Imagine how people who work in DIY shops feel when they find out that they sold a person their death rope? That's all I could imagine whilst watching this.
Same, like think out it. You work at a DIY store and a person who looks 100% fine walks in and goes straight to the rope isle and stares at them for a while. You go over to help and they're thankful, you ring them up and then as soon as they walk out the door you think about what they were saying. I think i'd break down in tears because I'm pretty much helping someone kill themselves.
+Oliver R. Suicide is never the answer wtf is your problem. "You should just let them do it" instead of saying that or implying that you should've said something about helping them out tf.
For those that don't understand, the clerk realized that he was a perfectionist, like serious OCD and he wanted to go out with everything perfect. Mentioned the tarp so he would go inside so he could key his car, making his exit not perfect so he wouldn't kill himself. So, in a nut shell he's trying to prevent the suicide.
But the guy who wanted to commit suicide could have looked at the scratch as another thing in his life that has gone wrong and could have used that as another reason to kill himself
Well, hellø there, felløw human! “I know what you think in the morning, when the sun shines on the ground and shows what you have done, it shows where your mind has gone.”
I wish there were actually people like this in the world though, nobody actually really notices. Edit: Wow I've never had such response from a comment before, thank you guys! Stay strong and keep holding onto hope
For real right. Too many people in the world too busy about their damn money or how one looks. But very few people that actually care about someone’s emotions.
@@philphilips1020 don't lose hope Sometimes I feel the same but I have a really good friend who I know will always be by my side to help me She gives me hope to live You must have someone that values you too, right?
@@philphilips1020 like.. no one listens to you when you speak? You don't talk to anyone?family?relatives? There's gotta be someone Pherhaps, you could seek for help?
+Slicef They're not taking advantage; it's more like it's their way of saying there's always a reason you can find to keep living, no matter how small it is.
Kaitlyn Sun No, it's not their way of saying it. It has been said thousands of times over, there are suicide hotlines, there are therapists, there are counselers there are other videos on youtube. This video was not needed, it was a cash grab. it's what buzzfeed is.
This honestly is such a clever and well thought out video. Now, the man in this video might be suffering from OCD, but I think the real thing with this video is those little things that can make you stay just a little longer. Even if it's just going out to see your friends apartment, or having to water your plants. It is those little things that can essentially get you through it all.
for a long time my reason for staying was to save money for a funeral which i had read can cost around 9000$ i didn’t feel right leaving that burden on my family saving up for your own funeral isn’t the best reason to stay alive but it kept me here long enough to find a better one like staying alive for my two kittens and my best friend staying alive so i can go on my next vacation i’m starting to enjoy life again any thing that keeps you here a little longer is a good thing
Omg you so like me I want to pay for my funeral but also an otyrr reason is I know I can go but I do think to give my family to get things said about them in the family tree cus iknow peole will say things many don't think about the things like this like funreal and other stuff guess great minds think alike
Hmmmm... i didnt think about that. I wanted to stay long enough to be successful. So noone could say I quit... Its starting to be less of a reason the longer Im here
@@jossellefisher6665 Swap successful with happiness. They are absolutely not the same thing. Find your inner glow. It is there....nothing to do with money or impressing weak minded individuals. Just be. Can't you see in all these comments the real love and caring from total strangers? This world has become fake and false. But there is real caring out there. Good luck my friend 🌷
My heart broke when he looked at his messages and it said 0 :( my life everyday. Simply don’t feel cared about anymore... maybe I am but ppl only show it when you’re gone
Hey fellow Mia. Us Mias have to stick together coz we are the best kind. You know that Mia means Mine/My? Maybe you tell yourself "that chick in the RU-vid comments...she's MY reason...she told me we have to stick together"
Wait so did that guy key his car because he knew the suicidal man had such bad OCD he felt like everything had to be perfect before killing himself? So he did that to keep the suicidal man occupied so he wouldn't kill himself and possibly find other things to distract him along the way? Because that's pretty clever.
Blake Mastretson it isn't ocd. It's the fact that there's a bit of us that wants to hold on so it finds a problem to solve. If there's something we have to do we have to stay alive to do it right? Also when it comes to suicide...its our last moment. Of course he desires exactly how he images it
Dont worry i witnessed many deaths in my life from being in first person view to many motorcycle crashes one with resulted in death i helped because i relized when that person died everyone worried and people cried
Yep that's pretty much what does it. Lonliness. This life was meant to be enjoyed. But when we just can't even find any at all it's just madening. And it's Krazy cuz that's literally how empty so much of our world is now. There's just nothing, and nobody that really does understand or cares, or can offer. Hate to say it number 2 is money though. N number 3 popularity or envy lol. It kills us. And yet if u only knew how pretty ur pic is, n how desirable u are, n how willing we all are to take any part of how good u are we can get, u'd know ur ok. But I understand lol. We're all depressed on this page too.
I just want you to know, if you have some friend who is not talking much to you, it doesn't mean he want to kill himself, but maybe some day… what I want to say is, with a simple "Hello, how are you? " you can save someone's life...
that's what saved my old boyfriend's (still best friends) life. simply just saying how are you to him saved him because i was able to talk him out of killing himself
Yeah because if you simply ask "How are you" or something like that, then that opens the door for them to not give a robot response of "Good, how are you," but actually tell you, you know, how they ARE. Pretty amazing how something so simple can have such an impact. I wish my friends cared about me that much.
That’s what I thought the outcome was going to be. Because we saw him rearranging stuff in the shop, I thought the other guy was going to offer him a job in the end
Daisy Luna that used to be me but then my dog died and i have no point left in this world i have have broke my leg once jumping of the top of a tree trying to kill myself
That little doggie loves you and will miss you of you decide to commit sucide. Stay for that little dog. And find more people/pets that you love and love you they can be your reason to stay too.
owen cahill I am sorry I never saw this comment I honestly never saw that it was replied to. I am so completely sorry about you leg, I know it’s extremely hard I really do, sometimes I just don’t want to be here anymore either. I might have not the best advice but I can say this...I lost one of my doggies a year ago, she was only 4 years old and I am left with 2. It was heart breaking cux I had her since she was days old, one my other doggie gave birth to her and the other one was her sister. But something that helps me is to think about one day ima going to have another doggie, I want to rescue one and be the reason that little rescue dog is alive today and have many adventures with my rescue dogs. I know it’s hard to find a reason to stay but maybe helping another dog or animal in need might help you to want to keep fighting. I know this may sound silly but I have had dreams of my doggie that has passed away and in the dreams she comes back to life and is playing happily, I’d like to think she is telling me she is ok and wants me to be happy. I believe your dog would want the same for you, I hope this comment reaches you in time.
it was supposed to fit in with how the dude was a perfectionist. How fixing things made him want to keep on going. That's why they dropped in the music
People care. People will miss you. If you're a suicidal teen, realize that your life has probably changed a lot in a couple years. That can happen again, but for the positive.
i mean... putting off suicide isn't going to cure his depression. yeah, it's good to find a reason to stay even just for a little while, but it's not a long term solution. this isn't a happy ending... or at least, it's not the whole story.
My thoughts exactly. Despite the closing upbeat soundtrack and technically non-unhappy ending, this wasn't meant to be a feel good video. There are people who are trying to stay another day all the time, but end up at the same crossroads many years down the line anyway. Typically these people are thinking about their friends and family so they delay the inevitable to keep others from getting hurt, but of course it's that very person who ends up enduring that hurt for what some might consider a torturous length of time. Probably a famous example would be Robin Williams who did the best job of dealing with his demons for decades and even made an impact on the world despite his internal struggles. There are those who will judge his final act as being selfish without realizing how selfless it was to even make it that far and to still be able to do the things he did to brighten the days of others in lieu of the darkness he experienced within.
When I came out to my friends that I was diagnosed with depression, that’s when they decided to self diagnose them selves. So they don’t have to listen to my troubles and help me. It gets me so frustrated and hopeless when I go screaming for help, only to find out, that to them, mental illness is a competition. I really can’t win.
These are the type of videos that made me fall in move with Buzzfeed and I wish they made content like this more often. Makes me sad when I see pointless videos called "Pets in Wigs."
When people cut them selfs for attention it is still a cry for help saying I need to be heard so when people say your doing it for attention you realize what ever you do no one cares. I have been through and am going through emotional hell of all of that in between. So please help... don’t make it worse.
The guy knew that if he keyed his car then he would have to stay to take the time to fix it so that it would be perfect again It showed earlier that he couldn't kill him self because there was lint on the floor how in the hell would be able to do it with a huge scrape on his car? His two mental illnesses (OCD and Depression) neutralize each other instead of feed each other (like say Depression and Anxiety) By scratching his car the guy gave him a hell of a reason to stay
(I'm using my boyfriends account) I relate to this and It makes me sad and think back but, it also made me laugh because he made sure everything was perfect but still found another imperfection to fix....I think that kinda showed the person he really is
+Beverly thacker demonetize= RU-vid takes off ads so the channel doesn't make money from the ads. RU-vid changed their policy so that content creators can't do certain things on their channels such as but not limited to; talking about sensitive subjects (meaning for this video, mental illness) swearing, etc etc...
If ur suicidal join as many group activities as possible, I was suicidal before, I had no job, no car, no license, and my life sucked, joining group activities is the best cure
+christinaaaa4444 Running. The track team. Any kind of exercise. In that mental state you don't have motivation to eat food, or you start eating too much. and either way, fresh air and exercise is needed at that point.
+christinaaaa4444 You could volunteer at your local animal shelter if you like dogs, cats and other family pets. Attend museums and music events in your city if you enjoy art. Attend events at your local church if you're religious. I have been suffering from depression for quite sometime; hopefully I can take my own advice.
Im going through the same thing. I have severe depression. I had to go to the ER and from there to a mental wellness facility for almost a month. I had tried to hang myself in my closet. I feel for anyone who might be having the same troubling thoughts.
ItsCova i know. I might seem very rude now so i am just gonna tell you I am suffering too (which is true) but... I honestly laughed a little when it broke
Ok I'm sorry this entire video was amazing and the acting was really good but is it just me that thinks that the music at the end really ruined the video ?
I’m suffering from severe anxiety and depersonalization and my life is literally falling apart and i don’t know what to anymore so I understand this video
For everyone who wants to kill your self. Don't plz. You're worth it and are an amazing person. You are loved. And someone out there cares about you. I, a stranger care about you. And will always be there for you. Stay strong you're an amazing person and can get through what you're going to. Cause what you're going through right now will end. And just remember smile be happy live life to the fullest
he have a big n' awesome car, a huge house, a beautiful smoking, he even wanted to have a beautiful rope for his last but he doesn't paid for Spotify?? haha lol
You are amazing for having the strength to get through every day - just remember that! I believe in you and please remember there are so many reasons to live and that the future holds so much more for every single person x
No he doesn’t really have OCD. He does all these things because he is scared from killing himself. By doing all these things maybe someone or something will occur. Like someone texting him etc. So by him keying the car meant he was going to try to fix it, instead of killing himself because as previously stated he’s to scared to kill himself. And that’s what the clerk notices because he probably has dealt with the same issue or a loved one. I know this is kinda late but I just wanted to clear everything up. FYI this might not be correct but it makes much sense why it would.
I remember watching this video my junior year of hs before attempting. I had an oddly similar experience, & it was enough for me to go get help. Life is strange, sometimes people can be good.
I found myself feeling bad for the guy but also bursting out in laughter every often. Beautiful video, love every little detail about it, goes to show no matter somehow, in some way you can find another path, even if it takes time it will show. Part 2 somewhere??
I remember I tried killing myself and the same thing happend to me :-P My friend said that was a sign from god that I should keep living, but I just think it's me failing at yet another thing in life :-/
Lmao same when I was like 16 I used a blue rope in the woods and the branch legit cracked hahahah I was like crying and laughing I’m 21 now and I look back now and laugh Glad I’m still here but sometimes thoughts come back. I hope you’re doing okay
Same here, except the metal bar I tied the thing to came down I must be a lard arse 😁 I don't know if I'm glad it didn't work or not- there's been some horrible stuff I've been through since but there have been some great times I never could have dreamed of-Ive travelled all around the world
I hit a low point in my life and one day I was so so tired, I had no emotion, I wasn’t sad, I wasn’t happy, I wasn’t calm, I wasn’t excited, I was just ‘There’ but I felt so far away. I was just enduring everything and it had finally ran out. I went for a long walk, I wasn’t expecting to come back home. My cat who was an outside cat followed me as I began to walk away from the house, I wanted to just keep walking, knowing if I turned around I would go back and just endure more. And I did, I kept walking as I made it to the overpass I stopped and thought about my cat who was most likely expecting me to come back. I thought about what would happen to her, how she would feel if I didn’t come back. Someone she’s known her entire life just suddenly disappear, and for the first time that day I cried, I ran back home and prepared to be yelled at for being gone too long, The only thing I wasn’t prepared for was my cat sitting on the sidewalk where I left her. I felt a wave of comfort knowing I had someone who was happy to see me, and waited all that time for me. She really is my savior and the only reason I’m still enduring.
