I’m estimated to be 10 weeks (naturally) pregnant with my first baby after 6 years of infertility, and 4 failed fertility treatments, my first doctors appointment is 10:00 tomorrow!! When I tell you I felt this video in my soul… I felt it.. ❤❤ Sending you lots of prayers & best wishes. Glory be to God.
@SavannahSanders094 I was wondering since I don’t know much with infertility. If someone else like the girl in the video was struggling with the infertility, and she got pregnant but then later lost the child, does that make it easier for her to conceive again? Or is it another game of trying?
@@carleym4579 I truthfully don’t the answer to your question. Personally speaking, I would take it as a good sign, even with the loss.. after years of trying, and nothing happening.. I would (and did) assume “I cannot have babies”, so by having a pregnancy, whether it resulted in a loss or a baby, I would then see “I can in fact have babies.” I now know that I am capable of conceiving. I don’t know if it would be medically easier to conceive or not, but I do know mentally, it very much changes things in a positive way.
This actually gave me goose bumps! When it was me in this sweethearts surprise, I couldn't move...just sat there for the longest until reality finally settled🥰 Wishing you a joyful journey and a beautiful delivery of your long awaited gift from God🧑🍼
As someone that has suffered infertility for many years I cried with you. I finally got my miracle baby earlier this year. My first ever positive test was on the 10th of December last year. I was to shocked for words and took about 8 tests. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy happy baby and get to hold your miracle baby soon❤
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! 🎉 I had a miscarriage with my first and never was able to conceive again throughout my life. Comments like yours makes my heart so happy!!! Enjoy your blessing! 🙌🏼
I was the same, after 7 long years I was not feeling well so I called my sister adn had her on the phone with me because we live in different countries. Now I'm waiting until April where our families can meet our miracle
I ran across this video and I literally prayed.. I was like "God please let that baby stick" because I can feel your emotions through the screen. So I went to your profile.. I'm so happy for you! 🥰🥰🥰🥺🥺
I was 33 before I ever got a positive in my life, and 35 when I got my baby congratulations to you! May it be the most beautiful experience for you and your little filled with lots of love cuddles and expeditions ❤😊
Same here, we found out we are pregnant couple days before after 3 years. It wasn’t easy every month seeing negative, a lot of tears and crying. I pray to god that all the women who have been praying for a baby will receive soon. Aameen
This hits hard. I had this too. 7 years. I actually went through IVF and even though when I finally got that positive I couldn’t stop crying. Congrats on the positive. Healthy pregnancy to you!
Awe you could tell you were expecting to see negative. I'm so happy that you finally saw that positive sign. Congrats, good luck!! being a mom is the best
Crying!! Oh momma, I so felt this! Congratulations!! I just found out last week that I am pregnant after 7 years of trying for our second.. happy is an understatement ❤❤
congrats mama, we are many with the same problem and we all feel with you girl, you are gonna be the best mother and remember that you are a star for showing other people the bad and the good side of infertility :*
@@rozbudell What does this comment you wrote mean please? As I don't understand and it's puzzling me: *"My dog would NOT leave my side from the night I woke from a dead sleep to announce to the darkness that I was pregnant."* I realise I am probably being stupid but I can't quite seem to understand? Do you mean like you were really depressed but then you discovered you were pregnant and it was like waking from a deep sleep? Or you felt dead, until you learned you were pregnant? Or that your dog would not let you sleep too deeply? Or am I somehow totally missing the point!? Thanks!
I remember that. That defeat you feel in your soul before even looking. With my daughter, the only way I knew, was because I dug it out of the garbage a half hour later to look at it again. It said positive. I'm so happy for you. ❤
У Сестры 15 не было деток . На 4 году замужества внематочная . На 11 году замужества одна неудачная попытка ЭКО . И совершенно неожиданная удачная беременность через 15 лет . Племяннице сейчас 13 лет ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
I cried with her because this October will be 23 years when I fell to my knees & cried just like her. We had 5 years of infertility. After that long we were told I would never get pregnant. So we adopted the most beautiful baby girl on earth. She was 1.5 years old when I gave birth to my baby boys. They were identical of all things🥹. I thank God everyday for my 3 amazing baby’s & the amazing adults they grew up to be. 🥰
Congrats I’m literally crying right now is like it’s so happy how sometimes just doesn’t work out and how people can just try and try and try it and then it finally works out and then just congrats. I hope you have a good time with your little baby girl or boy remember you can do anything as long as you put your mind to it just tell you are pregnant now because you kept on trying you kept trying and I love it how people sometimes just keep trying
How are you holding up? I already had so many emotions after 2 years of finally having a positive test. Meanwhile, finally mommy! It was my thyroid gland (hashimoto). Had it diagnosed in Germany (Dutch myself). I was in those two years desperate and very emotional. And now I read that you have been waiting for 17 years. I really hope that one day you may be so lucky ... and hold a beautiful little human in your arms. Your post impresses me. Big kiss
Have you gone to the dr to check your reproductive system, blood, hormones etc? If you are married or in a committed relationship has he gone to get checked?. There could be something medically wrong. If there isnt anything medically wrong then stress, our overall health, anxiety, depression, stressful job, etc would be factors as well.. oan there is always adoption- there are plenty of beautiful babies who need a mom to love and care for them🙂
I know this is probably a stupid question. But have you tried IVF or surrogacy? 17 years is a long time but you would know that better than me. Are you still in your fertile years? Sorry for all the questions it took me 3 and I thought that was a long time. I can’t even imagine what you’re going through.
Me, pregnant with my first, watching this and just bawling… remembering my reaction when I first saw that wonderful positive ❤ Congratulations! There’s nothing sweeter than feeling your little one moving around inside and knowing you’ll get to meet your baby in just a few months!
It took me 8 years, but oddly enough my dog knew before I ever imagined I was, she wouldn’t leave my side (she was my husband’s loyal companion before we met) and even had to sit at my feet in the bathroom. They definitely know there’s a baby. Congratulations, much happiness and I know you have a bright future ahead ❤
I struggled with infertility for 7 years. The joy of being pregnant has no words!! I give her all my love every single day of her existence. She’s 13 now. And every day is like the day she was born.
I haven’t seen such a wholesome video like this, for a while now. That was a genuine capture of the first time seeing that positive. It was lovely to see, especially after so many negatives.
@@user-eg5qx3vi5s Ирочка, да это не бесплодие. У меня была похожая ситуация. Я 6 лет не могла забеременеть вторым ребенком. И врачи не понимали в чём дело. Ведь со здоровьем всё было нормально. Ведать просто всё должно быть в своё время, ведь дети это дар божий. Даже после того как всё таки я забеременела, радовались мы не долго. На 14 недели у меня начались сильные выделения, увезли на скорой. Оказалось у меня подтекание околоплодных вод. Врачи настаивали на оборте, говорили что плод всё равно умрёт, ставили различные диагнозы, в первую очередь гипоксии плода. Говорили что если даже и получить доносить ребенком умрёт после родов. Потому что он не сможет дышать + говорили что у ребенка не развиваются почки и мочевой. И многое другое. Я рыдала, молилась, ругалась с врачи из-за оборта, убегала с больницы потому что просто не выдерживала давление со стороны врачей. Это был полный кошмар. Я держалась на сколько это было возможно. Но на 36 недели (8 мес,) у меня отошли воды. Меня экстренно прокесарили. В итоге на свет появился мой сыночек, 2260 весом и примерно 42 см.(врачи не верно его измерили) в выписке было написано 54 см🤭 но у меня дочка была 3.350 53 см и я прекрасно помню какая она была. А сын был просто крошечный. И после родов нас в покое не оставляли. Говорили что день два и малыш умрёт, потому что у него почки и мочевой не работаю совсем. Я была в таком шоке, случилась истерика, а потом показала памперс в которые он писал. Но они на это не обращали внимание. Твердили своё. Я умоляла отправить нам в Краснодар. Но и в этом нам отказали. Вообщем плюнула на всё. Забрала ребенка и ушла, даже не дождалась пока швы снимут. Сами прошли обследование в разных больницах. И везде заключение одно малыш полностью здоров. Не смотря на то что у меня было критично мало вод и что 36 недель всего проходила. Вообщем сейчас сыночку 5 лет, от сверстников не чем не отличается, полностью здоровый и не погодам сообразительный. Ведать всё таки кто нас хранит там на верху. Простите что так много написала🤦 для меня до сих пор это больная тема.
Im crying for you , my name is Raven 14 years old and when im older all i want to be is an mother . I can feel how much it hurts when you get a negative test and when you get a positive test after 3 years i think its a beautiful moment
I’m 61, and I was the same way when I was a young girl. I got married at 22 (don’t you dare do that 😅), and I had my 1st baby at 24, then 28, then 34. If you ask me having babies is for the young. It was so much easier at 24 than 34. What a difference 😳😵💫😬😁.
I was the same. Wanted desperately to be a mother for as far back as I can remember. Then at 14, wanting, no, * needing * it to start right-the-f*ck-now, hit me like a ton of bricks and never let up. 10 years of feeling my babies with me so strongly, but knowing they were so so far away, 10 years of crying myself to sleep nearly every night, heavily grieving their 'not-yet-physically-existing" absence. Til I met my husband. (Definitely don't recommend because this is absolutely not everyone's path but) thank God we were both the same kind of jump-in-way-too-fast crazy 😂 two months in we started trying . Took six months of actual ttc to get pregnant, and this was legit my reaction. Absolute, complete and utter shock. Sobbing for hours. While simultaneously being completely confused and bewildered by this reaction. (He's 10 now, and as big as me! 🤣🤯.)
I do agree. My dogs have actually protected me in my life. I will take that in my heart for the rest of my life and wonder how I got so lucky to have them. RIP to my Razor, until we meet again ❤️😇🥰🙏.
Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉We waited, struggled, prayed, cried, and finally got our miracle rainbow baby after 21years! God makes everything beautifully in His time. And yes my troop of Labrador kiddos/ mommies walked me through every test and loss and the last one got to see my baby girl in my arms before she went to (doggy) heaven. ❤🎉
Congratulations. You definitely are going to be a great Mom. Anyone willing to not give up on their dreams is an excellent example for a quality human being.
@@MiffetBlue yes I understand that it’s a figure of speak for those in the ttc world they get what I mean anyone going through infertility when you find out you are pregnant there is never just one test you take
Did that for 11 yrs, went through it ALL & still negative, but....after 11 long years of unanswered prayers they were FINALLY answered when we adopted our baby boy. 11 yrs of unanswered prayers all answered in an 8 wk time span & let me tell you it was overwhelming BEYOND comprehension. The amount of blessings that piled on top of me/us & just like it was for you in an instant I was humbled to my knees. In fact, it was THE MOST humbling experience of my life! Congratulations ❤
congrats.. me too after 2 yrs of waiting God never fails me to believe and conceived.. sending you a healthy pregnancy journey. i cant wait to see my little baby boy this december.. 😁♥️♥️♥️
I'm so happy for her. I know what that feels like. You want to be that kind, loving, caring person but it seems like every time I got a "not pregnant" test result, one of my friends would call or come over and say, "Guess what, I'm pregnant!!!!' You want to burst into tears, but you put on a happy face and congratulate them and gush and ask all the appropriate questions like when are you due or have you picked out any names. It took me 20 years before I got a test that came back "pregnant." All of my friends' kids are in college.
I've dealt with infertility for over 5 years. I just got my first positive test (well 20 positives as I kept testing to make sure I wasn't imagining things.) Lol good luck and baby dust to youuu!!!
Как только вы отпустите эту идею иметь ребёнка и успокоитесь, наступит беременность. Сильное желание и ожидание создаёт много напряжения, а в напряжении яйцеклетки не хотят оплодотворяться, чувствуя опасность. Удачи!
Why do a million tests?? Surely if you waited one or two more days your period would come, right? I get wanting to know but it’s almost like a cruel form of torture. NB sorry I am speaking to you as if you are the person in the video… I’m assuming you both did the same thing re testing every month
@@wheresmyparade only at first. And when we were in fertility treatment. But we still tried for 8 years with no pregnancy… same pain if you test or not
@@gracesgardenlife Same pain just more expensive, I guess. I’m sorry you went through that for 8 years. I don’t know if I could do that. I’m happy that you were able to conceive… I’m sure it would have made those 8 years feel worth it! Can I ask… did you conceive again??
I completely understand. It took us a little over 6 years to conceive our daughter. She is 9 now, and absolutely the best thing I have ever done 💜 Congratulations momma!!
I cried with you. I had a miscarriage 11 years ago & never tried. I literally never had unprotected sex because I was so traumatized losing my babe at 13 weeks. Then the surgery. 8 years later I tried & got my positive. We were elated then 5 days after testing I was in the hospital preparing for another procedure. I was pregnant outside of my uterus. I promised God I’d be okay if He took me home if this happened again. 2 years later I tried to have a 1 night stand honestly. I’m boring, I wanted to spice things up & be adventurous 🤦🏾♀️ that adventure turned out to be a full term healthy pregnancy & now I am a Mommy. Congratulations! You’re baby is going to be so proud of you! ❤❤❤
I wish I had recorded myself. I went through it for 2 long years. Then my miracle happened! He's 8 now. Congratulations! May you love it as much as I do! ❤️
I recorded mine, after 1.5 years of trying. It's on my channel, it's one of my top videos. It's definitely a crazy emotional moment! I'm so glad you got your miracle baby!! 🙏
