She really seems like a sweet girl but she gotta slow down. 22, 4 kids and she’s been married and divorced already?! Sheesh. Wish them all the best though, they both have some maturing to do for those babies.
Girl she had kids with her husband it didn't work out and she got divorced I'm pretty sure your mama got a bunch of kids and ain't never been married and you bout to follow in her footsteps let that girl live the way she want to at least she ain't out here having 5 kids with five baby daddies
Starts with the father. No father figure to teach and be a woman’s first love in a Man. I guarantee her father was a bum who wasn’t involved in her life. I truly feel for her because we all have so much potential to explore within ourselves and she seems far away from believing that. Never too late to begin
She sure knows how to pick them. Keep bringing innocent kids in their mess. It was a shock, but you were sleeping with him. Work on your SELF ESTEEM!!!!
I stay on birth control even when I'm single. My worst nightmare is to be a single mother. You can't just be out here reproducing with everybody like that 🤦🏽♀️
That’s was my biggest fear as well. Unfortunately I am a single parent after 8 years of togetherness. Unfortunately in life being a single mother is something you cannot run. from.
That was also mines but one thing I know for a fact. When people say pick someone blah blah is a croc of BS because you can know someone for years and they can truly be good humans but soon as kids come into play people change for better or worse! So to all my strong, beautiful super moms that's reading this comment...dnt feel like your a single mother because of anything you did or because you decided to give the deadbeat some of your cookies. Men can truly become bums and deadbeats right after you become pregnant, during the pregnancy, after the birth of the child or at the same damn time!!
She’s a beautiful young woman. She reminds me of my mom. She was married with 4 children by the age of 21, It was financial and stressful. My mom left my dad for his multiple adulterous affairs. My dad attempted to murder my mom, committed suicide. My mom survived but was paralyzed with a spinal cord injury from the attack. We children always had everything we needed, and I thank God she knew how to manage her finances. 🙏🏾👏🏾
@@thatlsk fr that concept is insane to me. It's ridiculous to raw dog anyone that you're not planning on having a life long commitment with or else it's the child that truly suffers.
She can love herself 100xs more over and she probably still will never have a healthy long term relationship. People aren't raised to be husband or wives
@@lisai2110 exactly! I feel for her, she's so young with 4 kids however like you stated birth control. There are different forms of birth control these days no excuses. We women have to take control of our sexual health because at the end of the day raising kids lies on the woman. Hell I'm 35years married with 2 kids and I'm on birthday control because not only is it hard having 2 kids, I refused to be getting pregnant every damn year.
Her youth being spent taking care of kids, these young women should want better for themselves in my city a young woman had twins last month and ended up killing them a couple of days ago. I think she was 23 😔
We men need to be putting on condoms. If I'm being blunt and honest here it doesn't slow us down....much and for men who just aren't interested in having children at all they should proceed with a vasectomy and get off this Macho BS that has them thinking that it makes them less of a man. I got one at 40 and I never looked back and I never once regretted it
@@thatlsk it would be better for her to be alone with her 4 children than to settle for this low grade man who will have her stressed out, being an emotional wreck, exposing her to diseases, and possibly having side babies. No sir. What is he bringing to the table besides a bunch of stress. Goodbye 👋🏾
Right, that is sad, but just look at the comments; the internet exposes that the avg blk person has ZERO standards for men and thinks he's a prize just b/c; they'll tell her it's all her fault and she should be glad she can even find him, so just settle for what he has to offer (nothing). I'm starting to see how as a community "we" don't value the women and children enough, and I use "we" very loosely since we all don't subscribe to this sad foolishness, but many of us do, and this helps keep us a disenfranchised struggle group collectively... Settle for less, "we" get less. We can't afford to carry on like yte trash when we don't have yte privilege to compensate.
she’ll have 8 kids before she’s 30 and he will be running around as usual. them guys know they don’t want to be home with nobody with a bunch of kids even tho it’s their own kids
Well i know some folks are perfect but for me, i see that they both are young and can change for the best. I give blessings to change, even if someone is 80 years old. 🌼
Sad they knew each other only 6 months before bringing a baby into the world. They didn’t know each other well enough for that type of relationship, especially a 4th kid!
There comes a time one must ask themselves, what is it about me that I keep having babies by trifling men. Maybe I should find away that I don't get pregnant.
She needs some serious therapy.... falling for someone w/o really knowing them is a huge red flag. Plus she should be leery of allowing ppl around her kids -- no telling what kind of person they might be 😳
I've been in her shoes. I hope she sees this is a destructive pattern of meeting/dating uncommitted men. She can't change his cheating. Long term, I hope they get some counseling & develop a healthy relationship for the sake of their son.
She was thirsty. These women be having babies by men they don't even know 5/6 months. You don't know a person in 5/6 months... I have realized you really don't know a person until after 1 1/2 years.
Having 4 kids are hard regardless of her age. That being said, hopefully she will slow down and if she’s not on birth control she need to get on birth control and focus on herself. She is so young with 4 kids already.
I was dying when JM was explaining what “catfish” is ,,, he said it , as if it was something brand new ! And he was laying knowledge on them hahaha 🤣 poor JM
You’d be surprised how many people fall for scams. It’s still people out here who fall for the e-mail from a nigerian prince who claims you’ve won millions of dollars but can’t access it until you send him a couple of hundreds/thousands 🙁🙄
@@melissalsmith883 Yeah- you’re absolutely correct especially for the older generation who is finally learning how to access the computer and use the Internet it is all brand new to them, so you’re right , i stand corrected. It’s sad to be honest:( my son has fallen victim to it. So I can’t even say the older generation! The young young young people learning the internet also falls victim to the BS too :(
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TD snakes is the one that's got them in this situation . Why would you listen to someone who condones homosexuality and Christ is white... the Christian Church have destroyed billions of people by teaching lies..
I Like Her, She's Cute and Seems Nice. I Believe She Had 3 Young Children From Her Ex and 1 With Him. Yeah, I Think it Would Be Best She Not Have Anymore Children Anytime Soon, She is Pretty Young. Dude Don't Seem So Bad Either. He Just Needs To Grow Up and Put That Cheating in Check, if He Really Wants To Hold Their Family Down.
Whew yall Judgemental! Smh. Im so Thankful that GOD is the ONLY true judge because yall condemning this young lady and have never walked a mile in her shoes.
I agree, didn't like that comment at all. Even though many carry on this way, it's unacceptable, and the burden shouldn't be placed on her only to keep the peace.
When she first came out and the camera was all on her,you could tell she was getting uncomfortable, like hurry the f up and get that out of my face😂 i don't blame her i would have stared making weird faces 😋😝🤤😂
"Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble." 1 Peter 3:8 Praying for this young couple and their children.❤️
I was 18 going through all this with just 1 baby though. Except nobody chased me on the interstate lol but yeah I’ll tell anybody to be picky with you chose to have kids with take your time Fr
Lol!! Now she really has the proof he’s the child’s father! So next time they fight, she gonna throw it in his face about taking him to court for child support, not let him see the baby, etc. Unfortunately to parents that young, they tend to use the child as a weapon in their fights!! Sad, but very true!
"How many months after meeting or weeks after meeting did you get pregnant?"....3:36. Then every time she says I drove from Georgia to Alabama Judge is like Wow.....
22 with 4 kids and divorce is just an example of poor home training and or some kind of dysfunction emotionally that hasn't been addressed. I was always SCARED to get pregnant as a young woman, like I knew the consequences and burdens esp financially. All these women who has multiple babies by bummy men and act like it's a lifestyle. Where are the parents teaching their daughters AND sons morals? I was taught to not even think about babies until I can financially take care of them, hopefully with a married man in a stable home and lifestyle. Older brother was taught the same. Telling your teens "don't have sex" isn't enough. We MUST build our daughters up emotionally, mentally and spirtually. Too many are insecure and sleeping around for validation from these guys, just making stupid choices. P.S if you have sex without BC you will most likely have a baby smh. Not rocket science. Having children is a big deal. Like I couldn't imagine doing it any other way smh. Way too stressful. She's so young still, I hope she finds a great mentor or even case manager (I'm a case manager) and help lots of young mamas with lots of fundamental things. Best wishes.
This was one of the best paternity cases I’ve seen no telling,name calling,disrespect or screaming occurred they both conducted themselves like civilized people 👏🏾 I’m glad they’re willing to work things out not only for them but,for the well-being of their son it would truly be a blessing if there were more couples like them 💯 May God bless them and their family especially their newborn son 👏🏾👏🏾
People have negative things to say about her and her children but he is 26 and living between a woman with 3 children and his Parents. He has a son now, time to get somewhere to live of his own.
Judge Mathis you had me at first I thought he was the guy from Blazing Saddles Yoo-hoo boys look what we got here LOL but you are a nice looking young guy I was just joking I hope everything turns out right with you both
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She's young so she has that snap back body. 4 kids and still petite. Driving to meet a dude off Facebook within a week from a rando who saw her on the show was a dangerous move but I'm happy it worked out. Hopefully they work out. If it doesn't, it's gonna be hard to get a good man when you're already a household of 5, no matter how good you look. Best wishes to them both.
Oof, I hope this girl realizes that these results isn’t going to stop him from cheating. That’s a lot to go through especially when you have 4 children.
Y’all really talking down on this woman. She had three kids with her HUSBAND!!! And then that didn’t work out so she met this man.. That doesn’t sound like many men to me. No one talks down on the father of the children, only the mother... If only the roles was reverse and men can birth children lol.., men would have MANY baby mothers lol.
I don't get all the negative comments. She didn't just pop up and have 3 kids with 2/3 random men. She was married. Too young? That's not my call to make but hopefully they have a better relationship after this.
He has to be doing something because no woman is going to post a man pictures so that everybody including her family and friends and see that she's in a complicated relationship. When it's all said and done we as women have to come to find out at some point if you don't trust him and keep it moving. Man or woman, if you take them back they'll just find a different way to do it and every time you take them back they will get Slicker and Slicker with it.
They seem like a good couple, but they need to get their priorities straight. He's out chasing women, and she's chasing the record for most kids before you're 25.
She knows good and well shes not going to find someone to take care of her kids, nobody in the right mind (that doesn't need citizenship or a place to stay) is wifing a single mother of 4
It was a shock to fall fall pregnant when not using protection and she already had 3 kids. Yeah no. She needs to learn about contraception and so do her partners.
I don’t even feel sorry for these little girls nomore how are they falling in love with bs men over and over again !!! It’s the children I feel sorry for …. With parents like this and a mother with low self esteem they don’t have a chance !!!
She need to go find her self an old man now . There's no young guy that is gonna be dealing with that shit 3 kids then 4 . She need to focus on self and she wants a man now is gonna be a sugar daddy soz
