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'I will never be cut': Kenyan girls fight back against genital mutilation | Guardian Investigations 

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Female genital mutilation (FGM) horrifies - and bewilders - westerners who find it incomprehensible that a mother would allow her daughter to be so brutally amputated with all the risks of infection, difficult childbirth and deprivation of sexual pleasure. But when women in rural Kenya refuse genital mutilation, the social costs are high.
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Nancy and Gertrude are Kenyan girls about to face this brutal passage to womanhood. What this film does is to show how custom - even when violent and dangerous - embeds itself in social expectations. These girls are not considered eligible by prospective husbands until they have been cut; their parents need the income from a dowry to shore up precarious family finances. Standing out against such powerful conventions is difficult, dangerous, and costs money.
Directed, produced and filmed by Sara Nason. Narrated by Angela Griffin. This video is one of a series of investigative documentaries about poverty, commissioned and editorially controlled by Guardian Films, produced in association with Christian Aid. Go to www.guardian.co.uk/poverty-over for more details.
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Комментарии : 6 тыс.   
@TwighlightAngelRose
@TwighlightAngelRose 6 лет назад
That girl who is standing up to her mom saying “Boys and girls are equals” is the hero and role model to me in my opinion.
@over00lordunknown12
@over00lordunknown12 6 лет назад
You have 69 likes, so I will not bump it to 70, but I agree.
@creeksidestudiospodcastchannel
Zoclora she is 100% worthy of the title "Hero"!!!!!!
@LordSantiagor
@LordSantiagor 6 лет назад
I hope we too learn that lesson. FGM is illegal in the West, as it should, but MGM is common practice. It's 2018. How can we still amputate sexually sensitive tissue from baby boys without consent? Some say circumcised penises are more hygienic. Seriously, we'd rather mutilate boys instead of teaching them to clean themselves? Should we also remove the labia of baby girls to make the folds in the vagina easier to clean? (NO!) Stop genital mutilation!!!
@vegetasrage629
@vegetasrage629 6 лет назад
Ronny Creekside how?
@jadejohnson3443
@jadejohnson3443 6 лет назад
Zoclora right I 💯 percent agree 🙂🙂🤗
@cumensu
@cumensu 8 лет назад
"You can't compare education to cows. You will milk education more than a cow."- Nancy. What a brilliant girl. I hope she resisted.
@CherieDeDieu
@CherieDeDieu 2 года назад
When Rhoda said: "The life of a woman is decided by a man" my anger just rose up and my heart broke.....especially so because I am a human rights lawyer, a feminist, a woman and an African. I will do all I can to help such situations.
@kosherjew4223
@kosherjew4223 Год назад
My anger went threw the roof! Another sexist culture! Religon does this a well.! It's pure evil! Thank you my sister for fighting for girls and women around the world!
@itsanitasoina
@itsanitasoina 4 месяца назад
Thanksss😢😢😢
@lovexbird_28
@lovexbird_28 3 месяца назад
It get on my nerves too especially they didn't care what circumstances will they face soon or later .
@princess-jd5rn
@princess-jd5rn 3 месяца назад
Pls what have u done about this situation because it's been 2 years u commented it's really painful 😢
@kimberlykilpatrick4352
@kimberlykilpatrick4352 3 года назад
The most prolific line "You milk education more than you milk a cow!" She's wise beyond her years
@NN-sj5uv
@NN-sj5uv 2 месяца назад
As always, it comes down to economics. If u can just have the father envision all that she can provide for him he eventually buys in to the dream. 🎉
@donnaljenkins2994
@donnaljenkins2994 Месяц назад
3eeeeee32333322eerdddde we 2²CT​@@NN-sj5uv
@amandabeck8716
@amandabeck8716 8 лет назад
"If she isn't cut, then who will marry her?" Well, maybe someone who actually loves her.
@aceofmomsyea4502
@aceofmomsyea4502 6 лет назад
not how it works in their world
@arreywaah100
@arreywaah100 6 лет назад
Y cutting is necessary to get married.
@zeynabuthman639
@zeynabuthman639 6 лет назад
Because someone that loves her won’t pay the dowery her father wants. Love requires knowing a girl, and men don’t get to know girls until they’ve been bought and paid for. The men also think that a girl who has not been cut is dirty. She’s a humiliation, a clitoris is considered too much like a penis, and being with an uncut woman is considered almost akin to homosexuality. Also they think an uncut girl is lustful, licentious and likely to be unfaithful. Men mock men with uncut wives. They cut those parts away to make sex an act of submission, not pleasure for the woman. If sex is only pain who does it without obligation? A man only needs a hole to be satisfied, his wife’s pleasure doesn’t matter. She lets him do as he pleases then gets up and makes his breakfast and tends his house and he’s happy.
@mikapi2128
@mikapi2128 6 лет назад
Zeynab Uthman dear god what a terrible life to live if this is true ...
@Raquel-oo3is
@Raquel-oo3is 6 лет назад
Zeynab Uthman then people as why some women hate men all confused smh
@PuRpLePoNcHo
@PuRpLePoNcHo 6 лет назад
"I didn't go through labour pains for my daughter to be sold like that" you tell him mama bear
@gg-oo4tg
@gg-oo4tg 6 лет назад
Tryna cut her teke up ow that's ratchet
@gir2005
@gir2005 6 лет назад
*NZ Maori* I’m from nz
@nassima1488
@nassima1488 6 лет назад
Its the second time i see u in comments lol the first time it was a mukbang of morrocan food
@jeannelowe480
@jeannelowe480 3 года назад
That is Barbaric. This should be stopped they should be prosecuted and jailed !! Stop the Butchering ,,,,!,!!,!!,
@st7323
@st7323 3 года назад
Amen. Amen. Amen. Tell him mama bear!
@alhamdoulilah3991
@alhamdoulilah3991 2 года назад
Hurting women for men, cows, beers and goats, what a selfish decision... Scarifying your daughter for your sons's future! Is she not a human being? Doesn't she deserve to have a bright future too? Those parents are just mad...
@estherlalramsangi8408
@estherlalramsangi8408 2 года назад
I cried so much in my heart when Nancy said “ my passion for education is driving me”. I want to help her with her education so much!!
@lisaripley2363
@lisaripley2363 3 года назад
This practice needs to end.... permanently.
@Cjanet87
@Cjanet87 3 года назад
So does male circumcision
@haleypierce82793
@haleypierce82793 3 года назад
Absolutely
@haleypierce82793
@haleypierce82793 3 года назад
@@Cjanet87 well that is still a debatable thing
@harveyplayzgames5155
@harveyplayzgames5155 3 года назад
@Iskxizinfnfnr zioapqldo not true at all, we were born uncircumcised and it should stay that way. It's wrong
@rosefanpage730
@rosefanpage730 3 года назад
It was banned in some places
@jsgdk
@jsgdk 9 лет назад
Any girl who fights back and even kills the ones trying to mutilate her should be treated like a hero, 100% self-defence.
@jsgdk
@jsgdk 9 лет назад
brajamtho757 I agree.
@Jimpozcan
@Jimpozcan 9 лет назад
brajamtho757 It's vile whether done to a boy or a girl. Yes, fight even draw blood to stop this.
@greenkreeper7215
@greenkreeper7215 9 лет назад
Fight back yeah ok sure but kill? No not at all
@slvanvalkenburgh
@slvanvalkenburgh 8 лет назад
+JD Carter What are you, 12 years old? So brave with your incognito profile!
@ideclareww3fu354
@ideclareww3fu354 6 лет назад
brajamtho757 .u must have had a bad experience with your circumcision because mine was good, and made me better man. BAN FEMALE MUTILATIONS ONLY😎
@naimabrenkman2252
@naimabrenkman2252 3 года назад
"You will milk education more than you can milk a cow" . Powerful, she is such a brave and bright girl.
@shelbyg97
@shelbyg97 3 года назад
Props to the mom of the girl who ran away. Stood up for what was right!! Real mama right there ❤️❤️❤️
@dekasdaughter9752
@dekasdaughter9752 6 лет назад
I'm proud to say that Nancy is a friend of mine. Nancy is now grown up and going further than her Pokot community to help fight cutting of girls. I met her at the UN Women's conference in New York where she spoke fiercely and passionately. She travels and speaks at conferences around the world. Last year she spoke at a seminar in London. She is now educated and speaks fluent English.
@w.allflower
@w.allflower 6 лет назад
Deka Daughter she never gave in and got cut, did she?
@dekasdaughter9752
@dekasdaughter9752 6 лет назад
Wallflower 89 No she refused to give in and get cut. She organised an alternative 'ceremony' which did not involve cutting.
@alexandradelgado1007
@alexandradelgado1007 6 лет назад
😍😍
@girlplease3217
@girlplease3217 6 лет назад
Deka's Daughter I’m so happy to hear that, even at that young age it was obviously how intelligent as capable she is
@jewelmathews1444
@jewelmathews1444 6 лет назад
that is so good to hear! such bravery!! good for her!!
@lfking9924
@lfking9924 6 лет назад
The daughter must've gotten her badass from her mother. "I didnt go through labor pains for my daughter to be sold like this" that woman is amazing
@yesic7196
@yesic7196 5 месяцев назад
Resilient women and girls ❤
@umhi9778
@umhi9778 3 дня назад
Or she's her own person?
@ginazn
@ginazn 3 года назад
"If she isn't cut then who will marry her?" Well, maybe someone who truly loves her???
@dmimz8593
@dmimz8593 2 года назад
Ha, I don’t think love has anything to do with marriage in this part of the world.
@SRBOMBONICA86
@SRBOMBONICA86 2 года назад
@@dmimz8593 exactly omg ,the naivety of western girls SCARES me
@suzijorgensen6545
@suzijorgensen6545 Год назад
I really feel for the girls and admire the courage they're showing. This video was shot years ago. Please follow-up so we can see how the same group are doing
@potatoxchips636
@potatoxchips636 6 лет назад
"I didn't go through labour pain for my daughter to be sold like this " THANK YOU WOMAN you're a thousand times better than your husband how can he just sell his daughter of just for some cows, beer and your face in society utterly ridiculous.😠
@jameschristian1334
@jameschristian1334 6 лет назад
I saw your pic and I love the webtoon I love yoo
@mandihopper4029
@mandihopper4029 6 лет назад
Snapple Snack it's still a horrible thing to do
@21centuryg
@21centuryg 6 лет назад
Snapple Snack So beer is worth more than your child
@jalynnbiddy
@jalynnbiddy 6 лет назад
Am I the only one who got the pun about utterly ridiculous?? You get it cow cow hav- nvm..
@vanivani-id8zc
@vanivani-id8zc 4 года назад
Didn’t expect to see you here, Shin-Ae
@CateSimulate
@CateSimulate 8 лет назад
They actually have a "cutting season". How sick is that.
@karinasmith2214
@karinasmith2214 8 лет назад
+CateSimulate During that season, girls disappera from schools in England. The mothers tell them thay they are going on vacation, and many are left with the husbands that were waiting for them, without their knowledge. Muslims don't want the girls to marry a non'Muslim man
@mrcatfish2100
@mrcatfish2100 8 лет назад
Yea word.....cutting season....crazy bastard thought of this year's ago so now they are all doomed...
@pamelawilliams5672
@pamelawilliams5672 8 лет назад
It's their culture
@maylightbewithyou
@maylightbewithyou 8 лет назад
Fuck culture. Nothing excuses violence.
@longstoryshortisurvived
@longstoryshortisurvived 7 лет назад
+maylightbewithyou True and #FeeltheBern
@cjon5456
@cjon5456 3 года назад
An opening only big enough to urinate !!! Then to be cut again b4 labor ??? This is so inhumane!!! I hope abandon the knife becomes permanently accepted by the whole community... bless their hearts... 15 is so young to bare a child...
@marandaholley9760
@marandaholley9760 2 месяца назад
they also are ripped open by their husband on their wedding night.
@victoriapaulussimasiku5348
@victoriapaulussimasiku5348 2 года назад
Big ups to that mom for supporting her daughter's education. That husband is a comedian
@1bobforever
@1bobforever 3 года назад
that dad is literally ONLY wanting his daughter to be cut so he can get cows and beer and money.. how disgusting. he does not care about his daughter and i hope his wife divorced him !!!
@aimanslime4064
@aimanslime4064 3 года назад
His wife will never divorce him because it’s normal to cut girls. It’s cultural. I been cut when I was 6 years old and it’s very cruel with no anesthesia and hospital, imagine the trauma 😢
@simmy260881
@simmy260881 3 года назад
Yes but he realised and admitted that
@samc2460
@samc2460 3 года назад
@@mumtas4469 they get married only IF they get cut and once they’re married they get cows and all of that
@8djingles329
@8djingles329 3 года назад
@@aimanslime4064 i’m so sorry. :( i hope you’re doing okay
@lindseytchappi1329
@lindseytchappi1329 3 года назад
@@mumtas4469 Where are you from?
@MrsMighty868
@MrsMighty868 6 лет назад
I usually respect all cultures but this is totally inhumane. I cannot begin to imagine the pain these women go through.
@denniero6904
@denniero6904 4 года назад
How about male genitsl mutilation. There are more males mutillated then females
@supersublimnails5676
@supersublimnails5676 4 года назад
Oh so your ok with male genital mutation
@jelenatomic6543
@jelenatomic6543 4 года назад
@@denniero6904 it's not always about the number it's about the consiquences search it up honey and learn something .
@domoarigatomr.ubuntu7218
@domoarigatomr.ubuntu7218 4 года назад
@@denniero6904 if you're talking about male circumcision your point is obsolete, that has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction. Women who have had their clitoris cut off will not achieve orgasm and that is the very point of the cutting.
@domoarigatomr.ubuntu7218
@domoarigatomr.ubuntu7218 4 года назад
@@denniero6904 men have their foreskin cut off largely due to cleanliness, women only have their clitoris cut off to ensure they do not enjoy sex because that would be inapropriate.
@maryellenblount6376
@maryellenblount6376 3 месяца назад
Glad to see the young females speaking out against genital mutilation.
@ihanakaunotar2741
@ihanakaunotar2741 2 года назад
That mom was a real mom. She put herself on line to protect her daughter. The father ended up being so nice, he really does love his daughter.
@Traveler-30
@Traveler-30 3 года назад
I am crying cause it is so exhausting to watch women all around the world to carry the burdens just so men could live a comfortable world!!
@heidihughes7013
@heidihughes7013 3 года назад
It's very heartbreaking that these women will never realize their full potential or what it's like to be loved and accepted because of messed up traditions like this
@Traveler-30
@Traveler-30 3 года назад
@@heidihughes7013 the world we live in needs drastic change.
@bradxwx
@bradxwx 3 года назад
i've been mutilated. daily life has been super uncomfortable all my life
@Traveler-30
@Traveler-30 3 года назад
@@bradxwx im sorry, i hope the best for yoy.
@bettykhuboni8758
@bettykhuboni8758 3 года назад
😭😭😭😭, my heart is so heavy by this documentary...
@assquaker6086
@assquaker6086 8 лет назад
The mother. She sounded so calm. I live her. So much respect. "I didint have labor pains so you could sell my daughter"
@TaahinaTefisi01
@TaahinaTefisi01 8 лет назад
I was sad when he said we're divorced.
@assquaker6086
@assquaker6086 8 лет назад
Peterson Ngahe not me. Im happy they got divorced. The father almost ruined her daughters life. But thank god he finally got some sense knocked into him😂
@hallaja8338
@hallaja8338 6 лет назад
Preach! What an amazing and strong individual she must be. Can't be easy to stand up against him and the whole community like that. And also to help her daughter escape. Wow
@omusaatsawatuukha2513
@omusaatsawatuukha2513 6 лет назад
They didn't divorce. That's something you say when you're angry. Just like he said, I don't want to eat the food and then started eating again. How can you divorce a person and still take the plates out?
@christysivley
@christysivley 6 лет назад
Achesa Makhambala hi Achesa, are you from Kenya or somewhere like that? I only asked because of your name. I hope and pray that practices like these will end soon.
@areena8674
@areena8674 3 года назад
I didn't go through labor pains for my daughter to be sold like this....girls are blessed to have a mother like this
@umhi9778
@umhi9778 3 дня назад
She's just not evil. Parents need to stop being praised for anything less that total depravity.
@destinyloves8863
@destinyloves8863 4 месяца назад
The man at 28:08 ATE THAT UPP AND HE EVEN SAID PERIOD YESS SIR PREACH LOUD AND PROUD, I'm so glad they are educating people to resist against cruel traditions
@marylancelot
@marylancelot 6 лет назад
These men are so disgusting. "I will have my daughter be tortured, suffer from PTSD and complications and have her life once again at risk when she has a child, so I can have a cow and have MY SON educated."
@cynthiaslater7062
@cynthiaslater7062 6 лет назад
Malfoygal Okay...You have to realize that this is a completely different culture. Beer and Cows have a different so-called “wealth” in certain places. It’s a dowry. FGM is horrible but you also have to answer stand that he’s not disgusting for accepting a dowry like that.
@sophiec.6650
@sophiec.6650 6 лет назад
Don't forget beer.
@LordSantiagor
@LordSantiagor 6 лет назад
American healthcare professionals make a lot of money in exchange for mutilating millions of baby boys. Genital cutting in boys is generally less horrible than in girls, but it also produces PTSD, extreme pain and decreased sexual sensitivity.
@merigukasian5303
@merigukasian5303 6 лет назад
where are all that "educated" sons??? if they are so smart why don't they do something to save girls' life and health?? why don't they do something to let people know women and men are equal and no one deserves to be treated this way!!? This is disgusting!
@prinnywinny9013
@prinnywinny9013 6 лет назад
Cynthia Slater doesn’t make it right lmao
@BeatriceGatta
@BeatriceGatta 6 лет назад
Imagine being an investigative journalist and having to film and narrate all this without being allowed to intervene to help those girls and punching everyone in the face for wanting to mutilate a little girl.
@daylightbright7675
@daylightbright7675 6 лет назад
Beatrice Gatta An amazing amount of self-control I definitely don't have
@panzerkrieg3509
@panzerkrieg3509 6 лет назад
Self control i will never have
@v.xien.
@v.xien. 6 лет назад
:(
@jeannelowe480
@jeannelowe480 3 года назад
Bless you Sister ! One day this senseless mutilation of young girls must end We need to hear the Cries of these woman !! Thank you for Exposing this Practice ,,, I can hardly imagine how horrified these poor girls must be How can we help?? I thought this horrible practise had been outlawed years ago ?? To Every woman out there ,,, We must support the abolition of this crime against theses girls .?
@joycelynmattox6494
@joycelynmattox6494 3 года назад
If someone has any information about how I can help please let me know. This is injustice on so many levels.
@joycengwenya4994
@joycengwenya4994 3 года назад
It is important to preserve our traditions as Africans, but as we move forward and learning new things we also need to ensure that the injustices of the past are corrected.
@chaeremika
@chaeremika 11 месяцев назад
to everyone wondering about how nancy is doing now, from my own research i’ve found that she held a speech at UN in New York back in 2014 regarding her struggle with fgm. she’s an ambassador for an organisation for Women in her home country and i believe she’s in school aswell. though i cant find anything since 2018, her dream was to become a doctor at the time. :)) ah, and her full name is Nancy Tomee if you’d like to do your pwn research
@EK-ps4vk
@EK-ps4vk 6 лет назад
I believe in my heart that these men are perverts towards little girls! 15 years old and pregnant! Shame on them!
@rosettaglenn941
@rosettaglenn941 3 года назад
You are so right
@Isabeltherat
@Isabeltherat 3 года назад
rasta mandela please shut up
@maryanaking4743
@maryanaking4743 3 года назад
@@rastamandela981 you sound dumb what
@tamarab8821
@tamarab8821 3 года назад
@@rastamandela981 your sick
@user-of7pm1zb8k
@user-of7pm1zb8k 3 года назад
@@tamarab8821 what did she say? She deleted her comment
@hikawagetsbitches
@hikawagetsbitches 6 лет назад
They need to send these girls to good schools. They have the ideologies of people who can make changes.
@lucyulwa8286
@lucyulwa8286 6 лет назад
They are actually smart
@moniza6379
@moniza6379 6 лет назад
Queen Lucy they don’t act like it though
@wonhoscake1214
@wonhoscake1214 6 лет назад
Monika xx how
@kyqt4437
@kyqt4437 6 лет назад
Note by Note hhhh
@thymeforpclifelife4391
@thymeforpclifelife4391 6 лет назад
they don't have money for school education or community
@samanthabrooks505
@samanthabrooks505 2 года назад
15:14 "Why do you need a cow? It could easily die. You will milk education more than a cow" This girl is *sharp* 👏🙏
@SourStrawberrys
@SourStrawberrys 3 года назад
"I didn't go through labor pains to have my daughter be sold like that." I like how this mom is speaking up for her daughter. Unfortunately I think this was probally rare and you had more moms encouraging the act.
@KatGlos
@KatGlos 6 лет назад
That man disgusts me, wanting to mutilate his daughter for a can of beer!
@leeasmr9127
@leeasmr9127 6 лет назад
Kat That's not the case, he wants cows and cases of beer, which is wealthy, but still horrid
@qenn04
@qenn04 6 лет назад
LeeASMR honesty what difference does it make it'd still a humans pain for his gain isn't it? I hate that man.
@onyx6645
@onyx6645 4 года назад
@Alshamari Baha2 how?
@jelenatomic6543
@jelenatomic6543 4 года назад
@Alshamari Baha2 you are dumb
@maxxitee4761
@maxxitee4761 3 года назад
All he keeps talking about is dem beer....$2 a can in my country ...stupidity hiding behind culture
@xilver3
@xilver3 7 лет назад
The girl's argument to her mom is heartbreakingly on point.
@chrysolitelive994
@chrysolitelive994 3 года назад
Look hard for someone to cut as long as its not me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣! I LOVE this girl!!!!! A daughter like her would make parents proud if given an opportunity.
@vanessasimmons1175
@vanessasimmons1175 2 года назад
My aunt who lived in Africa ran the local girls group similar to guides. She said the young girls who were so happy would return days later broken and traumatised. It is unimaginable cruelty.
@jajafruit
@jajafruit 3 года назад
that speech nancy gave to her mother in the village about the cycle of abuse was far wise beyond her years. for her to even understand this in an isolated situation being in her village is profound. she truly is an old soul, sent with the mission of breaking this cycle and changing her village/the world. truly inspiring.
@DeedeeEntertainment
@DeedeeEntertainment 2 года назад
Totally agree, her natural wisdom, courage, and strength 💪 ✨ was inspiring to see!
@jasminahaverinen5759
@jasminahaverinen5759 2 года назад
She is a very smart young woman and she will go far in life! Not even the pathriarky can stand in her way.
@evondamakaroff2684
@evondamakaroff2684 2 года назад
I cringe at the "old soul" comment. It's as if Nancy couldn't possibly be thinking for her self in a deep and profound way, but needs the help of some phantom. She is an intelligent insightful young woman capable of her own thoughts.
@jajafruit
@jajafruit 2 года назад
@@evondamakaroff2684 no, she has lived in an isolated situation. she has only seen her village and culture. for her to understand there’s a better alternative, b. what that is, and c. the way that this cycle is abusive and keeps women trapped is profound. sure, she is very intelligent, but she is WISE beyond her years too.
@Hillarymaryy
@Hillarymaryy 2 года назад
@@evondamakaroff2684 yesss! I love this comment
@fritzajacquet6212
@fritzajacquet6212 6 лет назад
Nancy is a natural born leader i'm so inspired by her.
@CharlotteDonovan-ku3md
@CharlotteDonovan-ku3md 3 месяца назад
Nancy is so bright, intelligent and enlightened. If anyone deserves an education, it's her...
@lindseyt9948
@lindseyt9948 5 месяцев назад
Is there any update on these girls, would love a follow up on if she succeeded in her education and is doing well. I really hope she is ❤️
@travellingyeti6333
@travellingyeti6333 3 месяца назад
someone said this 6 years ago in the comments I'm proud to say that Nancy is a friend of mine. Nancy is now grown up and going further than her Pokot community to help fight cutting of girls. I met her at the UN Women's conference in New York where she spoke fiercely and passionately. She travels and speaks at conferences around the world. Last year she spoke at a seminar in London. She is now educated and speaks fluent English.
@kamilatea7533
@kamilatea7533 3 года назад
He doesn’t love his daughter He just wants what she can get for him
@Catitalaratoncita
@Catitalaratoncita 3 года назад
Luckily he changed
@howdy5025
@howdy5025 3 года назад
@@Catitalaratoncita what?
@carmenhill-curry2729
@carmenhill-curry2729 2 года назад
Far worse to educate his sons
@lubex3486
@lubex3486 Год назад
Death penalty is the only solution
@lajack6448
@lajack6448 3 года назад
All the nerves in that area..probably hurts worse than we can imagine
@RatsRatsIsthebest
@RatsRatsIsthebest 3 года назад
Im cringing so bad ouch
@elizabethabbott2982
@elizabethabbott2982 3 года назад
excruciating and then as has been said, childbirth is that much harder. awful
@susanmargaretwills6432
@susanmargaretwills6432 3 года назад
Exactly... I recently had to have a tiny intimate laser surgery with local anaesthetic - very brief but it gives one an insight into the dreadful suffering of these girls
@aegis5131
@aegis5131 3 года назад
@@susanmargaretwills6432 May I ask what that means?
@gsabo1000
@gsabo1000 3 года назад
My twot hurt from a baby. Only one tear. 4th degree. I can't even imagine what that pain would be
@TheCountrysideChannel
@TheCountrysideChannel 3 года назад
Gertrude and Nancy are very strong and courageous women, I love and respect their spirits
@McGee870
@McGee870 9 месяцев назад
So beautiful. Watching everyone celebrate the changes that are being made is amazing. Nancy felt so empowered by the end of this video. I gotta search for an update on her!
@jessicasance2357
@jessicasance2357 3 года назад
I am so proud to see women coming together to stop women’s mutilation against women! This “tradition” cannot be handed down any longer! You are a group of amazing women!
@filsanmohamed3266
@filsanmohamed3266 3 года назад
I wish i had the courage or even know that this is not right
@ihanakaunotar2741
@ihanakaunotar2741 2 года назад
Yes, same for boys, it needs to stop.
@neamhdhlisteanach6720
@neamhdhlisteanach6720 8 лет назад
That man does not treat his wife properly. I felt so sorry for her. She made the food for him and all he does is try and get his daughter mutilated. And for what? Cows and beer. This man is cruel. It may not be his fault, it's the culture, but even the way he treats his wife is terrible. This needs to be stopped. These poor women are abused and violated of their human rights.
@jensen1971x
@jensen1971x 8 лет назад
+Caroline Swift That's not abuse, dear, and she probably treats her husband even worse than he treats her.
@neamhdhlisteanach6720
@neamhdhlisteanach6720 8 лет назад
Troy Eppstein-women- not just her. and how does she?
@mikewilliams2687
@mikewilliams2687 8 лет назад
+Caroline Swift there's a lot to be said for a steak and a beer. j/k
@mikewilliams2687
@mikewilliams2687 8 лет назад
Fight back....from pics ive seen, they leave only peehole...no more sex at all?? WTF
@neamhdhlisteanach6720
@neamhdhlisteanach6720 8 лет назад
james williams Women get their sexual organs basically taken away there.
@buttermepancake3613
@buttermepancake3613 6 месяцев назад
I wrote a research paper on FGM is college. It being a "cultural practice" is not an excuse for this abuse. It's a violation of basic human rights, something everyone has.
@vhuthuhawemavhungu2466
@vhuthuhawemavhungu2466 3 года назад
The level of Narcissism thou
@elitadream
@elitadream 6 лет назад
This is without a doubt one of the most horrific and barbaric procedures ever invented. Those poor, poor young women. Just hearing about it makes me sick. I hate this senseless practice so much.
@isabellac5669
@isabellac5669 6 лет назад
elitadream Genital Mutilation is barbaric! The health of these young girls is seriously, and almost always effected forever after!!! I praise the women who are getting educated, and going back into their communities to work on this very significant issue! 🙏🏻
@skyletta0626
@skyletta0626 6 лет назад
"I care about my daughter" "I will be the laughing stock when everyone is enjoying their beers and cows" Wow. Tell me again about how you care. Kicking his wife out for not wanting her daughter to experience something he knows nothing about.
@loristhescorpi1108
@loristhescorpi1108 6 лет назад
Viktoreia ikr It pisses me off so much
@ChopYourSalad
@ChopYourSalad 6 лет назад
Your always gonna have people who are stubborn, ignorant, and uneducated.
@miss_treeliv8204
@miss_treeliv8204 6 лет назад
Did you watch the whole video? He changed his mind about it.
@lowkeylucio2588
@lowkeylucio2588 6 лет назад
Is this sarcastic?
@kasey1998d
@kasey1998d 5 лет назад
I don’t get why a guy would only want a cut female
@ohh4643
@ohh4643 Год назад
I’ve spent the last few hours watching everything I can find on this subject. It’s heart wrenching and I can’t believe how under-informed I were previously. Thank you to everyone sharing their stories, you are changing the lives of so many girls!
@TheReevessss
@TheReevessss Год назад
Poor girls. Forced. So horrific.
@claireeeehjk
@claireeeehjk 7 лет назад
It's so shameful how the father wanted his daughter to get cut all the way up until he was convinced if she got an education she could get them more money, discusting
@amandanightstar8012
@amandanightstar8012 6 лет назад
It's how they have been raised for generations, blame his ancestors that first started it
@wendydayz6673
@wendydayz6673 6 лет назад
Greed
@davinastanton3865
@davinastanton3865 6 лет назад
claire hobson No word's. 😢
@jessicaedits7343
@jessicaedits7343 6 лет назад
claire hobson ikr like wth all he worried about is wealth and money Respect to the mother at least she cared about her daughter health instead of wealth and money
@audreyhill3393
@audreyhill3393 6 лет назад
Yes it happens A lot in African Countries. Selling their daughters to the highest bidder in Asian. India. Afghanistan. Arab. Countries for A. Dowry. Shame
@leriahslife341
@leriahslife341 3 года назад
His daughter is the center of his world yet when it comes to a can of beer she means nothing
@RatsRatsIsthebest
@RatsRatsIsthebest 3 года назад
Omy
@howdy5025
@howdy5025 3 года назад
No. She’s not.
@howdy5025
@howdy5025 3 года назад
He doesn’t care about her
@naturesdaughter6341
@naturesdaughter6341 3 года назад
This brought me to tears. I am so proud of those young ladies for standing up to tradition🙌🙌🙌💪💪 many blessing🙏🙏
@syedanusratjahan6706
@syedanusratjahan6706 3 года назад
This is absolutely HORRIFYING and BARBARIC!!!
@infinity2864
@infinity2864 6 лет назад
“I didn’t have labor pains just so you could sell our daughter.” “You can not compare cows with education. You can milk education more than cows” I love these sayings. I hope that all the mums and dads everywhere where female genital mutilation is legal to stop practicing it, and supporting those who do. I hope they all got a great education and are happily married uncut. (Or single. Cause being single is cool too!)
@kathrinkanapathy5368
@kathrinkanapathy5368 Год назад
This husband who push his wife 😞😞I would put the food in his face😵
@brendadickson9583
@brendadickson9583 Год назад
Best mom
@brendadickson9583
@brendadickson9583 Год назад
@@kathrinkanapathy5368 she didn't care n he took the food again I was proud of her
@ASMRconKiki
@ASMRconKiki 6 лет назад
Choosing cows and beer and good over your daughter's health.. great job DAD!
@abc-jm2zq
@abc-jm2zq 6 лет назад
Hermetic Kitten if you are poor you may do same thing. They need cow in life to survive
@stan8489
@stan8489 6 лет назад
ab c If I had a child I wouldn't want them to suffer this kind of pain because I wanted presents.
@valentinaqueenofthevalkyri3128
It's the same here in America... I'm not shocked fr..
@bangtantrash4956
@bangtantrash4956 6 лет назад
But his DAUGHTER life???
@bangtantrash4956
@bangtantrash4956 6 лет назад
ab c bit HiS daughter LIFE??
@shirleesantiago8529
@shirleesantiago8529 3 месяца назад
What an amazing story. Im so proud of Nancy for speaking up for herself. I hope she was able to get her education and fulfill her dreams.
@Mariam-jy2rx
@Mariam-jy2rx 3 года назад
i was cut when i was 7 years old and had my first surgery in 2020 and The emotional pain is far worse than any physical pain.
@luisafrance1635
@luisafrance1635 3 года назад
Bless you. Courage mon chérie😘
@Mariam-jy2rx
@Mariam-jy2rx 3 года назад
@@luisafrance1635 thank you dear❤️ 🙏🏾
@marandaholley9760
@marandaholley9760 2 месяца назад
I cannot imagine the pain. How did you handle it. How did you lay there and endure it?
@crystalmorris215
@crystalmorris215 3 года назад
"We are now divorced." Run, woman! Run while you can!
@debraashilley1057
@debraashilley1057 2 года назад
Yes I am divorced😍✋,
@Unni_Havas
@Unni_Havas 2 года назад
She stays, because she still have to convince him to not cut their daughter. And she also have 2 younger boys too. A mother will endure just about anything for her kids.
@SRBOMBONICA86
@SRBOMBONICA86 2 года назад
@@Unni_Havas he told her to take the daughter with her
@fritnat
@fritnat 2 года назад
@@Unni_Havas Poor boys, they have no chance of saving themselves from the cut even if both parents and sister didn't want it, they'd still have no chance being up against the whole Kenyan society, the whole world and even Bill Gates and his $$!
@davidz2808
@davidz2808 3 года назад
Many parents need to understand that their kids aren't their possessions to do what they want with.
@deliciaford4343
@deliciaford4343 3 года назад
That's what I say when a baby is aborted. Just because they can't speak for themselves doesn't mean they shouldn't be heard and spoken up for.
@arfbark
@arfbark 3 года назад
@@deliciaford4343 They do when it comes at the expense of my body and finances. You do not get to inhabit my body just because you’re younger.
@mant8vaei314
@mant8vaei314 3 года назад
@@deliciaford4343 id rather be aborted than live like the girls in this video so I don’t agree 👍
@DeckerStarWhy
@DeckerStarWhy 3 года назад
@@deliciaford4343 we aren't talking about abortion. R u a boy? Do u even know how painful it is to go through pregnancy? Not everyone wants to go through that and they hv the right to abort the bby.
@hilarycolls9432
@hilarycolls9432 3 года назад
Even in the western world some parents treat their children as possessions for their own gratification.
@MsKambam
@MsKambam 4 месяца назад
Wow! These girls have so much bravery…the girl Nancy! My gosh! I don’t know where she got all her courage from at such a young age but it is so admirable!
@sandraforeman620
@sandraforeman620 Год назад
This is one custom that needs to go away. As a mother, I can't think of anything that would let my child suffer this!
@halonawagoner5019
@halonawagoner5019 3 года назад
I’m glad I was born in a country where we didn’t even know this existed💯🙏🏽
@queenlc2964
@queenlc2964 3 года назад
Its knowledge about your history. Never turn up your nose. If anything figure out a way to help change it. But the disrespect of saying what you've said. You mean the same country that tried & still trying to eliminate the black race? I think you need to take a look in the mirror re-evaluate you and your life & go talk to your elders for some wisdom. Bless up.
@alittleinfppanda
@alittleinfppanda 3 года назад
@@queenlc2964 I'm curious how you know where they are from.
@Melissaeguabor
@Melissaeguabor 3 года назад
Be greatful dear I was a victim
@nofinn1044
@nofinn1044 3 года назад
@@queenlc2964 Not everyone is British or American.
@ifyouroffendedsuckadonkeyd563
@ifyouroffendedsuckadonkeyd563 3 года назад
@@queenlc2964 you must listen to media to much
@CherryDolce93
@CherryDolce93 3 года назад
Nancy had incredible fortitude and tenacity - she never was fooled by her family’s constant guilt tripping - she stood up for what she believed in even though nobody stood with her - a truly inspirational woman
@shilohivy4590
@shilohivy4590 Год назад
This is terrifying and needs to end
@MonsterMacLLC
@MonsterMacLLC 3 года назад
Thank you so much for showing the ‘un-cut ting’ ceremony it is encouraging to see the adults participating in the alternative ceremonies since so many have followed opposite advice for so long. It’s so important to set a new example for the whole community.
@karlie8669
@karlie8669 6 лет назад
“I didn’t go through labor pains to have my daughter be sold like that” you go girl
@jada9469
@jada9469 6 лет назад
Nancy is badass.. her mother should be proud of how she stood up for herself
@natasha-sm9wi
@natasha-sm9wi Месяц назад
She was 100% right when she said "you can't compare education to cows. you will milk education more than cows"
@gailrenee3166
@gailrenee3166 Год назад
If you love your daughter, you’d NEVER ALLOW THIS!
@dezij5067
@dezij5067 6 лет назад
One day this girl will be on top of the world.
@prong5170
@prong5170 6 лет назад
Dez G not really. She will probably run a lil shitty shop or something
@Enigma241000
@Enigma241000 6 лет назад
Prong 5 apparently not. She travels the world as an advocate against FGM.
@PamelaNotAnderson
@PamelaNotAnderson 5 лет назад
Dez G unfortunately she won't be.. Love your positivity though... .
@PamelaNotAnderson
@PamelaNotAnderson 5 лет назад
Enigma241000 she does it for free!!!
@PamelaNotAnderson
@PamelaNotAnderson 5 лет назад
Kiwi Soul right. She lives in a man made shack with no clean water,air conditioning,or anything sanitary. She's a poor advocate. They gave her a new shirt for this video. Look at her teeth!!
@pickledbread2036
@pickledbread2036 3 года назад
Gertrude looked scared as her father was talking about the cows being returned. My heart broke for these kids.
@marlo9380
@marlo9380 2 года назад
This is absolutely heartbreaking 💔😢😔
@Joyparc
@Joyparc Год назад
I’m glad some of these girls are standing up and speaking out. This is outrageous
@bidkakhaki2737
@bidkakhaki2737 8 лет назад
am sooo proud of this girls, we as Kenyans hate this practice and we will continue supporting all girls during this season till its completely over
@bidkakhaki2737
@bidkakhaki2737 8 лет назад
brajamtho757​ we have men who don't get circumstanced in my country
@sarah98214
@sarah98214 8 лет назад
+brajamtho757 Um female mutilation or "circumcision" is the equivalent of male castration not circumcision. Also i dont know why you're bringing a separate issue into this why can't you just empathize with these victims instead of having to bring in other victims.
@sarah98214
@sarah98214 8 лет назад
You still havent told me what i said that was sexist? Also my husband was circumcised and im sorry if you were not given the choice..i assure you none of my boys will ever go through that but you still havent clarified what i said that was sexist?
@sarah98214
@sarah98214 8 лет назад
Um first off swearing and calling names as i stated before does not make what you say valid. If you dont believe them to be different then explain the procedures of both.
@sarah98214
@sarah98214 8 лет назад
But you dont believe anything i say...so it falls to you since you'll only say im lying. Mgm is the removal of the forskin on the penis. Fgm is the the removal of the inner labia and outer labia and the closure of the vulva which during child birth results in complications and high death rate as well as a host of problems such as recurrent infections, chronic pain, cysts, an inability to get pregnant, as stated before complications during childbirth and fatal bleeding.
@TheParamountPrincess
@TheParamountPrincess 10 лет назад
Nancy...RUN AWAY! RUN for your life Nancy girl!!! You dont have to get married. IF your calling is to be a Doctor.. then RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN to the nearest school!!
@sabenavey4306
@sabenavey4306 6 лет назад
Paramount YEEEESSSS SHE NEEDS RUN
@MrsDogLover
@MrsDogLover 6 лет назад
lol running wont do any good without finance
@cringyweeaboo9690
@cringyweeaboo9690 6 лет назад
sigh...she cant here you
@josephinenm7932
@josephinenm7932 6 лет назад
The schools are not free. She needs her parents to pay for her.
@johannajohannes1049
@johannajohannes1049 Год назад
I wish there was a follow up story on this
@Chantieslife
@Chantieslife Год назад
I was thinking the same thing...
@julietta_poli
@julietta_poli 3 года назад
Doctors: Sir, your daughter may die from infection, and will experience brutal pain during childbirth to follow, are you sure you want to proceed? I don't think it's worth it... The father: Yes, but the COWS
@berylakinyi826
@berylakinyi826 3 года назад
"Marry her off so that her brothers are educated using the dowry paid" wow
@filsanmohamed3266
@filsanmohamed3266 3 года назад
How barbaric
@ihanakaunotar2741
@ihanakaunotar2741 2 года назад
Women’s worth is only in marriage. Rest….not so much 😢
@Verybery7
@Verybery7 2 года назад
What the actual.......
@jessicaeaton3183
@jessicaeaton3183 6 лет назад
'You will milk education more that a cow!' WOW This young girl is smart and tough! She knows what she wants! I think her parents are fighting so hard to keep her out of school because they realize she is already smarter than all of them.
@ellespencer8563
@ellespencer8563 5 месяцев назад
What a brave open minded man to change his mind with all the societal pressure and shame that comes with going against the culture, facing shame. He chose sympathy and empathy for his daughter. Change is possible.
@madeleineupham9302
@madeleineupham9302 3 года назад
Im really proud of all those girls. And I'm proud of the parents who were able to change their minds and stick up for their daughters despite the cultural pressure and struggle
@cumensu
@cumensu 8 лет назад
Thank goodness for groups like Abandon the Knife! This is what Africa needs. We need our own advocates against cruelty who have an understanding of our cultures. Seeing the girls going to the alternative ceremony made my heart beam with gladness!
@xxdarkangelrockxx110
@xxdarkangelrockxx110 8 лет назад
+brajamtho757 It's their fathers fault. What parent mutilates his boy for no medical reasons???? I think male circumcision is pointless, if you don't have issues with your foreskin, like pain etc; as well with female circumcision.
@jensen1971x
@jensen1971x 8 лет назад
+kiitty katt "Their father's fault? Most male infant circumcision is done at the request of the mother, not the father.
@alt4374
@alt4374 6 лет назад
Yes. America and Europe need it too. Here if you are born intersex, they do the same things to them
@alisalauzon9291
@alisalauzon9291 6 лет назад
Thank goodness begain to make changes. So sad made me tear up.
@MichelleJ1822
@MichelleJ1822 3 года назад
I did a college paper on FGM And was completely horrified. I can’t imagine what these girls and women must feel going through this. It is completely barbaric
@quekalia-
@quekalia- 3 года назад
I thought this practice was band
@kennypaul4131
@kennypaul4131 3 года назад
@@quekalia- not in tribes. Have to be part of an established “colony” to be outlawed/banned. Like they’d care anyways.
@Cjanet87
@Cjanet87 3 года назад
Just like male circumcision is disgusting and inhumane!!!
@elizabethabbott2982
@elizabethabbott2982 3 года назад
exactly right
@lindseytchappi1329
@lindseytchappi1329 3 года назад
@@Cjanet87 Why are you under every comment mentioning this.... Like we know. Also there not the equivalent
@itzabeer5489
@itzabeer5489 Год назад
That's truly heartbreaking 💔
@MsAmique
@MsAmique 4 месяца назад
This still hurts, 12 years later.
@bronzerat012
@bronzerat012 8 лет назад
Strong girls standing up for their rights. I wish them all the luck in the world. May their parents realise their education and abilities will bring them and the community more riches than a few cows.
@amaeliadourden1187
@amaeliadourden1187 6 лет назад
brajamtho757 - tell your story & help us care!! When I had my son 17 years ago the government (of Canada) changed our OHIP coverage so that I would have had to pay for my son's circumcision which made me think it through a little more and do some research on whether it was actually needed... after I learned the truth I decided not to get him circumsized. Even though I was pressured to follow the "societal norm" by my family I refused to follow our Christian tradition that had no actual benefit. Many people told me why I was wrong, and I told them the facts on why I was right. Only education will help people change their minds, not your anger.
@tinkerbellspixiedust8820
@tinkerbellspixiedust8820 6 лет назад
+brajamtho757 Ummm, male genital mutilation is not as severe as female, both the pain and how it looks afterwards, there are no benefits to do it to women, even if it's just for the looks...it doesn't make any of it right of course, no matter what gender..
@f.u.c.ki.t8052
@f.u.c.ki.t8052 6 лет назад
+Amaelia Do'Urden no men here in lreland have that done l see no need for it at all, fair play to you going up against societys crazy rules
@joycip1785
@joycip1785 6 лет назад
Amen
@dannynicastro3207
@dannynicastro3207 6 лет назад
Amaelia Do'Urden not wrong...horvever you have to admit male circumcision and female circumcision are two very separate very different procedures, done for different reasons. A baby boy getting circumcised, or a young or older adult for that matter is NOT mutilation, as female circumcision is. Anyway, GOOD luck n God bless.
@mariem8683
@mariem8683 6 лет назад
"At times they even die suddenly." I wounder why...
@masterkipchumba5274
@masterkipchumba5274 4 года назад
heart attaCK,Trauma excess bleeding
@traceeseventyone9040
@traceeseventyone9040 3 года назад
I think it was a rhetorical question
@rahthuggin72
@rahthuggin72 3 года назад
Yeah and they get shock
@skylafarrell5527
@skylafarrell5527 3 года назад
It's the parents fault they should get pit in jail or end it any way possible never heard of this
@armanismypersona5134
@armanismypersona5134 3 года назад
I said the same thing
@ireneespinosa3476
@ireneespinosa3476 2 года назад
This video made me cry 😢😭 I am so proud of these people and the heroe Nancy, they made a big change for all those girls and the community. Humble prayers for everyone 🙏
@rebeccaleary2
@rebeccaleary2 2 года назад
"You can't compare education to cows. You will milk education more than a cow." That's a very smart girl, mom.
@carlyservais7949
@carlyservais7949 9 лет назад
that girl is so educated with her words and has such a strong will. She is truly amazing. I love how she said something like with cows and milking education and what not. She is so intelligent
@mssburr
@mssburr 6 лет назад
If they forced cut me... I would poison my husbands food. And fully castrate my husband in his sleep... balls and penis...And I would tell my father I hope the beer and cow was worth his manhood... and I would leave hidden messages to all the girls in the village...to tell thier fathers you will do the same if you are cut... no man will want to marry you... and you can finish school.... get your own job.. and choose to marry someone educated....
@sereenarc
@sereenarc 6 лет назад
"Boys and Girls are equals" I NEED TO MEET THIS GIRL
@Droze-gj4zw
@Droze-gj4zw 6 лет назад
Sereen right
@bigbruddah4876
@bigbruddah4876 6 лет назад
Feminist?
@MegaWilldias
@MegaWilldias 5 лет назад
@@Yt26_ You are probably a man to say such thing
@jelenatomic6543
@jelenatomic6543 4 года назад
@@Yt26_ you have no heart . You are probably laughing at the fact that most girls live in pain after this
@jemarlynmaginhawa-li5rk
@jemarlynmaginhawa-li5rk 3 месяца назад
Exactly boys and girls are equal
@jennypalmer331
@jennypalmer331 Год назад
Very very brave girls for standing so firm. I had never seen what it was like after the cutting. I was horrified and also the side effects they would have to endure during life and birth. So glad I watched this
@shaywilliams4091
@shaywilliams4091 3 года назад
Thankful every day 🙏 I never had to go through this..
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