For 15 Years Muslim Counsellor Couldn't Find a Muslim to Marry These Women! 

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Also, check out this interesting sahih hadith: 'Aishah, the wife of the Prophet told him that there were four types of marriage during Pre-Islamic period of Ignorance.... [1st two are similar to modern, I'll skip them - long hadith!]... Another type of marriage was that a group of less than ten men would assemble and enter upon a woman, and all of them would have sexual relation with her. If she became pregnant and delivered a child and some days had passed after delivery, she would sent for all of them and none of them would refuse to come, and when they all gathered before her, she would say to them, "You (all) know waht you have done, and now I have given birth to a child. So, it is your child so-and-so!" naming whoever she liked, and her child would follow him and he could not refuse to take him. The fourth type of marriage was that many people would enter upon a lady and she would never refuse anyone who came to her. Those were the prostitutes who used to fix flags at their doors as sign, and he who would wished, could have sexual intercourse with them. If anyone of them got pregnant and delivered a child, then all those men would be gathered for her and they would call the Qa'if (persons skilled in recognizing the likeness of a child to his father) to them and would let the child follow the man (whom they recognized as his father) and she would let him adhere to him and be called his son. The man would not refuse all that. But when Muhammad was sent with the Truth, he abolished all the types of marriages observed in pre-Islamic period of Ignorance except the type of marriage the people recognize today. - Sahih al-Bukhari 5127

Don't you know she was wealthy before Mohamed married her. And don't you know she is the one who made Mohamed a prophet?

@@bedoharon1576 Yes and yes. Muhammad and her family used her wealth to finance his military campaigns.

Love you Hassan!

@@chip9649 but will you marry me 🤣

@@HassanRadwan133 ofc! Hope your dowry is cheap!

@@chip9649 At my age it's bargain basement 😜

@@HassanRadwan133 ill go for it!

6:10 you are a buffon that loves to completely strip the context and show your complete lack of knowledge. Jabir was around 17 when he got married so the prophet recommended he marry someone around his age and they could both be young and laugh and play because obviously an older woman is going to be more serious about life than a younger man and when Jabir gave his reason of why he married an older woman then the prophet pbuh agreed with him that that was the right choice (ofc you left that out) which was that his father had died and the rest of his siblings where young girls that needed more care and attention so it benefited him and was better for is a situation to marry an older woman who would be like a mother to them. My god, you're a buffon and anyone who eats up your words is as well.

Soo sad

In the US and Europe, they don’t consider the person’s past so much. However, my husband and his culture in KSA, demand virgins. I was discussing it with someone today. That person told me I don’t know anything because I’m white. 🤷🏻‍♀️(yeah skin color makes your brain fall out! That person was racist and ignorant) Sorry for your personal issues.

@@BQ900white skin is well liked by Asian, Africans and Middle Eastern it’s not racist but a very strong attraction. There are somethings we can’t help in nature why do you think Michael Jackson use whitening chemicals and nose jobs etc to make himself look 👀 white and facial features even changed. It’s not a shame by society but by personal choice. 😂. I know I love white girls myself ( sorry not racist it’s my personal preference )

Greetings this day Sept 11th Do you know when and where the original Sept 11took place ? Gates of Vienna Austria vowing to islamized all of Europe The Turks got defeated by end of world war one 1918 the caliphate got chopped up 28 Arab states and one Jewish Here's a movie scene with a brief explanation ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-F4hNHYC8GMM.htmlsi=LoTKuxAb7jLyYIbs

Woah

@@FriendlyExmuslim fortunately, my half brother was able to make a good life for himself even though he had little support and is a super good human being.

Do you talk to your brother at al now?

@@diabloakland Yes we are very close and stay in touch all the time. He lives in the US too and is doing well. He was there for my mom always until she died and at her Janaza. We always felt a great love for him even though i didn’t know he was my brother until age 10. My dad does not want to interact with him after my mother died because it reminds him that my mother was married before to someone else. Strange!

Keep hearing these dawah guys mentioning that islam allows men to have up to 4 wives at once to help widows, but almost all of the marriages are with much younger women(likely virgin) and never divorced women. Also they are encouraged to take 2nd & 3rd wives whom are non-muslim to bring them into the faith. The hypocrisy is just too much

Sorry but most of them are garbage

In Christianity if you’re divorced and your spouse is still alive you’re not supposed to remarry, u are to reconcile or stay single. That goes for both men and women though.

@@notyourtypicalcomment2399. No, you can remarry. Christian culture is compassionate. In any case Gospel scripture is that a man should not divorce his wife unless she has been unfaithful and committed adultery also states if he divorces her for no good reason then he pushes her into finding a new partner and that means not only he is an adulterer but she is pushed into adultery too! However, our God Yahweh is compassionate and does not order that adulterers are murdered for committing adultery. The worse sins are spiritual sins. Spiritual sins are aimed at God. God doesn’t get irked by petty human errors such as girl lost virginity before marriage, or child born out of wedlock, but God doesn’t advocate these practices because they hurt the girl or the girl and her child, but they do not hurt God. There is morality but we can see what humans think of as moral can be very immoral. It is immoral to deny a woman an education and a career or job, and to tell her that she must marry if she wants to eat and have a roof over her head, and that’s her only career choice. A women may not wish to marry knowing what it involves, sex and childbirth and a husband who thinks he’s the superior. A woman may not get offers of marriage if she’s ugly and 30% of people are ugly. An ugly man through having money and income through work may find a desperado of a women but an ugly girl won’t get offered marriage, however she still needs food and accommodation. Is an ugly woman or a divorced woman who men don’t desire allowed to work to provide for herself? It seems not ! This is immoral for a culture to endorse such practices! Old women, divorced or spinsters, still need food and accommodation so it is important that women are educated and free to work for an income.

@@notyourtypicalcomment2399that’s stupid when Moses says give them a letter of divorce

​​@Mysotris1... unless for adultery - of her husband. I interprete it: don't ask for divorce, but if your partner wants to live with somebody else, let him go. And Jesus said, divorce was allowed for hartened hearts. Which I understand that the prohibition of divorce does not mean to let yourself being beaten up or otherwise being abused. However - a christian woman always has the right to work or to be cared for by the society, if she can't. That's why many christian countries have a good social welfare system. With the other countries, at least the churches might care for those who are neglected by society. Btw. in traditional christian societies, wife beaters are estimated a shame. Adulterers are estimated a shame. Who does not help his family, is a shame. Islam: A woman who is not a virgin, she's a shame. A bad character: no problem. Immorality with a man: no problem. But women have to be eternal virgins. Responsibility for each other: zero.

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@@ancadan9935 yes the laws are easing but if your father is a Saudi then you have citizenship then subject to the laws of the king. Of course since the king is elderly right now, the crown Prince MBS is mostly in charge of the country. He’s a great visionary and reformer.

@@BQ900 Let's hope he will equally serve his people, regardless gender.

@@ancadan9935 Currently saudi only provides citizenship to muslims and all other religions are banned. Most people do not know this , as they think of saudi as some kind of wealthy progressive state with tall buildings and expensive cars. They still perform public beheadings in deera square, jeddah on apostates which is hardly reported in western media due to saudi petrodollar influence to silence any negative news coming out of the country

​@@BQ900mbs is doing good things he's awesome

The issue is being an atheist after Islam. If you accept Eastern Orthodox Christianity you will find real peace

I also encountered that kind person. A self sabotaging person.

A Doctor would be "expired" too seeing that these males think any female past age fetus is expired.

Divorce is easy, the important thing is to maintain it. If the spouses saw the good sides of each other and maintained their ties with love, care and cooperation, there would be no divorces. Our Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) advised to get married, but not to divorce unless there is a great reason.

@@Liberalllbty Stop spewing that trash. You know damn well it doesnt work that way. Muslim males will always have the upper hand. Divorce happens. It is a fact of life. You speak without knowing anything. When divorce happens, it is women who suffer. Why do you think so many Muslim fathers are wary of their daughters marrying these Muslim males?

Women in islam cannot divorce only men can. women can only request a khula@@Liberalllbty

”Pdf file” 😂☠️

@@mmnde12This is for RU-vid algorithm that blocks people on the words they use

Yep, the purity culture that dehumanizes women who are not virgin is rampant in Islam also they consider it a dishoner for muslim men to raise another man’s child as their own.

​@@mmnde12peter file?

@@ChristianUtamaPETA Phial.

That Islamic ban on adoption did not exist until Mohammed lusted after his adopted son's wife.

Lmao "extreme feminism". What do you purport to be "extreme feminism"? 99% when people whine about that it's some centrist pseudo intellectual that doesn't realize they're talking about the actions and ideas of Terfs, not feminists.

That's only one interpretation. For god himself both genders are equally valuable, but the society islam made a start, which is 7th century arab culture, was patriarchic. That this culture, which has nothing to do with a metaphysical side of islam, should be exported to the world, is orthodox hadith islam, but no one has a monopoly on the right interpretations. There are also other ones with good arguments. There is not the islam, it's a very heterogenic bunch of people

​​@@sumatra_7174Allah fadl men more than women. He made women with crooked heads from a crooked rib. Muslim women are the majority of hell and the minority of Jannah.

Extreme feminism is the ONLY reason Muslim women's problems even see the light of day.

They just wanna convert them.

It's best to learn Islam from ex-Muslims as they know Islam and tell you the whole ugly truth with legit references.

I recommend reading the chapter related to marriage in Sharia books like Reliance of the Traveller (easy to find pdf online).

@@Ruby-GIt’s best NOT to learn Islam from an ex-Muslim. Would you say the same applies for an ex-Christian?

@@She_iswise um, yes, it's best to learn from someone who's out of it because they have no reason to defend it.

@@Vhlathanosh I’m an ex-Christian and now Muslim. You just want to hear what you think is right.

At least you took off the rose covered glasses of family life long enough to say 'potential'.

Which country did you see this?

I actually think it is more of a cultural issue than a religious one. The prophet encouraged Muslim men to marry divorcee's and widows

You have time after 18 years old in west you can be independent

4 years more

One day you will realize how lucky you are to be in the west instead of islamic country.

Start saving if yiu can. Do yiu have any savings? You can leave ina few years but you will need money and a job. Do you have a strong support network of friends that you could move in with? Look at your options. Get a degree and a high paying job and then look at leaving It won't be easy however. Good luck with everything

There are helplines to contact for support and advice.

Wow, I’ll check that out. That is not natural at all to remove children from their mother (unless theirs abuse). Shows how unnatural these extremely patriarchal societies are.

Most muslim apologist will say iran is not true islam due to them being shia, but the root cause is still the same

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. It happened to me as well.

I am extremely glad that you did not convert to Islam. You were brave for not converting to Islam to marry her. I love ❤️ your sincerity. I hope you find another wonderful woman that will be amazing to you.

I had a colleague, who’s 1st love was an Indian Muslim girl, but they broke up, because she gave him the ultimatum- convert or break up.

I was never going to convert. At the time I was starting to read academic books about Islam, variants in the Quran, manuscripts, and was interested in how the Quran came to be (as I studied early Christianity/Bible before). She probably thought that I might be willing to convert because I was reading about Islam, but I was already an atheist who left one superstition behind and saw all religions as equally man-made. She was working on a PhD in biophysics - it's strange that even highly educated people can believe in the nonsense found in Islamic text. Thanks for the kind words... :) @@bigfan2452

these "Females" are no ladies.

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What is the reference for this? Just curious 😮

@@tonymason8606Pagan lies.

@@keksi6844 black stone kissers are pagan.

@@MushisOPP21 Is not a book, this dumb muslim said it on a TV program. He is probably burning in hell right now.

Better, stsy away from Islam!!

Love you Jimmy

love you too buddy, keep up the great work. xxx@@FriendlyExmuslim

​@@MushisOPP21she's a Muslim

@@MushisOPP21 maybe she or her parents/family wanted him to convert

Let me also say here, there are tons of videos of caucasian women who are complaining about not being able to date because they have kids. There are tons of videos with titles "why not to date single moms" from the U.S. Just go search for them. I've watched many of them. This preference is everywhere, not just with Muslims. Look at the economy in western society. Also in the U.S. if you marry someone, you still have to pay for child support even if those kids aren't his. They explain this in these videos.

Your experience. I am married with such a man. For years. He works, and i do whatever i want to be honest. My money is mine. He pays the bills. Hmmm🤔 Nope, cant find a reason he earns money out of me... My ex non Muslim man however, a whoooole other story. Does not even pay for our child, nothing. And i know of lots of non Muslim man that do this well... Mistakes are human. Whatever your believe is, we all make mistakes

Except if she's a blonde(European)

​@@bruceomondi4906 🤣😂🤣

Women defending Islam is like chicken defending KFC

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@@MushisOPP21 they do not know surah Madinah...easy prey by surah makkah as that is what been shared by dakwah gang

@@MushisOPP21 LOL.. what do do..

Muslim imam will hide those kind of teaching from women 😅😅

Thanks!

You can definitely see the breakdown of the black family when you look at black salafis. Undesirable black men seem to be highly attracted to it. I knew one black Salafi Muslim who gleefully told me he doesn't have to acknowledge his illegitimate children because Islam says so.

@@Fumi007 I kid you not, I just got into with another salafi dude a few weeks back who said he would rather give up his parental rights so he doesn't have to pay child support since it wasn't in the quran and sunnah!!!!!!

@DaPopoloinParadise it's an absolute shame. This, The takferi bickering, and feeling like a robot pushed me out of salaafiyyah.

I challenge you prove women have rights in Islam with references from the Quran and the Hadiths. Also challenge you prove there is humanity in Islam. I challenge you to prove Prophet Muhammad was a moral man.

@@Sindhi001 hmmmm think you're under the wrong comment. I'm an ex muslim my guy.

I was thinking the same thing. Very irresponsible.

To be fair his car looks parked. Edit never mind i was wrong lol. I only saw one part of it while i was doing laundry i was listening

I know right? I can't even drive and chew gum.

​@@HassanRadwan133tell that to the millions of people around the world

Awesome

Allah wasn't very educated in demographics back then

​@@Sick_Pencil😂 lol common sense? What about his brain

​@Emmaraducanulove Mohammed didn't have a brain.

Many Muslim women are also realising that it is better to stay single than be in polygamy some focus on career

@@rowenaravenclaw3483 and end up with a pet dog or cat as offspring. If the sisters wouldn't make it so difficult to marry ,with their high expectations of marrying a 6 figure man with a 20k manhr.... I make 6 figures but I won't pay that much... just saying... astaghfirullah

​@Raf-xd4ut Maybe happy with their pet and career. Not all women want to remarry although Gabriel and Abdullah make good points.

They are following their best example, momo( get as many women as you want and point at the West's problems).

Keep men week , equals no revolution

Arabs should go to Antarctica.

​@@magnuscritikaleak5045we dont want em.

Thank you kindly!

That's how their wives feel.... imagine your partner having sex with someone else

They should become ex Muslim

They are prisoners in their home . They should go out learn different skills from medicine to plumbing make friends travel but the community will never let them do it

Of course. But then there should be no stigma against Muslim women marrying who they want to, even if that is outside of Islam.

Sorry Sweden has so many Muslims that moved there. I heard Sweden now is not safe like it was and crime has gotten so bad there bc of it

It’s more harder for women to leave Islam. They are not encouraged to get an education, and if they are, they aren’t really encouraged to find a career to look after themselves (like many women around the world). This leaves them to heavily rely on their family. They are also pushed the whole “better than non-Muslim/western woman” to pit them against other women and side with the men, who rely on this narrative to get them to stay. This is how most patriarchal societies run. Keep the women reliant on other males so it makes it harder for them to leave, and in return, they get more male followers which is a valuable asset. This system is not natural. Majority of female animals do not rely on males to take care of them or their offspring. In fact, males (apes) can be territorial and harm females and infants. Their is no ape species that keep the father around and some human cultures back before colonization didn’t really see the father as that important.

Women are submissive by nature. Sometimes women are the biggest collaborators of patriarchal systems like Islam. Not all women can stand up to Islam's authoritarianism. In Sweden, even feminist women are bending over for Islam, while men are the one protesting against it.

@@user-rs4ci3fn2d wherever Muslims go crime rates skyrocket. Allah knows best.

​@@user-rs4ci3fn2dyeah sex crimes are way up

No maybe old ugly 40 years old just for being the second wife

Conversion by insemination.

​@@amuthi1still, they do convert and many stick to it.

​@@PeaceOnEarthandMercyMildyes but there is no benefit for ugly weak and old women who joins Islam 😂

0.3 percent of converts is low as fuck. And what percentage of those are women? Sorry Abdul but your fantasy is just that.

His saws first wife was a woman with experience. All of his women but 1 😂 Highly recommend to marry a widow or divorced woman. The exact same reason why my husband wanted to marry me a divorced woman as well. My marriage with a non Muslim man was like hell and still have to live with it. Also there is a difference between culture and religion.

@@natasjavisuals5523 Well Khadijah was only 3 years older than Muhammad according to reports from Abdullah and Ibn Abbas, and was a wealthy business woman according to Ibn Hanbal, Musnad vol. 6 pp. 117-118. If you know anything about Islam, theres no separation of religion and state, whereas culture between different Islamic countries only slightly varies. Islam has its own culture based on the depraved life of Muhammad. Either way, i’m glad that you’re happy with your Islamic life and i assume you would be completely happy living the rest of your life in an Islamic country and have absolutely no need to come to a Western country.

​@@kiko8u3 years older? Khadijah was 40 while muhammad 25

@@user-vz3pd3nh4t Al-Tabari lists Khadija's age as twenty-eight, while Ibn Kathir includes a report stating that Khadija could have been thirty-five or even twenty-five. There are differing reports

​​​@@user-vz3pd3nh4thow she had 5 kids with mohammad if she were 40? Average life expectancy of women back then may have been was not high .

Wow. That's awful

They replace that with surgery before marriage.

Well if you don't date or do haram stuff what makes you think you're single

@@raghavnamasivayam8706 First of all arrange marriages are shit specially ones for a passport. These women are single because they want to marry idiots like the last one. They should ditch the hijab, put some make up let their hair down and start dating to find a real man. They marry freshys or complete strangers or idiots they never fell in love with then cry later. And then again they marry same shit or end up alone because they don’t want to date or have relationships. They stay single pray all day. Most Muslim men make rubbish husbands.

Which country are you in? I am glad for that

@@fatemad4012 Malaysia. But almost all of them are closet Christians or atheist because of the laws of the country. The fortunate ones leave the country

@@eddiejazzman100 good to see that it will grow

@@fatemad4012 Thank you sister

Harsh social isoloatiom and treating her as sick. ( not in Turkey/central asia/ indonesia/ malaysia but in other muslim countries )

Yeah I read that age 7 thing but it's honestly very confusing and so many different opinions. One opinion is as you said, they get to choose. Which again makes no sense to let a 7 year old choose!

@@FriendlyExmuslim Personally speaking, I would prefer to focus on the economic bandage that women is kept in in a Nikah and the extreme unbalance in Marital rights and obligations between husband and wife, along with the unequal rights to divorce, as my main topics of critique of islamic family law. Regarding custody and maintenance after divorce, I would myself not really speak of it for it IMO resembles secular law aside from the bullshit 7 years old and the mother losing custody if she remarries. There isn't really much contrast to speak of.

I am not sure about this, but I believe that the rule is the child stays with the mother until age 7 and then the father takes them, regardless of what the mother wants or the child wants.

No, he didn't as that's your own narrative. Muhammad condoned the triple talaq by practicing it and allowed his followers to do it too: Abu al-Sahba' said to Ibn 'Abbas: Enlighten us with your information whether the three divorces (pronounced at one and the same time) were not treated as one during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and Abu Bakr. He said: It was in fact so, but when during the caliphate of 'Umar (Allah be pleased with him) people began to pronounce divorce frequently, he allowed them to do so (to treat pronouncements of three divorces in a single breath as one). (Sahih Muslim 9:3493) Muhammad divorced several women for unbeneficial reasons, even divorced a woman named Fatima al-Aliya bint Zabyan al-Dahhak because she supposedly peeked at men in the mosque courtyard and she had to work as a dug collector for the rest of her life. Muhammad only did things to benefit himself.

You are right . But imagine as an Muslim you have a loyal wife you have only daughters no sons . After you die your brothers and nephew come and take away their inheritance and your wife and daughters become poor becasue the leftover inheritance is very little according to shariah . Your family is left begging their relatives for help . This situations happens daily in Pakistan Afghanistan Bangladesh india

@@rowenaravenclaw3483 The problem started with "as a Muslim". They got way bigger problems to address than inheritance laws. Can't they get themselves an updated holy book like The Book of Mormon? You know, anything that doesn't condone slavery, wife beating, rape, and genocide of the people whose beliefs it claims to confirm yet it contradicts. Get Dianetics even...

@@rowenaravenclaw3483 The problem started with "as a Muslim". They got way bigger problems to address than inheritance laws. Can't they get themselves an updated holy book like The Book of Mormon? You know, anything that doesn't condone slavery, wife veating, rape, and genocide of the peopke whose beliefs it claims to confirm yet it contradicts. Get Dianetics even...

@@rowenaravenclaw3483 The problem started with "as a Muslim". They got way bigger problems to address than inheritance laws. Can't they get themselves an updated holy book like The Book of Mormon?

Yep, and not he didn’t have a single kid.

8 of them

Are you a Muslim or a non-muslim that married a Muslim?

I know men who married single mothers who love the children like their own.

@@Sindhi001 I can't speak for everyone but some see a difference. They would also not adopt.

Honestly what ive actually noticed in america is that the guys will treat the children how they feel about the women. So if he doesnt like his ex wife he wont like the children. Thats why ive seen step dads come and be great cuz they like the women theyre with. Even statistics back it up that when a divorced father meets another women he stops visiting his other kids

It’s like how you can learn to love a spouse, even though they are not biologically related to them. Because love is not based on being related.

​@Mysotris1adoption is forbidden in Islam. Mohamed abolished adoption when he married his step son's wife zaynab.

I don't have problem to marry non-Muslim men even though because I am ex Muslim but I have to keep my Muslim tags for appearance