Filipina Single Moms Expectations when Dating a Foreigner. 

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The worst message we can leave the next generation is that being a single mother is ok.

Never date a single mom unless you are a single dad and can demand the same things from her. If you are not single dad then you are 10th on her list of importance.

What drives me crazy is that if a broke Philippines man rejects them and you believe that they are the prize. Lord help me!

In the Philippines, a "foreigner" is never considered anything more than "a foreigner". So, inside your home you might have a good balance but, you have to remember that no one outside your home is ever going to accept that you are the father because, you are just a foreigner.

Dating a single mom, unless she is a widow, is a very very bad idea. Her kids will always be before anything or anyone else. It's just not worth the trouble.

I will not take responsibility if i don't have authority. Guess im different.

she date to marry and she had kid before marriage... hmmm thats why u guyes look what they do and not what they say

The raising of the kid is the biggest thing I think for a foreigner. The fact that you girls said you would not change your discipline style & will do it the way you were shown only indicates a red flag to me. Saying telling & threatening with a stick is a good thing is beyond me. A kid doesn’t have to be “spoilt” by actually giving them choices & doing it differently. Maybe it would be good for you to learn & open up to other styles than be stubborn with your own? Also if a kid is sleeping in the bed with me, then hell no. No guy wants to share the most intimate place with another kid. Maybe the first year is understandable but you are creating separation from your husband & it’s a huge red flag. Enjoyed the video & glad you showed us your mindsets as single mothers

oh yeah there's plenty of 55 year old men willing to take up that project. 30 year olds will never pick up the pieces left by another man. we want to start our own family not join one. it's a matter of dignity

Im 32 had a filipina 42 with 2 adult kids...she would sometimes ask for upwards of 200k a month to support her kids and her. And I know her cousin cause I work with her in us. Run far far away fellas....

No one deserves anything in this life. We all have to work hard to achieve our dreams. No one is entitled to get something just like that. You desire something then go for it. Work hard to get it! Women always think that they deserve or are entitled to something without making some effort.

NEVER EVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER EVER.

See, single Filipina moma drama is the same as the west. You are privileged to accept them with their children. Stop raising other mens children.

Why are the guys not responsible for their children in the Philippines

So you are single mom and married? And when you are married you trying to find a new boyfriend? I don't understand how is it possible to look for a new partner if she is still married, it's strange to date with a married girl

How can they looking for a new father if she is still married with another man? Two husbands at time? Then the second father has no any rights, he is just random strange in their life, so why such father should be interested in such relationships?

With an open heart and accepting nature, you will find a great life ahead for yourself

Single mom = 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

For me it's not the raising a child that's the problem. It's the fact that the women I love has had a baby with another man and she experienced that for the first time with another man. When I personally feel that is a huge thing for me, it's a certain bond between perents the first born child. And I don't want for her to have had that moment with another man. If I had children it would be completely different because the moment has gone. It's nothing personal or vindictive against single mums, my sister was a single mum now she's happily married to a man with two kids. It's just a normal feeling childless men have and it's not personal.. God bless

These chicks lost the choice of expectations when they made poor life choices.

Ironically, I am listening to these women date to marry yet have children before they get married wow, they are also not submissive more of an entitlement to a foreigner unfortunately their demand could not be met by local men, now is it because those men's days are numbered and they have no choice but to settle for the end game quite interesting

How are there so many single moms in a devout Catholic country that forbids premarital sex?

I would be more than happy to date a single mum I have no kids so would be happy to have a ready made family

Nasty! Who would travel abroad to shop at a used shop? I don't do sloppy seconds resulting in popping out another dudes DNA.

What I'm hearing is dont date single moms in the ph. There are many many single women with no kids. Why pay extra for a used car?

I’m talking to a single mom now. As I said in a reply to another comment, it would be nice if the dad was paying child support, but I don’t see that happening. So if you are going to date a single mom, it is a package deal. To me, I had expected to have kids, but it didn’t work out that way, so to me I get another chance at something I missed. So the girl I’m talking to does want more kids. To me all the kids have to be treated the same, if you love the mom you got to love the kid also. Fortunately for me, the girl I’m talking to her son is still relatively young (6), and dad has never been in the picture, so hopefully no conflicts. But if it was an older child and they blame you for the parents separation, one still has to try and not write off the kid

All 3 of you are very lucky, and have great men who adore you, and your children, and will love you forever.

I was a single dad , my filipina has 3 kids . we plan to have 2 of our own together..it works perfectly

had to thumbs down for the bad take..... I can't wait for the follow up video.... "Why you can trust a bargirl with your wallet" and the upcoming video "Overweight filipina's need love too"

I absolutely LOVE the pigtales ❤ hairstyle on you, Leah

Many thanks for this video!

I feel sorry for any woman left in a lurch to bring up a child but also it’s not worth it for a man to raise another man’s child. Plenty do but it’s most often a path that leads to upset and unhappiness. Find a lady with no children and if you want any have them yourself

Meet my ldr the first of this month..we have been dating for 2 years .. She has 2 children and she is the most loving girl in the world.. Your odds are much better finding a fillipina that has children..they seem to be much more mature.. If you truly love your fillipina..you will accept there past..and what they bring to the relationship

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Great Video! ❤🎉

It would be wise to find one of the few unicorns out there. What are the requirements to be considered a unicorn? A woman who is unmarried, over the age of 30 with no children, few if any siblings and an orphan. Additionally she does not live on the same island where she was born and where the bulk of her extended family still live. Those types of women are out there, they are rare and they are already working to support themselves and are not in the adult entertainment industry.

Sorry, totally off topic, but I caught your interview with Chad, then looked up your channel. Really enjoyed flicking through and have subscribed. I met my pinoy wife in HK, she was a single mum working as a domestic helper to support her son and family in Isabela. We met in 1998 and married in 2005. I adopted her son and he came to live with us in HK in 2005 and he's now with his partner and we now have a grandson. I look forward to catching up on all your videos and the future ones to come. FYI, I'm 67 and my wife is now 58, but looks 21 in my eyes.

Never date a married woman even if the husband supposedly is no longer in the picture. You open yourself up to blackmail and criminal prosecution. So before you date any Filipina get the form proving they are not married. This is true regardless if they are moms or not.. I know this sounds cold and calculating but protecting yourself is important because no one else is going to.

Interesting.

LEAH , 6:15am here in coronado California. Thanks for this video, so informative

Don't.

Steer clear lads, the kids are not your responsibility to support

One plus about dating a single mom, I don’t need to worry about her being a lady boy. 👍

Nice discussion Leah keep up the good work 😎💪One thing that I have definitely learn about the Philippines 🇵🇭 is that it definitely common to seeing single moms there. I have dated single moms in my past. it can definitely be a gamble in my opinion it can comes with responsibllity if a man chooses to commit to a single mom with kids. im glad that I have experience with it. Single moms with kids are a package deal. my advice for mens if they choose to date a single mom be ready for everything that comes with it.

The ideas in this video are horrible. First off biological fathers should be having to say and if their children leave the country..... That these brothers take the children whenever they want to go that's not how it works the children have a right to have a relationship with their father... If this is how you think this is not the type of women that these men are looking for. They'll be the same thing with your children take them and then run off

Why make it sound complicated ? The expectation is Anyone that's a ATM ( Filipino or Foreigner)

Single mother for me is a total dealbreaker. Why would anyone choose that 🤷‍♂️. You are there to rescue her and kids from poverty, you will never be her first priority, you may even be 3rd priority behind kids and family. Why would I put a filipina 1st in my life but she puts me 2nd/3rd 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️. If you want to be the rescuer and support her family ….. go for it.

Sounds like John loves Jessel and her Son you are a lucky woman❤

On any local dating app you can find a hundred single mothers who are looking for a man........ ANY MAN ! If you want a wife with children , scroll through the bios, and pick the one you want !

I found the best in the Philippines. A smoking hot single mom from N Cotabato. Getting married Nov 2024. She is model gorgeous

I would not have a problem dating a single mom.

I don’t mind if she has a child, but I expect the father to be providing financial support for that child. That’s not my responsibility. I’ll pay for the housing and daily things but their father had better be providing support or the mother should agree to file for child support. I myself pay child support monthly that’s a little more than 71,000 pesos. So my kids support are my priority as her child’s is hers.

17 minute mark interesting how you bring up he is not the real father , my response to this would be ,,, it takes more to be a real father than forgetting to pull it out in time .i have an adopted daughter , we adopted her at only 5 days old ,still in the hospital at the time after birth , i have only ever seen her one way and that is as my child ,love her and raised her as my own true flesh and blood , now she is twenty years old and our relationship is as father and daughter , bond set in concrete , even though im white western man and she is asian , you could never telll my daughter im not her real father without her giving you a long scolding rant on what it takes to be a real father in the real world ... sorry about the rant but i have been listening to this ,your not the real father crap for 20 years 🤣 i mite not be the bio-logical father , but i sure am the real father . ✅😷

Three Philippine ladies laughing is so sweet.

I heard a saying years ago. If your dating a single mom, don’t think of her kid as another man’s kid. Think of her kid as a extension of the woman herself.

Omg. 😂

I grew up in a religious family, and I have my own thoughts and beliefs in the Bible. If you believe, then yes, when you marry a single mother and you consummate the marriage, then you become one. And her children, become yours, and your children become hers also. ( Read the book of leviticus) So there is a responsibility to the children to raise them as your own. I raised my stepson as my own from the time he was two months old to an adult. He has grown up to be a responsible man and a great father himself. His mother was a alcoholic and had drug addictions. When we divorced, I was given custody of stepson and my biological daughter. Their mother eventually died from alcoholic psoriasis of the liver. The reason I am telling this is raising a child wasn't your biological child can be a very rewarding experience. My son didn't meet his biological father until he was 18, and even his biological father said to him (my son) that even though he was the biological father that the man who raised him (me) is his dad. But if the single mother wants the man to love and treat her children as his own, then she will have to realize that he will have to have equal say in how the children are raised. Not just her way but equal for both. God bless you all. (I have say bringing a child out of the Philippines can be very difficult. A good friend of mine got married in the Philippines and they had a little boy together, this is back in the late 1980s. My friend had come back to the USA because of work, and it took over two and half years of legal processes to bring his wife and biological son back to the USA. It all has to do with the laws in the Philippines and getting permission from the Philippine government. I'm going to imagine that getting to bring your Filipino wife and her children out of the country would be very, very difficult until the children became adults.) So if the foreigner wants to have a relationship with a single Filipino mother, then he should plan on staying in the Philippines. I don't know if the laws for children leaving the country have changed, but I doubt it.

God, the Filipino accent is so hot! 😅

Native American Catholic Husband to my Wives ... but never a "Partner." The term "Partner" in my world is either for a Gay Gentleman's Significant Other, or a Modern Masculine Feminist's soft hands Beta Simp. Wealthy High Value Western Alpha Men don't raise another Man's Off-spring, unless the Mother's Husband had past away and was a Honored Member of our Tribe. When I visit Cebu next winter I would only "Date For Fun" a Filipina Single Mother, but I would absolutely never ever Marry. After all, the Catholic Church is not a Lunch Buffet where People get to pick and choose what they think is Acceptable or Not.