For The First Time 21-Year-Old Meets Woman She Says She Fell In Love With Online 

Nah yall exploit people for entertainment

Why would anyone do that? This show is obviously exploitative garbage.

Your not helping her. You were exploiting her in front of a live audience, you sick man. You are in no way shape or form helping her. AT ALL. Now because of you she'll be too afraid to go seek actual help from an ACTUAL therapist.

Y’all know damn well what you’re doing

You disgust everyone . It’s time for you to take down your show

She wanted to be on tv

Ikr

Bruh this chick really thought Jasmine wanted to help this other girl . Jasmine don’t gaf. Anyone on this show instantly get free promotion. Who wouldn’t wanna be on the show. If she didn’t show up she would be an idiot.

@@illorbit2958 And get a paycheck too.

@@illorbit2958 lot of people want to be on tv but not all of them are compassionate. Her willingness to help, her demeanour, her words - they all show that she is a compassionate young woman _……regardless of whether she wants to be on tv or not._

In other news, the Greeks want to bring a large wooded horse to your house ...

Was she apologizing though? She was sitting in front of her telling her she dont believe shes not in on it and how she believed she knew they were in a relationship and then went on to say sorry I'll stop. She straight up said she still dont believe her but shes sorry and will stop. Kind of more like she dont want stalking charges and restraining orders but she fully still believes. I do agree dr Phil is pretty over the top on his methods

She f'ing mental 🤣

@@Brando23Commando you really misunderstood what she said, she said she's not looking her in the eyes because she doesn't want to start thinking all that

She’s a great actor

lol what? Jasmine is the major psycho here. Who works out their stalker issue by bringing it on Dr Phil? She didn't want a relationship with Bailey, well now they have one forever online with infinite views and commenters. great solution jasmine

@@meanlifemusic what else could she have done if the police didn't help and teaching out to her family didn't help? Wait for bailey to break into her house?

@@pratkier are you really suggesting the situation was at a point where ONLY a televised visit to Dr Phil could fix it? who even sees that as a solution to a relationship problem like that? jasmine wasn't trying to fix her stalker problem, she was trying to get internet famous. you can see it in her face

@@meanlifemusic 1. It's not a relationship problem because she didn't know her 2. I'm not saying that it was the only solution but most likely the only one she saw. Especially since she had already contacted the authorities. There have been cases where the police don't take a stalker situation seriously until someone gets hurt or worse. Bailey deserves to have real professional help that's not Dr Phil but jasmine also deserves to not be continuously harassed by a complete stranger from the internet

I hope I'm not making a false statement, but I really think I saw the "Jasmine girl" on Catfish 🤔

@meadow it's disgusting how he claims to want to help people but uses the show to make them just look crazy and not treat them like a human being with health issues and trauma

the whole dr phil show is exploitative. If he wanted to help people, he wouldn’t do “therapy” sessions on tv.

@@joncolumbino744 yep, i only said feel instead of is because subjective formatting makes it less likely for others to argue against it that disagree if they did theoretically

He is like this with everyone, why is this episode so different for you

@@judethaddeus9856 Why is that what youre focused on? The other ones Ive seen yield the same unsettled feeling too.

Which one? The lying harassing stalker? Or the real victim?

@@Jordan-vr7ip they are both victims. One is sadly a victim of her own mind. I hope they are both okay.

@@bela9225 stalking and harassing someone doesn't make YOU the victim... some of you have quite a few fried brain cells..

@@samking7916 There is a difference between being very ill and being a manipulative liar. Either way, of course she needs to take responsibility for the stalking and harassment. Of course its wrong. I don't disagree. 🙄

I hope she finds someone

It's Staged..Bailey probably accepted money

She’s so cute I would totally love to be with her

Fake

@@weatheredseeker what💀

@@rydergarcia3647 no one cares

Yeah must be scary.

The black girl could have just called the police on her stalker. I think Dr Phil was more lenient than the police would have been

Agreed

Theres nothing wrong with making someone feel guilty or embarrassed about stalking and harassing someone. Bailey humiliated herself by doing these behaviors, not by going on the show.

It is by the grace of Jasmine that this girl is not in prison.

Dr Phil has routinely been bullyish and unethical on and back stage .his clips do very well because the cases are often very interesting. I can't understand as someone from outside the US why he is loved by so many still,but I'm glad to see folks such as Ellen Oprah and Phil earn less and less praise as time goes on because frankly bring back Rickie lake

You've forgotten that Bailey has stalked and harassed Jasmine. She needs to know that her behavior is wrong, and there's nothing bad bringing these problems to her attention.

@cosmo Her trauma does not excuse her problematic behavior. Also, sending someone off stage when they're behaving inappropriately is not an overreaction, it's perfectly fair.

@cosmo Dismissing Bailey from the stage taught her that emotional manipulation won't be rewarded and that there are consequences. That's an important lesson to learn. Bailey needed that lesson because she had been ignoring Jasmine's repeated attempts to set boundaries.

@cosmo how was Bailey making Dr. Phil seem manipulative? Like what makes you think Dr. Phil felt that Bailey was portraying him as a manipulator

Dr doochebag needs to be cancelled asap

which girl bc the girl is flat out stocker

@lullaby where did you see that??

​@Hannah's Cabbies 1. Opinion shouldn't be valued based on how much you make, which makes me think you only "respect" him bc he has money and no i'm not jealous bc i wouldn't even want that money considering how he makes it 2. If we're talking about Jasmine's in these situations then maybe they get helped, but if we're talking about the Bailey's in these situation i would like to strongly disagree. They get harshly criticized and put on a pedestal to be made fun of for having issues. Dr. Phil doesn't even bother asking her why she wouldn't want her mother there and even only talks to her mother 99% of the time. He also just announces all her trauma to these people who just want to call her insane making her very vulnerable and when she get mad (like anyone would in this situation) she is just asked to leave, which will never solve any problem. Dr. Phil takes advantage of these people who are in really vulnerable positions and uses his following that praises the ground he walks on to make fun of these people for having mental problems. He made fun of her delusions when it's something she can't control. He is not professional and if you ever have a therapist that acts like this please search for another one cause acts like this will just make whatever you're going through even worse Mental illness is very serious and any professional would know that and you don't even know how much money i have lmao (and i'm like 99% sure you're not a millionaire so is what you say not valid then?)

@Hannah's Cabbies 1. I responded 18 minutes after you posted & you responded 10 minutes after i responded so hypocrite much? 2. You immediately started judging my character by saying "all you do is just sit behind a device and criticizes people that are trying to make a difference" so you can judge my character without any knowledge but i can't judge your statements (You told me to shut up unless i have millions) 3. You clearly haven't seen the ratings if you think "helping" people would be the only reason to have this show (how do you think he became a millionaire) 4. You can't really afford to make these types of mistakes & this video used to have a lot of comments that were previously deleted so i think he knows exactly what he's doing

@Hannah's Cabbies 1. It says how long the comment has been up 2. yes you did say that "when you are a make millions then you can talk but for now shut up" and i think i'm the one losing braincells

I agree.

No, he absolutely has. But he’s trying to normalize a more healthy mindset within her, instead of the unhealthy notions she sees on the internet about how mental trauma is romantic.

How’s he causing her psychological harm

@@chloevassallo6844 Ummm parading her behaviour on his show for views which obviously is on tv so now wherever she goes for some time people will know who she is and treat her badly. By doing this outside of a theraputic setting.

@@snooganslestat2030 …she voluntarily went on this show and did all the things she got ridiculed for. You’re acting like he forced her at gun point to go on there and talk about her horrific behavior. She stalked the other woman and harassed her for nearly a year. Yes, she’s ill and needs help and no Dr.Phil has never been good at providing any help but to claim that it’s all on him is silly.

@@krisuler7734 well she went for help, not public humiliation

Bailey also went missing...

No. She came in a stalker and left saying she's going to leave her victim alone

I agree with the fact that doctor wasn't helping her mental health but she wasn't reaching out for help the other girl jasmine was reaching out for help because she couldn't figure out how to get bailey to leave her alone and nothing else worked

Did you forget that Bailey stalked and harassed someone? She's naturally going to upset if someone brings the problematic nature of her behavior to her attention, but she's not worse off for it. She needed to know that what she was doing was wrong and that she had to stop. Therapy isn't just about making people feel better. It requires sometimes telling people upsetting things they don't want to hear so they can work toward improving.

He hasn’t had a license to practice since 2006! He’s a con who just exploits his guest to line his pockets.

he has a doctorate so he is a doctor

@@houseofaction Are you intentionally missing my point? I don't care what piece of paper he has. He is a disgrace to people who should actually be able to call themselves doctors.

He's not licensed, so no he is not a practicioner.

Why? can you explain to me? I didn´t get this story very well. Is Jasmine a man or what?

@@LauRa-re9un that's not EVEN relevant... Not even a little relevant. The point is Bailey is stalking her and she wants it to stop. Man or woman has NOTHING to do with it. Stop stalking people... Lord have mercy😒

@Tracy Martel DrPhil could approach that situation in a kind way not like that. He did it in way worst occasions

@@nolimits300 she’s clearly delusional and a liar. She literally lied on his staff.

@BJ Proehl ...are you okay?

Apparently bailey has been missing since

I wouldn’t want anyone stalking me like that

Exactly; people keep talking about her like she's a victim when she's the perpetrator and the other thing that seems to be missed was the objective was to get her to leave jasmine alone and mission accomplished

Exactly

If I felt like I was actually in danger I would've went to proper authorities instead of a crappy TV show host

@@roxlyde8163 He mocked and abused Bailey despite knowing that she had a traumatic past. No wonder she went missing

of course bailey is at fault for her actions but the way dr. phil exploits the situation is even more infuriating because he's clearly just making a circus of it

He also crossed boundaries only to shame her for standing up for herself

I literally took psychology in high-school and knew his approach was completely ineffective and inappropriate at the least. Like does the guy even have an undergraduate let alone a PhD....

Fun fact: Phil lost his license many years ago due to sexual abuse allegations. He never renewed it!

@@vanishstainremover7905 he actually doesn't have a license apparently

@@vanishstainremover7905 I *HAVEN'T* taken psychology and know this approach is completely ineffective and inappropriate...

I don’t think she’s sincere honestly.

She should be.

She is nuts! Manipulative! She can show that but it does not mean that is actually happening!

she's a stalker?

@@davionbryant1020 yeah who clearly admitted to harassing an individual who’s also clearly suffering from mental health issues. Have some compassion.

For the longest time they didn’t allow comments on dr phil videos

@@Mo-jy7zs oh right, forgot about that

Facts I been seeing that a lot in their videos/ I thought it was just RU-vid glitching out

Yep. They can keep erasing comments but if it’s the SAME guy saying the SAME things to this young lady, tearing her down instead of helping her.... ugh I hate this so much it aches.

@meadow y’all have no common sense huh

Wellt, don't live in that fantasy, then. And it's not even a beautiful, happy, hopeful fantasy. It's a delusion.

She didn’t have to come to tv show

The worst part is that she had to be their laughing laughing spectacle

There was a reason when she came out and tried to dictate how she believed the show was going to be run in front of everyone no less. It’s like someone coming into your home and trying to criticize how you run it. You’d most likely put whomever in check as well, and if you wouldn’t, there’s something amiss with you.

@@basedmenace1727She came on the show under the assumption that people were going to make fun of her. Why wouldn’t she take offense to that? She also came on the specific direction that her mother wouldn’t be there. Which Phil disregarded. Pretty shitty thing to do

Lol

Really? Because She back peddles and says Jasmine is lying....lol

Apology? That was pure manipulation continued.

🤣🤣 LoL 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

She was having a period of sanity there but she might fall back into psychosis late for sure. It's not her fault. Dr Phil should have actually helped her instead of being mean to her because she called him out in a spot on way.

Way to have sympathy and humanity!! Fking imagine THAT @asher 🤨🧐🧐😡

how do you think a stalker should be handled

Exactly

Respect people’s boundaries? Did she respect that girls boundaries when she was harassing her? Hard truths cut both ways!

@Adrian This ain’t a therapy session it’s a tv broadcast talk show, get it right. She signed up for it and went public about it.

@adriano Actually, I believe Dr Phil went too far with this but Bailey definitely is not the victim and should not be defended like in the comment section. If somebody tells you to leave them alone you do what they say 🤦‍♂️

"Poor girl"? Are you kidding me? She STALKED AND HARASSED A RANDOM WOMAN FOR HOW LONG? sit down.

Well said. He completely exploited this girl for ratings and made no attempt to help her.

He helped her stop stalking the other girl

The whole thing's so sad...

I don’t watch Dr. Phil, can you explain the situation to me?

@@katylepetsos7512 you obviously do watch him because you’re commenting on his video If you want more information common sense would dictate you need to watch the show

@@judethaddeus9856 I just randomly clicked on the video you chode.

@@judethaddeus9856 geez calm down my dude, you don’t know if they watch Dr.Phil constantly

@@katylepetsos7512 basically "dr" phil is bullying mental patients

I keep reading everywhere that she disappeared out of embarrassment after taping this show and shes been missing for about a year :(

@@bethlamb3286 do you happen to have any other source information about her being missing? If that's true, that's really sad. :(

@@lysandralux3222 she's NOT missing. You can look up Ericka Bailey on Facebook and see recent pictures of Bailey. Just because Bailey isn't active on social media doesn't mean she's missing.

Sad it's over??? There never was anything,it was all a delusion,and trust me.....nobody wants to be with someone like that,She has a Personality Disorder ffs!!!

What? I feel terrified for whomever she ends up in relationship with.

I was with someone with similar issues to Bailey for over 8 years. My partner was delusional, a compulsive liar, had imaginary children, falsely accused me of beating her etc. But I realised she had a problem and stuck by her. Her parents and our mutual friends could see that she was so much improved with me in her life, which did wonders for my confidence. Unfortunately, (and unknown to me at the time), I suffered an emotional trauma and had several things going on in my life, which caused my brain to 'shut down' for the last four years of our relationship. I was suffering from derealisation and depersonalisation, so I lost touch with reality and my brain just did enough to 'survive'. This caused our relationship to go nowhere (we had both wanted to marry and have children), but I struggled with making any decisions. Eventually, the relationship broke down (needless to say, with m partner falsely accusing me of her raping her, resulting in my arrest). I was left homeless and without any of my belongings overnight. It took over a year to realise just how mentally ill I had been, and I don't think I'll ever recover from the repercussions of it. The mental trauma I suffered was the death of my mother. I had been living with her at the time, so had to leave quickly and moved in with my girlfriend. This was on the premise that I would buy a house for us to live in. When I received an inheritance from my Mum a few months later, I was overwhelmed by what I could afford, but the overwhelm of choosing a property (and a location), asking my girlfriend's parents for permission to marry her, arranging a wedding, as well as some other issues I had going on (my job and location were likely to change, I had a difficult insurance claim which could have cost me hugely if it wasn't paid, which seemed possible) all became too much for me and I just couldn't think. I would look online at houses, wondering why they weren't as affordable as ones I had seen a few months earlier, so thought I should save more to 'catch up', but of course, it was a lost cause. I would never be able to afford the type of property that I could have done when I inherited, but I just didn't realise it (despite being a qualified accountant). I had lost tuch with reality. I constantly think about how I could have been so much better for my girlfriend if I hadn't been so mentally ill myself, and I will never forgive myself for letting her down so badly and ruining her dreams of having a family (it's too late for both of us now). But similar to Bailey, I think the right person who understands and tolerates her and wants to help her will do wonders for her.

And shame on you for watching it

Nah

@@applefarm6126 Yah

@@clintholmes2061 nah

@@applefarm6126 Seek help. But not from "dr" phil.

All because he got so fking buthurt!! Despicable and vile!! So utterly unprofessional!!

He is getting closer and closer to becoming Maury Povich every day. And the merciless way he promotes his own business 'Doctor on Demand". It's cringe worthy.

Why does she need period? Did they mention thay she doesn't menstruat or something because i totally missed that

Period??!! Tf??

Well, Bailey made new profiles but still Jasmine kept responding.... even posting the naked pics she sent online publicly. Like, what?! Just keep blocking her new profiles, don't talk to her. She's obviously delusional, the only way to work with her is to give her nothing back at all, then she'll have nothing to work with. Posting her naked pics just gave her more food to then report those and Bailey to believe that something was happening between them!

Amen she is. She is a good woman

@Robert Lee well I think she probably love it an enjoy it

It's TV, what were you expecting?

Same, I've been in a similar situation on both sides, actually. I think Bailey got caught in the Twin Flames New Age gimmick, where a lot of vultures / gurus teach people to believe in their "intuition", trusting the signs, etc. I've been in Twin Flames groups, and she uses the exact same terminology as people would there. Thinking that your beloved hears what you say, taste what you taste, etc., is super normal in these communities. It has now been proven that these groups can be like cults, exploiting people traumas and their need to be understood and loved as a whole (people like Jeff and Sheleia, for instance, are actual cult leaders disguised as Twin Flames).

Cause she had every right to call the pplice and press charges but has a heart and cant get a stranger medical help so she thought this was her only shot.

@@marissarios7218 i feel like being in National TV is just as worse tho

Me neither and I wouldn't tolerate Dr. Phil's bullying. He's not God.

Doesn't like the truth

Gaaahhhhssppp

Soy boy phil can't take criticism. Because he believes that he's always right

@kim jennie the comment section just opened one most of dr phil videos.....

Utube gets off doing it.

That's why she said "I don't want to think that you're acting" because that's probably what a part of her was thinking.

😂

That's probably so true. 🤦🏻‍♀️

We might if he was this sweet and not rapey.

Cry about it some more bud.😂

@@smartiegenie7847 You're part of the problem.

She's a narcissistic sociopath.manipulates with her phony, soooo sweet voice. Look into those eyes.

Because she called him out in a spot on way she's highly intelligent and a good speaker and she basically exposed the show which he covered up with a rage fit.

@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 if u see the other "guests" she has literally nothing bad

This did literally happened with something in the UK. Jeremy Kyle. Self-appointed saviour with resident psychologist etc etc. Ultimately everything came to an abrupt end following the suicide of a 'guest' a few days after he appeared on the 'show'. A judge termed the programme a modern-day form of bear baiting. It was actually based around Dr Phil!

Good! she was so bad to the other girl

How does one go about "snapping someone back into reality"? My son has psychosis and is delusional. Any time I say something that challenges his ridiculous beliefs, he starts screaming immediately. No one is allowed to disagree with him. If I don't hear HIS auditory hallucinations, it's because I'm old and deaf. Or lying. This girl made several comments STILL eluding to the fact that she hoped they'd be "together", even while apologizing. She's not "snapped back" at all.

She doesn't need someone to love her she needs treatment she needs medical intervention.

@@aprilrawls5162 that's true Indeed.

It’s a smoking gun

Yes she's a true manupilator period

You're disgusting and judging.

@@gabrieldantas63 explain exactly why?

@@ookipuki says the one judging

@@ookipuki Just making fun of the guy. Don't really believe that.

It looked like she was showing her arm... So I'm guessing it was pretty unpleasant.

Jasmine's name tattooed on her arm?

I think she kept making different accounts

Blocking is useless because stalkers can make as many accounts as they want or at least they could at the time this was made. Twitters made that very hard now but it was easy as pie to do at the time this was made. People who said "just block them" are stupi when they can make dozens of new accounts. Do you really think blocking is a magic wand that makes people disappear?

@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 exactly. Before blocking used to work but now people have realized they are always one click away from creating a new account to harass people. Behind the screen, you can literally be anyone or anything.