12 BIGGEST MISTAKES FOREIGNERS MAKE In The Philippines - Don't Be Fooled! 

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For those that have never been to the Philippines, or other third world countries, the lack of infrastructure will probably come as a big shock. Roads that aren't maintained, regular interruptions in basic utilities, Inernet speeds that will remind you of the old dial-up days, and a general lack of amenities that you take for granted in the West. The Philippines is not just a destination, but a state of mind. 😉

The biggest mistakes any one can make is not liking Pea's videos or subscribing to her channel.

Pea says, and I quote "One man's paradise is another man's hell" Too bad I did not hear this before the FIRST and ONLY time I got married.

I left Puerto Rico and traveled for 26 hours to Puerto Rico(Phillipines). When I showed my daughter the videos via WhatsApp she said”That’s Santurce!”. Phillipines is almost the same as Puerto Rico, including the traffic jams! I felt I never left the island😂

My plans for when I make my first long term visit: 1. Hire a lawyer that can respond to my issues regardless of what island I'm on, as soon as I land to help handle any issues 2. Make sure my healthcare is valid and gets me the care I expect 3. Move every few weeks until I have experienced a good variety of the Philippine culture and people 4. Find a place I'd be happy to live in for 6+ months and experience it from that perspective 5. Evaluate how to move forward from here

I’ve made up my mind a year ago. I don’t have any family no wife no kids and I’m getting a little tired of the US.

FUN FACT: Lost 12 pounds throughout my island travels within 28 days venturing the Philippines, without ANY consideration of diet! There was some distance walking, but nothing at the pace of fitness. Am guessing an absence of processed sugars and preservatives (minus Red Horse and Tanduay! ) but it remains a positive mystery. Keep up the good reporting!

1. Don't fall in love with a girl you never met in person. 2. Force yourself to date at least ten girls in the Philippines before you pick one (or pick three), even if you think you already met the girl of your dreams. Don't worry, she's not going to drop you if she thinks you are meeting other girls. You may be surprised to find her trying harder to keep you. 3. Don't try to hold her hand, kiss her, or hug her in public (except maybe a dark empty movie theater). PDA is not a thing there and it will make her uncomfortable. Save the action for the hotel room, you won't be disappointed. 4. Don't take a province girl to a western or any non-Filipino restaurant. She won't know what to eat and won't like it. Best results will be had by feeding her fried chicken, rice, and more rice. 5. Don't assume the girl you met is a distinct individual. She is part of a cult-like interdependent collective known as her family. She has no opinions or feelings or thoughts that were not provided to her by her mother or other family members. It's not that they are controlling her, it's like they are all one organism and each person is an appendage of that organism.

I live in northern europe. I have been in the Philippines a number of times. For me the great things with the Philippines is to not have freezing degrees outside 4-5 months a year, friendly people who actually talk to each other (up here people are very reserved) and that you can help people who are really in need - homeless in the street, help an orphenage or something similar.

Pea, It is one man's opinion that your videos should be required viewing for those who are intending to either visit or plan on moving to the Philippines. Please keep up the good work.

You also don't know heat until you move to southeast Asia or the Philippines. It's been about 38° or so but with the humidity the feels like temperature is about 45°. Sure, the deep south in the US is similar but the summers here last much longer. Also, when driving, the roads are organized chaos.

Hi Pea, good evening. I actually understand foreigners not being able to own land in the Philippines. The way I look at it is if a bunch of foreigners buy up the cheap costing land in the Philippines 🇵🇭, Filipinos may not be able to afford any land for themselves. When you have a shortage of land available the price of land skyrockets. So I agree the Philippines 🇵🇭 are doing the right thing for its people. In reality, every country should look out for their own citizens first. That's my opinion, good or bad.

Just got back from 3 weeks in Cebu, Bohol and Negros Oriental. I’ll be back as much as I can. Too many people focus on the third world country aspect when the first class people and amazing beaches and jungle areas are freaking amazing!

Hi Filapina Pea. I was a tourist in Thailand 20 years ago. I went in a tour and a Japanese woman shoulder charged me, to get me on the river boat. She was 1/3 my size. I was offended and told her and her husband. The tour guide took me aside and asked why I was angry. I told him. He said the problem is yours. You need to think with 2 minds, one for the West and one for Asia. "2 minds," he said yes. The lady was helping me, by pushing me onto the boat. In Japan, they push people onto yransport so they don't miss the train. I got off the boat and walked up to the Japenese couple and bowed. They bowed deeper. This will help with culture stress. I have been living in Asia for 5 years now, working and paying tax in country. Asia is way better than the dumpster fire I left in Australia. The local people have taken me into their community. I love it here.

27 yrs in the Philippines and I'm still learning.

Good evening, Pea ( 7a.m. in west Texas). Wonderful advice and I hope your watchers take it seriously. Different laws and culture. Just because your an American, doesn't mean that you still have your constitutional rights, you left that behind when you left the country. I've lived in multiple foreign countries and each is different. If you can't adapt, stay where you are. Take care and I'll see you Friday.

Wow, great comment about having an exit strategy if you have to go back home. I didn’t think of that!

Very important video. Every future expat should watch it.

my pre-move checklist was 2 pages long. For others it could be different, but I started applying my checklist about 9 months before I moved.

Hey, I just wanted to say thank you for defending passport bros and for giving valuable information on The Philippines if men want to go there and also find better women. Keep up the good work !! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Great video, been living in Iloilo with my wife for 12 years (married 30 years) so we knew what we where getting into, but still here are a few extras that got me, Noise: generally Filipino's rather enjoy a party and a wall of speakers for a birthday party, celebration, Barangay fiesta and "oh my lord" drunk karaoke is the norm, basically if it can't be heard from miles away at 2AM they are not trying hard enough. It took me a year to acclimatize (and don't get me wrong It is for us the foreigners to adjust not the Filipino): Overcharging, you will be overcharged at some-point, don't get angry don't scream at the person, just point out that you think you have been overcharged and normally you will get a "Sorry" and they will correct the "Mistake", a lot of servers etc are on really low wages compared to the West, it is what it is, just chill. lastly and most Importantly DO NOT EVER disrespect the Filipino, you are a guest in this beautiful country and of course disrespect here is an offence that can and will get your visa revoked. Remember people are people no matter where you are in the world, yes there are a lot of beautiful young women who will seek marriage to foreigners because of the improvement to themselves and there families, but that doesn't mean there cant be love too.

Ive lived on and off in the Philippines for the last 10 years. Recently took the plunge and moved to the Philippines semi full time. Guys need to wet their feet.. check it out and see if you're a good fit. Philippines is great for those that can leave their western ways at customs and adapt to the country. If you can, well then this place will change your life. And like she said. Do your own cooking.

I love and appreciate the unique experience in the Philippines. There are rough places like any other country but out of all the countries I've been to, filipinos are the most welcoming, as long as you don't commit taboos, break laws and disrespect anyone of course. And a small unexpected gift can really make anyones day.

a good honest video , but when you understand it , the philippines is amazing im loving my time here

Clever perceptive "Telling it like it is" as usual. The Pea creates insightful advice that sounds plain and simple The show always has super high production and research standards behind every simple sounding word. Well done!

Excellent advise from a very knowledgeable, and beatiful young lady, with a great sense of humor, and backs up advise from experts. I love this common sense approach and never tire of her new videos.

I think you should do a separate video on the challenges / problems with starting a business in the Philippines. I have some ideas that could help.

Thanks for the rental and leasing advice. I'll keep that in mind.

I've lived a very full life, Pea.. been blessed in so many ways. It's a long story, but I feel like most everything I've experienced has led & prepared me for life as an expat in the PH... Thank you for all you do -- your quality, comprehensive content has helped me confirm this. The time will soon arrive for me to put this to the ultimate test... I hope our paths cross -- I'd love to give you a great big hug! 🥰

NEVER EVER tired of hearing these Pearls of Wisdom from those, such as yourself Pea, who know what they are talking about! I always apply things such as you shared here in my own life. Maraming Salamat!!

So good.... so real.... so practical.... Fillpina Pea is the best utuber who explains the Phillipines. Salamat po...

As always, you're advice is really insightful & beautifully expressed Pea. The particular insight I hadn't considered is that the peoples of different islands in the Philippines behave differently because the culture is not uniform across the islands. I remember you have addressed this before but I had forgotten it. The cultural split that is always emphasised is the city/province difference and the poor/educated distinction. Now I understand that the Philippines is actually an archipelago of different cultures too & I need to be alive to this when I explore.

Pea, thank you for your sincere analysis of what a foreigner might expect in the Philippines. I was there in January and encountered many of these senarios. As a vet, I encountered some of these same scenarios on active duty, the only difference being most would be resolved and life continued on. I guess my biggest concern is living on the 25th floor of a condo during a brown out with no word on when power would be restored. The next time I go, I'll bring some camping equipment purchased from an REI store here in Albuquerque. 😊

Great info Sweet Pea. Thanks x

I love your videos. They are informative sprinkled with a dash of humor. No negativity or bashing. Keep doing the outstanding work you do. Much respect!!!!

Another great vid 👊

If you can retire comfortable in the West then retiring in the RP or Thailand is amazing. You will live like a King. If you are borderline w/r/t your retirement in the West and think that by moving to the RP or Thailand will give you that extra "edge" don't bother. You will go bust before you know it.

Whenever my head fills up with fantasy scenarios, you show up to let some air out. Thanks for keeping me grounded.

Wow wow wow ... beautiful information ... Thank you!

This video is a real Eye Opener.

One of your best videos, Pea.

These practical advice videos are good stuff, Pea!

Brilliant as always Pea! Thank you as always, too 😉

Okay Miss p I've already given the thumbs-up I'm running a little late but let's get on with this show and teach me something new

Pea, Absolutely fantastic advice. It amazes me how many people don't plan or look into the ventures they think about. Moving from one city to another, or one state to another here in the US is nothing like moving to another Country all together. You touched on several of the biggest considerations ( economy, laws and restrictions ). I've been researching a few different Countries for a couple years and am finally down to 2, Costa Rica or the Philippines. I haven't been to the Philippines in years, but am planning a trip there this year. I'm fortunate enough to have an uncle that is from the Philippines and he and my aunt own property there ( my aunt was stationed there in the 60s ). This doesn't mean it will be easier to decide though. Only that I have some relatives there ( that I haven't seen in 35 years...lol ). So, come September, I'll be coming to visit. Thank you for the open and honest videos. It's a breath of fresh air.

good advice

This video was really good and informative. You mentioned a few things that I was pretending to ignore to myself. I am still thinking about going there, but I think I will just visit first.

Only been waiting since 3:48 am!!

All Valid Points Pea. Some people are just too in a rush to do things that they can't get out of their own way fast enough to take a breath and figure out all the things that could go right, and could go wrong. The reference to the Highlander was subtle, and I thought it was great. One thing out of this list you presented that should be first on the agenda for anyone looking to migrate to another country and culture should be to take an extended vacation to the place first, to get the lay of the land, the rhythm and flow of the life in the new place. It's like running the engine without oil, without it you won't be running on all cylinders for very long. A very wise man told me once that to calculate your success for something just figure out how prepared you are for your endeavor and take the opportunity when you are prepared and you will have success. Another great topic Pea, can't wait for Friday's video already.

you are correct in everything you say

I really appreciate your videos. I’m moving from the US to the Philippines in the next 2 months . My plan is to stay for 6 months to give it a real try. I was in Cebu about a year ago and I enjoyed it. I know living somewhere as opposed to visiting is totally different, that why I wanted to come back for six months. Keep up the good work!

Great video Pea. The best advice if considering moving to the Philippines is to slow down which you emphasized right away. Arrive with no strings attached because a Filipina will distort little Johnny into thinking for you. This is what you did as a teenager. Check out numerous locations, the prople, the social construct, night life, beaches, waterfalls, nature and proximity to the activities you enjoy doing. The easiest part will be finding a good Filipina that is who you truly want. Please don't be mesmerized by the beautiful Fililpina because she easily could be a wolf in sheep's clothing. Just like in the country you are coming from all women are diffetent. Good luck to all.

You could probably do a full video on personal safety. I've got one tip aimed at us loner types. The sooner you develop a local circle of friends that care about you staying alive, the longer you'll live. Life insurance is fairly common in the west. In a poor country, the last thing you want to do is get yourself into a situation where you are worth more to the people around you dead than alive.

Entertaining and informative, thanks Pea, your the best! ✌️❤️🙏

Sooooo close to 250k!!! Keep it coming Pea!!

Good evening Pea. I'm running late this morning, but I'm still here. Subscribed, hit the thumbs up, watching til the end, and letting the ads play. You're doing great! Keep On Keeping On.

I'm glad I'll have my wife along to keep me in line..😊

You can make a small fortune in the Philippines in business. Start w a big fortune. 😊 Great County. Balik balik mga 30 years. Great Channel Pea

Yes, the Philippines has a lot of variety, even on Luzon alone, let alone the southern islands. I loved Baguio, although it seems as though the town has grown quite a bit.

Such wisdom. Thanks for another great vlog, Pea.

Thank you for the sound advice, Filipina Pea 🙂 You look AMAZING, btw!😍😍

Thank you very much ! This is worth gold ! A life-saving video.

This young lady knows her stuff. Good information and thanks for posting. 💯

12 seconds posted ans i'm first to comment yippee! love the Pea ! there done now to watch it lol

Brilliant once more Pea. You reminded me of many many lessons I learned in my 4 years here. Luckily for me I adapt quickly to changes. I have also lived in Canada during some very hard times. I remind myself ot those times whenever we get into a "cash flow" situation here and adapt accordingly on our 40k pesos/month. I/we like just like all the Filipinos around me/us and simply smile and have fun, being thankful for how fortunate we truly are. ❤️

Well done Pea! Very well done! The coolest thing that struck me on this video is that within 54 minutes you had almost 3000 views! WOW! Major props to you and your success. 🙇

I love these videos of caution. Because I want to move to the Philippines, and its good to be aware that it's not all sunshine and rainbows.

Thanks again as usual for a great video Pea. Very useful information for thought 🤔

Get familiar with the exits before you get on the plain ... I love it !!! Very good advice . I say : Victory loves preparation . ( Amat victoria curam )

I just watched this video for the second time and I found it informative the first time but I found one point particularly valuable this time. During the past five years I lived in Quezon City, Dipolog City and I visited Cebu a few times before settling in Dumaguete.

The part about not being able to own property there is very smart on the Philippine government's part. That really should never change. It would lead to problems later because people from all over would just come in and buy up all the property. Please never change that.

Very good video, many people need this to drag them back to reality

Very good advise. Thanks for the information.

Pea is always bringing this awesome content! Always fresh, bold and well put together! Keep it up, Pea!

🥰🥰 always providing the facts, with a little humor. thanks for sharing.

As usual, great advice! I live and own properties in Costa Rica and Panama. Your advice pertains to these countries, and any other countries! I have even adjusted to sometimes, eating beans and rice, for breakfast, lunch and dinner.🙂

Great information and tips Pea. Thanks for sharing.

Friday I cannot wait

As usual great advice Pea

Great reality check Pea! It is good to dispel many of the misconceptions people might have! If I lost 30 lbs...I would be able to see everything I like in you! haha! See you Friday!🥰😍😘

Dropping knowledge. Getting a job or finding a place to live, and hearing about worst-case scenarios, is enlightening. Thank you for sharing.

I really love that I found your channel. Last time I was there was in 1989. It has changed a lot and have built up greatly. I'll be there next year, but my first stop will be Thailand. You are really smart for your age. You speak as if you’re in your 50’s but yet you look late 20’s or early 30’s. You’re very wise for your age.

Much respect!

Hi Pea and readers, I’m in the Philippines 🇵🇭 atm, 3 month long service leave. Listening to this, I have to say YES x 12. Spot on in every point. Trying to buy a salad or vegetables with your meal ….. hmmmmm good luck with that, sure you can go to the market and buy your own vegetables, and cook something at home, but going out to local street food or restaurants, not that easy. to expand on a couple of your points, my thoughts are: Find affordable accommodation for a month in a place that you want to explore, do day trips of 2/3 nights away from the base to learn about the area. Explore the Filipina around your base. Next month find another base and explore / repeat. Something to think about. 20:53

Takes about a year to settle in here, then the memories of the west fade away, I would never go back, love it here❤️

Great advice as always, Pea. I especially agree with the point of spending an extended period of time in a country before making a permanent move.

Always great information. Thanks Pea!😁❤️

We love the way you tell it like it is Pea. Keep it up.

You are so down to earth ! And a great interviewer .

I feel like this advice will help me travelling to any country. thank you Pea, for sharing this valuable knowledge!

Great video, Pia! My Filipina wife and I have two countries- America 🇺🇸 and the Philippines 🇵🇭. Everything you say in this video is 100% true. If you plan to live in the Philippines 🇵🇭 someday, it is best to marry your Filipina there in the Catholic Church. This provides the greatest level of legal protection possible for a foreigner in the Philippines. Marriage is considered an indissoluble union in church law and civil law in the Philippines 🇵🇭. Have your marriage license certified in the Philippines! Later you can navigate the paper work for a permanent visa more easily if you are lawfully married to your Filipina. Also, if you get sacramentally married in the Catholic Church of the Philippines 🇵🇭 you can rest assured that any court isn’t going to entertain annulment proceeding very easily… if at all. If you get married in the Philippines, you better plan on staying married for LIFE! Cultural issues, home-sickness, and diet are all negotiable over time. Those are just facts of life to be dealt with… 😊

Great advise, Pea! Having lived outside the states for most of my life, I forget how often people expect things to be like home, just with an accent. 😂 Please keep up the good work! Take good care!

excellent,,,, especially the Exit Plan !!!!!

Wise words, Pea. Thank you. This is very well considered and presented.

I must say, this video is excellent! I am fortunate to have a couple of friends from the Philippines, both residing in Cebu, who have consistently praised it as the ultimate destination for experiencing a somewhat Western lifestyle. It's true. One thing that often goes unnoticed by many is the potential challenges one might face regarding certain rights in the country. However, the main obstacle I perceive is maintaining a steady cash flow. After watching this video, I am considering the idea of relocating to Cebu to join my friends. The only hurdle I need to overcome is finding a reliable monthly income source, as I have yet to establish a retirement fund. Once again, I want to express my sincere appreciation for this fantastic video. It has given me valuable insights and considerations as I contemplate this life-changing decision.

Excellent advice Thank you

Awesome and so accurate advice.. thanks again

Long live queen pea!🎉🎉😊 Continue to keep it 100% and keeping it real facts without sugar coating it

Thanks, Pea very good video with a lot of helpful comments. I would say there's one you missed and that's with getting your finances in order with respect of taking money out of Filipina banks and not paying a charge for that. Like Wells Fargo has a savings plan where if you put enough money in when you go to take money out from a foreign bank you won't pay that fee. So that is something to think about as you'll be taking money out of banks quite a lot when you first get there and then throughout living there and not paying that $5 or $7 fee it adds up. Another thought I had is I know it's good to travel light but laptops phones that kind of thing. They're cheaper here in the states so buy yourself a decent phone and actually I would get one on the larger side because a lot of times Wi-Fi is not great and so you'll be using your data plan. So get a large phone even if you don't like it. You'll be glad you did. You touched on this on one of the points but I would say get in the best shape you can for your age and I don't mean all muscular but able to walk for long distances because when you first get to a foreign country you won't know the price of anything and when you go to take transportation it will cost a lot and so being able to walk can save you quite a bit of money. Anyway, it was a great video. That's my two cents about living in foreign country as I lived in southeast Asia about 20 years