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This video is part of a playlist. I started working on this home back in April and posted a few videos of the progress that was made in the home. This home had issues with carpet beetles and pantry moths. After cleaning up the kitchen, living room, her son's room, and three bathrooms, I left there thinking things were under control and that she was making good progress on her own, and she was, so it was a surprise to me when I texted her a few weeks ago just to see how things were coming along and this was the response I got:
"We have gotten a little bit more done at the house, but not as much as I would like. I've had some health issues comes up that have made it harder for me to clean and honestly my anxiety has made it hard, too. My neck has been hurting since early this year and at some point it became so painful that I couldn't turn my head which made it hard to drive or do much of anything. I went and got an MRI and have a few things going on in my cervical spine that are causing nerve pain and they're wanting me to get injections that will help with the pain and potentially help with the inflammation and, if that doesn't relieve the pain, I might have to get surgery. On top of that, my husband and I have been wanting to get pregnant, but haven't been able to due to my latest test showing positive for polyps in my uterus (this is the second time), so I will have to get surgery to remove the polyps either later this month or next month. Anyway, all of it has been too much, so I haven't been doing much, But I started feeling like there's more to my struggle to get this house clean. I have some pretty bad memories there with my ex-husband." -- then she goes on and tells about the abuse, which I told her I would leave out the details -- "I think the longer I've been staying away from that house, the more I've felt like I could never go back and I keep thinking it's just because of the bugs, but I think it's also because of the PTSD associated with my ex-husband. So, this past week, we started looking at houses and we're strongly considering selling our house. However, that still means we need to clean our house so, if we find somewhere we'd like to go, we're gonna have a big push to move everything to storage pretty quickly."
For more to this homeowner's story, watch the other videos in this playlist.
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@rachelpalumbo8135
@rachelpalumbo8135 10 месяцев назад
Waiting patiently for your collaboration with Barbie and Midwest magic cleaning.
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 10 месяцев назад
You be patient 😂 I'm biting my nails and cleaning house so I can have popcorn and a big cup of coffee while I watch their magic together 😂😂❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I'm with you Dixie! I'm not very patient. I just want it to be October already!!
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp as soon as I get paid, I'm joining your channel ❤️ I joined Mack and Barbie and you're next 🥰❤️
@ItzMzJulez2U
@ItzMzJulez2U 10 месяцев назад
I’m excited since you are the 3 cleaning channels I sub to! I too borrowed my wedding dress, many moons ago! For me personally, I’m glad I did so there was no sentimental attachment to it! ❤️🌻
@juanitakidd7828
@juanitakidd7828 10 месяцев назад
Me too
@blessedbabe8318
@blessedbabe8318 9 месяцев назад
I firmly believe that for some people the more space they have the more they keep stuff
@CheriKohut
@CheriKohut 10 месяцев назад
Great job on the assistance to this homeowner. As for the prom dresses, see if there is a place called The Glass Slipper project in a city near you. They take used prom dresses, bridesmaid dresses, shoes, jewelry and give it to some of the high school kids that cannot afford a brand new dress.
@mistybroadway5720
@mistybroadway5720 10 месяцев назад
Some Highschools have a program that takes prom/party dresses as well.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
That's a great idea! I just looked it up and, though we don't have that same project, I found a couple that are similar. I'll have to tell her about that.
@maryrichardson6205
@maryrichardson6205 8 месяцев назад
Watching my way through your videos, thank you.
@christine1373
@christine1373 10 месяцев назад
I would encourage her to donate the dresses and any clothes that are out dated to local theater groups. They can use them as costumes.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Great idea!
@SandiBlack-qd1mv
@SandiBlack-qd1mv 29 дней назад
Bless his heart. Please tell your husband thank you for what he does 🙏🏻
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 29 дней назад
I will. Thank you!
@sandiekirkland4501
@sandiekirkland4501 10 месяцев назад
If she had not been inside the closet for years, all of it should have been trashed or donated. You are very kind to your clients. Excited for the house series in October.
@cindyroberts5703
@cindyroberts5703 10 месяцев назад
You took on a big job with this lady. Helping someone move is a lot of work.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
It's been so much fun!
@RobinSpencer-wc6hj
@RobinSpencer-wc6hj 2 месяца назад
Glad she is donating. There is always someone who will wear them and can't afford new items. Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 2 месяца назад
Absolutely!!
@heatherakagamermom7790
@heatherakagamermom7790 10 месяцев назад
I’m truly glad she has you helping her with the home. I wanna say something to her. If she sees this. If not maybe you can tell her for me. I want her to know I’m proud of her for divorcing her abuser. She is a strong woman and did the right thing for herself and her child. My mother stayed. She’s still with him and we are all grown. He stopped hitting her when I hit my teens. It truly messed all of us kids up. We had some serious therapy to learn how proper relationships work etc. She’s a saint and I wish I could hug her. New beginnings are on the horizon. Stay strong. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for posting this. I don't think she really reads the comments anymore after there were a couple of not so nice ones and I told her just to not worry about reading them. So I will definitely pass this along. I agree, it can really mess up, not only the spouse being abused, but also the kids that are seeing that behavior. I'm glad you were able to get therapy to figure out how a good relationship is supposed to look! It's definitely very brave when somebody can actually leave their abuser.
@lgibson0515
@lgibson0515 10 месяцев назад
@heatherakagamermom7790 God bless you!! Yep, had a handful of users/abusers/MI/substance abusers in my dating "journey"!! #singleforever!! Been there, done that!! Prayers out to her as well for making the right decision sooner than later...my she get the help she needs, including asking for help from ABM!! A family member stayed in one for 35+ years!! 😢😮😢😢 (just had 2nd stroke late last year; FACT: abuse causes not only PTSD, but B/I & Stroke!! ) she lost her house too as a result since the last stroke!! 😢😢😢🙏🙏 Hugs to you, and this lady!! Stay strong!!
@user-sd8it3gh2w
@user-sd8it3gh2w Месяц назад
I'm so impressed with your organizing and packing skills. This video is incredible. I donated my dresses to a theater department. I donated my wedding dress to a theater production.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Месяц назад
Thank you! And, that is a great idea for getting rid of a wedding dress. I'm sure they appreciated that!
@AngusHenry09
@AngusHenry09 10 месяцев назад
Your hubby is a CSI GUY !!! Wonderful job young lady. Beautiful family. Enjoy your time away.
@wendelinharrison9571
@wendelinharrison9571 10 месяцев назад
The cleaning Titans together!!! I can’t wait for the October collab!!!🎉❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Sort of a CSI guy. He doesn't do the investigating, just gathering all the evidence to hand over to the detectives. But yes, he has seen some pretty gnarly crime scenes!
@AngusHenry09
@AngusHenry09 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp In my world, he's STILL a CSI guy. Without him, investigators couldn't do a proper job. Blessings and respect to him and your whole family.
@margaretalbert69
@margaretalbert69 10 месяцев назад
Thrift stores love those gowns....p.s. i had to make my own prom dresses , my mom was a widow and we had no money and didn't mind...got great at sewing and had one of a kind dresses and clothes, coats, etc....my mom did buy me the best sewing machine ❤❤❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Love that! I love sewing. Very therapeutic! What a great way to get really good at something at such a young age!
@colleen2386
@colleen2386 10 месяцев назад
You and your family are a gift to your community. I commend your husband for his skills to bring justice to children of horrific crimes. He is needed in ways that most people cant deal with. I hope he a you have a great time on your getaway. ✌❤💪
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you, Colleen. It was a fantastic retreat, helped me to understand a bit more what he goes through with his job. It does take a special person to do that kind of job and, unfortunately, a lot of them have nothing left over for their families. I'm thankful my husband deals with it so well and I'm thankful for the Stirling Foundation for seeing the need to support those who do these kinds of jobs with their mental health and dealing with the baggage the job comes with.
@colleen2386
@colleen2386 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp ❤️
@margaretstephens6649
@margaretstephens6649 10 месяцев назад
I am a retired acupuncturist and Chinese Medicine says that "The Heart opens onto the tongue". The Heart meridian runs from under each armpit down to the little finger right and left. Perhaps some acupuncture on the Heart points might help. I practised Five Element acupuncture and this system would use Heart points. Not sure what TCM or Japanese acupuncturists would do. Great video
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Interesting. I may have to check that out. Thanks for the suggestion!
@user-dw3mp4bn5s
@user-dw3mp4bn5s 10 месяцев назад
You are so kind to help the homeowner in her struggles. I hope they find peace in their new home. Maybe they will find that a lot of the stuff in storage is only making their house cluttered. Downsizing can help with anxiety, I know from experience.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing your experience. Yes, they are definitely decluttering and getting rid of a lot of stuff before they move so that something like this doesn't happen again. She has made an amazing transformation since I met her back in April and is like a whole new person with a totally different outlook on the stuff she has. I think there is a much brighter future ahead.🥰
@cynthiamarshek9353
@cynthiamarshek9353 7 месяцев назад
My deceased husband had a very bad stutter. He couldn’t talk on the phone and had a very hard time getting out certain words. He went through years of therapy that helped some but what helped him the most was the people who knew him and gave him the time to talk. Often he had to change a word to get through a sentence. I guess what I am saying is the more someone tried to change him the harder it was for him. Unconditional love and respect for who he was seemed to be his best therapy. He was actually a savant in that he could take any mathematical equation and solve it easily in his mind instantly. Getting into his mind gave him super confidence and he didn’t stutter.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
I totally agree with you that giving them space and time to just get out what they need to say helps a lot. We have always been very patient with him and don't try to finish his sentences. And it never really used to bother him that much, but now that he is wanting to go into the space force and work for NASA at some point, the Space Force recruiter basically told him that, unless he was able to get rid of his stutter, he probably wouldn't pass the interview to get into the space force. That was really disheartening. Fortunately, he's a very positive kid and is looking at other routes to get to where he wants to be with his future career. But, we also are just looking to see what other options are out there that might be able to help him.
@d.k.s.4057
@d.k.s.4057 10 месяцев назад
You asked about what to do with high school dresses, prom dresses after they have been worn-suggestion: in many communities, there is an organization- in ours it is the local teachers' union- where the dresses and male formal wear can be donated! There are seamstresses/tailors and dry cleaners who help with getting the fit right and the spots out before wearing. Students can quietly and privately pursue a dress or tux this way via their school office and qualify usually due to indigent circumstances although I have seen some dresses "awarded" in other situations. It varies a bit. My wedding dress was used for this purpose and I have never been sorry. Feel it got to serve another woman (girl) and have another "life" of usefulness, rather than stay in my closet. Hope this is helpful.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I did look this up and there are a couple of places we can donate them here in this area. Thanks for the suggestion!
@d.k.s.4057
@d.k.s.4057 10 месяцев назад
You're welcome- so glad this works!@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@darkhorse8413
@darkhorse8413 10 месяцев назад
You and your family are AMAZING! Thank you for your continued kindness in helping others.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@Chich8058
@Chich8058 10 месяцев назад
The collaboration is going to be AWESOME!
@JennCadyFiddlyBits
@JennCadyFiddlyBits 2 месяца назад
I always go to the liquor store and get liquor boxes for books. They are the perfect size… not too large.
@kathleenahart1331
@kathleenahart1331 10 месяцев назад
New sub here. Heard about you from Midwest and Barbie. Can't wait for those videos. You all do a fantastic job about caring for people and cleaning.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much! I'm so glad you're here!
@josephdaly2015
@josephdaly2015 10 месяцев назад
Well done to this couple getting rid of so much stuff as they pack up. It’ll definitely make it easier when they get their new place. Do your best to relax while you are away. Have a great time. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐
@shannonyanes6224
@shannonyanes6224 9 месяцев назад
All of my prom dresses, my daughters prom dress. The Wedding dress and flower girl dress all went to be donated. Hopefully someone can get some use out of them.
@rebeccalohnes4016
@rebeccalohnes4016 3 месяца назад
I'm watching older episodes that you posted before I started watching your channel. I enjoy them, and I'm hoping it helps your channel.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 3 месяца назад
Thank you so much! I wish I knew what "pleased the algorithm." Lol!
@Dennise_Who
@Dennise_Who 10 месяцев назад
Your kind heart shows in in videos. Looking forward to the collaboration next month!
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 10 месяцев назад
Bonnie, I'm glad to see you doing that closet, unfortunately, mine is full of carpenter ants. The exterminator will be coming this week but they told me to leave everything in the closet for now😢 You, Mack and Barbie are great, I can't wait!!!! I still wear my clothes from the 90's, TRUE 😂😂😂
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Oh no! I'm so sorry. I know more than I want to about carpenter ants as I used to sell pest control door to door when I was 20 and that was the main problem where we were located in Indianapolis. I hope they can get rid of them without ruining your clothes. And that's awesome you still wear clothes from the 90s! You go girl!
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I'm 69 and I don't grow 🤣🤣🤣 5' tall, 100lbs 😳 yikes, I'm little 🤣 they haven't gotten to the clothes but my carpet has to go and possibly replace the floor 😔
@Snoops510
@Snoops510 10 месяцев назад
What a beautiful family you have! You are such a great example to your boys. Great parenting! As others have said, I have heard of singing as a therapy for stuttering. Never heard of Ketamine therapy. I found it interesting to read a comment below about "eye therapy". Sending prayers for you to find the proper therapy for him. 🙏🙏🙏 As a parent myself, we try whatever we can for our kids. Looking forward to your collaboration with Midwest and Barbie in October!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for your comment! Yes, we do try whatever we can. It never used to be a big deal because it was just part of who he was and we fully accept him that way. If it wasn't for the fact that it holds him back from doing some of the things he really wants to do after he graduates this upcoming year, I wouldn't be so worried about it because it makes him pretty endearing, but he just met with a recruiter from the Space Force because he eventually wants to work for NASA and the recruiter said he would have a hard time passing the interview with his stutter. That made me a little furious as a mom because the things that he wants to do for Space Force doesn't require that he speak that much. It's not like he is trying to be an air traffic controller for heaven's sakes! Anyway, just don't want it to hold him back in any capacity, so praying we find something to help him. Thanks for your support!!
@hollyjobitner3285
@hollyjobitner3285 10 месяцев назад
I was reading about different drug therapies for stuttering, without much success in my search. Can your son sing without troubles. Sometimes people are able to add a rhythm/song to their speech to help. When my mom was working in a stroke rehab section of our hospital, she was amazed to see non-verbal people were able to sing. I’m not one to throw a pill at things, but he’s not my child. 💙
@mistybroadway5720
@mistybroadway5720 10 месяцев назад
My oldest son had a stuttering problem. He wears glasses and did eye therapy. It helped him a lot. He still stutters from time to time but way better than he was. The eye Dr told him to Google eye therapy for stuttering. He did this for some time. Made a big difference.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Holly, yes, though he doesn't sing much now, I used to make him sing or talk in kind of a sing-songy type voice when he was a lot younger and he wouldn't stutter, but as he has gotten older, he "feels weird" doing that, but it is pretty amazing that it goes away when stutterers sing. I have seen that same phenomenon with stroke patients. It's pretty incredible. I don't like to throw a pill at things either, but we have tried all of the normal therapies and even some alternative ones. The ketamine therapy is not like a daily thing you do, but more of a drug that puts you in a relaxed state (almost as if you are hypnotized) and a therapist guides you through some steps to help usually with anxiety or depression, but I just wondered if anyone had tried it for anything other than those two things. I'm actually more interested in psilocybin treatment (mushrooms), but more research needs to be done in that area before I would want him to try that. Misty, I think the eye therapy you are talking about is very similar to what we have tried at a place called Brain Rehab and it seemed to help a little bit and he still keeps up with the exercises, but now it seems to be getting worse again, so it may be worth going back for more treatment. It stinks that insurance doesn't pay for treatments like that and those treatments get expensive, but of course we will do anything for him to help get rid of this stutter as it is starting to hold him back in some areas as he wants to be part of the Space Force and they told him that it would be hard for him to pass the interview with his stutter.
@mistybroadway5720
@mistybroadway5720 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp My son does his eye exercises at home. He also takes 5HTB it's a herbal supplement for anxiety and ADHD. This has helped him a lot. Have you considered talking to his Doctor about a medication for anxiety? That might help him calm down and not stutter as much.
@carolynoquinn4573
@carolynoquinn4573 10 месяцев назад
You Earned being part of this Collaboration!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Awww...thank you!
@nancythomas1954
@nancythomas1954 10 месяцев назад
It is so nice that you are doing this for her. Everyone needs help at one time or another, there is no shame in that. You are a good hearted person. I will be back! lol
@makelljensen4324
@makelljensen4324 10 месяцев назад
I know there are people that can use donated wedding dresses (and probably prom dresses) to make burial dresses for infants. There was a lady- I want to say in the bountiful area- that I took my wedding dress to and she was able to make it into several infant burial gowns. It's hard to let go of dresses, but knowing that it went for such a special cause made it worth it for me.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Oh my gosh, I love that idea! I've gotten a lot of great ideas on here. I'm going to present these options to her and see if she's willing to part with it. That's what I think I would choose to do if it were me is donate it to someone who would make it into burial dresses. Thanks for the suggestion!
@makelljensen4324
@makelljensen4324 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp you're welcome, I hope it helps❤️
@assistant2d446
@assistant2d446 9 месяцев назад
I donated money wedding gown to ‘Angel gown’ They made a burial gown out of it
@makelljensen4324
@makelljensen4324 9 месяцев назад
@@assistant2d446 that's awesome!
@juliagranda7130
@juliagranda7130 10 месяцев назад
First, enjoy your weekend retreat, you’ve earned it, second, another great job on that closet, I would love to have a closet that size w/ all the shelving
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! I'm having a great time at my retreat. Just took a few minutes to come respond to a few comments so they don't pile up too much...LOL! Yes, that closet and the shelving were amazing!
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977 10 месяцев назад
What a beautiful dress you got there, I hope it fits you well. My favourite clothing period is the 90´s which I guess is now old fashioned but not retro yet. I think it got drilled in with Friends, we all wanted to be like them. You did a great job in this house and your family is so nice to come and help.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Yes! Friends! That's why I like everything from the 90s to about 2010! You nailed it. I guess I didn't realize that, but I think I could attribute it to that show. How funny!
@jadyk03
@jadyk03 10 месяцев назад
Midwest Magic Cleaning told me to subscribe 😂💕 So happy for the upcoming collab!! He really is a wonderful person. Loving your videos 💕
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Yay! Thank you! Yeah, Mack is hilarious. Just got done with his latest video and my abs hurt from laughing!🤣❤️
@DVD927
@DVD927 10 месяцев назад
Same here!❤
@sarahwilks2413
@sarahwilks2413 3 месяца назад
Hope you enjoyed your pampering and was able to relax. Your hubby is a hero! I can't imagine doing his job though to be fair I couldn't imagine doing yours either! You are both heroes and good role models to your children, they are obviously as generous in spirit as you are Bonnie 🙂
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 3 месяца назад
Thank you, Sarah! It's true that we both have very mentally taxing jobs, but on a completely different scale. I know he could not do what I do and I couldn't do what he does. It's great that there are so many different types of people who can handle different things. And you are just the sweetest! Hope you're doing great today!❤️
@andreametternich6662
@andreametternich6662 10 месяцев назад
Wunderbar, Sie haben eine sehr gute Seele. ❤️
@lisamcdonald9792
@lisamcdonald9792 10 месяцев назад
I'm sure the homeowner feels comforted from all your help ❤ Bless you for helping her family 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Yes, thank you!
@debby891
@debby891 10 месяцев назад
Awesome job! I wish I had half your energy❤
@leashy1204
@leashy1204 10 месяцев назад
I am so excited for the COLAB!!!!💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
It's getting so close! Just get here already, October!!
@ritatilley9380
@ritatilley9380 4 месяца назад
Awsm. You are an inspiration to me. I sew little girls clothing (sizes 1/2 to 4), bake for extra $$'s, so my dining area becomes a bit overwhelming. My niece gave me 3 big bins to organize my Stuff!!! So I'll be putting my items in order. Thank you.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 4 месяца назад
That's so awesome! I love to sew and I totally understand the mess it creates! I think organizing fabric and other sewing supplies is one of my favorite things to do, so I'm a little jealous that you'll be working on that without me.. lol! Have fun with that!❤️❤️❤️
@annw1395
@annw1395 10 месяцев назад
I'd love it if you'd explain more of what's going on, both on and off-camera, eg: are they right there, and going thru the boxes, or is all the clutter just being boxed up? Are there carpet beetles in the closet? If she hasn't been in the closet for a decade, where are the clothes she wears currently? You're so awesome to help! Best of luck with your son.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
You're right, I could be better about explaining what is going on. I basically took everything out and spread it out on her bed for her to go through and decide what was trash, what we needed to wash to donate and what we needed to wash and keep. For those things like the dresses that we couldn't really wash, we did sprinkle borax on them to kill any remaining carpet beetles, though anything we did find was dead. And, she is not actually currently living at this house and hasn't been for quite some time. She is living with her parents and so that's where all of her current clothes are.
@mjs.2000
@mjs.2000 10 месяцев назад
Great job!!
@onThisJourney
@onThisJourney 9 месяцев назад
You and your family are kind to help others. I pray the Lord will bless your channel to grow so you can do this as much as you want! 🙏❤🙏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@lindagray8920
@lindagray8920 9 месяцев назад
What a great service for this family. And being a kind listener when she talked about her abuse. You ROCK!!
@michellesimpson6734
@michellesimpson6734 10 месяцев назад
Great Job!! Thank you for sharing.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for watching!
@lawaincooley6788
@lawaincooley6788 9 месяцев назад
Great job!!!! That closet was wild!!
@lisabee2314
@lisabee2314 9 месяцев назад
Great job, thank-you for helping! 🙂👍
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
😊❤️
@kaitlinhillier
@kaitlinhillier 10 месяцев назад
Thanks!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
You're so sweet! Thank you so much for your support!😍
@kimchapman2210
@kimchapman2210 9 месяцев назад
You are very gracious toward those you serve! Lovely
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Oh thank you!
@darcyfoster8208
@darcyfoster8208 10 месяцев назад
What a Transformation !!! Way to go--Cannot wait until October now
@dorenedaniels7493
@dorenedaniels7493 8 месяцев назад
This is a beautiful room. You did a great job for her on this God bless you 🙏❤️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад
Thank you.❤️🙏
@lindamiller1945
@lindamiller1945 10 месяцев назад
Great video
@livlofton906
@livlofton906 10 месяцев назад
I can’t wait for the collab!
@user-hn4iz3ll7i
@user-hn4iz3ll7i 9 месяцев назад
Thank you
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
🥰
@DVD927
@DVD927 10 месяцев назад
You are a saint!!!
@niksand1713
@niksand1713 10 месяцев назад
Great work!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks!
@Arleen1010
@Arleen1010 9 месяцев назад
Great clean up. Enjoyed the video.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Awesome, thank you!
@tracybuchwald1535
@tracybuchwald1535 10 месяцев назад
Great job!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks!
@bonniewinninger4896
@bonniewinninger4896 9 месяцев назад
I have a great deal of respect for you and what you do. You also have a beautiful family. I’m new to your channel, but I’m hooked!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!🥰
@jacquelineteague3545
@jacquelineteague3545 10 месяцев назад
You did an awesome job
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@joycehatcher4520
@joycehatcher4520 10 месяцев назад
I love your videos
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@user-rj6bu5hw6x
@user-rj6bu5hw6x 4 месяца назад
I love ❤ your videos and appreciate all you are doing to help people. Please try not to get discouraged!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 4 месяца назад
Thank you so much!
@Amadorcrew
@Amadorcrew 10 месяцев назад
I just found your channel. Getting caught up on videos 💜
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I'm so happy you're here! Enjoy. Just know that my first few are pretty awkward. 🤪 All of this is so out of my comfort zone, but getting a little better with each one.
@lucyrademakers4188
@lucyrademakers4188 10 месяцев назад
Nice job❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks 😄
@JOSIE19643
@JOSIE19643 9 месяцев назад
Wow ! You're good !! Amazing job !! 👍🇨🇦❤👏👏👏👏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you! 😃
@ginawhite4548
@ginawhite4548 10 месяцев назад
Awesome job.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks!
@brendaturpen9336
@brendaturpen9336 10 месяцев назад
A friend of mine has undergone ketamine therapy for anxiety and PTSD. It was helpful for her. Both my grandsons are soon to graduate from speech therapy after about 8 years of it, one of whom had a stutter among other things. I’m not certain if stuttering can be caused in part by anxiety, etc., but I think that ketamine therapy can open new neural pathways, which seems to me would be useful in retraining speech. I’m certainly no doctor, but I don’t believe it could hurt, and it might help. Best of luck to him ( and to your whole very cute family - enjoy the retreat)!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you for this information! That is helpful to know. I also have wondered if it could help because of the new neural pathways. I would actually love to find a place that uses psilocybin, but I know that is still in the early stages of being evaluated as a safe treatment. I think ketamine therapy is probably the next best thing. Thanks again for your input!
@brendarose3941
@brendarose3941 6 месяцев назад
She is strong to get through such an ordeal. She is a survivor. Good for her. I wish her luck and happiness in the future. That’s so cool that she allowed you to take some clothes. Another great job.
@juliebrooke6099
@juliebrooke6099 10 месяцев назад
I don’t know anything about the therapy you mentioned you were considering for your son but I remember a few years ago a British pop star Gareth Gates had success with something called the McGuire programme which you might want to look into. It certainly wasn’t a quick fix and required a lot of work but made a real difference to his life.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I will look into anything to help him. I will definitely look up that program. Thanks for your suggestion!
@CookwitchCreations
@CookwitchCreations 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp a friend of mine was essentially mute because his stutter was so bad. He is a huge advocate of the McGuire program, and it really helped him. It's controlled breathing, (not just that) but he can now speak, even though his speech rhythm can sound odd if you aren't aware.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Nice! I love to hear success stories. I am definitely going to look into this!
@karenorlando8330
@karenorlando8330 6 месяцев назад
Another wonderful job! I'm binge watching all of your videos and i wish we lived closer because i would love to work with you (at no fee...I LOVE to clean!❤). My heart goes out to your son. I had a pretty significant stutter growing up. Once I started taking Effexor years ago, my speech is now fluent. I did speech therapy which did nothing. I hope you can find something to help him. I'm like a different person! 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 6 месяцев назад
Thank you, Karen! That's so nice of you to want to come and help! Maybe you could throw it out there on your local social media that you want to do a free cleaning, but put stipulations as to what you are comfortable with, of course. Even just a couple of hours can help tremendously for someone just needing a little lift.😊 And that's definitely interesting about the Effexor. I have thought about doing something like that, but there is one other treatment, besides possibly the ketamine therapy still, that we are looking into first and, if that doesn't help, it may be worth a try. Thank you for sharing your experience!
@karenorlando8330
@karenorlando8330 6 месяцев назад
​@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Thank you Bonnie for planting the seed of just putting myself out there to help someone in need. ❤ Blessings to you and your beautiful family!
@tonimcbride2205
@tonimcbride2205 8 месяцев назад
The retreat sounds really interesting. I love forensics. Amazing job again. 🥰❤️🥳💯
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад
Thank you! 🤗 Yes, the retreat was so nice.
@bobbishuemaker7973
@bobbishuemaker7973 10 месяцев назад
Great job! I hate clothes and I hate moving. Looking forward to Oct!!
@vivh6254
@vivh6254 9 месяцев назад
The world needs more people like you
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
❤️🙏
@plinkafan21
@plinkafan21 9 месяцев назад
Came from Midwest Magic Cleaning's channel, and I just binge watched all of your videos! What you guys do is amazing, and i love your videos. I hope to see many more in the future🙏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Wow, thank you! I've been hanging out with Mack and Barbie tonight getting ready for our collab tomorrow. So, so excited! Thank you for supporting my channel!!❤️❤️🙏
@bearfog07
@bearfog07 10 месяцев назад
Wow, I SO want a wardrobe that big!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I know. Mine is about half this size. It was a really big closet!
@KettyFormaggio
@KettyFormaggio Месяц назад
bravo!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Месяц назад
🙏
@LisaCrowley-ld8jp
@LisaCrowley-ld8jp 7 месяцев назад
great job 😊😊😊😊😊😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much 😀
@colinecleans
@colinecleans 10 месяцев назад
Wow, its amazing that the whole family stepped in! I know how hard it can be, to see so much stuff that you'd personally get rid off. And despite that, respect their attachement to their belongings. That one wedding dress was the symbol for a pretty sad story. Thank you for listening to her. 💙🤍
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Yes, I think once I let her know some of the great options she can donate her wedding dress for, she would be willing to let go of it, but that's all I can do is present options. Thanks, Coline!
@lacyogle5957
@lacyogle5957 9 месяцев назад
Ive always wondered/worried about the people who have to see that type of horror. How they cope with it and seperate it from their daily lives. I love that they do this for them and their spouses.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Right? I don't know how he or anyone else can do that job without losing their mind. I'm glad there are people who make that sacrifice to help the innocent though. 🙏
@Pinki95694
@Pinki95694 10 месяцев назад
I am in my 60’s and still stutter…have tried everything all my life…I am on an anti anxiety medication and it does help a whole lot…when stressed or on phone still stutter sometimes…just love and patience is what happens to help me with the clonazapam…let him know he’s loved no matter what (which I know you do)❣️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I'm so sorry it has plagued you your whole life. I think it is endearing actually. My heart really just loves people who stutter. Unfortunately, his has gotten so bad that it is holding him back some. He wants to apply to be part of the Space Force so that he can later join NASA possibly and, when he met with the Space Force recruiter, he was told that he would have a hard time passing the interview with his stutter. I was kind of angry that he told him that actually because I think, for what he wants to do, his speech shouldn't be an issue. We may need to try some anti-anxiety medication to see if it at least decreases it. He definitely knows he is loved no matter what! Thanks for your input!
@DonnaStocking
@DonnaStocking 10 месяцев назад
I really enjoy the videos and the comments that I read. Go and have a well deserved pampering.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks, mom! I'm enjoying my time here. Went on a really long horseback ride this morning, which was pretty awesome. I think I'm going to be sore tomorrow though!😬
@irenea2006
@irenea2006 9 месяцев назад
Midwest magic cleaning sent me. Almost time for the collaboration. Looking forward to seeing it. New sub.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Awesome! Thank for being here! Yep, flying out in the morning for the collab! Soooo excited!
@susanbrown7788
@susanbrown7788 9 месяцев назад
As I'm watching this video I also borrowed a dress for the 1 prom I went to. I borrowed my wedding dress also. . I did make a pink cummerbund and decorated my white had with tulle and a pink & pearl band. The dress was a plain white dress made of cotton. No need to pay a dry cleaner to clean the dress and store it for whatever. I have taken some of my dressy dresses to a local high school for girls that are not able to afford a dress for the prom or homecoming. They were classic black so not an old ladies dress! cleaner to clean the dress and store it for whatever. I have taken some of my dressy dresses to a local high school for girls that are not able to afford a dress for the prom or homecoming. It was a good feeling to help them out.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Yes, I think borrowing in both of those situations is the best idea ever.. or renting them. It is stressful to try to figure out what to do with them afterwards and you have a picture of it so why do you actually need to keep the dress?
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
And I love that you have donated some of your other dresses!
@irishheart4768
@irishheart4768 10 месяцев назад
Funny, first time watching your channel. I say funny because I was married 2 times my first was alot of physical abuse, we where only married for 6 months had a baby and it was after ower son was born is when the abuse started I left him then years later got married again and there was alot of psychological abuse but no physical abuse. Had ower daughter, then left him after she was 4yrs old reason I did not want to raise another child alone , but I did moved 5 states away from ever thing I new and started fresh. I know all to well about abusive relationships. I have been single know for over 13 years and I don't wish to be in any relationship. Love your channel has well has Midwest cleaning and Barbie. Keep up the good work you all do. 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I'm so sorry you had to suffer two abusive relationships. I think I would find it hard to want to try another one again, as well. Best to you and your family!
@irishheart4768
@irishheart4768 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Thank you, two very good things came from it all my kids, my son who is 47 and my daughter who is 25 we all go through something in ower life. God bless, stay safe & well. 😊
@glendajorde9062
@glendajorde9062 10 месяцев назад
excellent tote packing. 😄
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you 🤗
@dianethompson2458
@dianethompson2458 7 месяцев назад
I gave my wedding dress and 2 bridesmaid dresses to our local charity shop. It was in the middle of October. On Halloween the neighbours little 10 year old came trick or treating in my gown,veil and hat. She looked adorable. We had a good laugh about it later.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
That is awesome!
@porkchop0711
@porkchop0711 7 дней назад
@kaitlinhillier
@kaitlinhillier 10 месяцев назад
New sub! Mack and Barbie sent me!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Welcome!! Thanks so much for being here!!💓
@nickieweinman5131
@nickieweinman5131 10 месяцев назад
I've heard sometimes a person who shudders can sing like Mel Tillis😊
@miasolala8415
@miasolala8415 9 месяцев назад
05:44 oh yes, i know that too ☺whenever i do something like that, i always find myself humming the tetris melody.😄
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
😂❤️
@Justaskme781
@Justaskme781 10 месяцев назад
MWC sent me to tell ya suck it! New subscriber. Can't wait for collaboration video. Good luck
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Mack is the best! Thanks for subbing, and welcome!
@barbaranorman7212
@barbaranorman7212 10 месяцев назад
I was an abuse victim for 3 marriages. A therapist told me that sometimes happens when people observe a father abusing a mother(which was my case) and they are used to the dynamics of that relationship and don't notice during courtship when a prospective spouse have those behaviors. The answer is to stop having a victim mentality, wanting sympathy for what a person has been through. Use the abuse as a tool for learning what attracted you to the abuse. Avoid it and should the need arise again stand against it. Prayer really helps.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing your experience. That makes sense.
@Suzann-kr7tz
@Suzann-kr7tz 10 месяцев назад
Mack sent me! Have fun with him and Barbie!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks so much! It's going to be great!❤️
@dianerichard5237
@dianerichard5237 9 месяцев назад
Great job on the borax. Good thinking for not a lot of money.❤❤❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you 🤗
@lexc1695
@lexc1695 10 месяцев назад
Here from clean with Barbie. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for coming! So glad you're here!❤️❤️
@carolynoquinn4573
@carolynoquinn4573 10 месяцев назад
A CSI, how interesting and important!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Not exactly a CSI, but rather he gathers the evidence to hand over to the detectives. Still, he has seen some pretty interesting things!
@whitneyfry2496
@whitneyfry2496 10 месяцев назад
Hey I’m in Utah too!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Awesome! What part?
@whitneyfry2496
@whitneyfry2496 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I’m actually from Kamas Valley but my husband and I are in Ogden now!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
So cool! Kamas is where the retreat was I just went on with my husband for law enforcement and their spouses. It's BEAUTIFUL there! My in-laws are in Pleasant View.
@painting-with-J
@painting-with-J 10 месяцев назад
I would add some Diatomaceous Earth with the Borax. No need to repack just lift the lid a bit and use a puffer.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I would have just added the borax to the stuff in the tote, but it needed to be repacked so that I could put some cloth in between the breakable items. It wasn't originally packed to be moved, more just to get out of the cupboards so that they could be thoroughly wiped down. That's the only reason I repacked it. Otherwise, you're right, I would have just added it as is.❤️😊
@ImallamaToo
@ImallamaToo 10 месяцев назад
MMC sent us! ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Mack is the best! Thanks for being here!💕
@Morpha-Ahprom
@Morpha-Ahprom 10 месяцев назад
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