I assumed wrong before, so I tend to regard every flirty interaction as people just being nice these days. It hurts less than holding on to hope that they like us only to find out that everything they do is for someone else all along. I think the worse part about liking someone is when you’re not sure if you have a chance with them, or should find someone else who shares mutual feeling instead.
I totally agree with you that sometimes we tend to hold back because we are afraid of getting hurt. It’s not a good feeling when we get rejected . The best way is to be direct or to ask if they like you the same way.
@@Psych2go I see… romance can be complicated, yeah? For me, I can only cheer for her from afar though. Logically, I have -100 chance with her. You’re right, I still believe we all deserve to love and be loved in return. It would be a wonderful feeling to be connected to someone deeper than just physical and emotional level. But to a soul and primal level. Someone that makes you feel like you’re home and safe.
same, I don't know about you but being a man is kind of difficult since girls, at least my age, tend to be more expressive and affectionate than guys, so sometimes it feels a bit confusing, but yeah I feel like 90% of girls will make it obvious if they are into you, if you just don't have that suspicion, they probably aren't
@@juanvazquez5836 I could tell that she’s not interested. I don’t have any suspicion nor see any sign that she likes me back. Lol when there’s zero communication, there’s no hope. Though it feels so wrong whenever I try to move on from her. Like some invisible force pulling me back, warning me that I’ll be in trouble if I ever look elsewhere. Probably just me trying to hold on to false hope. Man, this love thing makes no sense sometime. But hey thank you. I still have a lot to learn and more research to do when it comes to this sort of thing. 😁
“hey i fucking hate you with every single fiber of my being. to make this easier i suggest we mutually ignore each other and only communicate when absolutely necessary. sincerely, your coworker”
You just hearted this comment. So I have a question for you. I've been in high school for about a month and a half. And I've been *friendly* ever since we've met. How can I build up a friendship and relationship at the same time? Is it even possible?
I know, right? Like I've developed a crush that lasted a week and this video came out. I was sl confused. Psych2go uploads videos during convenient times for people😅
@@timothyfromwisconsin I just went through what you're going through 2 WEEKS ago! A month ago had a crush on this really beautiful girl, and I've actually had a crush on her since before the pandemic even began xd And within these 2 weeks I've expressed my feelings to her and at one point sang her songs on my ukulele (been playing uke for 3 years)
@@timothyfromwisconsin "How can I build up a friendship and relationship at the same time?" "Is it even possible" -It is, and literally just happened to me As to how you build relationship and friendship it's easy, as long as you don't assume negative things, like I did. One advice and ONE advice I've only ever needed was, "Be yourself."
It's easy when you're unattractive, since you alr know they're just being nice to you. No need to jump to conclusions or make anyone else feel uncomfortable
A lot of these behaviours can be attributed to girls who admire their male friends and respect them, but don't necessarily want a relationship with them. Some girls are naturally flirty by nature as well. As a man, you can meet a girl who straightens her appearance, changes her behaviour, say that you're amazing, compliment you all the time, but still despite all of that doesn't want to be anything more than just friends. That's not playing games, they just enjoy that kind of platonic relationship with men and if the man catches feelings, that was not her intent despite men being starved for that kind of female attention. I wish it were simple and we could just check against a list of 10 things, but it just isn't that easy.
All the actions mentioned was me sending signals to my college crush back then. After we graduated, I muster up my courage and confessed to her. She was the first girl that I have asked out my entire life. But I was rejected, her reason was that she was straight and friendship is the only thing that she can offer to me. I was sad about it and I already ended communication between us to move on. But after watching this video it made me smile as I recall all those times that I liked her. Those were good memories. 😅
I used to have a crush when I was in 8th Grade. But today, I think she's just being nice to me, even though she admitted that she had a crush on me to when I confessed to her first.
8 things mentioned here I do when I try to get closer to my friends, especially when I meet someone new and I want to build a friendship with them. So it really does not mean at all I have a crush on them and I want us to become partners. It depends on personality of each of us how we look like if we fall in love and what is different.
If someone is flirty with everyone but you. They aren't trying to make you jealous they just have deeper feelings than can be expressed by casual flirting.
Usually when I think they like me back, I'm correct. But at the same time I keep on thinking of the negative sides so I always have to come back to your channel for reassurance
1. Their friends tease them when you’re around 0:09 2. Their behavior changes around you 0:26 3. They’re always fixing their appearance 0:58 4. They say that they like you in a roundabout way 1:25 5. They go out of their way to provide you with assistance 1:54 6. They cancel out their plans to spend time with you 2:13 7. They will find an excuse to touch you or be close to you 2:31 8. They are keen to find mutual interests 2:51 9. They initiate communication 3:14 10. They get jealous when you’re with others 3:31 random timestamps for mine
I really want to thank you so much for these videos that describes my life sometimes, when i feel down i go to your channel to see your videos and find why i am feeling down, and that really helped me. I hope you get a good day/night and i hope you also reach 10 million very early! ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words and your support. It’s really good to hear is that you visit our channel for guidance. We are happy you are apart of the family!
For me, it's just people being nice. Whenever I like someone, it's always that they like someone else, or they like the same gender. (Of course that's not an issue whatsoever), or I'm just a brother to them. Honestly it just hurts at this point. I'm a senior in highschool now and I want to find someone before I graduate so I can build some memories before I have to move on in life, but no one is willing to give me a shot. It hurts at this point.
I was in your exact same position during that time, just started dating when I started college , lets just Say the idea of a romántic sweetheart in most of media Also generates some expectations e.e hehe.. don't worry when it comes it'd be so special, it would make everything makes sense , videogames together, cozy late talks and doing stuff You usually wouldnt imagine doing , but.. I Guess for now all that comes, is enjoying the things You can for now, till something else happens ☺️ cheers.
@@davidsepulveda5812, although that sounds nice, I wanna make some memories before I graduate highschool. Since I'm a senior, this is my last shot. But ofc chicks in highschool like guys who wear the pants halfway down their ass.
After watching this, I re-read every text i got from my crush and realize, she is not into me. It give me some emotional damage but I know I shouldn't hurt myself more than needed so,... Lesson Learnt.
I mean everybody express feelings differently don't be discouraged just because you watched a video on RU-vid... Be observant every time you see her... You find often she's staring at you? She's nervous when she talks to you? You overheard her talking about you with her friends in a nice or cold way? Be observant and you should try to send signals to her as well and see what her reaction is... Like I said people express feelings differently some people are introverts some are extroverts... Good luck
I actually had this interaction happen to me before in my life. So there was a girl that really likes me and like 95% of the things in the video said all happen. So eventually I found out that this person likes me, but I didn't know what to feel or think about it. I gotta admit at times I was pretty cold and distant from her as I felt a little annoyed at her for being too slightly clingy and close at times but eventually everything worked out. We remained as friends although she seemed kinda depressed for decent period of time and up till this points I'm still wondering if I did anything wrong as I didn't know how to react in these kind of situations since I'm the cold and dense type that doesn't really want or like to be in a romantic relationship.
Maybe during that time you just weren’t ready for a relationship and you didn’t feel the same way about her. And that is completely okay when you are ready for love you will feel it so don’t feel bad
Wow, that's pretty similar to my case, but the difference is I didn't realize it that my female friend had feeling for me, I only know it after I've watched this kind of videos. I also was cold to her and felt a little bit annoyed at her for being clingy. But, it happened in the past, so I just let it go.
mannn, that's basically the same thing that happened to me: I found out my friend liked me (well, she told me), I didn't know how to respond and I guess I was a little bit cold there, but not intentionally, we didn't talk that much for a while after that, etc etc, with the exception that my story goes on to me realising I actually do like her back, but by the time I gathered myself to tell her (assuming she still liked me, so I made a fool of myself there), she said she doesn't feel the same way (still didn't work it out did she ever actually like me or not, but that's a whole another story) 🥲👍 (also sorry for the rant, I have no contort over my vents heh)
someone was like this. "I wish you were here" "I'm so glad I met you" "you make my life better" "don't leave", staying on a call for a literal month straight, not muting when going to sleep "i dont do it on purpose"(does it most nights), then talking about her sleep talking. hearts every time we say goodnight, loads of flirty jokes. Then I tell her that I like her, and I get rejected "I always thought of it as a joke, being friendly and cute". in a game, when I was trying to talk to a woman, she pulled me away mid-conversation to go to the bathroom together (in a game lol, but still I don't know any friend that would do that). this was a few weeks ago, and can kinda see some as not serious, but all of them together and how much it was, I'm not sure if she was leading me on, or if she was just REALLY friendly.
Love this channel so much! It's very therapeutic for me to watch these before bed. The narrator's voice is so soothing and relaxing. I say that a lot but she's the best. I couldnt imagine these videos without her honestly.
My best friend, we know each other for six years now. The first time I've seen him I immediately fell for him. Later we've lived in the same room for one and a half year, he wasn't a touchy person. But from now and then he was teasing and tickling me. Later I've told him what I felt for him, he kinda reacted to it, but he never told me what he feels. I've spent dating other guys instead and we were still friends. I always fell in love with him all over again and again. He wasn't dating anyone. We both have gone through a lot before and during these years. I think he just wasn't ready for a mutual relationship in a romantic way. Now we're dating and I couldn't be happier. Some of these signs do fit into his behaviour back then, some don't. But now we're really caring about the other one and he acts differently towards me than any other girlfriend he ever had. He hated videocalls, wasn't cuddling or as touchy, as he is with me. He probably opened up to me more than to any other person in the world and this is everything I've ever wanted. I've kept planning on kissing him (3 years ago... in 3 years) drunk on a party, so if he didn't wanted it I could make an excuse with being drunk. But I didn't had to. He made the first step by texting me, shortly after I thought I had to give up on the idea of us together. But everything just came out as it had to. I was always a very honest person, but I was never as honest to a crush of mine, like I am to him, because it's like talking to my best friend about my crush, my anxiety towards it and my feelings, only that it's my best friend I'm talking to and about. To everyone who reads this: I wish you just as much luck, as I have right now with him. I never actually thought, that it could become real. But it has.
Huge regret I have years ago, where a friend of mine was extremely close to me, and she always share her life, as well as texting me "I love you, bestie", yet she usually hug me, hold my hand, and lie on my shoulder when she's slightly tired. She had a lot of drama that happened to her, yet she share these to me instead of other female close friends. I myself always had doubts about my looks, and hence just saw all those acts as a friendly gesture. Afterwards, we went our separate ways due to studies, but she was worried about me as I wasn't doing well. Not long after, we kind of just no longer communicate with each other anymore, you could say we lost contact. A year later, it breaks my heart seeing her on multiple occasions looking pretty depressed, yet I didn't got the courage to talk to her, when I got NOTHING to lose. Definitely a regret, will try to do better next time.
sometimes I'm getting mixed signals from my crush but I really don't know if they are flirting or just being nice, and that feeling of not knowing for sure what they mean or meant frustrates me most of the time, but I guess you just go with the flow...
When someone likes you, you know. If you're confused, most likely, its the other way around. Bdw, I was looking for the list...then realised it was just uploaded. 🌻👍🏼..
I always enjoy watching your videos on these topics and how to parochial different scenarios. My gf first knew each other since 2nd and 3rd grade and we’ve had some hard times… But I still love her and it’s been about 3 years since. I has it have to say is be yourself and you’ll find one one who will like you for who you are 😊
I liked someone for a long time, but she doesn't like me back (i think). And now i don't think i have feelings for her anymore... I am now currently attracted to someone else, but i keep thinking of her... we've been friends for many years so i can't just forget everything that happened. But she never feels the same way...
Thanks this cleared a few things up for me, some times is hard to tell if she just doing everything for me as she feels guilty about the past or if she's doing because she likes me
Man...that happened to me,a girl from my class was always hugging me,and walking holding my arm,and suddenly today she asked me out!as a shy guy I was in panic but I said yes...the fact is that I have never experienced this in my 18 years,so I don't know what to do now.
While these are ways of expressing love, it’s not always in a romantic way. Like, I cannot express emotions very well, so I often do it with actions. I do a like,9/10 of these actions as a form of affection, but mostly because I can’t verbally express my care. Initiating play (tiklles and whatnot) memes, acts of service, and jealousy about together time is how I maintain my family bonds and friendships. :l
@@Psych2go we haven't get each other's numbers yet so the ones which involve it is obviously a no. But one thing that I did noticed he's doing is helping me 🙂 Even if the things I need help with is something he can't do, he'll instead ask his friend (which I know for sure likes someone else) to help me 😊👍
i came here to find out if my crush really likes me or not... looks like if he checks this video he is will be 100% sure that i like him. this video screams my behavior around him. XD
Sometimes I think I just need to take a second to appreciate what’s happening sometimes it highlights the bad parts sometimes like rn it highlights the good parts
@@Psych2goso many hit home, but especially the change in behavior, got mad embarrassed hearing that one, and honestly I get really quiet, and my brain floods with *what should I do’s,* but when I notice that I try to pull in and talk to myself for a bit till I’m feeling calm. (I’m not very good at this right now😭) Trying to bring the real me into every conversation 🤌🏽
The whole being close to you when you’re talking and initiating touch thing just made me realize this girl I met last Saturday likes me. I definitely like her too, so let’s see where this goes 👀
#1 I am actually in a very weird situation that definitely deviates from the norm, my friends always say I'm flirting whenever I talk to any girl and they keep trying to tease me. I don't really know why.
this guy, he's my workmate and helped me when i was still a trainee and when i finally got hired, he used to checked on me and gave me advices if some random issues happen. i am an INTP person and i easily get annoyed whenever a person starts to act friendly, i hate it coz it disrupt my thoughts, but him, it gave me vague and strange feelings, like, it made me smile inside whenever he initiate a conversation thro chats during works, he would send me cat pics when he found out i love cats. we both love anime and he's also a fan of one piece. it only took a short amount of time to feel comfortable w him. i would send him memes, shared to him my interest and hobby that i NEVER even bother to tell anyone. i told him about random things like how i actually hate our current government, especially our current president rn, and it made me more want to spend time w him because he's not like those other people i met. he listen to me and made his remark that always makes sense to me, he would randomly askes if im okay, and there was a time i asked him to try MBTI test and it turns out he's also an INTP! INTP type 5w6, honestly, i dunno why im making this comment, i wanted to share this and at least sort out some entangled emotions thro this. people from our work would teased us, i was afraid, what if he felt disgusted about me now and would not hang out anymore during our lunch break?? and guess what? it was THE VERY FIRST TIME i asked someone about some things to avoid overthinking, i asked him through if he would stop being my friend coz people would tease us? he said he won't. i asked him if we could go to an ocean park coz ive been meaning to go there for a long time, we go out and watched one piece:red and the recent was when we visit a horror just a month ago. all of these, it was me who asked him which is the only thing i swore to myself not to. i only need my room and i have social anxiety which. but when it comes to him, i would love to travel anywhere with him. it was hard to accept the truth that i like his presence. i love how we would sit w each other and talks about what's going on inside my head; psychology, philosophy, religion and about my favorite authors, about cats and it made me feel good whenever i hear him laugh about my witty remarks on some topics too. i don't have a close friend or a best friend, i dunno what to call this emotions, maybe perhaps just a platonic affection? i feel so lonely when there's a time when we stopped hanging out like we used to and i hated myself more for that. why would my chest feel heavy?? but at the time, i was scared. maybe it's the best thing to do. we should just forget about what happened before and act like a workmate which is the only thing we have. but i couldn't take how his behavior changed for a week and so i asked him about it and he answered it's due to lack of sleep and i never felt so embarrassed of myself for being so dramatic, im so stupid whenever emotions get ahold of me this is why i prefer to be alone. i dunno what is this, whether this is some strange emotions similar to love or just me being given attention i thought i could never have and be seen as who i am, the only thing im sure of; i could hate EVERYTHING here in the world but him. he's my favorite among other people i considered close to me. im a total nerd, u could probably guess that and there's no single physical traits that is attractive in me. he's good looking and i could prove that, whenever im w him, i always cought random people who would turn their head to look at him or when we walked past by a group of people they would point finger to him and i could hear a suppressed squeak.what the fxck am i even saying. i was soo sure im not in love but i right now, i don't know anymore. im cringe, i feel disgusted w my myself what the fxck is this why is he always in my head?? why do i keep sending him memes?? why did i made a plyon spotify and named it w his name?? why do i always have this feelings like i miss him everyday?? i wanna talk to him but i don't know how, all i know is send him memes and share some topics we both interested. i don't want any of this, really, i wanna go back to the time where i only read books and manhwa cried over gay tragic story what is this, sometimes i just wanna punch him in the face or bite his arms.
Timestamps 1). Thier friends tease them when you around 0:09 2). Their behaviour changes around you 0:26 3). They're always fixing their appearance 0:58 4). They say that they like you... in a roundabout way 1:23 5). They go out of their way to provide you with assistance 1:52 6). They cancel their plans to spend time with you 2:12 7). They will find an excuse to touch you or be close to you 2:29 8). They are keen to find mutual interests 2:51 9). They initiate communication 3:14 10). They get jealous when you're with others 3:31 Hope this helps you out.
I met someone who i thought was a friend, but talks behind my back, yet nice when speaking with me. Tells people I'm handicapped instead of mental illness...i don't know if i should continue the so-called friendship...
That doesn’t sound like a healthy friendship. If anything your friend sounds a little two-sided and toxic. A true friend will never talk about you behind your back in a negative way. How do you feel about it?
Def don't do it when she's stressed or in class lol I think you should do it via text OR wait for the perfect occasion. Btw it's so scary at first but once you do it'll be a relief trust me
Someone is head over heels and falling deep in love! If you want to write her a love letter then do it and see how she feels you’ll never know until you try ❤
I asked her out yesterday and she said yes! I had a mop in my hands and I'm not sure the words I used were in any language human beings are capable of comprehending. But she said yes! So, my advice, ask!
Great video as always, keep up the good work helping others with social interactions 🤗. However, i have a recommendation for the next video. How do you know that you're actually interested in someone and it's not just lust. I think i'm currently interested in a girl but i can't figure out what i like about her or why i like her, maybe i'm just gaslighting myself into believing that i like her not just because she looks beautiful in every way? Anyway, if you find this comment helpful or motivating, please respond. I would definitely appreciate it.
Thank you so much for your comment. Love and lust are two different things somethings you can ask yourself is are you attracted to this person through only physical appearance or through the personality and traits as well? Do you see having a lifetime with him or doing daily activities together or is it more on the sexual side and physical things? Remember a relationship needs to have a good balance of both of love and lust - seeing them as a lifetime partner while having the physical attraction
@@Psych2go Thank you for your delightful and much anticipated response. Considering your response, i think i know what to do now. Your reminding me of what a healthy relationship is has had me back on the right track. I cannot describe my gratitude with words only, so the best i can do now is saying: "Thank you for your time and effort."
I think my crush is showing these signs but they could also be a coincidence... 1. She laughs at all my jokes. 2. She was leaned towards my side. -She didn't do that before.... 3. She sat a seat closer to me in class. -Back when we first met and had to do a class discussion, she remained in her own seat but later she would sit next me whenever we had to discuss something in class and not so long ago she sat next to me for a discussion and remained there... I need help 😭 I can't read signs 4. I was looking at her for some seconds and later found her smile. Not sure if that is a coincidence. 5. We stared at each other for four seconds while smiling and she later said bye afterwards with a smile. 6. I found her twirling her hair from time to time. Not if she does it because look at her or if it is a habit. 7.
I have a crush (sometimes I think it it's more than just a crush no it's definitely more) on some of my classmates for about 6 years I approached him first and he rejected me in nice way after the rejection i could see his nice action toward me and his glances but I translated it as a curiosity and doesn't mean something because I was afraid to get hurt if I get my hopes high... But I still like him through the years and I really need a solution!!.. I can't stop thinking about him especially I see him almost every day.
I have a crush on this girl who I think likes me. So at first she kept hugging and touching and holding me and I thought she was just being friendly since it was my first schools year in this new country and I just dismissed that my crush has a crush on me. Now I think she has a crush on me but she stopped doing all those wierd nice things. Ima dumdum
I already knew this person likes me for a year now, and this just confirms it. I find it very annoying when people like me tbh, I’d rather like them than they like me
@Psych2Go you gut feelings tells u they do like u and also based on their body’s language as well as some signs and synchronicities and also u see them everywhere and they are always around u, they stare at u a lot , always beside u but you guys never talk… maybe some more signs to really know cos I’m so confuseddddd I think he’s shy but sometimes he doesn’t act shy .. I’m not sure I even think he hates me cos he treats me differently from other girls I’m the only one he doesn’t like talking to often but I see him everywhere my gut feelings and his actions tells me otherwise and I even have dreams of him .. lol
What’s annoying is that I think someone likes me, now don’t get me wrong, it’s not like I hate them or something. It’s just that he’s so incredibly smart and whenever I see his score and I show him mine, he pats me on the head or shoulder and says “good job” It may be my anger issues but whenever he does that it kind of pisses me off
I had a crush on one and only one..a huge crush. Since they departed I was alone... totally alone. At first it used to trigger but now my brain has consoled my heart.
Can you and your team please make a video on how to tell if an introverted extrovert likes you? Like someone that’s outgoing but keeps to themselves unless with friends. This guy is giving me mixed up signals 😭 we only have 1 class together and every time I go to talk to him he doesn’t look at me in the eye, and it seems like he’s either nervous or isn’t interested in the conversation, even when HE is the one that starts it. Please help 😅
first sign are my classmates. They're all to-the-point in order to tease someone (person a in this example) LOUDLY but the person who is liked by person a literally knows- like bro
3:53 "You know someone who's acting like this?" Me: "Your next line is, _Psych2Go."_ "Share your experiences in the comments, and share this video with others-" me: *"oh..."*
The final number is relatable since the tryed to make the other jealous by holding my hand from the inside I was like y'know weird since the both of them are best friends😭. And she acts different when the other is not there she would try to do stuff in front of me but when they both see each other they would stop💀 (Note: anyone can help me with a double crush situation😭😭) 1k likes and I will probably confess. Also if anything happens I will notify
