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Your guest is in reality, a "hunting girl", posing as a tour guide. While I agree with your non judgemental summary that morality and economic reality often make for strange bedfellows.... My advice to any foreigner looking for a serious long term relationship, is to stay far away from a cynical women who judges a guy based on what he can financially give her.... If you want that... buy American ! :)
@@nickspence6233 pffft there is a reason why the number of men looking for wives overseas has exploded in the usa. Have you SEEN what women expect a man to make now for him to be competitive in the dating scene?
Here again is why I like your interviews so much. The kindness and respect you show to everyone you've had on really shows through! Take good care, Pea!
@@Maurice181 What exactly is doubtful? Thats more than double the monthly average wage. That doesn’t include free travel and food the whole time plus tips. 😂
I did a few days with a bar girl one trip. She had a scooter. I covered the expenses and we enjoyed each others company. She saved me so much money negotiating and making sure I wasn’t overpaying. It’s a win-win.
This young lady is to be admired for her honesty, initiative and ingenuity. I wish her nothing but the best and I do hope that she finds her 'prince charming' soon. As for you, Miss Pea, watching you and how you conduct your interviews and how you weave your magic always leaves me with a smile. God did great work when he made you. I wish you only happiness.
50% is a No No. I have literally met hundreds of "tour guides" and/or "girlfriends" who asked for a down payment and then, block me after receiving the money. So down payment is a red flag for me . No excuses. I can meet her near her place if she wants a piece of mind or to lessen her risk if she thinks i would stand her up.
assuming each person is about 1.5k - 2k a day since she said she earns 10k in a week and depend if she works 5-6 days. Im assuming the 50% would be about 750 - 1k which still isnt small money from philippines view. I would get it if it's 10% instead of 50%. crazy how they asking for 50% instead of 5% - 10%
Hundreds of them? really. You must be stuped or something. If you are looking escort maybe you need to find one, not tour guides. Go somewhere you can find those hookers you want to have.
@@TheFilipinaPeaSharp? She seems clueless. She'll never go to college because her family needs money. And the partner she is looking for will want her to stop hooking... and again: where's the money coming from. He'll run. This girl is incapable of looking 2 weeks or more into the future.
Pea, I like the fact that Mae said that she would tell her future mate about her past. Because, if she doesn't it can come back and ruin their relationship.
May seems like a really good person, sweet, very honest & would make a very good tour guide as long as her loyalties are to the clients best interest. I hope her the best in her future and she finishes college & finds a good guy that can treat her right. As for our little miss pea, we all know you are the best that the philippines has to offer.
A simp will treat her like a princess, after all the Goku anime with hundreds of tourists. But a real man will put her in her place, if she ever gets one for steady. And she will prefer him over a simp
@@ScooterOnHisWay2024 Let people giving opinions instead of pretending to be smart: It doesn't say at any silaba that she has not the right to do or to be whatever she wants to be. Go and end your prime years of schooling instead of just spitting out nonsense little kids garbage.
@@grandadan Yawn. Keep judging more. I am sure it makes you feel really good. This lady is doing just fine w/o your lame input or advice. Stay self righteous and feeling good about yourself though, grandpa!
You are such an even-handed interviewer, Pea. Very well done. Whenever I am tempted to judge, I remember that I have not walked in her shoes. Heck, I don't even know her shoe size!!! Empathy always beats judgementalism.
@@zorbakaput8537 I'm willing to bet that government officials are the most frequent customers of the oldest profession, yet they are the loudest voice against it.
Real common in all sorts of jobs. Back when I was single I was always looking for a house cleaner. Half offered "bonus services" but seriously, all I wanted was a clean house. Never took them up on the bonus offer and those who offered were surprised that I just wanted a clean house. Crazy.
@@johnyork5121 Sunglasses is hardly a disguise, the hair looked real and you could tell she was slim. She should have left details in the info section but she probably doesn't own the website so her direct details would have been better.
Pea can't give this girl's contact details to viewers, that could land Pea in legal trouble. She can just do informative interviews and that's it. (Even normal matchmaking for normal dating could cause legal trouble.)
Great idea. Tour guide is one thing. Having someone help you get oriented and drive you to places you want to see and just generally get you moving with some sort of purpose. It would be like a friend picking you up at the airport and showing you the sights. So much better than a 'tour' like you might do with 50 other people on a bus. I would do this.
I’m a 77 yr. old man. My life experience has taught me that we all comprise our integrity at various times in our life. None of us are total angels. Your interviewee doesn’t hurt anyone , and in fact brings extra happiness and companionship into the world. In addition she uses much of her money to take care of her family. If she were my friend , I would be proud to know her !
I have no issues with what she is doing. Her main focus is showing people the sites, take care of the transportation and all. When options are few to none, you sometimes have to maximize opportunities. Having someone who can avoid the scammers and cut through the red tape or issues of protocol can be extremely valuable. I wish the best for May and women like her.
Great interview Pea. May is super cute, cool, open, honest and let's not forget, she is supporting her family too. She knows her limits and sets her own boundaries in a mature and sensible way. Fair play to you May !
She does what she has to do for her survival. She seems like a very nice young lady and I wish her all the best and if ever I require a tour guide I will look her up.
If she meets her Prince Charming, does he have a right to know? Do you think Prince Charming will think "what she's doing is fine?" I agree it's entirely her choice. But her belief that she's worthy of a Prince Charming is almost laughable.
@@vesubioromo9425….why? If you have a high body count, why can’t she? If you’re looking for someone to be your submissive slave and be a virgin that you will have to teach everything to, you’re babysitting.
I once used a "tour guide" service in Manilla called A GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE. First thing she said to me when we met at the Restobar was "You're late, were you barhopping with another tour guide"? She gave me tampo the rest of the night & I had to sleep on the couch. Probing interview. Thanx Pea!!
@@TheFilipinaPeaand imagine why the # metoo movement is being abused. Trust me. Most women are willing like her . I even made two thesis papers on prostitution. And both have the same conclusion. The women are not in a pitiful situation. They love the job. Imagine travelling for free , free hotel , free food , have fun in bed , and you get paid. That's a perfect job
@@stanlysteemer4872while I think it’s true, that a lot of men try too hard online, I never understood why a high body count, for men, is cool, but if a woman chooses to make a living from it, then suddenly it’s a problem…
i did that in Cebu a couple years ago, she was a walker i hired her to take me around to fort San Pedro and the Magellan cross. it worked out very well for both of us. she got several meals paid for. and money for her family in Bohol i was able to get around the city , and avoid the crocodile taxi drivers we parted ways on good terms and i still wish her well. .
@@TheFilipinaPea all true, when i got back with the family in Davao, they all told me i am street smart to not travel around alone in Cebu, just being honest here.
@@johnnypastrana6727 Grab should still be cheaper. Grab purchased Uber's Philippine division. Download the app and check, if you are in Cebu. I can tell you that in Metro Manila, taxis have meters too but they often don't use them. Taxis just kind of tell you what they want to charge yo at the beginning of the ride, you can agree or disagree. Each taxi will tell you something different. If they think you are American, the price is always higher. With Grab, it uses a similar app like Uber. It tells you how much it will cost in the app when you schedule the trip. You can tip if you want but you don't have to. Depending on where you are and where you want to go, you can skip all that and just catch a jeep. I went to GenSan, a little town near by called Polomolok. No need for a Grab or Taxi there, Tricycles are everywhere. Later I just rented a car! My friend has a friend who has a friend, you know? No credit credit check, no credit card. I rented the car for 3 days, 2k pesos. I rented a really apartment for 3 days, 10K pesos. It was great! Best chicken in the world, Jolibee, Lechon Baboy, Chicken or Pork Adobo, Crispy Pata, Garlic Rice, Corned Beef -rice - and crispy fried egg. Live like a King! Hardest part about the Philippines 🇵🇭 is getting there! Other than that, it's great. I hear the best Lechon is in Cebu. I want to go there next. 4th trip will be in Summer 2025. I will take my lady to where I live in New York State next. I'd rather live in the Philippines though, but she wants to live in America and see snow. I've warned her, snow is pretty , but that's where the fascination ends. Snow is cold! There was a winter exhibit at Ocean Park at Metrio Manila one year. They had a slushee machine dripping slush from the ceiling there for the kids. They were saying "Snow Snow" and I was like "That's not iiiit....." 😂 Well that is probably as close as most of them will ever get, so they had fun. Sorry so lengthy.
She was honest, and did it out of necessity and not because she was lazy and didn't want to work, or because she wanted a glamourous life. I can respect that.
I think hiring someone is the best way to meet a wife in reality. All husbands and wives used to work together before massive corporations took over everything.
But would you marry her knowing that? If her Prince Charming comes along, do you think she should tell him about her escort past? Do you think he has a right to know?
My wife was lazy too, she hired a maid to do all those duties and sack duties because she was too lazy for that too. Now would you believe that we, my wife and I got a divorce because guess why. She wanted money for being my wife even she just lived in the house
She's smart, thanks for the respect you showed and non-judgmental interview. I would hire her as a tour guide without extra benefits, I'm sure she's a very capable tour guide.
I use to hire older ladies (semi-pro around age 35) during my business trips to the Philippines. They didn't just keep my bed warm, but were great at helping me find the best local deals. I often hooked them up with marriage minded guys after returning to the USA.
there is a saying to each is their own. but she is very honest about things and brave. you have to admire that. when i lived there honesty was the rarest thing. she is taking care of her family which is an honorable act.
I don't know why but I suddenly find myself in need of a tour guide. Seriously though I'd never thought to hire a tour guide. I was just going to "wing it" after I got off the plane. Not blind mind you, I've watched plenty of videos and learned a lot like don't rent a cab that has a "broken meter" and use a phone app instead. I can see the wisdom in hiring a tour guide no matter how prepared you think you are.
Ms. Pea, I unknowingly had a Filipina for hire about eight years ago. The difference was she had three daughters, ages 6, 8, and 11, who traveled with us wherever we went in the Philippines. I learned an expensive, and hard, lesson on that one. Keep up the great work Ms Pea.
@@tzarmario677 No worries man, humour is good but please note what I wrote "....as my guide in the PH". I even spelled out what about her I liked. She is looking for her prince charming and I'm definitely not!
I remember back when you first started your channel, and I commented on a couple of early posts. I am 12 years living in the Philippines and I have been all over the place, and dating and interacting with your people. I find that your videos are very informative, and the videos like this one on what to expect when dating a Filipina, and the signs to take note of, is important for newbys to this country. I never had the opportunity to learn of the signs when I first came to the Philippines to find a wife, all the things you mentioned in your videos I wish I had access to, because I made so many errors, and I thought I knew everything about Filipina, but you have helped a lot.
A foreigner, if he has any personality and confidence, can sign on a girlfriend in a day here. Most girls will come to your condo or hotel (if you’re just here for vacation) and not want to leave. Instant girlfriend. So take her touring and give her whatever modest allowance to cover her personal needs, like vacation clothes at the Uke uke store and a few pesos to send to her family. She will see it as a great opportunity to go traveling with you, and not ever think to charge you for touring you around. Who knows, maybe a real relationship forms, but if not you just move on. The tour guide gig, and I’ve seen it with friends who have come on vacation, is effectively a freelancer escort arrangement. More expensive than you need to pay. Just sign on a gf.
If I was single again, I'd definitely hire a tour guide to show me around and have a good time. Nothing worse than being stuck with someone who doesn't want to have fun while you're on vacation.
that would be the 1st thing I would do to. you are somewhere where you don't know shit. You don't know the culture, you don't know the people, you don't know the area, you don't know the restaurants and bars, and you're OBVIOSULY NOT A LOCAL. Hiring someone that can show you the area, knows the locals, knows where the food is, who can negotiate for you, and keep you out of trouble. that's worth it right there. the getting nakid and sex parts just a bonus. Hell you'll probably recoup a decent amount of your coin on her, via food and fare savings. and if she just keeps you out of jail thats probably way more than what you are paying her.
I agree with your analogy where this is no different than getting married to someone with money. She is well spoken and very pretty. I hope her mom gets better.
She sounds like a great tour guide! She sounds honest and realistic of how things work in the world. I am going to the Philippines at one point in the future and would love to talk to her about a job. As far as it being right or wrong ....depends on how she feels about herself and the job she does. As far as I could tell she is rather proud of what she does and, in my opinion, she has every right to feel proud. She is independent and free. If she isn't willing to maybe have a conversation about being my tour guide maybe she could suggest someone of her same Calibur. She is a rare one. Thanks, Pea, for this honest and blunt interview.
Yes. But sad to say, there's hardly ever a coming back form choosing this route. These gals will forever see "relationships" as being purely transactional. and not be able to truly pair bond. I mean, she is upfront, nothing "wrong. with it. But there are consequences.
"Are you the eldest?" So many times poverty and the need to support parents/siblings forces girls to be the family bread winner. I truely respect and admire this girl's determination for a better life.❤
It's sad to think that when people live in poverty it's the women (typically young) who always have a commodity that can be sold in order to provide for their family. This does nothing for the self worth of the men, young, or otherwise, who may want to work but can't find any that they are qualified for. Meanwhile, the women who do this "work" out of necessity usually end up emotionally and psychologically damaged.
@@christopherturco197 Identify your sources regarding the "usually end up emotionally and psychologically damaged" reference. I think you are truly speculating about Western women there. You have no source to support your statement for life in SE Asia. From what I have seen, these people adjust to life *way better* than Westerners, both men and women, who 'must have things a certain way' or they stomp their feet and soil their undergarments.
My ex-wife is a Filipina. She said her body count was one, I always wondered why she was good in the sack. I found out later she was a tour guide. Absolutely nothing wrong with this, just don't lie about it.
Most of us especially streetwise people can spot a hooker or ex-hooker. I'm sorry you married her and found out she had banged numerous guys for money.
Huge Kudos to May for being willing to speak honestly about this topic. I do not think she has anything to be ashamed of, but there are many very understandable reasons why many would still choose not to put themselves on RU-vid talking about it.
I know a girl in Dumaguete that started doing this service. She lived in the dorm room apartments with me. After about one year she started to really go down hill fast, Her new side job to make money messed with her mentally and she got on drugs. She went from being very nice to dirty looking almost like totally different person. She then dropped out of Silliman college.
How tragic. It sounds as though she may not have known where to "draw the line" that she would not cross and ended up doing things she couldn't forgive herself for. That is heartbreaking.😢
This kind of work damages women's psyche. It's all fun and games at first, and the money is good, but after a while, it takes a toll on their mind, body, and soul.
@@lendlalfred7870 Looks like my comment to the same effect as yours was censored. This platform is beyond ridiculous. Edit: so did my reply to the @lendalalfred post under this one, and even my last post saying that that reply had been deleted. Un-feck'n'believable.
There is a whole lot more to May than meets the eye. Her language skills are excellent, she is calm and professional. Not to mention beautiful. I think there is an intelligent woman here that I hope gets to meet a quality guy that will treat her like a Filipina should be treated. Have a Magical Day!
Pea, how are you ? This video was very well produced. It’s wonderful to see how you handled the whole interview. You made this young lady feel at ease as if you were her best friend. I’ll be so glad to get there and if our paths are allowed to cross that will be great. Have a great week.
Pea: People who look at this kind of situation and say that phrase "looks like a duck, quacks like a duck" have never had the struggles of severe poverty or a severe lack of the essentials of life. If you put a person into a desperate situation, more chances than not they will resort to desperate measures in order to survive. History is full of situations where people have resorted to far worse actions to survive, or make ends meet, than what Mae is doing. And it's not like she's adding that to the plan of the tour for very one of her clients, it's a case by case situation, and not expecting a fee for the extra tour. Women need to release their pheromones just as much as men do, it's part of being a human being. If there is a mutual desire, and urge to pursue tapping the tree of love between two consenting adults, who are we to pass judgment? Great video Pea, and well done dancing around a very tricky topic.
You have been to some of America. Not the poorest or more desolate areas. I've been to Manilla,before you were born. A time when poverty was extreme. When business men were met at the airport by heavily armed guards. A tour guide is in a similar position to an American yacht girl or flown out to Dubai girl. Except she won't be supporting a whole family,or returning to eating one meal a day. The meal won't be reclaimed food from a dumpster. The judgements of western men are based on gross ignorance. It was a mixed blessing that my tour guide was an old man with a donkey cart who drove me through the slums alongside open sewers with small children wading for undigested food. I am rich and living a life of abundance. I can eat two fresh meals a day.
I do the same thing as a massage therapist here in the U.S. (case, by case) But it's sad that they're usually, mostly married women. ( I work at Luxury 5 Star Resorts)
With all due respect, I admire Mae for her resilience and dedication in providing for her family, as many other women have done. I genuinely hope that she finds a compatible partner who cherishes and supports her, leading to a fulfilling and prosperous life.
As the sole provider of her family, I think she is being practical. A good paying job is hard to obtain for the average Filipina, so she is making the most of an opportunity. I wish her well; stay safe out there.
Morals have nothing to do with survival, but principles have everything to do with self respect. Good video Pea. Take care and I'll catch you on Friday.
I don't know how I feel about this, but I do know Filipinas are masters of coming up with reasons, real or imagined, to justify their behavior. I don't know and neither do you.
I like her calm attitude and her chilled personality. In the end she is doing what she wants without presure from outside and she also has a look at her health. So...win win for everyone. In the end...its not a love scam, no feelings are hurt. If i would be in this kind of situation it would be ok because i know whats going on. Good interview, good questions :)
Very interesting Pea. I think the young lady has a lot of self confidence. She's doing what she needs to do to get where she's trying to go. I like her saying, "he gets what he wants and I get what I need."
Her plans should include learning and understanding the business and then eventually open her own tour guide company. I believe there will always be a need for this type of business, and being in the thick of it is the best way to learn more. Could be a profitable future.
I think the difference between what shes doing and a gold digger is that a gold digger/escort only contributes one thing and requires money for it. This young lady has a skillset that she can rely on into old age, the "extras" are just extra. Shes young shes single and if she wants to she can have fun. She never asks for money so shes not even a part time escort. Like she says everybody wins.
I have one observation. The problem with the situation is threefold 1. Tour guide will become a stigmatized profession if this becomes widespread. 2. A clean tour guide will be harassed by horny tourists and not get business if she doesn't indulge in this business. 3. A clean tourist will be hustled for these services by guides who are looking for extra quick money and will get bad service if he chooses not to partake. It is like that now in the massage spas. Even reputable chain hotel spas have shady practices when people don't necessarily expect.
No matter what profession white color job or blue color job you are in.... A person's mindset depends on how you value one's self worth and righteousness. It is the person's choices in life but it will soon lose its value. If she is quick to be tempted to money that meant, she is not capable to stand on her integrity and intelligence to survive for what is valuable that life can offer without a need of people money to trade for not deserving efforts. It is beautiful and rewarded without a man's help but you as a whole person find resources on your own to stand on your own feet. No grudges, no emotional damages but a peace of one self pride. Some point in life better to lean on with God and he will show your opportunities but it will be a harder road.
Every new country I go to, I find a pretty local girl and hire them as a tour guide- really to keep me out of trouble. If they are good, I will hire them for a longer time. It's worth every dollar.
I use to arrange for them to be with me for the whole business trip. I would hire older ones that were more mature and knew their way around. They will really help you get the best deals. I eventually married a girl that I hired when in Kenya. Been with her for over ten years now and our marriage just keeps better with time.
Really? Have you tried India? You will stop touring for life! Social media and even mainstream cable tv media is full of horror travel stories about India. India will not have friendly female tour guides like her, Indian people are not friendly. India cities, towns and everything is harsh and revolting. The only tour guides you will find are semi-literate ill mannered, boorish, men who would hustle you to make you buy expensive souvenirs from shops and take a cut from taking you to shady, disgusting hotels which would be surprisingly expensive on a global standard given their hideous quality of rooms and service. You will cringe and fear these men rather than thinking romance. It will be like that in whole of South Asia (Indian subcontinent) and many other nations. What you have described is only possible in SE Asia and Eastern Europe, I think.
Mae seems like a level headed business woman and interesting person. I understand how and why she got into her line of work. I think when a woman first starts doing this, she can still get out out of it. But once on that path for a while, it’s hard to change. Most of the men a professional woman meets aren’t necessarily ideal husband material. I hope she can still identify a good man. I wish Mae the best in the future and she finishes school and finds a new line of work.
Americans, who live in a country that is culturally & morally burning to the ground more with each passing day, love to pass judgement on people in other places on YT. The people here in SE Asia, where I recently moved to from the US, live by their own standards & simply DGAF what other people think when it comes to doing what it takes to have a better life. Meanwhile, my fellow Americans binge watch horrific reality TV shows & eat cheeseburgers two at a time, dying sad and alone on their couch from obesity.
@@tilapiadave3234 it’s ruined Thailand forever. The whole reason men go to the Philippines in later life is to find a woman who is NOT one of them types 😂 it’s not going to end well in a Country where the women don’t know what protection is and the most deadly virus on the planet is spreading rapidly amongst youngsters aswell as the older generation!
Pea, especially with today's interview, I can see you doing a national interview show on serious topics in the Philippines that could rival Raffy Tulfo. You just get better and better with every interview you do. The setting for the interview looked very professional as did you. You are confident, in control and have such a great manner that puts your guests at ease and allows them to open up without feeling judged. Plus, you give them the opening to share from the heart without you talking over them or forcing the conversation in a particular direction. You're a diamond in the making. If you should ever pursue such a career, make sure you maintain absolute creative control, just as you have now when doing RU-vid videos.👍👍👍
I appreciate you putting such hard work into having new stories and information to share. You really are a necessary part of your culture. I think literally the bridge to America and many other places who would love to have a life with a phenomenal Filipina Such Like Yourself Pea!!!❤
Fascinating. I often see vloggers with guides and often wondered about this. I’m happily married to an amazing and brilliant Filipina doctor so no need for a guide. I think she’s in the right and has a good head on her shoulders. Finish school and be a badass boss lady like my wife would be my advice.
In most of the world, tour guides are called "fixers." I've hired three over the years. Hiring a fixer is critical if you don't speak the language. They do a lot for you beyond providing translation service and can save you a great deal of money by avoiding skin tax, negotiating for you, avoiding price gouging, knowing where bargains are and so forth. They can also keep you safe since they know where it may be a sketchy proposition to be you. I doubt that I would hire one in PH, but if I did and was going there to meet an online girlfriend, I would hire a guy. I saw the jealousy coming a mile away. The girl must have been incredibly uncomfortable; her guy probably spoke with May more than he did with her because it was easier to do so. Not cool.
I pass no judgement Pea! I’ve seen firsthand the abject poverty and lack of opportunities there. It still boggles the mind the requirements of a college degree to work in a store, so this young lady has done what is best for her and after all we’re only human. I hope the keyboard warriors are kind to her.
Same story even in the most developed of countries. By all metrics, Switzerland is above say, the rest of the EU, the UK and also the USA in every way: education, health, income, equality, peace, food quality and many more... And yet the education part really bites, because in Switzerland you're lucky to even find a job as a cashier without having done a "Kaufmännische Ausbildung" (Commercial education) first, which works basically the same as an apprenticeship... Switzerland even has apprenticeships for being a cleaner. It's embarrassing to see. They literally have the most qualified workforce in the world. So much so they have people doing qualifications for stuff a trained monkey can do.
I understand that she is doing what she is doing to get by and support her family, but as she racks up body counts her ability to pair bond with her future "prince" will be exponentially more difficult as studies show! Women cannot have sex like men where we can be completely detached emotionally during sex. Women tend to get their emotions involved as she demonstrated with the client she wanted to stay longer after having sex with him. I wish her well! Thanks Pea for sharing her experience!
It's funny how women will say, "the right man will accept my past." I mean the man you'll be able to get, will accept this, I guess, but most quality men with options will not. This is very sad, I wish her all the best.
Yep. I’m biracial Filipino-American and honestly this type of transactional mindset towards relationships completely turns me off from ever actually dating a Filipina. I mean I get that they’re raised from poverty but I’m not cool with being used as an ATM nor am I interested in abandoning my morals to use my money to take advantage of people that are poor. Which a lot of westerners do and it’s equally disgusting tbh.
You could tell the experience had already hardened her. She said she couldn't imagine tolerating having sex with a boyfriend "for free". This mental trauma is why men don't want to date former sex workers if those men have other choices.
A very informative and respectful video, without getting into the awkwardness. This is an eye-opener for men who go to the Philippines to look for a "wife." Adding a new profession to the list of "jobs with dubious activity". I'm not referring to the classic euphemisms for scorts. But to jobs that are prone to sexual adventures such as nurses, occupational therapist, secretary, etc. and now tourist guide. All of this is very common in many countries, there are even statistics in North America, Central America and South America. But they are transparent with their past or their work when finding a partner, As if your girlfriend is or says she will be.
Absolutely, nothing wrong with what she’s doing. I agree with her 100%. It’s a win/win situation for both of them. They both leave happy. There couldn’t be a better arrangement, and it hurts no one.💕👍🏻
It's actually very sad because most of these girls have no other option. Also HIV rates are rising in PH and there's other diseases that condoms don't really prevent (HPV, herpes). 😢
She's running a call service, it is what it is.. this way she gets to screen them first. I hope she doesn't get hurt doing this mentally and physically
Don't all women "screen"? And aren't all relationship between men and women transactional in one way ore another? The variable is merely the time period.
I was born into an extremely poor family. We were homeless most of my childhood. I had to do things I wasn’t proud of. I was so embarrassed that my father used to play his guitar and sing in the subway for tips but he always made more when I was there so I had to go. After a while I understood the concept of making money and surviving. I actually learned the songs and sang (badly) with him for even more money. At times I had to steal food or eat spoiled food. It’s one of the reasons I’m overweight. I learned from a young age to eat as much as u can as quickly as u can because u never know when or where your next meal will be. Im far from that now but can’t shake that mind set. The people who look down on you have never been in that kind of position to have to make those kinda decisions. Do I pay the rent or buy the food and medicine my family needs? Do I work at jolly bee for 100 pesos a week or sleep with men for 10k a week. Anyone who has went hungry understands how hard it is to wrestle with those questions. I can judge her because I was her and my judgement is she is surviving and helping her family to survive so for me she’s doing what she has to do and it’s ok by me. Now there is a flip side to this. I became an adult and I work hard and have a small business so I’m successful and doing well now. Not rich but comfortable. I don’t steal or engage in any what we might call ill moral behavior. If you are not in survival mode and you are comfortable but just plain greedy and that’s why you are doing the same thing then that’s when I look down on you. If she had good parents who provided for all her needs. She just started doing this because she wanted the latest iPhone or most expensive shoes, that’s when she is crossing the line. When your trying to survive almost anything goes, when you’re not in survival mode then you should make better decisions and not be ill moral. Hope I don’t sound like a hypocrite but that’s how I think and feel. Logic over feelings. I’m a guy what did u expect? Lol
@@DavidECoy as a guy or girl your comments really help change my opinion of this tour guide girl. My only thing is, why not call it what it is, not tour guide, maybe for legal reasons so they don't go to jail. Actually is being paid to have sex,even a crime in the Philippines. I have heard so many stories I don't know what to believe. I have never experienced any of the girls here like this young woman. So this video was a bit of a surprise for me.
@@fallingforthephilippines6834 it is illegal to sell sex for money in the Philippines. As long as there is no victim they kinda look the other way but they do have a task force that goes after people who victimize others for money. I remember a case I think Pea did a show about when a woman was selling her two young kids for sex. A young daughter and an even younger son.They got caught in a sting the task force set up and then when to jail. Lots of bar girls have sex with guys for money and of course share some of that money with the bar. Again the police act like it’s not happening because in their minds there is no victim. The bar will tell u they don’t sell these bar girls, they sell private time in other rooms and whatever happens in there between two consenting adults happens. That’s how they get away with it. So that’s why you will never see anyone advertising sex for money. Only fans and stuff like that is all illegal there. You have girls that advertise girlfriend experience. Which basically is escorting. You pay for their time in and out of the bedroom. I like going to the bars and drinking with Filipinos and they love hanging with foreigners so it’s a lot of fun so I have seen some pretty awful stuff. If you ever go to the night clubs or bars never and I mean never take a girl home from out side the bar. She is most likely under age because if she wasn’t she would be in the bar working for the bar. Certain places are much worse to the point I didn’t even make it to the bar because I was sickened by what I saw just walking down the street to the bar. It’s kinda hard to ignore it and then go have fun drinking.
@@fallingforthephilippines6834 I have also heard horror stories of Arab men coming over to pay for sex with bar girls and then doing things to them against their will and then offering to pay extra to the girls to keep them from going to the police after. Some people truly treat these poor women like they are not human. I’m married to a Filipina and very happy so I’m not looking for anything like that but u honestly can’t go to a bar especially as a foreigner without everyone in the bar thinking your rich so u get offered all kinds of stuff.
@@fallingforthephilippines6834 another thing is this woman is not scamming men out of money or being dishonest with anyone. U have to respect a woman who at least does not lie to her clients. I can’t stand the scammers because even though I understand why they are doing it, I can’t agree with the dishonesty. U could call me a hypocrite because stealing food from a store is pretty close to scamming and again I’m not proud of that but I didn’t lie to anyone or trick them out of their money and I only stole enough to eat for a meal. I didn’t steal the whole store and start selling the food for my own profit. So u can call me out and I’ll accept that.
@@fallingforthephilippines6834 I actually thought of another great example of my point. I have heard stories of soldiers who were prisoners of war who escaped from the prison camp into unknown jungles. These soldiers ate every kind of bug and lizard they could find to survive until they could be rescued. Pea while on vacation to Tyland did a video on the exotic street foods sold there. I think Pea tried critters and even a scorpion. There is a huge difference between eating bugs to survive and trying deep fried bugs on vacation. You could not pay me enough to eat a bug while on vacation but I’m sure I would eat every bug u gave me in some unknown jungle as an escaping prisoner. This is the second time I have advertised a Pea video. If you’re reading this Pea I think I should start getting paid lol. The girl from this video is the escaping prisoner and the only fans type women are the ones eating the bugs on vacation just for the experience.
Pea, I just started watching your channel. Keep up the good work. You are good at your job, very interesting videos. You ask good questions and are a great listener.
Hi Pea! Very interesting episode. I didn't plan to comment video, until you asked questions at the end. Girl is sweet. I hope she will save enough for college. Although for what I heard about perspective on Philippines, maybe saving for work in Europe would be better investment. So some math: 10.000 pesos is about 165 Euros. And for that you get one week tour guide. Ok, there are extras for food, travel expenses and accommodation. I was visiting Vienna two weeks ago, and for tour guide of 4 hours price was like 190 Euros. Ok, no extra expenses, and maybe some tickets were included (I'm not sure now). I didn't take tour guide I just check prices on internet page. Anyway 10.00 pesos for week tour is still good price. Of course the "moral" questions were about "extra services". So let's go to that area... For what I learn, lot of guys go to Philippines just to have some fun. That include having fun with girls. So if guy double that money, he can have girlfriend experience, and will be considered generous. Also there is savings on accommodation, because in this case, one bedroom is enough. 😁😁😁 For how I see, it is better option than to pay for prostitutes, or lady drinks to a bar girls, or in worst case to give some promises (you can't keep) to innocent girls. Of course if guy is good looking enough, I don't know Mays criteria. 😁😁😁 About May, my opinion is not important. If she is Ok with what is she doing, it is only thing that matters. She is not harming anyone. Who is any of us to judge her. Lot of woman used sex to get some advantages in life. Same as it ever was.
