Hell yeah! That's why JJ is asking questions bc she know something ain't right. The defendant being all defensive like we care. You chose drugs. Your child was born addicted. You were irresponsible and up here crying victim. My blood is boiling like she is mother of the year.
I have 10 years 9 months off dope myself, and this woman is screaming with her behavior that she is using something upper-wise. She may be clean from oxys, but she using something else for sure.
I have a family member who went to rehab, failed when they came out and went back Has been clean for 6 years. I know the signs. She is NOT clean....how very sad for all
No the defendant is giving embarrassed vibes. At least she went to get help. Most addicts admit to being addicts much less seek help. She’s clearly trying her best. Give the lady a break
Oh my goodness she is exactly like my mother. The addiction, the denial, the way she speaks. It's sad to watch. I hope that her daughter gets into the proper home soon.
its the denile that is so frustrating but as you say the kid needs a decent home and parents to grow up with as she is not fit to be looking after a goldfish. i dont useuly write people off but she looks like she is never going to change. i hope i am wroung but i doubt it.
@Shhhh I just saw a video where a baby was put in the care of a family member and cps told them that the mother was not allowed to be around the child, mom moved in and decapitated the infant. The rules are there for a reason. I'm sure this lady would not do that to her child but who's to say she wouldn't.
@@wise4124lol what? Without social services permission? Without proof your friend was clean and sober and ready to raise their drug addicted baby? Okay, good luck with that common sense...
Some people smile when embarrassed. It's a subcontious copping mechanism, the brain tricking you to try and eleviate the pressure, but it just makes other people feel like you're being disengenuine. She's in distress and can't control this.
I had a girlfriend who did drugs before she knew she was pregnant, the baby had a tiny whole in her heart that needed surgery at one years old. Even though she is perfectly fine now and 18 she still has grief over that guilt of possibly causing it.
She's STILL on drugs. See how she *quickly* answers/responds/cuts off JJ _BEFORE_ JJ can even finish her question. 3:58 She's getting irritated/embarrassed/ ready for a fix 4:46 JJ's face 😂😂
Double standards for women and mothers. Imagine if it were the father that had his child hooked on drugs from infancy and remained this messed up. He would never ever see that child again and, in fact, could even get locked up with loads of restraining orders. Why is it that the feeling of mothers are always prioritised over the well-being of all, including little children?
@@iykeharrison9161idk….we’re not sure if she even knows who the father is in this case. Maybe they have just a little faith that MAYBE a woman that carried a child for 9 months would come to her senses because that a bond that no man on earth can experience. BUT, some women just can’t get it right EVEN for the sake of the child. It’s sad! I would HOPE they are keeping tabs on her. If not, they are doing this child a dis-service. SMH
@@iykeharrison9161 not even a double standard men can't carry babies...there are reasons programs exist because they want people to turn their lives around and to be able to raise the child, but if you can't then they get taken for good...
@@iykeharrison9161 There’s a difference in perception because in order for a father to get a child hooked on drugs from infancy, he would have to intentionally give drugs to the child. The equivalent of that would be a mother intentionally giving drugs to her child. A mother abusing drugs while pregnant, while morally reprehensible, isn’t on the same level as giving drugs to a baby. The harm to the baby is a side-effect of the mother’s use of drugs, not a separate action intended to harm the child.
I can hear with the defendant; she is still addicted and is under the radar with the court system. After this aired, I bet they got the child and took the mother and friend to court over what they both did. Never cheat the court system, for it bites back hard.
Did that defendant, DeAnna Rebhann, just LAUGH when asked what substances she was addicted to?? She thinks it's funny she went to rehab right after her daughter was born addicted to drugs ?? So disgusting I could puke She shouldn't have custody of a damn goldfish. Something is wrong with her still. Poor kid.
@@earth0128 Are you psychic? Are you trained and experienced professional in psychiatry/psychology/mental health? If the answer is no, then I suggest to keep your opinion to yourself in this case.
The poor, innocent baby exposed to drugs in utero! I'm a special education teacher and the devastation substance abuse does to children is lifelong and profoundly devastating.
I made the mistake of getting involved with someone like her based on looks. She talked like a machine gun and lied as easily as water rolling downhill. It is amazing how someone can just spew BS and smile at you like they are a little angel
"I would like to speak" saying that after spending the first part telling your whole life story and not just answering the questions directly. Anyway, she is definitely one of those that think the more they talk the more innocent they can make themselves seem
The reason Judge Judy needs to know about the daughter is because it shows her character and her state of mind. It has a lot more to do with the case then the mother thinks it does.
And as JJ has said in the past it's all part of figuring out who she's dealing with, the fact the defendant says it was not okay for JJ to bring all this stuff up shows she hasn't completed her recovery...meaning she shouldn't have care over a small child and a pet
I understand this case involves some sensitive personal stuff, but never tell JJ that something is irrelevant. She always has a reason for what she's asking.
Is there a part 2 up somewhere? So far, he basically hasn't had to say a word as she continues to dig her own grave. I actually feel sorry for her and I think she might need another stay in rehab. BTW....Shame on that "Friend" for going against the court giving her daughter back before her mother was cleared.
People often comment on how they cant believe people go on JJ to air their dirty laundry. I feel bad for this lady as its clear she is ashamed of her past and what shes done to her child. Its like reliving it again and maybe it's hard for her to stand their and try to explain it. Hopefully, her and her daughter's future will be better.
She's not ashamed she laughed when Judge Judy asked if she was addicted to drugs and what kind and when she asked if her daughter was born addicted to drugs she had a smile on her face that's not shame and clearly she is still using because of her mannerisms
@ splintz....Ok? It must be nice to be able to judge others so easily and condemn them. I think your perception of it is not accurate by your justification of what you thought you heard/saw. She seemed ashamed to me but did the right thing and answered honestly. A horrible situation obviously, but the plaintiff not right in the head.
It's really a manipulation tactic that people in low states of life use to get their way. Act like they're victimized to make the person trying to help them/concerned for them get off their back.
Her reaction to JJs questions shows she has not done the work needed to be in recovery yet, recovered/recovering addicts speak openly and honestly about their addictions knowing its important to who they either are now or who they are working to be...this lady doesn't see how any of it is relevant when its only been 3/4 years, family court is still involved with her and shes clearly not 100 percent sober.
She's still on drugs and as for the friend that fosters children should have her licenses taken away cause she should of Never gave that woman back her child THAT IS THE COURTS JOB that mother is STILL unfit u can tell the way she talks.
As a recovering alcoholic and addict myself , i have the MOST empathy for those in addiction. But when you use while pregnant, i LOSE THAT EMPATHY. She should never get her child back.
You don’t lose your place because you have roaches lady. You lose your place when you haven’t paid your rent. Or if repeatedly break some of the rules and receive warnings.
I know it must really hurt to bring up your past. I know Judge Judy is just trying to get a grasp on the time line, I had to hear it twice myself because it really did not make sense. Also Judge Judy does this to, as she says, get a sense on who she is dealing with. Also her little pity party at the end with the "I see how this is going to work out." Get it together mam!
I am a 10 years 8 months clean former heroin addict.... You KNOW exactly what date ypu got clean on. The fact she claims it was "many years ago" that she was in treatment, and can't remember dates she was clean makes me believe she is using something still or again.
People are so fast to assume she is using drugs again, I don't think a lot of people understand that some people never mentally recover from the drugs again. This could just be who she is now after the drugs fried her brain sadly...
Im not going to pass judgement on if this lady isnt or is not on drugs. But alot of people with mental health seek out drugs to self medicate ranging from anxiety to autism to PTSD or biopolar the list goes on. If she did the time with family courts to have her daughter and is still fullfilling the requirements as a parentenal figure we as an audience should respect that
"I haven't been involved with family court for two years" but also "I'm still involved with family court because they don't just give your daughter back they work it slowly."🤨 A lot of comments that she's still on drugs. Maybe but I'm not so sure this isn't just her disordered personality that lead to the drug use and addiction. Her giggly response to the question of what substance she was in rehab for "Everything!" Blew my mind.
I had that medication prescribed to me when I had my knee surgery. Not sure why anyone would wanna get addicted to it cause it made me feel awful. I hope her and her daughter ok, I feel bad for the little girl being born addicted to it.
The only way I'm giving my heavily drug addicted friend her baby back is if I'm on drugs right along with her. And the defendant was talking about a Lifetime movie, her on the other hand is HIGH AS A KITE!! The tears did it for me. Lol 💀🤦🏿
I don't understand how come some parents choose drugs over their children just sad and ridiculous... they should not be bringing children in the world without drugs?
