Fooled my cheating STBXW into thinking I was cheating, then Thermo-Nuclear Shinobi Ghosted AND served her Christmas day. #redditrelationship #redditupdate #reddit
Goodluck watching all that! Dont forget to get a popcorn or something before starting it cause its gonna take awhile to end! Comment Popeye if you completed the video... Hope u r having the best day ever!
Notice how she was freaking out for fear of "loosing him", he gave her attention ONE night after months, and she imediately went back to cheat the day after
The worst type of person is someone who doesn't learn their lesson the first time after all the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results
@@zhaitan381It's Okay To Not Know How To Spell Some Words They Got Everything Else Right They Most Likely Had A Typo And If They Really Didn't Know How To Spell It They'd Learn At Some Point
@user-fw7fj3df5r I'm guessing his wife loves frogs and stuff. So she's his frog and her daughter is a tadpole because that's a baby frog. And typically the swamp is the best place for frogs
This guy is actually terrifying. Like think about it. He was willing to sleep with her despite feeling disgusted just for the sake of revenge, and then he waited for her to finally start regretting it and backing out of the affair to destroy her life. I don't blame him for doing it, but dang. Man's cold blooded.
Can only imagine being on the eve of such a long planned scheme knowing that you basically just touched the first domino of your divorce/revenge Rube Goldberg machine. It's a whiskey, smash and victory cigar level event
We're humans and we get horny so i don't think that was initially the plan to do it for revenge. He probably just tried to rationalize it as revenge after he did it, to convince himself there weren't any emotions left.
I feel so bad for the 17 year old. His brother as well, but mostly the youngest since he's stuck in the middle of this mess. That kid's gonna need a whole bunch of therapy.
@@amerhst1201yea that would be the worst thing possible but OP said 17 is going to therapy and was able to build a relationship with his now stepsister but hopefully he finds to believe in relationships
Yeah the guy who did all of this is definitely a psychopath and will learn to regret what he did. I get she cheated but you should divorce and move on. He didn’t once ever consider how this would affect his sons and he literally fucked up his 17 year old mentally and emotionally just for some petty revenge. Absolutely sickening.
Ive heard this whole saga before. Several times actually. Any cheaters who try to take their own lives are such cowards. Glad op is finally happy with a woman that truly loves him.
Keyword is try. She used attempted suicide to overwrite her previous fuck ups. It's a tool. She had absolutely no intention of offing herself. Someone that guinely wants to end it, ends it. The human body is fragile, not killing it is actually pretty hard and riding the line between making it look like you tried and not getting the job done is harder than getting the job done. An interesting statistic regaring suicides is that women are 4 times as likely to attempt suicide than men. Meanwhile men are 4 times as likely to kill themselves. She used it as a drama stunt in an attempt to retake everything she fucked up.
Could have been so much worse. Could’ve taken all the money out of her accounts. Ran up a huge amount of debt on credit cards as well as taking a lot of loans out against the house and cars. Bad credit for a year would be worth it. seems like he was a big enough man not to use his sons as weapons against her. A bigger man than myself. Mutually assured destruction would’ve been the only thing on my mind.
I spoke to OP back when this actively being posted. Its 100% real. The only thing people didn't like was him caving in and visiting her in the hospital...but everyone was guilting him into it including Nina..so he gave in but handled himself like a boss even then.
@@vornamenachname594 depends on the state I have seen many people do it quite successfully, particularly if they plan on leaving the country or stay soon after
@@vornamenachname594 why wouldn’t you take everything you have and run to Southeast Asia where you could find a much more traditional wife that would think you were a billionaire if you even disclosed it to her.
I'm genuinely glad that Sue's dad was such respectful and kind to OP, because sometimes the parents take their cheater child's side, maybe times it can be to an extreme degree. Kudos to that man.
Men understand. Being cheated on is arguably the greatest sin someone can commit against you as a man. It's sheer fucking instinct. I've seen what it does firsthand to my brother. It's been six years. He hasn't recovered and never will, because that's exactly what it does: It makes you not want to recover. You will never be able to trust a woman again. Just having witnessed it is bad enough for me to basically already never be able to trust a woman. I can't imagine what it'd do to my self image if I were to be cheated on, especially for some ultra superficial reason which is usually why women cheat. If I had a daughter who cheated on her spouse, I'd disown her and try everything in my power to support him too. It's the one exception I make to family. I'd rather someone takes a limb or an eye off me than cheats on me.
@@Shadowrose54321 No. Not the same thing. Women will always know their kids are theirs. Men won't. You as a woman cannot possibly comprehend what that does to someone. What that feels like, to have your second strongest, arguably strongest instinct threatened like that. Cheating on a guy is the equivalent to hanging them up on a thin rope over an active volcano or putting a gun to his head, worse even considering that those actions would only result in his death while cheating will result in the death of his eons old ancestral lineage which is a far stronger instinct than the instinct to survive. Cheating on a woman is a mild inconvenience and a bit of a dick move, like stealing $50 from someone only for them to find out later. Both are betrayals, but one is only hurtful because of the betrayal while the other is hurtful because it is essentially genocide being committed against you. Even if there are no kids in the equation, that instinct is still present. It's why people have sex. It's why it feels good. You're a woman. You won't ever be able to understand, and that's okay. Just be grateful you weren't born with problems like these. If I could swap places with you, I would. Count your blessings.
@@TheStraightestWhitest You are insane. Being cheated on as a woman is just as bad. Listen to me carefully, because I feel you need a serious perception check. Women and men are not very different. There is still the same sentience you share. You should be able to view a woman as you do another man; different people with different medical, life, and emotional situations you have, but with the same mental capacity for pain, joy, love and sadness as you do. Men do not suffer some ultra-man instinct that their lineage dies with them. Cheating feels like an active genocide on both sides, and never properly heals. To give you some experience, here is a type of pain that women can experience from cheating that you NEVER will: Imagine you are married with kids, and you realize after years of marriage you went through childbirth under the trust of your union... for a man who has the nerve to fuck another woman? Let's say you are a woman, who is happily married to a man and agreed to plan a pregnancy and start a family with him. You trust he will take care of you while pregnant, and are medically vulnerable for eight months while undergoing one of the toughest physical changes humans can endure. Picture this: For the first few months, you will vomit daily, wake up sick, and be expected to perform daily functions at your usual peak. You may unable to control your emotions, and can fall into deep depressions (prenatal depression.) If you have an ectopic pregnancy, you will immediately need an abortion or face death, which in the current political climate could take you across multiple states. If you have a miscarriage, you bear extreme emotional weight and face death via sepsis if not immediately treated. As the pregnancy goes on, many symptoms like before may start or reoccur, but across the board a woman will have an insane amount of stress on her back, potentially giving her lifelong, chronic pain. After those 8 months, picture it's time to give birth to your husband's child. Birth can be beautiful, but is horrifically painful and embarrassing. In full view of dozens of people, you will be sat on a table for up to 14 hours, praying an epidural works. If it doesn't work (which can happen,) you will have to endure enough pain to make you scream, cry, pass out, piss yourself, ALL of the above. Did you know women can split the flesh between the anus and vaginal cavities during birth? Fun fact. Also, most women shit themselves at the end in front of a ton of nurses, their family, husband... Great way to go out. After the pregnancy, you must recognize that a woman has to then wake up EVERY night, often going sleep deprived for MONTHS, to feed and care for a child. Even if her husband helped and even if the kid was to be bottle fed, the complications, infections, and pain in her breasts will exist for months. She cannot have a life outside of a child for a long time, which may contribute to post-partum depression. A lot of her friends may drop her, and she could still be restricted from alcohol. The pregnancy may have given her lifelong issues with her bladder or other organs, depending on a specific case. For months, her entire existence is trying to find the time to sleep, and caring for a needy, screaming infant that cannot do ANYTHING on his own yet, nor be left alone for ANY amount of time. Now consider: Could you imagine doing all this- pregnancy, childbirth, and raising a kid- Only to find out you did all this for a man that was fucking another woman at his office the whole time? Could you imagine believing you have a secure family with a man you love and trust fully, only to become a single mother who may not be able to give her son a meager college fund? Your body is changed forever, and you are a mother now. Your dating prospects are bleak for at the very least 10-14 years, you must work tireless hours and find someone to watch your kid while you do it, and your ex-husband gets to walk away with a little less money in his wallet and a younger woman. That's the ticket for you. Reconsider how bad cheating is for EVERY adult. A man who discovers a child is not his can walk away from the problem, even if he has to live with the torturous pain of knowing. A woman who is cheated on also has this pain of knowing, yet she must see the person who betrayed her for the next 18 years of the child's life, and has to somehow manage civility to coparent with him. She has to watch her children grow up to resemble a foul man without ever faulting the child. You cannot feel this level of pain and betrayal, and I hope you learn this before you have your hypothetical children. Be kind to your future daughter, and rip her husband a new asshole if he cheats.
I find it funny how Sue saw Nina as a threat to her marriage yet somehow still f'ed it up by having a fling with a man nearly her son's age. What goes around comes around.
I know he kept saying POS was only 5 years older than 22M son, but holy shit it really hits you when OP reminds him POS was literally 4 years old when they got married 💀
Ngl, this man is the prime example of what emotional discipline looks like. He destroyed her without ending up in prison because he’s not emotionally weak.
Anyone that decides to switch up on a cheater being called out just because they tried kicking their own bucket needs to realize that you are caping for them being the ultimate form of a coward. OP is hurting and needs to heal. Sue needs to hold herself accountable for her actions and face her karma. Stop trying to bully and guilt trip him for exposing her. He does not need to see her. Have her work on her mental health and accept reality. Hats off to OP for ruining her and reveling in her desparation.
while I wouldn't say he reveled in her desperation I agree with his stance on the matter and she definitely was happy when people began to take pity on her and it makes me furious that people do this shit. The worst type of cowardice is when you blame someone else for your own actions. basically saying its not my fault I jumped there was a crowd I didn't want to disappoint them.
While her cheating was wrong, how he handled it was completely wrong as well. That being said this entire thing reads like a power tripping fan fic and without a doubt is entirely made up.
@@AfuBinksyou'll be very suprised by the fact that reailty is what fantasies are based on. They can get much werider there is are whole subreddits for cuck and infidelities 💀
@@Akyomihe said he had chemistry with her then too, when you have two love interests sometimes you just pick the wrong one. I agree what he said wasn’t that nice but i don’t think that was why he didn’t date her.
@nitebreak "back then Nina had a weight problem and was diabetic. She was the heavy set goth chick who was super cool, but no guy would ever give a 2nd glance at" then talks about how she's super hot now. Yeah, he had 2 years to act on their "chemistry" before he had a second love interest, but he didn't until she was hot. You can't convince me this isn't the reason why.
“With my new frog wide and her little tadpole” I AM SOBBING THAT IS SO CUTE. I am so happy that OP was able to emerge from the other side okay, and hope him and anima have a very happy life ❤
I followed OOP throughout this saga and was so happy that he dumped his wife’s cheating ass. I always enjoy listening to this story, especially when OOP hooks up with lovely Nina.
I'll be honest, I didn't realize this would be nearly an hour long when I clicked on it. I didn't even feel the time pass by. This man's absolute _tragedy_ of a revenge story had me in chains from the first minute. I don't find fault in him _at all_ for what he did. She deserved every bit of it. As someone who has tried to end my own life multiple times in the past, even _I_ can say that what she did was cowardly and selfish. Obviously it doesn't change the fact that she still needed help from those close to her, *HOWEVER.* None of those mutual "friends" of theirs should _ever_ have insisted that he come and see her. Even if there WAS an obligation on his part to see her, in that situation the only thing that _wouldn't_ make things worse for her was if he showed up to get back together with her. Anything short of that would just be rubbing salt on her self-inflicted wounds, while she was already mentally unstable. In my opinion (which I do understand that not everyone will share), he did everything right except for keeping those mutual "friends" around. You can't have your finger in every slice of this kind of fucked up pie and come away with your hands clean.
Yeah no I think I have to draw the line at the guy deciding to make a show of doting on her at thanksgiving, and then continuing to have sex with her. That's... Kinda gross and made me think his spite consumed him to the point where he isn't the kind of person I could support. She might've driven him to it but I think at that point it was just two husks of people.
NEVER ACCEPT CHEATERS LET THEM SEE DANTES INFERNO ON EARTH. Doesn't matter if it is your father, mother on anyone else. Cutting off 1st degree family is a stretch but I will be sure to a needle on their chair. Anyone below 1st degree family cut off like a cancer they are, let the biggest sinners know let the potential sinner fear. Btw not a religious guy, simply stating that after many years this screw up of a woman thought that this man 27y will last, you simply cannot sit on 2 chairs one of the chair will eventually pull out or will be pulled out. This 27y has his own life, while his wife maybe had some hots despite her age nearing her mid 50 she would not be pleasurable to him unless she has ubermench genetics and vast sums of money to constantly buy expensive cosmetics and plastic surgeries. At this point she could not bear children for him he himself as I came to understand is a loser, a typical young man but due to his low prospects and living with his mother any woman under 40 wasn't seeing him as something of note or worth since the only thing he could bring is his younger body at best. Younger girls want flashy, confident, full of potential guys while nearing their 30's they want a husband he was neither though an old woman was interested in him and she was the only source of physical pleasure for him so he fell in love like virgins tend to fall in love with their firsts.
Cheating on someone with an affair partner almost young enough to be your child? Absolutely gross, Ex wanted a cute young thing to keep her warm at night and a “fresh dildo” of sorts; I doubt she ever loved him. I pity the simp slightly, but only slightly, as he was a grown adult and not some high schooler at least.
@@nitebreakI hope he finds somebody he deeply loves, invests over a quarter of his life building that relationship, then have some POS just like him come and screw his wife.
Y'all realize they mean 5 years OLDER than the OLDEST child, right? He's 27. This is a grown man who's nearing 30 and knew what he was doing. Most guys start families, businesses, or BOTH around this age, but he's fucking some lady from his work and disappointing his parents. Don't pity him at ALL, OPs assessment of him was spot on.
@@oliverstray1040 he didn't disappoint his family, he tried to shame them. Remember, they're Very Religious, so doing this kind of thing almost guarantees you're gonna get deleted from every social circle you have left. Wonder if this is why rich dudes rarely get married, losing her can happen on a dime and she's legally entitled to half of everything, and this can mean millions. Just not worth it.
It is always funny to me that when a cheater get exposed the story suddenly becomes that the betrayed spouse is taking an unnecessary amount of revenge. NO! Hell no, that is not taking revenge, that is exposing a POS for who they are. If who they are and what they have done makes them lose all that they have, it is not the betrayed spouses fault. Accountability is a thing. If you do not want to loose what you have do not take actions that will result in losing what you have. What this man has done can be considered cruel by some but if ALL cheaters wound up like this woman then far fewer people would cheat, that is a fact. I think this guy did right by himself.
@@GallicNineshe would die and that's it. She couldn't handle the consequences of her actions and it is only her foult and nobody elses. Don't get me wrong it is wrong to take your own life, but if she did do it she did so because she couldn't handle the punishment for what she has done and not because that guy did something to hurt her. Sorry for my bad english not my first language and have a good day.
@@mohamadalsahmarani9965 What do you mean for their sake? The kids should definitely know what is going on in the family and why it is falling apart. The kids should be the first ones to know all the details.
I hope the 17 year old learns from this and doesn't get fooled by his therapist into not taking this double cheating experience to heart when he inevitably gets fed the bullshit that ''NAWALT''. He's got two massive burning red flags before he's even a legal adult. I hope he never forgets. I hope he never trusts a woman and turns into a sucker like his father as a result of it.
Honestly the way this dude planned and executed his revenge is frightening, as his therapist said, there's def a sociopathic tendency there. Especially being able to sleep with a woman he feels nothing but hatred and disgust for. Thay being said, that's only opinion, not bashing him for it, I just think I'd never be able to pull something like this even if I wanted to. Also it was wholesome to see how Nina helped him deal with his emotions, from giving solid advice to see the ex wife, to ultimately revive his faith in marriage. As an outsider I pity the kids and in a way the ex, not absolving her of anything, I just find sad when people are the cause of their own ruin. Hopefully his younger son will also have a chance to restore his faith in relationships. EDIT: Because people are saying stuff in the comments (and yikes for the ones hating on women in general), I didn't say he was a sociopath, I just referenced a part of the video that his therapist said he had "sociopathic tendencies". It's his therapist words, not mine. I'm just agreeing. Also no, I don't think this is a normal response to cheating, neither do I agree that less people would cheat if everyone started acting this way. Shitty people who think they can get away with anything will always exist. I mean if people STILL commit crimes punishable with death, I don't think being socially crucified would make that much of change. And yes I understand he acted in anger, he stewed for months, he loved his wife and he felt deeply betrayed by her. But I still couldn't do what he did, it's not me bashing him, it's stating my personal opinon. Do I wish I could turn off my empathy and make people who unjustifiably wronged me face the consequences of their actions in the worst way possible? Yes, I really do. But I'm just not that person and that's what my comment was about.
I like to think it also stems from being an older and wiser guy. He didn't immediately jump the gun without proof, he controlled himself. Even did his research and asked the people he knew for ideas, then anchored himself to avoid backlash. He checked every goddamn check box. Yeah it might not sound normal to go to the lengths he did, but if you don't, then you simply didn't care enough.
I think a big part of it is anger - that emotion shuts down empathy and consideration (both obviously counter the ability of anger to do what it wants). He was furious for months on end, no wonder that he displayed sociopathic tendencies throughout that time. Think about the last time you were truly furious, what few thoughts do you have - only those that serve the goal of anger. I think it’s honesty pretty natural and instinctual. The wife became an enemy with no moral worth to OP. Once that happens humans are capable of terrible things. And in the end, what did OP really do? He revealed the truth of his ex wife’s conduct, he didn’t go further except to ensure the full scale of the reveal wouldn’t be mitigated or that he would risk undermining his position. He didn’t bad mouth her. He just showed what she was doing and saying.
The big thing to me was how he could still bare to sleep with her knowing what she did, id just be too disgusted with my partner to even consider such a thing
@@kkkkyoto Well he could have used an enhancer or just shut off his mind or cleared his mind and let his male instincts kick in. If your a male you know that our instinct and our mind are two completely different things. So he could have taken advantage of that.
I feel if there were more people that had the balls to do what thos guy did, there would be a significant drop in cheating. I totally agree with him, let's make these women terrified to be unfaithful.👹
Something I never understand is if the betrayer wants to reconcile, why do they pursue money in some way. Want to prove you can be selfless, then act it and don't take your ex for what you can get. It's an open goal, right there and they miss entirely.
I think this is the lawyer doing. As the lawyer has to keep their client's interests in mind, knowing she had lost her job and was being shunned by friends and family, they tried to make sure the client could feed themselves. It was for 1 year or until she finds a job, which was somewhat reasonable.
Wait - Nina's daughter goes from 'going to stay at her Dad's house' (this is when Nina comes to stay with OP, then OP stays at Nina's when daughter is home from Dad's) to 'Nina wants me to adopt her daughter as her bio Dad walked out of her life and has nothing to do with her' ....? 🤔
Most of the story is fabricated. He’s a hurt weirdo. I also highly doubt the wife’s affair partner reached out to him crying. also he thinks himself to be Ted Bundy 😂😂😂 this guy is so pathetic I kinda side with the wife somtimes
@@bunniiluvin My dude, why? I totally get being suspicious of the story or not believing it, but I can't see anything that woman did as even approaching the right thing to have done. Not a single descision.
@@korngirl185 if you don't bully your friends and they don't do the same to You it's not friendship... Remember: You can Say your friend is ugly af but if someone says so... Nope, they're dead
This is gold. I had a series of bad relationships. First an emotional user , then a cheater, and finally a beater. One right after the other. Up till the therapist part i acyually was chuckling about all of this . I was mad about the psych saying he had sociopathic tendencies..... mate when you invest love into someone fully just for them to wipe their butt with it. You fully understand had you just immidiately shut put any feelings towards that person. Not only is it a self defense mech it is also completely understandable....
Part of me is in awe, and part of me I never become this heartless of a human being. Cruel and calculated to the point of sociopathy. Even when i been cheated on, I never wish this much harm on a human being.
@@arieseni4107 I think I can do it all except sleeping with her again, how he slept with her knowing what she did is beyond me. I would be absolutely disgusted.
@@arhael3594exactly, I think a lot of people are missing the fact that this guy dedicated basically his entire life to this woman and trusted him with everything he had
Popeye My heat goes to 17, I hope seeing his pops and nina dynamic can help him heal and understand love is worth it, you just need to not give up on it till you find the right person
Worst advice to give. 17 Should never trust a woman ever again. The first gf he had cheated, and the spawn that birthed him cheated. Anyone with an IQ over 100 would have the pattern recognition to see what women are by then.
i had a kid at 16 by accident and for three years tried to make it work with my babymama, she said she needed space and a week later everything went back to normal, i went through her phone and found the ‘i love you’ texts as well as photos and videos of her making out with another boy. kept it a secret from her and spent months continuing to sleep with her even though the trauma was so bad all i could think of was her making the same sounds for the other person. OP is my hero, this was the fastest hour long video i’ve ever listened to.
This OP is actually genius. I think if I ever had a cheating girlfriend / wife (Obviously I hope that never happens to me but you get the point), I would probably follow his plan to a tea. He tipped all scales in his favor and managed to get over it the best way he can. Props to him.
OP is crazy for jumping into it with Nina that quickly. I understand they have history, and Nina does seem like a good person, but emotions man .. they'll color-blind you until it's too late. They should have taken more time together imho, what's the rush to get married?
@@timewarpdrive77 Your blind rage shouldnt distract you on the fact that its meant to protect women. If someone is getting the shit beaten out of her every week, that Alimony is there to make sure she doesnt land on the street over the audacity of not taking any more abuse. Besides that, theres also men who cheat. As long as the innocent are provided for, having a few undeserving is worth it
What a heartwarming tale. I feel like I learned from his actions. I'm much more confrontational and impulsive, but his methods seem much more effective. I obsessively document everything anyway, so I just need to not snap if I'm in that situation and proceed pragmatically even if it's motivated by rage.
I went through a very, very similar thing and just like you, I was impulsively confrontational when I found out. I wish I had been cold and calculating instead. It would have certainly ended with a better result.
I'm not against anything this dude has done. However his wife was right about Nina. Confessing two weeks after being told of someone tragic ongoing divorce is a very opportunistic move to pull. Especially with the fact she suggested that they should pretend to be having an affair as well. The wife was fully in the wrong. Nina was pretending to be a friend for 23 years just waiting for a moment to play her cards. Which is crazy to me.
Yeah and Nina saying she thought about having an affair with him multiple times as well makes her seem like a very opportunistic parasite (I can picture her very mannerisms right now based on experience with "pick me girls"). The wife probably sensed this as well (the wife is still a POS human regardless) and probably became insecure over time leading to her having self confidence issues. Then cue 27 something year old dude buttering her up and giving her more attention than she's had in years and she's like shooting fish in a barrel. The husband isn't at fault for anything but he should take a break for vulnerability reasons because people become easy to manipulate when they are uncertain.
@@incognitobandito244 yup that is what I also caught on. If she wasn't what his wife was worried about she would've adviced to try to fix the marriage or seperate ammicably. But she really went with oh your marriage isn't working out? Let's double down on that!
@@incognitobandito244 I have mixed feelings about Nina, but let's not give the ex wife excuses here. She didn't have self confidence issues and the dude definitely didn't need to butter her up. She cheated because her husband was injured by his knee and she got bored. Simple.
@@incognitobandito244 She was married and marriage didn't work out. And since then she only had meaningless hookups. Nothing wrong with her having harboring feelings for the OP, and given what OP went through, absolutely nothing is wrong with what she did.
My cousin was watching this with me and she’s a psychology major and she says that her killing herself was a calculated move to draw sympathy and try to fix what she ruined and that the guy was in the right
God I loved this. Wish I could enjoy it all over again but with the knowledge that I should have prepared snacks. It was like an actual full length feature with all the planning, deception, whole character arc, etc. very satisfying story of revenge
This reminds me of the guy who was a wannabe gangbanger(iirc) that turned his life around for his daughter, made a great man of himself, then discovered his wife had cheated on him(kinda complicated) and his cousin was the father. He beat publicly outed his wife and daughter for the downright horrible things they said about him. And proceeded to beat up his cousin. Then left and made a new life. Though in that story the Ex-wife was, more then likely, sexually assaulted by the cousin, eventually broke down completely having seen her life destroyed, and ending up needed to be in a mental care facility for possibly the rest of her life. That had a, sour end.
Yeah actually the Nina subplot was very sus because Nina herself married a man she wasnt in love with, had his child, and also considered an affair with our man here. Nina is evidently just Sue but the unattractive and humbled version. Nina's "selflessness" towards our man was also a form selfishness towards her ex-husband as she clearly never loved the ex-husband. Very suspicious in my opinion
@@PrimetimeX Agreed, the way Nina said "I though of having an affair with you but I wasn't like sue" is surprising considering how much she "hates" cheating I mean bruh you aren't any good if you're imagining to have an affair and simply stopping because of your current partner, to me you have already cheated and proceeding ahead with actual sleeping together won't matter or change a thing Nina wasn't clear herself and imagined having an affair for DECADE while being married, to me she's no less than sue who although was bad but didn't kept her affair for this long and (maybe?) Had true regrets I wouldn't take her into my life this easily, to me their relationship sounds like a place of dependence on the side of OP and feeling of "old fling" for nina, OP enjoys her company because she helped him get revenge and become an emotion support when he was down
@@theredstar6493 "I mean bruh you aren't any good if you're imagining to have an affair and simply stopping because of your current partner, to me you have already cheated and proceeding ahead with actual sleeping together won't matter or change a thing " Brah, you are mad. You want to crucify a person for wrong think. It's a showed strength of character that despite those temptations she did not act on them. A good person is not someone who simply acts good for the sake of it. A good person is the person that acts good despite all the negative temptations and and desires to choose selfish path.
My friend euthanised in november after 6months of cancer stage 4 spread everywhere.. we were friends for a very long time. When i gave him my ipad because he was bed bound he used to listen to these stories nearly 24hours a day. I miss him and find a weird peace to listen to this. Thanks! ❤️❤️❤️
Sorry to hear that, my grandma passed from Stage 4 lung cancer a few years ago and it's a very painful experience. Hope you're living your best life and things are bright
@@SoldierOfGodwyn im happy the worst part of the end was spared on him because of euthanasia being legal and normal here. His pitch black puke was just the beginning and he was horrified by it… ill never forget rinsing that bucket while i hear him sniffling and crying.. My nest life kijda means going through this as well but its hard yo. I hope you are havijg fun and loveingfull memories to look back to 🫶 well be aiigjt :)
@TruPunx89 I don't think it gets better, just barely more manageable. Glad he was able to escape the pain of being hospital and machine bound, but his life shouldn't have been the cost and I hope you live life to the fullest for them and their death doesn't haunt you so
I am more of the ghosting type. Once someone has cheated on me they become a stranger I owe nothing to so getting revenge would just be meaningless. Plus as there is kids involved I would just let them know and let them decide how they wanted to deal with there mother. Since the kids are older I would probably have no contact with the ex.
Unpopular opinion: I dont like Nina. She seems like a user. No decent person would jump into a serious relationship before he even divorced the ex. Her wanting marriage as soon as his divorce was sketchy.
Sue was right about her to an extent. And even though Nina had feelings for him, she certainly didn't act on those until OPs marriage was too far gone. So atleast there's that. We can't always change our feelings, but we can choose on what to act. She's a somewhat good example for this
i reeled when i saw the story was almost a hour long but wanted to to see what happened and im glad that i did, im glad op found love again in the arms of a woman that not only deserved him but unconditionally loves him as well, i cant help but wish they ended up together much sooner, but op had to suffer so his sons could exist, and i know he doesnt regret the life he had because of the two lights of his life and his new tadpole thats joined the family. everything happens for a reason. and with everything that happened it led him to his true love and true happiness. god bless you op
About the sociopathic tendencies, that just means that under the highest levels of stress and pain he loses all empathy for those who wronged him and will do almost anything to them with that justification, which isnt a sociopath, a sociopath has no empathy as a rule they just dont experience that feeling, but op obviously does clearly feel empathy that regarding the other people in his life.
Thank you. All these self-righteous idiots morally posturing as if they're better than him, calling him pyscho and such when they could never begin to grasp the depth of pain and betrayal this man felt and experienced. Especially after giving everything you have to somebody for a quarter of a century. They're a bunch of naive children.
I like Reddit readers because I can work while listening. I’m glad everything came together for you and your family. DV survivor here. I’m also glad your therapist commented on the binder and it’s distribution. I don’t blame you. But my ex is a narcissistic sociopath. That’s the kind of thing he used to do. On the other hand, your treatment of your ex’ affair partner was incredibly kind. You’re a good person. I’m really happy for you and your family. Live your best life and don’t look back.
I really like how he handle everything in his own way. and some people think he overdid it but I was shaking by the thought of he have to live under the same roof as the cheater and cannot do anything. It must be one of the darkest year for him.
her friend said he needs to support her in her time of need? in his time of need when he was inured how did she support him? she slept with another man, slept with that man in their house in their bed, and trash talked him to her AP he owes his STBXW nothing
I’d have gone to her in the hospital room to tell her something to the effect of: “You broke my heart months before yours was broken. I gritted my teeth and bore it. I don’t care what happens to you, there is no love left in me for you. These people still care about you though, your family, our children. They called me here, and it is for their sake I came, not yours. Don’t you dare die. Grit your god damned teeth. Live.”
I've had this mild distain for this style of video for a while, but this story in particular was just awesome. I enjoyed seeing how things changed and developed, whether for better or worse, and I'm glad I got the chance to watch this. 👍
So at 44:34 OP says Nina’s daughter splits time between the father and mother, but then at 50:28 says he’s the only father figure the daughter knows since her bio-dad cut contact 2 years before, so which is it?
@@ryan_alexanderThat's not what he's saying, hes saying how can she split time between the mother and father if the father ran away 2 years ago? Doesn't make sense
I just got to that part, and I think it means that when he was seeing Nina, the baby daddy was around, but left after her and OP got together. Meaning Anna didn't have a father figure for 2 years till he decided to adopt her.
I can tell how legit this is because the wording sounds just like my old man from about that age range. Like the random “and let me tell you, that girl can fuckin cook” was spot on.
I feel like this guy is an evil mastermind and I am living for it (for the record I am deeply impressed and don't think he is in the wrong for doing everything he's done)
It also seems that he lied! He said that when Anna goes to her dad’s house, he would stay with Nina. Then later, he says he’s adopting her because her father is a deadbeat! I started thinking about it and now I can’t stop……
Figging her rough when they were through just for spite was going too far. That was pure evil, Even she didn't deserve. The rest of the story was fair... but damn..
I've seen this story so many times before and everytime it gets recommended to me from a different channel I still watch just to check if there are any updates 😂
Ah- the end brought tears to my eyes. Mazel tov to OP and Nina!!! I hope you guys have the happiest future together in the lushest swamp to raise your little tadpoles! 🐸💚
