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I don’t believe symping is limited to Americans. We all do it, and yes Australians just as much or more. For him to speak on behalf of all foreigners makes him sound like a simpleton himself. And yes, all of us ‘Mericans are rolling in big dollar piles. This guys sounds a lot like the British Expat with his anti America rhetoric. Straya!!!
I lived in the Philippines for 12 years and I never met a single Filipino girl who didn't need money and didn't want money for herself or her family so stop telling us fairy tales on RU-vid
Oh, this is the first time I’ve ever run across your channel and I plan on retiring to the Philippines. I’m glad you like that idea lol but here’s the thing you don’t understand what it is in the west how invisible you become as we grow older I was married for 32 years raise two children and now I’m divorced and I’m invisible people don’t see me. People don’t talk to me. I couldn’t get a date if I paid for it now I’m no Brad Pitt but I’m not bad looking either and I’m a pretty good guy, I respect most people and for you to be throwing shade on this old guy for reaching out and trying something new is not cool
I'm sorry if I made you feel that way. I am not throwing shade at the guy for trying his luck. Hey, everyone does that. The first step is always the hardest thing to do. But what I do not agree about his actions is that the girls are clearly very young to be approached in that manner. Second, idk, maybe it's his nerves that's why he couldn't identify the discomfort on the girl he's talking to, yet he keeps on shooting his shot. That's not what I'm okay with, sir. Respectfully. Some people are bashing me for reacting this way towards the guy, but nobody bats an eye about the girls being minors? If in case the world has come to the point that matured men shouldn't be called out for hitting up on kids, I guess getting bashed and cussed for saying what's on my mind is a SIN now. Well, what do I know? I'm just a woman from a third world country who doesn't have any freedom of speech and doesn't know my place, right?
Unfortunately, some guys don't like to hear that part of the video. The guy creeping on underage girls. Says alot about guys in the comment section focusing on the awkward weirdo part instead of the underage part.
Stay safe. My relatives first floor is also flooded. The neighbors help carry the appliances upstairs. Fish escape from the fish farms and swim the streets.
We're good here, bro. Thanks for the concern. I live in the highlands, so there's no flood. But we can't really go out that time because the roads leading to the highway and some small roads as well are flooded 😔
Aussie men are some of the worst offenders of Simpery. They're out there buying houses, Financing extended family houses, and getting stranded in the Philippines because they're Filipinas drained them dry. I've heard all kinds of Aussie horror stories.
I think older guys are fooled partly by the RU-vid expats who always brag about how easy it is to get a young Filipina. But also they can get the wrong impression through dating sites where young Filipinas searching for men regardless of age. Many even write "age is just a number". I know this 60 years old man who got a 19 years old online girlfriend. I think they plan for him to go there and meet her.
Yes. Age is just a number. And jail is just a room. lol But yes, the stuff you mentioned are true, and partially, yes, they influence some individuals to do so. 💯
@@TitaPatata What I sometimes can wonder over is how a Filipino father feels when he suddenly gets a son in law who is older than him. I think the 19 years old girl I mentioned above has parents who are in their 40s.
Not really sure, but that would be very weird. But then, like I said, depends on their beliefs and traditions. If the parents gave their blessings and approval over the relationship, then I guess who are we to judge them 😅
Large age gap relations occur also among Filipinos. I know a Filipina who got pregnant when she was 15 with a man who was 39. He made his moves around her school and she got charmed by him.
OMG~!! at 15?! How are they doin now? Wasn't he arrested back then? Well, unless the girl is from a very remote province/island, with a culture that allows their 15y/o kids to get married off for a price 🤔
@@TitaPatata She was kicked out of her home, but she managed to move to a relative in the city and raise her child. Today she is married to a foreigner. The father of her child was never arrested and he has never paid any child support.
I think to be fully compatible with each other a couple should at least have some interests in common.. That someone is beautiful is not enough, there must be an intellectual connection too.
Well.... If you are going to tell men to stop spending money on women, tell the women to stop selling themselves to foreign shoppers. If foreign men looked for actually quality women instead of bar girls and aspiring status seekers, this would not even be an issue. You also have your fellow Pinay on here flesh peddling these young glitter eyed girls that are looking for foreigners that will almost surely use money to compete with each other. Fix the mindset of the women before condemning the men that buy them... EVERY relationship is transactional at best. Even my 11 years with my wife is transactional. If either of us are not doing our perspective parts, it will crumble. For the relationships you are speaking of, it is usually some young girl that has nothing to offer a man except for her body, being pursued by far older foreign men that have nothing to offer a woman except for a pension check. Or are you saying that foreign men should just come here, hit'em and quit'em just to deposit foreign DNA in the repository?
It's sad when foreigners break local hearts too. 😢 They can easily move back home or jump to another island. I met several women waiting for their foreigner to return after years apart. Fireworks happen if when McArthur😢 returns.
Within one century, Pinoys in some parts of Manila will develop through genetic mutations Physiology of Amphibians creatures, and the human problem will be solved.
If a girl tells me: "My mother is in Hospital we have no money", I refer her to "MALASAKIT" service of the generous Philippine Gov. The Phil. Gov. has plenty of money nothing to worry. Actually the Gov. is better than the people. (My peso view only.)
haha yes, the government has a lot of tax payers' money, but of course they'll never just give it away to the tax payers IN NEED. it has to go to grand family vacations in Germany~ 🙃
@@TitaPatataIt is just not true. They really help indigent people with this service of Malasakit, but the one asking help, must be first interviewed by a social worker, so that cheaters maybe easily detected. So the cheaters turn to foreigners. No one is turned away from Gov. hospitals.
@@abc-mf4jn I got trust issues when it comes to the government, ok? I have countless of experience with em. lol But yeah, I believe you. Is this different from PCSO thingy?
I recon a huge % of these relationships are only due to financial reasons. I see massive age gap relationships with foreigners, the awkwardness as well of having to have a completely foreign culture and character being integrated into your existing family. I dont see this as a big problem when its with other asian nationalities because the cultures and temperament are somewhat similar but alot of the western men who come to the PH are honestly bottom of the barrel back in their countries. If the PH economy improves enough to provide the vast population with a stable middle income and given options, i think filipinas would rather choose filipino men around their own age as a partner and these types of relationships will drop significantly as is the case with other previously impoverished asian countries like Korea or Vietnam.
*Foreigners have to be calculating for their preservation. *You can't be an open book, a 100% vulnerable gentleman, generous and more OR, you'll be ran over by a bus. *This is what I try telling guys. Some utubers get dictatorial reading my comments. *I'm too REAL and I'm comfortable saying that some are co./w./ar././ds OR sc./am./ag./e./nts./ OR sc/.am./b./ag./s./ telling guys to open their wallet, hand money out and pay their fair share. *Shameful!!! *They don't TELL you about the repercussions of doing so like side affects of bad medicine. *You're opening yourself to be harassed should you stop. You could even end up in court depending on your particular situationahip/circumstance. *Rewarding that kind of toxic behavior is even more disappointing and disgusting for people who should know better. *Foreigners are equal and we want to be treated equally. *ALL men are created equal thank you very much. *Personally, if I can't pay the same price as a local, I DON'T PARTICIPATE!!! I go where prices are marked! *I don't want to burn because someone else touches fire. *That's NOT the way life works and I'm NOT going to reinvent it regardless of where I may be temporarily living. *Stay in your lane without sacrificing yourself, values, culture, identity, safety nor disrespecting the locals. *Just don't participate. *If a Filipina doesN'T fit you like a glove, NO DEAL, NO relationship, NO marriage, NO cohabitation, NO salary, NO allowance, NO loan, NO investment, NO purchase, NO construction. *Just stay friends and let them tell you about their LDR boyfriends. *Mentor them and become their massage therapist instead. *I'm NOT talking down to anybody BUT, don't give me bullshit in the name of culture. *Her family's bullshit is NOT your concern, business nor problem to solve. *You MUST let her know that AS SOON AS she tells you she loves you and she wants something serious with you. *You become ONE with your woman only NOT with her family or she can be the next guy's problem. *This is how 100% foreigners MUST approach it if they don't want to get got!!! Cheers 🍻
Wow lumevel up may pa collab na with Tito Potato! If I did that what those couple did in the video (back in the early 2000's) my Mama's shoes will be flying in our direction straight away! How times have changed since then. My gosh the negative comments lalo na yung naki condolence grabe ha, it's not true di ba Tita? 😁🤣 Anyways it's the crab mentality, some of our kababayans hate it when others' lives improve, hence the negative comments.
Ahahahaha! Madami tayong gimik na sinusubukan, Ateng hihi ❤ Glad you liked it! Sana sa mga susunod na collab eh available ka > naki condolence grabe ha, it's not true di ba Tita? -uhmmm... Next question, pls? 😂
I think, that there are too many videos dealing with relations between foreigners and Pinay. This atmosphere of marketing local women to foreigners is not so pleasant to view, or hear about. It used to be like that years ago in Hong Kong and S. Korea, but once those countries were able to develop, those who are seeking a "Budget Wife" evaporated. One of the most disgusting scenes in the Phil. is of aged/old foreigners coming mostly with their young women for visa extension in the BI offices. No use discussing things in depth: Pinay are looking for finance and security from foreigners, and aging foreigners afraid of remaining alone at old age are looking mostly for grand daughter age wives to serve them as care givers and/or maids.
Do you know how many single mothers are in the Philippines? So if she can meet a guy that's not just going to get her pregnant and leave her then good for her.
At first, it was shocking to me that people hate on these foreigner relationships: but now that I’ve spent a lot of time in the Philippines, I’ve noticed that in a majority of the relationships here, the woman makes over 50% of the income and takes care of the man and kids. So a foreigner coming in with the desire to pay a majority of the bills (if not all) and being an active household contributor and father is going to definitely upset those that can’t compete with that level of effort. You don’t like seeing these girls go with foreigners? Treat them better… Because just like the guys coming over to the Philippines, we all want the person that will treat us best.
I heard about this video about a week ago. Kinda sounds like to me someone lost out to an American over a girl. Also too it appears Australians are getting scammed far worse than us Americans are. For the record, it's not "simping" when us Americans pay for the whole date. It's called r-e-s-p-e-c-t towards a woman. Also... Umm no is Americans do NoT expect anything extra from the female JusT because we payed for the whe date. Sorry but you had wrong thought there So who cares IF Australians go 50/50. I'm sure in some country somewhere the womam pays 100%. It's a cultural thing. No big deal. Ask yourself this, what situation would you prefer the respect, the 50/50, or the you pay 100% ?
This is true but... Filipinas and their families have expectations that were once normal in the West but have long since gone. This is not USica or Britain. Please be aware of this. Things will be easier if you are.
Sounds like a creative writing assignment. This happens on reddit a lot. Person is pushing an agenda with a made up story, then encouraging others to view the situation the same way the author see things. She ends the discussion by protesting against foreigners being here with a blanket accusation we're here to exploit. Reddit is a cesspool.
This is a made up story? But what if.... JUST WHAT IF... it really happened? Is OP still at fault? Am I wrong for taking the girl's side because I'm a girl too, and had a similar experience to hers, even though it's not on THAT level? PDfiles are a huge problem here, and they're not just foreigners. If we keep on accusing that all of these posts are fake and never happens in real life, who's gonna speak up for the real victims, and how are they gonna move on from the trauma feeling like nobody really cared that they were treated like that? Plus, I don't think I am accusing ALL foreigners in general. I'm just reacting to *THOSE* types of foreigners. There are a lot of awesome and kind-hearted foreigners here. A LOT. If you believe this is a creative writing assignment, I'm willing to be better at it. Thank you for your suggestion. 🙂
@@TitaPatata Ok, so WHAT IF.. what if he had no intentions at all. WHAT IF he's just a chatty foreigner. WHAT IF he didn't realize they were as young as OP said. I look at many pretty Filipinos and I can't tell if they are 17 or 24.. just not good at that kind of stuff. But the OP took the whole scenario down one path, the path that he's a creepy foreigner and laid out a case against all the foreigners being there and protesting about it. That suggests an agenda. Reddit is full of crusaders that want to push their personal feelings and make up stories as evidence of why they're right. Unfortunately, most reddit users don't use critical thinking skills and fall head first right into the OP's machinations. If the OP just laid out the scenario without all the persona input I would be more believing and maybe, felt the same way she did. But she didn't do that, she seeded the entire story with her line of thinking, her feelings, her personal narrative. She didn't want the readers to have any other conclusion than hers.
Not everything is always about procreation… sometimes it’s nice to just talk to someone completely different: different age, different gender, different race…. need I go on?
Oh I totally agree. But the way he approached the girls, plus it's night time, and the age gap - It really won't "look nice" even if, let's say the guy meant no harm. Can you blame OP for feeling uncomfortable through the entire event?
@@TitaPatata we need to get back to classic shaming culture: shame op for not admitting discomfort of the situation. Not admitting is how you let yourself walk right into a truly dangerous situation.
Older man with zero experience in cold approach gets out of his comfort zone and tries to practice his technique on some random girls and strikes out. So shocking. Congratulations to this gentleman he will do better next time. The Philippines is literally the easiest country in the world for an older foreigner to date young women. He could easily hand out 100 cards in a couple of hours and would get at least 5-10 callbacks. There are more 18-20 year old women that want to date this man than he would ever have time for.
Agree 60+ men should not cold approach 18 yo. But, would he be a "creep" or "creepy" doing the same thing had he been 20 yo and very handsome? It's creepy when a girls is not interested, but flattering if the guy is young and good looking. Given the shy nature of Philippinas, they are not going to approach a man. Then how is a guy going to get to know a girl if he doesn't make the first move. From what you described the man did or said nothing inappropriate. Awkward, yes...but a creep...how?
You have a good point there, Sir. But had he been 20 and very handsome, yes it MIGHT BE a flex on the girl's side. It happens quite a lot. But with the huge age gap, and the way he was pacing back and forth for a while before approaching them, yes he might have not done anything appropriate, but it was very awkward and the girls are creeped by his actions. Awkward with the conversations and ended it with him handing out his calling card, hoping the girls would call him despite their standoff-ish demeanor. Imagine having an underaged daughter mustering the courage to speak up on what happened to her that night, and felt really uncomfortable, awkward and creeped out, would you still ask her to sit down and have her justify why she felt/thought that way (that he's creepy)?
So you throwing around the word "all" is not fair or right. Not ALL YT'ers are saying Filipinas are easy or can be bought. And just because you don't like age gap relationships doesn't give you the right to make a video blasting a guy that doing something thats culturally excepted in the Philippines. Most girls like to know guys have money, thats why alot of shy socially awkward guys will lead with their wallet. Hence the word hypergamy. But for you to blast a guy on social media and call him a creep and a A hole for clicks shows alot about you. DO BETTER.
Hey I like Katy Perry and I am old too haha. Sorry we did not have fireworks lol. Old dude needs to slow down and read the room. That teenager is now being ridiculed by her classmates. I feel bad for her. He needs to make older friends first and maybe they can match him up. Approaching teenagers at SM will get him in trouble.
@@TitaPatata WHY SHOULD PEOPLE LISTEN TO YOU ABOUT A GUY SHOOTING HIS SHOT AND THEN YOU CALL HIM A CREEP. THIS BEHAVIOR WOULD BE LIKE ME MAKING A VIDEO ABOUT YOU BEING FAT GIVING ADVICE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, THAT WOULD HURT WOULDN'T IT?
Aww girl!!.. I work a modest job here in the UK, get around £2'200-2'300 a month (GBP).. Working class average life here in England.. Just checked the exchange, an that would put me on around $170'000 pesos (PHP) a month.. And from a living cost search i just did, thats apparently big baller money there!?.. I'm amazed!.. If you read my other comment, i would love to start a new life there like yesterday!.. But I'm a full time parent to my 12yr old son here in the UK.. Like the amazing average Filipinas there, unfortunately i was taught that to value family above all too.. So i wouldn't even consider moving until i was sure he was grown and fully stable in his life.. But one day.. I hope i can move.. Before I'm too much older too, so I'm a young-ish and a catch.. Not just an 'old rich guy'.. This is becoming my retirement dream right here!.. 😎🤞🤞🤞
Hello sir! Thank you so much for watching! 🙌 Of course family should always comes first, especially when you have kids who rely on you. You seem to be a very loving and responsible parent, and that already makes you a CATCH, aside from the financial stability that you can offer a woman. Take your time but always watch your health. Stay safe always, and for sure, good things come to those who wait. May God bless you and all of your loved ones! 🙏✨
Hey there girl, thanks for replying!.. Your video was really good, I'm trying to learn what i can about life there, and you were great to listen to.. You seem so sweet and fun too.. You're a really charming lady!.. Your English is also fantastic by the way, was really impressed by you.. I'm serious about moving over there one day, i love your country, its culture, the people, their values etc.. But.. As i say.. I need to do right by my son first, he doesn't see his mother, all he has is me!.. Nothing is more important than family.. I couldn't leave or do anything until i know he's grown, stable and ready for me not to be as close by anymore etc!.. These family values are what's holding me back unfortunately, but above nearly everything else.. It's your country and Filipinas also having this same sense of traditional values and love of family that drew me to you!.. I respect and adore that about your culture, it means so much to me seeing that love and caring nature in you too!.. You earned a subscription for sure today, i think you're pretty great!.. While I'm planning my move over, I'll enjoy watching and hearing your views on everything.. Keep learning as much as i can while i patiently wait for my time etc!.. Would love to talk to you sometime, ask you for your advice maybe?.. If you had the time.. 😊 x
Tita P great topic again. I reckon some foreigners just really think that way of Asian women in general. I don't really know why? Maybe because we're short? polite? people pleasers? I even experienced that here in Oz so it's not just the Pinays in Pinas. We were thought to be respectful to the seniors from a young age so naturally us being polite probably makes us easy to approach? It's ok if it's they're just curious ( usually start from asking "are you a filipina?) but it gets creepy and annoying when they get too "friendly". One instance this old dude even asked if he could hold my hand? I kid you not, that was the weirdest experience I had!
@@nevermind7884 WHAT THE- They're that blunt?! 😱 Idk ate ha, but this is just my opinion: Maybe because the majority of the women from their own countries are too boujee and modernized and masculine (?) that when they meet a Filipina (or an Asian, rather), and they get treated with courtesy and respect, they automatically mistake it with FLIRTING. I'm sorry if a lot of traditional Asian countries were taught to respect not just the elders, but be nice and polite to everyone even though they're acting funny na 😂
@@TitaPatata yes he was that blunt out of nowhere he just approached me in a car park! I obviously said no and ran to my car omg! I wondered if I did something to make him that blunt? I asked my aussie friends for their opinions and they said the guy was just weird. I just entertained him because he was telling me he's been to the Philippines many times since 19forgotten blah blah blah then all of a sudden he asked if he could hold my hand, like no!
