Large age gap relations occur also among Filipinos. I know a Filipina who got pregnant when she was 15 with a man who was 39. He made his moves around her school and she got charmed by him.
OMG~!! at 15?! How are they doin now? Wasn't he arrested back then? Well, unless the girl is from a very remote province/island, with a culture that allows their 15y/o kids to get married off for a price 🤔
@@TitaPatata She was kicked out of her home, but she managed to move to a relative in the city and raise her child. Today she is married to a foreigner. The father of her child was never arrested and he has never paid any child support.
Older man with zero experience in cold approach gets out of his comfort zone and tries to practice his technique on some random girls and strikes out. So shocking. Congratulations to this gentleman he will do better next time. The Philippines is literally the easiest country in the world for an older foreigner to date young women. He could easily hand out 100 cards in a couple of hours and would get at least 5-10 callbacks. There are more 18-20 year old women that want to date this man than he would ever have time for.
Agree 60+ men should not cold approach 18 yo. But, would he be a "creep" or "creepy" doing the same thing had he been 20 yo and very handsome? It's creepy when a girls is not interested, but flattering if the guy is young and good looking. Given the shy nature of Philippinas, they are not going to approach a man. Then how is a guy going to get to know a girl if he doesn't make the first move. From what you described the man did or said nothing inappropriate. Awkward, yes...but a creep...how?
You have a good point there, Sir. But had he been 20 and very handsome, yes it MIGHT BE a flex on the girl's side. It happens quite a lot. But with the huge age gap, and the way he was pacing back and forth for a while before approaching them, yes he might have not done anything appropriate, but it was very awkward and the girls are creeped by his actions. Awkward with the conversations and ended it with him handing out his calling card, hoping the girls would call him despite their standoff-ish demeanor. Imagine having an underaged daughter mustering the courage to speak up on what happened to her that night, and felt really uncomfortable, awkward and creeped out, would you still ask her to sit down and have her justify why she felt/thought that way (that he's creepy)?
This is true but... Filipinas and their families have expectations that were once normal in the West but have long since gone. This is not USica or Britain. Please be aware of this. Things will be easier if you are.
Not everything is always about procreation… sometimes it’s nice to just talk to someone completely different: different age, different gender, different race…. need I go on?
Oh I totally agree. But the way he approached the girls, plus it's night time, and the age gap - It really won't "look nice" even if, let's say the guy meant no harm. Can you blame OP for feeling uncomfortable through the entire event?
@@TitaPatata we need to get back to classic shaming culture: shame op for not admitting discomfort of the situation. Not admitting is how you let yourself walk right into a truly dangerous situation.
Oh, this is the first time I’ve ever run across your channel and I plan on retiring to the Philippines. I’m glad you like that idea lol but here’s the thing you don’t understand what it is in the west how invisible you become as we grow older I was married for 32 years raise two children and now I’m divorced and I’m invisible people don’t see me. People don’t talk to me. I couldn’t get a date if I paid for it now I’m no Brad Pitt but I’m not bad looking either and I’m a pretty good guy, I respect most people and for you to be throwing shade on this old guy for reaching out and trying something new is not cool
I'm sorry if I made you feel that way. I am not throwing shade at the guy for trying his luck. Hey, everyone does that. The first step is always the hardest thing to do. But what I do not agree about his actions is that the girls are clearly very young to be approached in that manner. Second, idk, maybe it's his nerves that's why he couldn't identify the discomfort on the girl he's talking to, yet he keeps on shooting his shot. That's not what I'm okay with, sir. Respectfully. Some people are bashing me for reacting this way towards the guy, but nobody bats an eye about the girls being minors? If in case the world has come to the point that matured men shouldn't be called out for hitting up on kids, I guess getting bashed and cussed for saying what's on my mind is a SIN now. Well, what do I know? I'm just a woman from a third world country who doesn't have any freedom of speech and doesn't know my place, right?
Unfortunately, some guys don't like to hear that part of the video. The guy creeping on underage girls. Says alot about guys in the comment section focusing on the awkward weirdo part instead of the underage part.
Hey I like Katy Perry and I am old too haha. Sorry we did not have fireworks lol. Old dude needs to slow down and read the room. That teenager is now being ridiculed by her classmates. I feel bad for her. He needs to make older friends first and maybe they can match him up. Approaching teenagers at SM will get him in trouble.
Tita P great topic again. I reckon some foreigners just really think that way of Asian women in general. I don't really know why? Maybe because we're short? polite? people pleasers? I even experienced that here in Oz so it's not just the Pinays in Pinas. We were thought to be respectful to the seniors from a young age so naturally us being polite probably makes us easy to approach? It's ok if it's they're just curious ( usually start from asking "are you a filipina?) but it gets creepy and annoying when they get too "friendly". One instance this old dude even asked if he could hold my hand? I kid you not, that was the weirdest experience I had!
@@nevermind7884 WHAT THE- They're that blunt?! 😱 Idk ate ha, but this is just my opinion: Maybe because the majority of the women from their own countries are too boujee and modernized and masculine (?) that when they meet a Filipina (or an Asian, rather), and they get treated with courtesy and respect, they automatically mistake it with FLIRTING. I'm sorry if a lot of traditional Asian countries were taught to respect not just the elders, but be nice and polite to everyone even though they're acting funny na 😂
@@TitaPatata yes he was that blunt out of nowhere he just approached me in a car park! I obviously said no and ran to my car omg! I wondered if I did something to make him that blunt? I asked my aussie friends for their opinions and they said the guy was just weird. I just entertained him because he was telling me he's been to the Philippines many times since 19forgotten blah blah blah then all of a sudden he asked if he could hold my hand, like no!
I lived in the Philippines for 12 years and I never met a single Filipino girl who didn't need money and didn't want money for herself or her family so stop telling us fairy tales on RU-vid
So you throwing around the word "all" is not fair or right. Not ALL YT'ers are saying Filipinas are easy or can be bought. And just because you don't like age gap relationships doesn't give you the right to make a video blasting a guy that doing something thats culturally excepted in the Philippines. Most girls like to know guys have money, thats why alot of shy socially awkward guys will lead with their wallet. Hence the word hypergamy. But for you to blast a guy on social media and call him a creep and a A hole for clicks shows alot about you. DO BETTER.
Now to address the creep. Sir i don't kno about everyone else but if i am to approach a young beautiful woman. One of my first questions would be how old are u? And not pace back and forth and watching her like a predator . As far as age gap its weird to me to see guys 50 + trying to date women 18-24
Some foreigner be getting the wrong idea about dating filipinas just because they see it on the internet they automatically think it's okay to date fetuses. Smh
@@TitaPatata WHY SHOULD PEOPLE LISTEN TO YOU ABOUT A GUY SHOOTING HIS SHOT AND THEN YOU CALL HIM A CREEP. THIS BEHAVIOR WOULD BE LIKE ME MAKING A VIDEO ABOUT YOU BEING FAT GIVING ADVICE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, THAT WOULD HURT WOULDN'T IT?
