What should you do if your friend is 10 years old but acts like a 7 year old and shes super annoying because we had a fight and she is stubborn. She is so rude, and she tries to steal your friends. Pls, do something close to this. Cause I am having a problem.
@@evazoulghina1557 it sounds like this person isn’t a great friend and I would suggest only putting your energy and focus into friends that want to be a good friend to you 💕
I am just so afraid to lose my bestie.. But I really dont know if she wants to keep the friendship or not ,, also we havent talked for few days , what should i do
@@yashsvisharma2555 watch my video on what to do when you fight with your BFF and then do your part to Make it right but after that you have to give them the chance to show you they want to keep the friendship alive. And if they don’t then you know they aren’t the BFF you are after
I literally tore my friends heart to pieces without even realising it and what's worse is that instead of going to her and making up for it, I just created distance between us in an attempt to give her space and now it's been such a long time and she has forgiven me but can't love me the same anymore, and I understand that and respect that but at the same time I want to try atleast to rebuild what I've lost and I'm at such a loss, any tips?
Thank you so much for your video. I am a woman in my 50s I just came across it on RU-vid and I’m having a rough time with my friend who is in her early 60s. I think she’s having a life style change. We had a couple of falling out, and I followed your advice and it worked. Thank you so much I know this is meant towards younger people, but at any age we could get advice-to repair friendships thank you so much it helped us❤ We have almost a 30 year friendship and I plan to move to another state to be with my sister and her family. I don’t want lose her friendship before I consider the move. Thank you for your help and your life coaching. It saved our friendship.
Ive tried to apologise to them it was an argument between me and my 2 best friends I apologise to one and tried apologising to the other person but they said I don't want your fake apology. This is probably the biggest argument we've ever had and I wish I could take it all back 😕
I'm 62 years old. My friend and I are not in a fight, but she seems to be ghosting me a little. This video totally answered how to handle this sitch. 👏🏼
I love my bestfriend but sometimes she can be to much. She becomes distant. Then I’ll always have to be the one to apologise when I don’t even start the argument. I left everybody for her because if I hang out with somebody else she’d argue with me non stop. Which is unfair because I don’t even care abt her friends and she gets to talk to somebody when she becomes distant
Thank you soo much for this! I had a big fight with my bff and I thought I would never bring myself to face her again. This really restored my faith in saving my friendship. QwQ 👍
When they said they don’t care if it’s a misunderstanding and won’t forgive you because it really hurt them..then say they’ll talk to you after 2 weeks..but don’t get mad at other people in your friend group who did exactly the same thing
Me and a person who I used call best friend had a little fight in DMs and she actually started I just didn’t want to continue the fight so I ended it by the we we had much larger fights and that one was just a little and I was never wrong like she started it and offended me so I said in my heart I will forgive her if she apologized so my birthday was next week and I thought she would definitely send me a happy birthday message but she didn’t so I send to her I’m mad at you how you didn’t send me a happy birthday *for me that was a big deal* and she never answered, stopped seeing my stories and eventually unfollowed me. she’s like suddenly cut me off of her life with no reason I still don’t know the reason why she did this like before that I thought we’re definitely bestfriends and we known each other for some long time and even couldn’t think of anything bad I did to her so she does this to me it’s like she’s another person why would she do this I still don’t know I am so mad at her behavior ao I’m trying to let go of her in my mind but sometimes this makes me anxious and trying to deal with it in my own I remember how we used to be and what she did to me is such a horrible thing at least you can break up with me by saying you did this or whatever reason but to stop talking to me and ignoring me for no reason I’m speechless.
I am 10 years old I have a very big fight that I told the teacher that my BFF is talking rudely so the fight starts it was from December to March at the last day of my school i make up her
When i was 9 I learned what you fighting with your friends actually was, me and them also used to get into small fights, but this one was more than small. We all have been friends for 2years when I was 9, when this fight happened we needed big breaks, but my friend lost her controller so she couldn’t play with us so she stopped calling for a bit then my other friend left cause she also needed a break so I was sooo mixed up with my emotions I just screamed in all caps “ IM DONE “ and I left all of our groups for a week, they added me a week later and we were still mad but we were cooling down. but we still didn’t fully apologize so my other friend left and then I was just stressed I got huge anxiety and I was pretty anxious so I just ghosted them for a month which was a horrible idea, so they were mad at me so I was sad so I made the most important call with my friends in my life. We were there on that call for 5 hours explaining and breaking down this fight. Even after the call, I was still a little bit mad so I left for a day and then I apologized and explained that I was still so mixed up, they forgave me, and we moved on. And I am still a bit salty till this day. Lol😊
Thank you for the good advice it made. Me feel a little better...cos I did a prank on my friend and it went wrong an now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore i tried everything already but now I'm just gonna give him some space
I hate having the guilty feeling of even though it seems like you’ve resolved it in your heart you still feel guilty of fighting with each other and it always just feels so awful and it always creeps into your mind more and more and then you just don’t know what to say to them
I have a different situation everytime I introduce 2 friends they always find a way to fight. And no I'm not talking about the same people I'm talking about different people in different periods of time. It's almost as if history is repeating itself. Im always forced to pick sides which is getting frustrating I just wanna hang but instead get caught in these drama I want all of my friends to get along.
im the opposite. im really jealous of a girl in my friend group and my other friend said she didn’t appreciate my jealousy towards her. i think shes mad at me
My friend started an argument because I said I bit my nail too far and she keeps ignoring me and I keep apologising even though it wasn't my fault. Any tips to get them to respond?
What do I do if my best friend keeps on talking about the past where I bullied her? I highly regret all that and I have apologized so many times all ready. .
It depends on how you bullied her or more specifically what you did. You could have emotionally scared her in a way that is not easy to recover from. I disagree with the idea of “tell her to move on” because if what you did was really bad then trying to force growth into a person who’s traumatized will only create further resentment. I suggest go out of your way to do things for her that show how much you’ve changed and the type of friend you’re willing to be for her. Along with letting time heal her. The key to healing trauma like bullying is time. So you need to be patient and focus on improving yourself that way you’ll never be that person ever again.
My friend doesn’t want to accept my apologies (I said sorry by text) , she wants to be distant and have some space for a while….I hate myself…I loved her too much…I feel so bad….maybe I was toxic for her…I want to talk to her in person but now she is too mad…she even changed seat…. How many time I need to wait? I heard few months or weeks….I feel so bad
I had a fight with my girl best friend and am feeling so restless afterwards…I can say the fault was mine as I reacted in an absurd way in the heat of moment. I did realise immediately and even apologised, but by that time she started to speak and mentioned some instances where she got hurt because of me and I was completely clueless. I really hope she understands what I want for her and I don’t wanna lose her. She is the best person I could ever have and I would do anything to save our friendship.
I had a massive argument with my whole friend group of 5 they all turned against me and one of them started ignoring me for no reason so I asked why and she just bluntly said “coz I don’t want to be friends with you” that shattered my heart, all the others are just mad at me I have two other friends but they are in different friend groups which are so different to me and none of them are in my class, so idk what to do rn, I want to talk to them again but I don’t feel like I can I rlly don’t like them anymore but we had such good times together and I don’t wanna be lonely- my final exams are coming up in 4 weeks so I’m just waiting until they finish and I can just drop them but I need someone rn😫
Rough draft: Dear --- you’ve been in your emotions for awhile I’m here for you and I’m sorry for not giving you your space and respect your privacy but Ty for trusting me and I’ll be here whenever you need me ❤
the problem is I have a friend who’s like really amazing but she heard that I had a crush on her,wich isn’t true.so we started ignoring each other but I miss her and idk how to show her I care without her thinking I have a huge crush on her
I really don’t know what to do.. my best friend and I had a huge fight.. she borrowed my car and was going to bring it back to me. She said she was on her way, so I calculated it would take 20 min. After 15 min I asked her how far she was.. she didn’t repond so I FaceTimed her 2 times, but she didn’t answer. After another 10 min I haven’t heard from he, I asked her at what time she would be at my place, so I would be ready and dressed.. she didn’t answer, and I FaceTimed another time, but no response. After 15 min, I called her and she picked up and only said 5 min. When she came we got into a huge fight. I saw that the seat was placed weird, so I asked who sat there, and she answered. Then I said oh that is why you were late, and weren’t picking up. And then she started screaming that she doesn’t need to be accountability. And then I started screaming that she could communicate with me. And she got out the car, she called someone else to pick her up. It was so heavy. The next day I apologized, but she says whatever, leave me alone. And then I apologized for yelling at her and she says she doesn’t need to be accountable to me and that she is not a child and I went to far and I need to leave her alone. Idk what to do, I miss her.. I don’t understand why she is so mad at me.. I really don’t know what to do..
so me and my friend called and had a lot of fun 2 days ago but yesterday I texted her hello asking if she could call and she saw my message and ignored it and today I called her up she declined the call and said she was busy in a very dry way. now im worried she's mad at me and I don't have the braveness to ask her if she is. she is one of my best friends and we've been friends for years.
Hi Abbi, I went to a Social event yesterday to meet up with my best friend. My friend’s mom asked her not to hang out with her Ex-Boyfriend. I Try followed her mom directions. But she does not want to follow her mom's directions. That's how we were fighting. I am her Best Friend I know what is right for her. Is there any way I can make it up? What should I do? Please help me.
Always do what you feel is right and let your standards be known. But you also have to know your BFF is going to do what she wants to do. So just have a calm conversation about it and clearly state your boundaries then let her act for herself. That might look like this “hey BFF I love you and I want to also respect what your mom asked so when you are with me we can’t hangout with your ex boyfriend.”
What do I do if my.. well.. old friend now- is struggling with family problems which has a huge impact on his mental health and keeps being mean. I tried to support him but we've argued so much for his nonsensical tantrums that I decided to stop this right here. But it didnt mean that he was was bad 24/7. We actually had a lot of fun since 2018 and to know that we'll probably never bound again scares me so much. For 12 whole months i ignored this feeling. Until it resurfaced and hit me in the face. I miss him so much.
What you should do give space say sorry for what you did do don't over do it do once or twice but different peoriods of time this is what happened to me ask for forgiveness but let space its gonna be fine just give time and invite them to somewhere to hangout and talk about it
We haven't talked in like a week... This was probably the biggest fight we've had so far.... Just how much time would it take to get things back to normal?
It’s a bit confusing to me when it’s said folks should only apologise for things that are their fault. What if a friend is hurt because they misread my words or actions? Should I not apologise for how my words/actions might have come across?
This same thing happened to me, but I took responsibility for how it may have affected her to be the bigger person. It didn’t work unfortunately, she distanced herself, but at least I left it off accepting my part in the conflict
I apologized for what I did to offend some friends. Then went home and felt I let myself down for taking the full blame that wasn’t that serious. So I sent a detailed text explaining my feelings and it backfired! Now they are against me. How do I fix it? Is it worth fixing? IT’s coworkers
I had a fight with a friend and it major my bc she had sole personal issues and I thought I can help by telling someone and they ended up being pissed at me. We’re roaming much lately and I feel like our friendship is at a stand still. How long should I give them space? I know if I try to ask them to talk in person, they would definitely avoid that bc I betrayed their trust bc they never told ANYONE about their problems. I really feel bad
I didn't show up to my best friend's show. We had this massive fight and I felt really guilty about it. I couldn't figure out why I didn't go though, which made no sense.
I want to reconcile with a friend I haven’t talked to for almost a year and a half. We made mistakes without realizing it and I have a difficult time getting a hold of him. I think he changed his number and logged out of his social media accounts. I really want to make things right with him. We were so close. Female drama got in our way. I been fearing he’s gonna say no. He tried texting me last year asking to he friends again. But he unsent the message. I don’t know if that’s a sign he changed his mind or he was scared I was gonna reject it. This hurts
Hopefully, this'll help me with my best friend cause she is very mad at me for letting my emotions get the better of me (which doesn't happen very often) I just want to make amends and save our friendship cause we are close (not the dating kind of close, we're more like always there for each other kind of close) I just hope that she allows me to save our friendship before it gets to late but I fear that it might be too late for me to save our friendship. She's a truly wonderful and awesome friend that I want to keep cause she's always been there for me and I've always been there for her
Thanks, my 2 best friends and me keep fighting for no reason at all, and one of them always keeps the fight going on. We know the problem, but we dont know how to fix it, and we are trying by only 2 people can voice chat at once, but its not working out well, I have nothing to do, my computers broken, and when I join vc just to talk, they say “leave” or, “hey (insert other friends name) join (server that only they are on)”.
I had a fight with my bestie...actually i was the one who started it saying that 'Iam not good enough for u...u deserve someone better'But now i regret it...id want to lose her...and also i don't know how to make it up to her rn....Do U have any advice??
First, stop putting yourself down. That doesn’t help a friendship because it makes the other person feel like they have to carry you. Clean up your convo, be a good friend and show up happy and positive
i have 4 friend online, we met each others 2-4 years ago, and we kept arguring, forgiveness, argueing, forgiveness over and over for many years and now, idk what to do in this situation i've lose all of my friend now im about to lose another its just hurting me so much my friend dont even take another apologies
It's so much worse when you had a fight over a phone call/text and they live far away, so you can't meet them so easily. And they just block you everywhere and don't wanna talk to you. 😭 What should I do any advice?
thats happened to me when i was around 13 and she blocked me everywhere, i had to forcibly move on even tho i knew her for 2 years because there was no way to contact her, she even got me banned on a server on a game we used to play together. After about 6 months she unblocked me on messenger and contacted me on her own saying shes sorry and that we should start over. I dont really remember why we fought and it happened 3 years ago. We had a fight yesterday and shes not talking to me again and said she needs like a week but im scared that she wont talk to me longer. What im saying is that it needs time and try to forget about it because crying the whole week wont get anywhere and when you move on and they text you after fer months you wont be so emotional and probably annoy them even more
soo i have a.. situation .. and i need some advice so, my friend gracie likes avatar. but it's not an obsession. i sent her this funny avatar costume as a joke and she kept getting rlly annoyed and i tried to tell her it was a joke and all she did was deny it and argue with me. and then kaylie showed up and defended her even though i did nothing and they've always talked bad about me behind my bad, been rude to me for now reason, left me out, and talked negative about me to my face for no reason. i have given them a lot of second chances and i'm starting to get tired.. but i'm an introvert and i don't rlly have any friends so i'm scared to lose them even though they aren't really the "best" friends. i've been crying for like three hours now just bc they made an argument about an AVATAR joke. and i really don't know what to do bc my life has been really sucky lately and my family might move and i'm really hoping we can bc i hate everyone here and i just want to get away and start over.. and i tried to apologize to them over and over and over and tried to them that i didn't know gracie didn't like literal avatar jokes. and just so you know, i always joked with her abt it and she always laughed. JUST NOW she's saying she doesn't like it for no reason.. and it's super confusing bc i don't know what to do and i don't know if i should just let them go or give them a fiftieth chance.. please help and then they said they were going to block me bc they "didn't want to argue" even though they started it and kept making such a big deal out of an avatar joke... an AVATAR JOKE?! like seriously....
What if I already apologized in text and now what do I do should I still apologize in person when I see her? I feel if I give you the full detail in dms u could help better I am a teen
Wish I had a friend. I only know people but I dont have anyone I can call and count on them and tell them my secrets or share memories. 😢 i do things alone, luckily I have two dogs 😊
It's hard for me because whenever I invite her to a party. And I invite my other two friends. She talks to them way more than me. I AM 23 years old and she is 29 years old. I like her. I don't like how being treated. How can I fix this to get her to talk to me more And have her be more happy to hang around with me more
Hey, I had a problem with my really great best friend. We’re online friends (we trust each other fully. We know what we look like, etc) So my cousin had taken my phone and had texted him and my other friend a bunch of things. Majority of them were mean. My friend is mad at me because he knows I would forgive him too easily for something so mean. He’s not mad at me, but he’s severely mad at my cousin. He’s really mad, what should I do? Please help
I just don't call them anymore, simple friendships can go too far. fighting with someone usually they take it badly or take it too far like, spreading all of your secrets to everyone, spread rumors about you it's like having a lost child. I'd just let it go
Uhm Im not a friendly person in school but There was a good person who became my one and only friend at school. One day i Broke her trust to me. AND THERE WAS A CIRCLE OF FRIENDS that is closing my BESTFRIEND. Now she's already influenced by tat circle of friends. NOW Im alone and Have no friends at school again. It always makes me sad when I remember our old memories and I cannot move one😢 I always Cry everytime I see my bestfriend in our classroom. I wanted to move on because In always concerned to her but she already forget about me because I broke her trust and she already have a lot of new FRIENDS😅😭 How to move on?
Hi! I need help, because me and my bestfriend are literally fighting right now,well not a huge fight but it's like a misunderstanding,how can I apologize to my friend if she mis-understood my joke? I really need to fix this,like ASAP
Me and my friend had a pretty short fight but we did say some hard words! I started it and i know that it was a mistake i misunderstood something and we fought because of that IT WAS my fault, but then he said some pretty harsh words and broke my heart.. I cried the whole day and just thought how can i say sorry how can i say sorry..
I told my friend's best friend dumb without knowing and now she has blocked in both discord and WhatsApp. I apologised to her but she told me " Your stupid worries won't work" then she just blocked me. Pls help me out
After coming from vication my friend stop talking with me and say that they don't like something about me I am not rude either I tried to change . but they still don't talk to me . What shall I do??
Maybe say like Hey? I know it's been a while since the last time we talked but I just came on here to message you to apologise, I'm really sorry I want to fix our friendship, I really miss you and the memories we created that I really treasured, you're one of the most important people in my life I hope we could still be friends
I tried to apologize about that thing that I did in the past that my bestie suddenly brought up but she just kept on telling me that I ignore her and you know what I HATE HER
my best friend is very angry with me for I meet another friends.....she always like this and I also really get angry....I can't even take a picture with another friends. She is really jealous...when I say PLEASE DON'T BE ANGRY she says I DON'T CARE.....I am really sad...but I don't want to angry with her....what can I do for friend with her.....then I was send msg to her on Instagram then she says DON'T SEND MESSEGES TO MEEE and she is the only child in her family and I think that is the main reason for her selfish....I am really really sad and I am about to cry …what can I do for this?
Hey!! I really loved ur video!!.....I need one advice from u!!.....I really put so much efforts or I can say I was the only one who has put effort but she is saying that she needs some 3-4 month time!!....And it genuinely feels like I am the only one who cares and who values our friendship!!....Like it makes me feel like I m the only one who needs her!!.....she doesn't need me ??.....Or I don't know if I am overthinking about this but I don't know what to do!!!
Hello! Relationships can only grow when both people are contributing and if she really does want space and you feel they don’t care as much, I’d focus on creating new friendships with other people. Be kind but distant, and work on finding friends that love and value you and want this friendship as much as you do
Hloo sis.....me and my frnd I like her sooo much she is my best best best frnd ever but she used to not communicate with me for few years I said sorry so many tyms but she is not responding iam getting mentally depressed about could u tell me any solution for that plz I want her back into my life.......
I don't know what to do... This is the third time we happened to fight and I said sorry last time coz knew it was my mistake last time .... But now it really hurts my pride to say sorry ... I think it wasn't my mistake.... She just stopped talking to me over this thing.... I just don't want to lose her ... Or maybe ruin my last year of high school over this small thing... I don't know how to start the convo ... Actually we are group of three friends but this girl is literally not doing anything to solve this instead.... she is just okay about it i mean what is she thinking 🧐 ...
what happended in my life was my friend was getting mad that i was hanging out with other people that i didn,t know irl and i asked him to talk with me and my other friend that i know from online and he hates the guy and then he said WELP GUESS I WON,T TALK TO YOU ANYMORE and that really hurt me
I want them to apologize They started it by saying «I» Was mean to her friend when i didnt talk to him then she says Words like «ur such a pick me» or «u only think about ur self» Then she said Who my crush is when i never said any of her secrets😕
I feel like I’m overly negative about everything and it leads me to criticize the people around me. It makes me a shitty friend a lot of the time bc I just pick on people for every little thing I see wrong. I need to be better for the people I love.
I had a fight right now with my friend when we was chatting and i said "I DONT NEED Y OU IN MY LIFE!" and now i feel sorry and i feel guilty and i feel like i should neve said that😢😢😢
Thanks but i want to apologise to my friend but i have a gut feeling she is fake but we had a really big fight and she took screenshots and everything, i feel like i should maybe apologise but i already feel like i said the wrong thing and it was texting i am really upset
She's just so mad at me that she said I give more importance to other friends and not my bestie.This upsets me a lot where you know I kinda treat every of my friends in the same way and Im just so close to my bestie like so attached.She got angry and said "oh yea go to those who treats you better than me " been a week since the fight and we did not talk untill today and I'm planning on to give a message about meeting in a person and yes by following all your tips in the video.Will that be a great idea?
Sometimes when it comes to fights that are unfounded or fighting about things that aren't real like the idea that you don't love your BFF enough, don't give it too much drama or worry time. Just set the facts straight "I love you BFF and think you are amazing." and then keep acting and showing up like a good BFF
@@AbbiWinslow Thank you but she spending her time with her friends I'm not worrying but yea who is she not responding my one message I sent to her lastly?Is she trying to forget me or I'm just overthinking?It's been more than a week now should I give it a time ?
@@kesoneanair9418 seeing it now! Sounds like she doesn’t want to be friends, so respect her agency and find people that will treat you like you deserve babe!
@@AbbiWinslow I RECEIVED A TEXT RIGHT AFTER SEEING YOUR REPLY.WE HAVE START ED BACK KK. ...I lost hope reading your reply and then the magic just happened.Im so happy!
I tried this then I sent it to them to show what I thought and they refused to write this 30 minutes later they blocked me was this just another fake friend?
I got into a fight with my friend today and I apologized a lot but she won’t respond to my texts now. I made gifts for my friends before the fight but I think if I give them to my friends tmr it’ll seem like I just bought it because of the fight and I wanna give them gifts to make up.
There are two people. Let’s call them Amelia and Ellie. Me, Amelia and Ellie were all friends. But then my and Amelia were trying to have a serious conversation when Ellie interupted. Next thing I know we are all fighting. That afternoon, a texted Amelia and we made up. But I didn’t have Ellie’s number so never got to make up with her. The next day me and Amelia were trying to work things out with Ellie, but she said that I made everything about myself. Amelia sided with her, and they were both yelling at me for “expecting everyone to worship me” Amelia was saying how she agreed and that she wished it was just her and Ellie. I was really confused because she’s is the same person who two weeks ago told me she would do anything for me and I was her best friend. I never suspected anything like this could happen. Then they both shamed me for having trust issues from a previous friendship. I have them space for a few days, before texting Amelia for Ellie’s number so we could all talk about things on a group chat. I don’t really know where things went wrong, but Amelia said I was trying to break her and Ellie apart, and that I was an abuser and lives hurting people. She wanted to know if I really cared about her or just wanted attention. I tried to explain that I do care about her. i apologized for the fact she feels that way, but it ended up with her telling me to fuck off. That were we left things. I need help, any tips?
i tried making a move on one of my good friends and i failed. i apologized and made it known that i just wanted to still be friends but we are still super distant. what should i do
