wow i think this actually works. i did this once but it wasn't intentional i was just being myself and both girls just gave me their numbers. i think its best just to be yourself though be honest and just be a good person
Narcsisist psychopath sociopaths, predatory tack tick ,... This will lead you into basicly toxic relationship attachments... Be confident and not be afraid show your weaknesses, knows boundaries. its the true power.
Thank you so much for this video. I am adding it to my Narc ammunition folder. It explains narcissistic behavior so well..I am so enlightened by this validating what I have always known to stay away from. You ROCk!---not!
i was so good with women or girls since middle school n high school not so good n then later on good at again in mexico but then life hit me hard with drug problems n alcohol n now am ok but am not the bad ass with confident anymore that why i exercise but wtf i don't know why lose confident am good looking n being short its never been an issue but now i feel like i need a boost n exercise helps a lot n dressing good but damn loosing the technique to talk its hard getting women i need to get back to my old charm ways a being personality is key i believe
Women blame men but men can't blame women, yet women want to be equal to men but men can't be equal to women... Women Want Players Because They're The Ones Who Chooses... In other words, being a "Player" is really what most women really want but they just won't admit it. Women have overflowing emotions and their mind flows like waves of an ocean and and if you can't flow with her she'll lose interest. Her mind has to be tested, stimulated and entertained. Pay close attention to a woman by giving her the full attention she desires and she'll lead you by spilling the beans educating you on what you need to do. Women know what turns them on so men just be patient, listen, watch her actions and play your cards right. What works for 3 women may not work for the 4th one. You may strike out from time to time but you can't hit home runs every game. So don't feel bad if you lose a few games. See, sex is a Game but it's a woman's Game and women are The Game & a man has to have Game in order to not get Played by The Game. So men really do have to become Players in order to beat The Game at their own Game. And men don't really play games, women already know what we want. So it's women who play games with sex and men gotta guess what we need to do to get it. So therefore we have to be Players of The Game. And the phrase "I Luv U" is a chess game of leverage. Life is one big Game of Leverage & Psychology & then we Die. 👥❤👀👪✌
A man chooses by knowing who he is and not adapting to fit all women by being sexually clever but a man that can be a provider and regardless of the outcome and results he has with women will stay strong to his nature, leaning pua will only misdirect you further as time goes on, I bet you can not tell me or describe to me your personality without it relating to rules of PUA or a taught way of being, this ultimately will make you a miserable and lost person to accept this however its the greatest issue with this power, its the negative of such potential positive
Men are sounding like women who have no game... there is nothing manly about putting yourself in a position to find a relationship, its actually not our roles to be good at relationships as we naturally dont store information as well as emotional characters like women, we store information logically, so stick to your guns and find out who you are emotionally and financially so one day when a woman who has naturally got this talent will find you and it will be a natural match... Have faith... This is the only generation of men that are scared not to have girls...
watching this video and thinking/questioning/contemplating out loud: Do I feel worthy of receiving a partner? Do I feel worthy of being seen, loved, respected, desired? Do I love, see, respect and desire myself? What is my belief system about men? About women? How are men in my world? How do I perceive them? How about women? What is my belief system about myself? How do I carry myself in this world? How do I perceive myself? What have my parents taught me about relationships? What stories have I adopted as my own, about relationships?
Your example of the push pull method is a back handed compliment. The pull should be a compliment then the push is meant to lighten the mood and should be more of a joke without diminishing the compliment. If a girl has her nails done it's a bad idea to insult her by asking if they're real. That sounds rude more than playful. It'd be difficult to pull off successfully. I mean, if you had a fresh haircut and thought you were looking slick how funny would it be if a girl said it looked nice then asked if it was a hairpiece? I'm extremely skeptical of your claim of luck with these techniques. I mean, they might work if you're trying to pick up a forgettable female with a low IQ and even lower self esteem. If you're interested in playing the game with a confident/experienced woman you're not going to get very far.
Women are very strange. In my experience when im trying to do those things conciously it doesnt work at all. When im not even trying and make regular chat they're suddenly interested. Bottom line be yourself at all times, you might fail with most women but you'll definitely find the right ones without even trying.
Be yourself but you MUST give her the gift of a chase. Let her slowly earn your affection. The less you do for her, the more it will mean when you decide to do something for her.
I did this through out my playboy years and that’s how I got and treated my wife. Been married for 11 years but she was miserable the majority of it. We have 2 toddlers and she joined the Navy. I guess she found some power back now we’re separating. I wish I showed her real love than these temporary mind games. But we’re not getting divorce but legal separation so I can get the health benefits I needed plus her career will continue to pay our home. So I’m set for now.
I can imagine the type of women you pull. You're too manipulative. That's not how to pull women. You're doing it with ego. It may work only with certain people who are also carrying ego. Then, you're heading for failure. It's not going to be a lasting thing. You're manipulative and will only attract women who are also manipulative. Like attracts like. You don't sound like a happy person...and anyone who follow your advice is bound to end up as unhappy as you are.
If she sees you have money and are generous, then she acts seductive, have fun BUT DO NOT let her trap you into something longer term. She is a gold digger. She will quietly manipulate control over you. RUN! You will end up homeless on a park bench. Been there done that.
My x spouse is, the fathet of my seven children is getting laid by our eighteen year old daughter ever since 2010 and they had fractionated sex since her early teenage life, i am her mother who was seducuced and fractionated in year 2000 and our ten year old son witnessed this all alone with them flirtatios behaviour and seduction and fractuated and it breaks my heart.
It works lol I do this technique with out knowing what it was called lol I always compliment the shit out of her lol then i won’t talk to her then she’ll slowly text me first lol I always says she’s a great cook or I find things she likes and go far from lol I always tell her funny things about myself and my job lol once in a while I’ll talk something serious then change the topic in person lol this works
real life scenario: Me: Hey i like your nails are they real? Her: No. Give me your number and next weekend i can show you the place and you can get yours done too ....become her best friend
“Maybe you were an Olympic skier of maybe you were almost mauled by a Kodiak bear.” Really Dude? Cause that’s a practical experience everyone’s been through.
confidence comes with money and also attracts women and this will make you into all the things you are trying to teach your techniques might work for a guy who is attractive and works out a lot but the women want money plain and simple
lawson chamblee bullshit, YOU care about money, in psychology what you're doing is called projection, you believe someone but look at someone else and say oh THEY think this about ME
Thank you both for your replies. I've worked in nightlife bars for more than 10 years in the 1980s through 1990s and recognize these behaviors already from back then. I worked in bars back then in the 80s when I was married, so I was not involved in dating or hooking up myself, only observing what went on on a regular basis. I've observed the techniques men were using to seduce women and the techniques women were using to seduce men and talked with many people over many years about the dating scenes. First of all it's usually the women who make the first move, however, the women give the man the idea that HE made the first move. Very clever. Secondly, I clearly recognize the technique in this video as a female technique. I witnessed women use this all the time already 40 years ago. Thirdly, normally the people who use these tricks are players. I myself avoid them like the plague. In my experience, the women who use these tricks are usually either players, gold diggers or have mental problems. Furthermore, yes they know exactly what they are doing. Only some people with Borderline Personality Disorder might not be aware of it but most of them know exactly what they are doing. I would not advise anybody to manipulate others by using these techniques. Be careful with manipulating people like they show in this video. You might think you "win", but actually in the long run you are always the loser. You not only hurt others, in the end you will end up losing everyrhing. You maybe fooling people for a while but you can't fool people for ever. Finally, women use much more manipulation than men. Women f*ck around more than men and usually have networks of men on the side while having a relationship. Usually women are extremely secretive about that and will always deny it in public. The phrase "I'm not that kind of girl" is a very well known phrase which is commonly used by women. In this video they just cleverly reversed roles.
Thanks for this informative video. If I see a guy behave like these nonsense . I would say bye immediately and let them know they are playing hard to get. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
wanna know what I had done often as "pick up line"? so i am attracted to women with dark brown hair. and i would say "hi. i have to say your hair is very beautiful and attracting. is that dark brown really your natural color or is it dyed?" women mostly react really positive on this as far as further conversation is concerned. Know i watch this video and after a couple of seconds you do the nail example and it's just like it. I didn't even ever know this is some method. holy shit.
Forget about intelligence, humor etc. PROGRAM THEIR EMOTIONS, YOU DO THAT THEY'LL LOVE YOU EVEN IF THEY THINK YOU'RE A JERK, doesn't matter what you SAY, it matters THE EMOTIONAL RESPONSE, ie "I'm the kind of guy who says what he wants when he wants for my own amusement, if I lose you from that so be it", that's TAKE AWAY, CONFIDENCE, AND BUILDING VALUE IN YOU. This girl thinks "My gosh all these guys hitting on me this guys so happy in himself he'll let me go before not being himself", that's another one you come off GENUINE, ask a girl in love "What did your guy talk about last time you were together", see words don't matter, they matter but only to hack emotions. I had a girl do this to me, non-intentionally and I still love her, still have to have her, we'd be watching a movie, happy, then look up concerts, so happy hopeful emotions, then "I love Marilyn Manson", my emotions go into a rage, see that's psch-ops, THE NEGATIVE EMOTION BOOSTS THE POWER OF THE POSITIIVE, AND YOU FIGHT TO GET BACK TO THE POSITIVE FEELING IT'S BETTER THAN IT ACTUALLY IS.
I checked this out cos I was curious. Has some good advice it looks like, but it isnt true that women are attracted to jerks. Some are, clearly thats true. But I know a lot and have experience with those who do not remotely like jerks....period. They like confidence, but consider the difference between a jerk and a confident guy: in Good Will Hunting, watch the scene between Will (confident NON-JERK) and the douche in the bar (just a JERK). Some women will call you a psycho for being a jerk
fredo i wrote this to the girl i wish to make gf "I must admit that i love the way you lie" (she was acting that she was ill) she replied shut up .Did i wrote some thing wrong i just wished to try fractionation help me
push pull, cat mouse, all these tricks induce trauma bonding. this will attract all the girls that are attracted to jerks: those who've been raped by daddy. and then the borderline girls who will attach to you and send bullies to beat the living shit out of you and laugh or threaten to kill themselves or make suicide gestures - thatls suicide attempts to avoid you leaving. getting others men or women to become emotionally addicted to you is freakin' creepy. granted you are not a sociopath, go watch charisma on command channel to get healthier dating tips. blessings
@Neanderthalcouzin Jerk are jerks, they don't care for the others, they say whatever they want, and it's never their fault to them. Girls mistake this for confidence and good self-esteem. Therefore liking them over nice guys who care more about others than themselves.
I'm not going to put myself out there publically to be bashed or whatever it is the internet trolls do these days... So if you're legitimately interested in what I have to say you can give me your e-mail and I'll tell you.
This behavior screams…..INSECURE! Real confidence and sincerity are much more attractive. Confident people don’t have to pretend to be. People gain true confidence by achieving success in their career or hobbies. Arrogance is such a turn off! I’ve never been attracted to men who act like this, Yuck!
saymehname ... best thing is not to get there. Touch her, tease her. Avoid hugs and hand shakes. Common signs of friendship. If hugging, try to touch her sensitive part nd apologize with a tease...
@sid77777 derek rake says it is irrelevant that how you look and what your financial status is, IF you have got a HOT looking girl develop emotions towards you...
Am I the only one that doesn't play game with people. All these people playing games wanting something that they cant have have mental issues. If I don't wan't a woman I never give her the Idea that I want her. I think about other people's feelings. People are savages.
Ive had men try this push pull tactic and the pay attention to my friend tactic. Generally it weirds me out and I get disgusted. The mixed signal, jerk signal sends me packing. Maybe it works on bimbos.... Drunk bimbos, who just like the attention they are getting... at all. I am so not amused.
