@tashasharpe1565
@tashasharpe1565 3 года назад
This makes me so angry. I think anyone that thinks it’s okay to cut a child or baby and destroy them for life, needs to be locked away forever ! Disgusted.
@catherinegoldie3432
@catherinegoldie3432 3 года назад
Ok. So it’s alright for the men to enjoy sex and the poor women to suffer, scandalous, this is not what religion is meant to mean.
@n3clar
@n3clar 3 года назад
Men invented religion
@tavisatsma5638
@tavisatsma5638 3 года назад
You’re so stupid if you actually believe that circumcised men don’t lose sensitivity and sexual pleasure.
@tavisatsma5638
@tavisatsma5638 3 года назад
That’s like saying men have an invulnerability to nerve damage.
@catherinegoldie3432
@catherinegoldie3432 3 года назад
@@tavisatsma5638 why get circumcised then?
@tavisatsma5638
@tavisatsma5638 3 года назад
I assume I wouldn’t have chosen to get circumcised if given the choice. Unfortunately I was circumcised at birth.
@dls9952
@dls9952 3 года назад
This is extremely disgusting. I’m already cringing as if someone scratched a chalkboard 🙏🏼💕.... No one should have to endure “that or any other type of sexual oppression.” It’s the most private form of self expression....
@Rara-pz2jy
@Rara-pz2jy 3 года назад
I couldn’t get through it the entire time I was in disgust.
@duniabhy3199
@duniabhy3199 3 года назад
Happens in Malaysia too. Please research and cover Malaysia as well. Female circumcision is nowjere to be found in Islam.. It is only Male circumcision that is mandatory. And if you look into it and research it scientifically, it is not about male sexuality or anything sexual, rather it is for hygienic reasons.
@aleksandrvolkov3835
@aleksandrvolkov3835 3 года назад
Yeah but couldn’t you just pull back the foreskin instead of chopping it off for hygienic reasons?
@duniabhy3199
@duniabhy3199 3 года назад
@@aleksandrvolkov3835 that's what male circumcision in Islam actually is. Just pulling back the foreskin, not choping it off.
@phadenswandemil4345
@phadenswandemil4345 3 года назад
R.AGE has a video on FGM in malaysia, entitled The Hidden Cut. Its 2 years old, but i feel like since little progress has been made in this respect, the story is still the same.
@syamilchinkitt6111
@syamilchinkitt6111 3 года назад
biak betul ko ni
@asilaslapt1510
@asilaslapt1510 2 года назад
Male circumsisson is not mandatory too
@emeraldmonalisa1990
@emeraldmonalisa1990 3 года назад
Why nobody is tracking these criminals and puting them them to the jail ?!?!?!
@satishasekar5687
@satishasekar5687 2 года назад
Same reason as why nobody is putting people who mutilate little boys in prison!
@PasscodeAdvance
@PasscodeAdvance 3 года назад
I can't believe *Singapore* would be so backwards (on this).
@satishasekar5687
@satishasekar5687 2 года назад
And I can't believe that the U.S.A would continue mutilation of infant boys!
@satishasekar5687
@satishasekar5687 2 года назад
Male circumcision in the U.S.A is far more severe than female circumcision in singaporr so stfu!
@Beepbooops78
@Beepbooops78 3 года назад
I like the UK and a Bangladeshi Muslim boy in my high school told me that his father had performed FGM on his sister over the summer. I was horrified at how barbaric it was, both male and female genital mutilation is absolutely unnecessary and cruel.
@DeeTofa
@DeeTofa 3 года назад
I'm a Bengali Muslim and I'm just finding out people do this nonsense. This is not even an Islamic thing that Muslims should do. To me, it seems to have been created from weird cultural superstitions. Hopefully this practice is completly outlawed in all countries.
@puraLusa
@puraLusa 3 года назад
@@DeeTofa some muslims follow a hadith that probably isn't verified, that's why. And yes it probably came from an old costume into a hadith.
@stariehearts2366
@stariehearts2366 3 года назад
@@DeeTofa I'm bangali too and non of my family do this. I've never even heard of bangali people doing this
@livinglifewithshariah
@livinglifewithshariah Год назад
This !!! Both are thank you
@Ramifications537
@Ramifications537 8 месяцев назад
Wow it's the first time i have heard bengali muslims doing that.
@sudarshan3965
@sudarshan3965 3 года назад
this should be stopped and with it male circumcision should also be stopped
@whitneyw.7919
@whitneyw.7919 3 года назад
Definitely agree!
@moclock7241
@moclock7241 3 года назад
@Kanekite Kol that's been proven false
@foreskinrestore3765
@foreskinrestore3765 3 года назад
yes exactly... why aren't Americans up in arms over male genital mutilation?
@dharris5887
@dharris5887 3 года назад
I’m glad I was circumcised. If I’ll do it to my kids that’s really down to more research
@o_o825
@o_o825 3 года назад
@@dharris5887 But do you even know the difference? I’ve seen a lot of penises in my life and all the ugly ones were cut - scarring, dried up head, cracks, small pee hole, etc. Some I’ve seen you can’t even tell much where the shaft ends and where the head begins. It’s gross.
@ItsIkky-ce7lo
@ItsIkky-ce7lo 3 года назад
Honestly I’m glad that I grew up with a strong muslim single mother who follows religion rather than culture. I have two younger sisters, two older brothers and two younger brothers and none of us got circumcised. I guess people in the community don’t want to voice their opinions because this sort of things are seen as taboo.
@truecynic1270
@truecynic1270 3 месяца назад
Excellent and BRAVO to your mother!! Obviously SHE is very intelligent!!!!
@samridhibhandari743
@samridhibhandari743 3 года назад
Such regressive rites must end. Oppressive rituals like this can never be justified even in the name of religion.
@theren2486
@theren2486 3 года назад
the dumb thing is thatf fgm was never mentionned in quran or anything islamic. Only mald circumcision but it's for hygienic reasons instead of s3xuality
@satishasekar5687
@satishasekar5687 2 года назад
Just like male circumcision!
@celieboo
@celieboo 3 года назад
What a horrific practice! I have seen a few patients that have had type 2 FGM (removal of clitoris and labia minora with or without removal of the labia majora). These patients had removal of the labia major, too. So all they had was a small slit as a vaginal opening. I felt bad having a look of horror on my face as I prepared to do a cervical exam on them during labor.
@ByeByeBelly
@ByeByeBelly 2 года назад
Awful
@pinaylostinlove
@pinaylostinlove 2 года назад
How does it look like ?
@mr.peanut529
@mr.peanut529 Год назад
@@pinaylostinlove fumbai ahmadu
@mr.peanut529
@mr.peanut529 Год назад
@@ByeByeBelly fumbai ahmadu
@L_lovelace
@L_lovelace 2 месяца назад
​@mr.peanut529 stop it you weirdo
@angier6523
@angier6523 3 года назад
This did not happen to me so I’m not sure why I’m crying but I cannot imagine doing this to a baby girl... it seems so cruel. This will stick with me forever.
@satishasekar5687
@satishasekar5687 2 года назад
But are you crying for the 10s of millions of boys who are mutilated everyday? Most female circumcision in the singapore is less severe than male circumcision
@electroskates2434
@electroskates2434 2 года назад
@@satishasekar5687 why do you have to bring a male perspective into every goddamn thing that it about females
@satishasekar5687
@satishasekar5687 2 года назад
@@electroskates2434 Because it is a violation of the constitution to only ban female circumcision when male circumcision is still legal and often time far more boys die from forced genital mutilation!
@electroskates2434
@electroskates2434 2 года назад
@@satishasekar5687 Can you comment that on somewhere where it is about MGM (but I agree that it very horrible for males as well)
@mads2174
@mads2174 2 года назад
@@satishasekar5687 Stop this. It’s not a competition for who has it worse.. it’s both equally awful for both.
@SuperStriker7US
@SuperStriker7US 3 года назад
This is barbaric, and any "culture" that still has it is barbaric as well.
@rakeel1259
@rakeel1259 3 года назад
As a Muslim women I didn’t know that FGM happens FGM is not allowed in Islam and I’m truly shocked that most of the Muslims are practicing it😥😓
@ghandithesupremeleader9740
@ghandithesupremeleader9740 3 года назад
I dont think fgm is not allowed in islam it was never been a choice it was up to you but still tho there's no point of fgm...
@honeybite99
@honeybite99 3 года назад
Fgm is not islamic and you dont have a choice, the adults make the choice for you as an infant. Truly is a cruel practice.
@user-ib8mj3wq2e
@user-ib8mj3wq2e 3 года назад
Yes it is in islam. That's the reason Muslim countries do it
@user-ib8mj3wq2e
@user-ib8mj3wq2e 3 года назад
@no no go on wiki islam and see all the many verses about fgm. Educate yourself. Not few Asian countries but ALL Muslim countries
@rishajamshed1490
@rishajamshed1490 3 года назад
@@user-ib8mj3wq2e no its not true . I am muslim myself. I am from India where millions and millions of Muslims live and here people don't even know fgm. I only got to know about fgm through RU-vid. Although, it even exist here but its rare. If fgm was a Islamic practice then it should be practiced by all muslims around the world not few segments like the other muslim practices like 5time prayers, fasting for a month etc which are practiced by all muslims not few segments. Fgm is a cultural practice not a religious practice. You can look at the central asian countries like Kazakhstan, Turkmenistan, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan, Armenia, Azerbaijan etc, there is no fgm. And the countries like Pakistan, Afghanistan, Turkey, Iran, India etc where fgm is rare.
@newmint8630
@newmint8630 3 года назад
Me, a female, born in Singapore: I should ask my mum about this
@tedrudiaurelio2358
@tedrudiaurelio2358 3 года назад
This is just disturbing. Just because its a part of culture it really doesnt mean that its morally acceptable, especially that this practice doesnt have any medical benefit for the woman.
@thejoshiclesofjoshua8372
@thejoshiclesofjoshua8372 Год назад
It does. Medically beneficial for hygiene and social acceptance.
@windowsill9724
@windowsill9724 2 месяца назад
⁠@@thejoshiclesofjoshua8372as someone who didn‘t go through this barbaric act I can assure you there is no need for a supposed hygienic benefit. Especially since there actually isn‘t one.
@xfifina
@xfifina 3 года назад
No.. Islam did not mention a thing about 'female circumcision'. At all no. Male yes
@yenglay7797
@yenglay7797 3 года назад
But indeed in indonesia where i live too it does actually happened for the muslims. Even some of my friends told me they've been through it themselves and continue did it to their childrens that we're adults now
@xfifina
@xfifina 3 года назад
@@yenglay7797 unfortunately they are misguided :( Islam never said anything about female circumcision
@hilaholo6822
@hilaholo6822 3 года назад
@@yenglay7797 ah not really, maybe because tradition has involved in it too. I live and grow up in Indonesia but I never get it, every female around me too, it never happened to them 😅
@yenglay7797
@yenglay7797 3 года назад
@@xfifina yeah i hope so, my sister converted to islam and thanks God she didnt do it to her children.
@yenglay7797
@yenglay7797 3 года назад
@@hilaholo6822 i actually went to school for 5years in south borneo thats when i heard it for the first time i never knew that female also had to do the circumcision as well but it does happened and if it not applied to everyone then i hope so. My family are christian but the male in my family also needed to get circumcised for the health benefit too but for women i guess it is more towards mutilation rather than any health benefit
@jiujennie
@jiujennie 3 года назад
It was quite disturbing to see those real live clips. A part of my soul died seeing those baby's all stretched out like that....
@HigzyTeflon
@HigzyTeflon 3 года назад
Barbaric! For both male and female. No matter how you slice it, it's just plain wrong.
@micahned
@micahned 3 года назад
I like what you did there
@clumsygallium6104
@clumsygallium6104 3 года назад
@@micahned what did he do there?
@micahned
@micahned 3 года назад
@@clumsygallium6104 a pun
@cupcake3215
@cupcake3215 3 года назад
Wouldn’t refer to male circumcision as barbaric when the benefits outweigh the risks. They aren’t the same thing bro
@victord9814
@victord9814 2 года назад
@@cupcake3215 Those benefits were brought by American circumcfetishists who want to justify the barbarianism, Barbarianism justify doesn't mean its not barbaric.
@nah1047
@nah1047 3 года назад
I learned about this in class a few years ago. It's terrifying that it still happens
@gohjiayi5521
@gohjiayi5521 3 года назад
This really came as a shock to me and I'm utterly disappointed at people who blindly follow traditions and customs. The new generation of politicians need to tackle this issue. It is a violation of human rights.
@iloveLanaDelRey2007
@iloveLanaDelRey2007 2 года назад
I’m English but me and my family moved to Singapore for 3 years when I was 6-9 years old. it’s now been 5 years since I was in Singapore and I miss it, unfortunately this has put a damper on that as I had no clue this was going on, honestly so sad :(
@a.h.5296
@a.h.5296 3 года назад
STOP👏🏼cutting👏🏼human👏🏼genitalia 👏🏼without👏🏼Concent👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Period
@brianmartial2084
@brianmartial2084 3 года назад
Yoh! I'm a Kenyan and I thought FGM only happens in my country, am shocked 😲 that it happens elsewhere
@CinderellaCoach
@CinderellaCoach 3 года назад
Just recently, it happened in CA!
@puraLusa
@puraLusa 3 года назад
Happens around the world, happens in my country, but in small numbers.
@kamartaj3010
@kamartaj3010 3 года назад
Happens in india as well
@25pushpendra
@25pushpendra 2 года назад
@@kamartaj3010 it's illegal in India .
@starcherry6814
@starcherry6814 2 года назад
Egypt too! It's really bad and no one ever talks about it!
@rashifarsya
@rashifarsya 3 года назад
I remember when I first learned about FGM I immediately called my father and asked him if my lil sister was cut, and I was so relieved that he told me he didn’t believe in such practice.
@archanarawat4656
@archanarawat4656 3 года назад
I literally cried while watching those little angels cry in pain..., how can parents do this to their child..., those monsters will rot in hell
@Inazarab
@Inazarab 3 года назад
FGM and MGM should both be illegal.
@rayonensb7945
@rayonensb7945 2 года назад
See now something i could support
@mr.peanut529
@mr.peanut529 Год назад
@@rayonensb7945 u was mtuilate don’t worry the world has ur back friend 😊
@rayonensb7945
@rayonensb7945 Год назад
@@mr.peanut529 I’m not circumcised lol but it both should be legal not 1 or the other
@MariamMariam-ue7vz
@MariamMariam-ue7vz 3 года назад
I’m a Muslim and I will never circumcise my future sons, no matter how much backlash that may bring. I’m horrified ppl are still doing this in Singapore. I’m gladdened to see other Muslims seeing male circumcision for what it is (male genital mutilation) too. Muslim men, pls research what circumcision has done to your pleasure and your wife’s pleasure. Be angry as your should be and start speaking out.
@hammadhussain3082
@hammadhussain3082 3 года назад
Here in Pakistan, they call circumcision "becoming Muslim", even though male circumcision is not mandatory in Islam, guess it's not common knowledge.
@fritnat
@fritnat 3 года назад
I hope the best for you and your future sons, great way to start!
@nailarahmaputri9505
@nailarahmaputri9505 3 года назад
@@hammadhussain3082 it depends on what mazhab you follow. If it is Shafiiya, then it is compulsory for men, if it is Hanafiya then it is not compulsory
@hammadhussain3082
@hammadhussain3082 3 года назад
@@nailarahmaputri9505 Oh, I didn't know that. Thanks for the info. 👍
@syaih95
@syaih95 3 года назад
You do know if just a tiny drop of urine is stuck in between the foreskin, any wudhu is deemed invalid?
@mome27
@mome27 Год назад
I read this story of an Egyptian girl who used to say, "When I was little, my parents took me and my sister, and they brought me in first with a strange woman. I did not know what was happening, and she told me that I did not need circumcision, and I did not know what it was at all. After that, they brought my sister in and I listened." Her screams were getting louder and little by little, my heart was breaking, and then I entered to that room, I insisted that she tell me what, so they did to her until she screamed like this, and she told me everything. My heart was in pain, my dear sister. They have hurt her since that day, and I do not trust my parents. I wish the world would stop female genital mutilation
@sharonhutchison5923
@sharonhutchison5923 2 месяца назад
Two hundred million? Those poor girls. Shame on their mothers and grandmothers
@fajarsetiawan8665
@fajarsetiawan8665 3 года назад
Pfft.... Even in Singapore FGM is still happening, let alone ITS NEIGHBORING COUNTRIES.
@dosereviews
@dosereviews 3 года назад
I’m a men and I think is very f up crazy even for boys too that’s why I told my wife not to do that to our boy 👦 is crazy that skin is there for a reason so sad that kids don’t have a choice
@bossytweed6664
@bossytweed6664 3 года назад
Exactly! It should be banned worldwide. I do know there are adult men who choose to have the procedure and they should have that right but when it comes to infants; it should be totally banned. I just don't understand how adults see nothing wrong with slices babies penises and vaginas. I just don't get it.
@LifeofDayy
@LifeofDayy 3 года назад
I completely agree.
@dextera-tx1099
@dextera-tx1099 3 года назад
I'm sorry i just remembered something when i read your comment, why men have nipple's ?
@MsBhappy
@MsBhappy 3 года назад
@@bossytweed6664 Even still, many adult men are fed propaganda about it and not made aware to the risks or other non surgical options. Some do it for cosmetic reasons, which is very sad, and their insurance will cover it. The history of it is horrible to the core, religious and the medical corruption due to $$$ made.
@sher7595
@sher7595 3 года назад
I'm from Singapore and I didn't even know this exists!
@Mariam-jy2rx
@Mariam-jy2rx 3 года назад
i was cut when i was 7 years old and had my first surgery in 2020 and The emotional pain is far worse than any physical pain.
@esramohammed4275
@esramohammed4275 2 года назад
Sister please i need to talk to you
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
how does this affect the relationship with your parents?
@Mariam-jy2rx
@Mariam-jy2rx 2 года назад
@@dingbop963 what do you mean? Are you talking about the surgery or what they had done to me? :)
@dejabutler5879
@dejabutler5879 3 года назад
This is horrifying
@partainbanner
@partainbanner 3 года назад
Its still happening in America!
@anushka1223
@anushka1223 3 года назад
Atleast it's banned so the percentage of the practice has atleast decreased ....in many countries it's still legal :(
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
@@anushka1223 I don't believe it's banned in all US states. IIRC only about 30 states have banned FGM
@neckwatch
@neckwatch 2 месяца назад
I seriously can not believe that mothers would do this to their own daughters!!! This barbaric and inhumane act should be criminalized. I can not believe that this is still happening in modern society.
@RemarhBsoul
@RemarhBsoul Год назад
When it's men it's called circumcision but women is mutilation. Why discrimination against men.
@stielimusterman3066
@stielimusterman3066 Год назад
Because that‘s what Western "civilization“ is mostly about...
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
There are rarely demonstrations, petitions etc. against FGM.
@luismariafernandezperez6931
@luismariafernandezperez6931 3 года назад
You mean in countries that it happen right?? Cause here in Europe its talked against all the time.
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
@@luismariafernandezperez6931 Demonstrations against FGM are rare in any part of the world. I've tried talking about it to feminists in Europe & most of them quickly changed the subject.
@luismariafernandezperez6931
@luismariafernandezperez6931 3 года назад
@@davidz2808 I'm sorry but you are wrong. Every little thing that goes against women is talked about in europe to the extreme. Sure they prefer to focus on unreal things (like wage gap) but some of them also focus on real things (and surprise surprise, those thinhs happen mostly on countries with that religion which is all "love and peace")
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
@@luismariafernandezperez6931 It's rarely talked about in parliaments in Europe. Very few demonstrations about it have occurred.
@nassiemartinez4399
@nassiemartinez4399 3 года назад
@@luismariafernandezperez6931 if you’re trying to imply all Muslims are for this kind of thing you’re so wrong on so many levels
@aestheticicecubes7502
@aestheticicecubes7502 3 года назад
This physically hurts me to watch this
@livelylilly4135
@livelylilly4135 3 года назад
I cannot even imagine how much pain infants feel during that procedure ....
@roja7426
@roja7426 3 месяца назад
I didn’t know that this happens in Singapore. It makes me cringe. I work in a youth shelter and this girl told me that she was circumcised at 6 yrs old in Ethiopia. She told me the entire procedure with the entire village at the ceremony with singing and dancing and eating. I ended up crying. She was cut with a scissor without any anesthesia. Now, she is traumatized forever. She even has slow leakage of the urine. She is messed up mentally. It’s sad what FGM has done to this girl. She will never be normal and achieve her goals because she is fighting mental health due to FGM.
@Jamon11
@Jamon11 3 года назад
A lot of men get circumcised but this is in my opinion a lot more extreme and sad. Babies shouldn’t go through hell because of parents or country’s traditional practices. I think it is very strange that this doesn’t happen in a lot of Muslim countries except a few, so where is this practice coming from? Never read anything in the religion about this when I was Muslim.
@aabatteriess
@aabatteriess 3 года назад
I assume it’s a cultural practice that was absorbed into the religious practices of some of those countries. My father is from a Muslim country and this NEVER happens there
@Aftab_Raza_Khan
@Aftab_Raza_Khan 3 года назад
FGM isn't written anywhere in the Qur'an and Hadith. People are just horrible
@Jenvlogs404
@Jenvlogs404 2 года назад
It was added to texts for desire & honor, is that better? Abu Dawud 43:499 “Do not cut so severely as that is better for the woman and more desirable for a husband” Hanbal 5:75 “Circumcision is a law for men and a preservative of honor for women”
@thejoshiclesofjoshua8372
@thejoshiclesofjoshua8372 Год назад
More victims of male genital mutilation than female
@biancas.velasquez9934
@biancas.velasquez9934 3 года назад
Thank your for opening everyone's eyes to seeing the truth about what's really happening around this world
@Justanothermusicnerdxo
@Justanothermusicnerdxo 3 года назад
I’m glad we can, as humanity, agree that FGM is horrendous and wrong. But I can’t help but wonder, why is male mutilation so normalized? Infants can’t consent to their body being permanently mutilated, all genital mutilation should be strictly outlawed worldwide.
@qingtessence2649
@qingtessence2649 3 года назад
male circumcision has medical consequences- i cant list them right now but there is a health risk if you don't circumsize them, male circumcision has a reason to exist but female circumcision/mutilation only *causes* health risks, so its completely unnecessary and 'its tradition!' is a pathetic excuse. fgm is just the result of misogyny and blaming others for something they cant control
@Justanothermusicnerdxo
@Justanothermusicnerdxo 3 года назад
@@qingtessence2649 There’s a few problems with that argument though. 1) MGM’s medical benefits are minimal and is unnecessary by having proper hygiene. It’s not a compelling argument. 2) MGM, like FGM, is morally wrong because of consent. You have helpless, defenseless children who are forced to trust their parents, and then their parents permanently mutilate their bodies without consent. If an adult consents to having their anatomy changed in anyway, they have the right to do so as it is their body. But because it is being performed on non-consenting children, it’s wrong.
@cupcake3215
@cupcake3215 3 года назад
@@Justanothermusicnerdxo FGM isn’t wrong because of the consent aspect. FGM has many issues that come with it & it’s intents is to have loyal women so they don’t feel satisfied in bed & it’s better if it sex hurts them so they don’t cheat that’s why it’s bad. FGM can cause severe bleeding and problems urinating, and later cysts, infections, as well as complications in childbirth and increased risk of newborn deaths. The risks out weigh the benefits if there is any. What negative effect happened to male who are circumcised? The benefits out way the risk in male circumcision. The reason it should be band doesn’t have much to do with consent. There are procedures where a male may need to be circumcised which is also why it’s wouldn’t be considered mutilation. When would a women ever need to have her clit removed? Mutilation 1. an act or instance of destroying, removing, or severely damaging a limb or other body part of a person or animal. Male circumcision pros outweigh cons unlike fgm 2. an act or instance of damaging or altering something radically. Removing foreskin is not radical alteration. Idk why westerners especially Americans keep talking about gender issues as if they are the exact same. idk what’s up with westerners acting like male issues and female issues are the exact same. I do wanna point out there is a difference between fgm & female circumcision. If ur wanna read on fgm there is some info about it in the link below I hope you understand the difference. www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/female-genital-mutilation
@rayonensb7945
@rayonensb7945 2 года назад
@@cupcake3215 male & female circumcision same cultural crap lol hypocrisy at its best
@cupcake3215
@cupcake3215 2 года назад
@@rayonensb7945 my comments seem to keep you up at night it’s not the first time you’ve responded & I won’t expect it to be the last
@bajjj4056
@bajjj4056 3 года назад
Woah... i'm malay and i've never even heard of this practice until the movement against FGM caught my attention. Never once have i ever heard from the people around me, about practicing this as a culture or a religious act... i guess it really does depend on demographic culture (i'm not singaporean malay) and doesnt really have anything to do with religion since i've never once heard of the implementation of FGM in any islamic teachings where i come from
@andreagoh2732
@andreagoh2732 3 года назад
What country are you from?
@bettyhello
@bettyhello 3 года назад
It’s common in Malaysia too. A lot of my female Muslim Malaysian friends have gone through this. You can even go to some clinics where they openly tell you the price and the procedure. I’m not agreeing with the practice, just sharing.
@evelynracine5987
@evelynracine5987 3 года назад
This poses an interesting question about the ethicality of ANY type of circumcision. Male circumcision is mutilation too. I didn’t realize how important foreskin can be until I dated someone who didn’t enjoy sex because he literally couldn’t feel it.
@evelynracine5987
@evelynracine5987 3 года назад
And I’m disappointed in yall. For dismissing how harmful male circumcision can be. Yes fgm is despicable but the lack of consent involved in both forms of “circumcision” makes them essentially the same, regardless of effect.
@TheDexsword
@TheDexsword 3 года назад
@@evelynracine5987 Eh its not that we dismissing it it just most of the ppl that advocate for hating circumssion in general feels bandwagon hating it. And saying something else that the majority of people there is actually feelings and what really happened to them.
@TheDexsword
@TheDexsword 3 года назад
And sorry for your partner he should literally find that surgeon that circumsized him. But from my personal experience in Indonesia most people dont rly feel like they were forced to do it, I met multiple ppl that still havent done it and they do get weird "hey u still havent done it?" And teasing but ppl dont care as much honestly.
@fritnat
@fritnat 3 года назад
@@evelynracine5987 Hey, I'm here doing my best and yes of course they are essentially the same....
@rashadahmadov3929
@rashadahmadov3929 3 года назад
That's insane and inhumane!
@samanthacastillo3574
@samanthacastillo3574 3 года назад
Absolutely breaks my hearts.
@de341f6
@de341f6 3 месяца назад
I hate when people lump this discussion with male circumcision. Male circumcision is not damaging neither does it prevent men from having sex in the future. It does help with hygiene as it's easier to clean, but this is literally mutilation of the vulva and clitoris, there is absolutely no way someone can walk away from FGM ever the same
@fritnat
@fritnat Месяц назад
You hate it because it is so unpleasant for you to be confronted with the objective lens of your own culture's cutting practice. Its perhaps understandable if a Singaporean with the gender inclusive practice meant female circumcision is not damaging as its only a pin prick but how can you possibly think ritual penectomy is not damaging?? How does a pinprick preventy women from having x? Since you believe cutting parts off helps with hygiene why would you think its any different for girls, doesn't it save them from cleaning any parts amputated? Well the Australian High Court has also judged a pinprick to the vul.. to be a mutilation however how can you explain that ritual penectomy is not? Why couldn't woolsheepthree and hawwaeve4421's daughters, in the other comments, not be able to walk away the same? They both say it is only a pinprick and hawwaeve4421 says her daughters didn't even cry. Ritual penectomy has been called mutilation since ancient times, even by those practicing it.
@Grace-yo3ph
@Grace-yo3ph 3 года назад
This is so sad and disturbing :(
@sarahc6473
@sarahc6473 3 года назад
There is an organization based in Senegal called Tostan. A lady by the name of Molly Melching runs it and they have had a lot of success working to end FGM.
@allier1867
@allier1867 3 года назад
i had no idea this happens in singapore. its so tragic. these poor girls. cant imagine how much it hurt
@floral-smoke
@floral-smoke 6 месяцев назад
Can we just leave people's genitals alone? Any child with any genitals unless they make a choice as a fully grown adult stop it.
@nuunuu246
@nuunuu246 3 года назад
This is such a shock for me! I thought it only happened in rural places.
@shimeringsoul7800
@shimeringsoul7800 3 года назад
I just realize i'm also a victim of fgm... I'm really shocked 😭
@shimeringsoul7800
@shimeringsoul7800 3 года назад
@BHAGWAN atheist they did the procedure when I was a baby i think that's why
@AA-pu5qj
@AA-pu5qj 3 года назад
How did u find out then?
@dingbop963
@dingbop963 2 года назад
how does this affect the relationship with your parents?
@mr.peanut529
@mr.peanut529 Год назад
@@shimeringsoul7800u deserve that is how u became a official’s member of the cult u know to be tidy and womanist and to stay and line and not to be promsciuos
@anthonymanderson7671
@anthonymanderson7671 10 месяцев назад
Oh my goodness 😳
@blazethealaskanmalamute4633
@blazethealaskanmalamute4633 3 года назад
It’s so sad this is still happening anywhere in the world!
@bethhaines6340
@bethhaines6340 Год назад
I think the reason why parents force their daughters to go through fgm is because they feel that women having an orgasm is wrong that its wrong for a woman to enjoy sex theres nothing wrong with a married couple to enjoy physical togetherness within the boundaries of marriage
@user-ld6wo4rv8h
@user-ld6wo4rv8h 7 месяцев назад
Because a woman's orgasm is irrelevant to reproduction. She is not supposed to enjoy sex. Her entire purpose is to give birth to more men.
@fabrizio483
@fabrizio483 3 года назад
Circumcision is also mutilation and needs to be outlawed.
@sownheard
@sownheard 3 года назад
Ok boomer
@silveira0610
@silveira0610 3 года назад
No diference. Barbarian too...
@mgray999
@mgray999 3 года назад
@@sownheard boomers are for circumcision.
@hilltopgypsy
@hilltopgypsy 3 года назад
Sorry, that's not always true. My son HAD to be circumcised because his foreskin was too tight and wouldn't withdraw. It made his life liveable. That is NOTHING LIKE FGM!
@fabrizio483
@fabrizio483 3 года назад
@@sownheard You don't know how to use this meme.
@huangxinyue739
@huangxinyue739 3 года назад
Thank you for raising awareness
@fl3ur_
@fl3ur_ 3 года назад
This actually breaks my heart 💔 😖
@muktasingodia7792
@muktasingodia7792 2 года назад
This should not happen to any human regardless gender Especially without their consent
@user-ld6wo4rv8h
@user-ld6wo4rv8h 7 месяцев назад
A child can't consent. Deal with it.
@onlinedweller
@onlinedweller 2 месяца назад
So does that mean I schould mulilate a baby?? Your house also can't consent so should I lit it on fire?@@user-ld6wo4rv8h
@dan020350
@dan020350 3 года назад
-.- the lack of sex education ; woman studies
@april110
@april110 3 года назад
I couldn't hear the cry of the baby I paused it and am writing.This is scary to death,i am scared from the core right now.How painful it must be.I can't even start the video,just writing this comment about how awful this is and how stupid to hurt someone knowingly for the rest of their life This should be illegal by now
@AppleBottomJ
@AppleBottomJ 3 года назад
I don’t remember this part in Crazy Rich Asians All jokes aside this is messed up.. why
@akbarroebetho3533
@akbarroebetho3533 3 года назад
Because that film focus on the life of chinese singaporean, while this practice of FGM is exclusively exist on malay singaporean family
@ariannaluna3009
@ariannaluna3009 3 года назад
I am horrified. This is one the most horrible things I have seen. Poor babies. God be with you all... please Lord stop this torture 💔💔💔
@mjjp97
@mjjp97 3 года назад
But still widely accepted for baby boys in America.... demented reasoning in any case.
@crazykeejan6981
@crazykeejan6981 3 года назад
How
@Iberny3
@Iberny3 3 года назад
@@crazykeejan6981 Circumcision.
@crazykeejan6981
@crazykeejan6981 3 года назад
@@Iberny3 oh
@vuvuvu6291
@vuvuvu6291 3 года назад
Circumcision for boys is mostly encouraged because by removing the foreskin, it prevents genital diseases that coming from the accumulation of microorganisms beneath it. But, questions arise on the legitimacy of the effect of girls circumcision that cut either partly or the entirety of clitoris.
@mjjp97
@mjjp97 3 года назад
@@vuvuvu6291 Disproved in modern times and the original medical evidence published in the 1800's was largely influenced by religious organizations. The data is flimsy at best....
@spencer5372
@spencer5372 2 года назад
Man get treated so badly in Singapore but nobody ever acknowledges that.
@user-uz4gh7sm9l
@user-uz4gh7sm9l 3 года назад
WTF! Sometimes it feels like 'evolution' never happened when it comes to human intelligence!!
@Violet-nh9xi
@Violet-nh9xi 3 года назад
Its quite sick that even tho we are in a first world county thats quite advanced procedures like these arent banned
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