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We are back to the house where it all started...my first few videos on this channel were of this home. This home had issues with carpet beetles and pantry moths. After cleaning up the kitchen, living room, her son's room, and three bathrooms, I left there thinking things were under control and that she was making good progress on her own, and she was, so it was a surprise to me when I texted her a few weeks ago just to see how things were coming along and this was the response I got:
"We have gotten a little bit more done at the house, but not as much as I would like. I've had some health issues comes up that have made it harder for me to clean and honestly my anxiety has made it hard, too. My neck has been hurting since early this year and at some point it became so painful that I couldn't turn my head which made it hard to drive or do much of anything. I went and got an MRI and have a few things going on in my cervical spine that are causing nerve pain and they're wanting me to get injections that will help with the pain and potentially help with the inflammation and, if that doesn't relieve the pain, I might have to get surgery. On top of that, my husband and I have been wanting to get pregnant, but haven't been able to due to my latest test showing positive for polyps in my uterus (this is the second time), so I will have to get surgery to remove the polyps either later this month or next month. Anyway, all of it has been too much, so I haven't been doing much, But I started feeling like there's more to my struggle to get this house clean. I have some pretty bad memories there with my ex-husband." -- then she goes on and tells about the abuse, which I told her I would leave out the details -- "I think the longer I've been staying away from that house, the more I've felt like I could never go back and I keep thinking it's just because of the bugs, but I think it's also because of the PTSD associated with my ex-husband. So, this past week, we started looking at houses and we're strongly considering selling our house. However, that still means we need to clean our house so, if we find somewhere we'd like to go, we're gonna have a big push to move everything to storage pretty quickly."
There is more to this story which I will explain in the video, but that is the gist of what's going on here. I have really grown to love this woman and feel bad that she has been through so much and would love nothing more than to see her get a fresh start in a new home.
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@heatherakagamermom7790
@heatherakagamermom7790 10 месяцев назад
I’m glad she has you. You did a great job. I think she’s right. She should move. A brand new start is exactly what she needs. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! Yes, for sure. I wouldn't want to live there either with those memories.
@user-ym2wx1yt7k
@user-ym2wx1yt7k 6 месяцев назад
I have severe PTSD. She needs away from that house ASAP. Thank you for helping her out. I hope she can live somewhere she can have a dog. Dogs help in ways that therapy and medication just can't.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 6 месяцев назад
She has actually moved out to a rental while their house is being built. Yay! Also, she got a dog a couple of years ago while she was living with her parents. You're right, dogs are very therapeutic. I can't even express how much I love dogs. They are just the best!😊
@trinity4ce
@trinity4ce 10 месяцев назад
You are changing her world, and it counts ❤️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Awww...thank you. ❤❤
@trinity4ce
@trinity4ce 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp You are welcome ❤️❤️
@marybolieu
@marybolieu 10 месяцев назад
You are so sweet and have such a huge heart. Thank you for helping out people in need and bringing us along.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
You bet! Thanks for your kind comment.❤️
@sarahconklin1256
@sarahconklin1256 10 месяцев назад
This is so beautiful❣️ people don’t know how important mental health is❣️
@lia-liz2012
@lia-liz2012 9 месяцев назад
And so misunderstood...people judge so easily 😢
@jillneer7305
@jillneer7305 10 месяцев назад
The work you're doing to clean up this home is amazing! Talking with, & being a friend to this woman, is the HELP she needs to move on! ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! It helps me as well. Hearing her story makes me really appreciate what I have. ❤
@HungerSTR1KE
@HungerSTR1KE 9 месяцев назад
I always like it when a cleaner can buy new bedding or even replace a stained bed. It really is a beautiful touch. I hope your channel grows and you get enough from it to give back even more.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад
Thank you! Since this collaboration, it has grown so much that I am now setting aside any donations from the super thanks feature to buy things for the homeowners to help get things organized or to give them something they desperately need. I'm so thankful for all of the support!🤗❤️❤️
@katiblue
@katiblue 10 месяцев назад
I looked over at my husband on his computer when the Tetris music started, and he was bopping his head. 🤣
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
😂So cute!
@josephdaly2015
@josephdaly2015 9 месяцев назад
So happy after hearing what she dealt with that they are going to sell this house and move. I really think it will ease a lot of her ailments. Wishing them health and happiness in their next chapter. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍💐🙏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
I agree. Thank you!
@Dennise_Who
@Dennise_Who 10 месяцев назад
These videos take forever to watch because I have to get up and clean something. NOT complaining! I am looking forward to you working with @MidwestMagicCleaning and @CleanWithBarbie ! ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Haha! I love it! Thank you! I am so stoked about it!❤
@dwt20125
@dwt20125 9 месяцев назад
Same,Im sitting watching the video and looking around for something to clean.😃.Great work Bonnie.
@sadafahmad3078
@sadafahmad3078 10 месяцев назад
Your voice is so soothing to ears. I watch your videos to hear you, and you are doing amazing work
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
That's so nice of you. I find it pretty funny that so many people find my voice soothing. I hear it totally differently and it just sounds odd to me, but I'm getting used to hearing it now I guess. Thank you!
@bobbishuemaker7973
@bobbishuemaker7973 10 месяцев назад
Can't wait to see you, Barbie and Midwest in Oct!!
@ccgirl5055
@ccgirl5055 10 месяцев назад
Really like watching these help-one-another videos. Thanks for posting. (Slight comment about client's health. If she has neck, back, or nerve pain, I highly recommend people try chiropractors before leaping to surgeries. However, not all chiropractors are equal, choosing one that is very reputable with a good practice is important. I have Multiple Sclerosis, my mom has a sensitive neck, my dad has poor hips, the chiropractors have saved us so much pain.)
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thanks for watching! I have tried chiropractors before and I almost always leave in more pain than I came in with. I have tried different ones over the years. There was one I found where I used to live who I felt did a better job, but then I moved and I haven't been back to one since. I know they are super helpful for a lot of people though and, you're right, I'm sure it depends on the chiropractor. I found physical therapists to be more helpful, but even that only helps for so long before I end up needing surgery. This woman is trying everything she can to avoid surgery though, which is wise. I avoided it as long as I could as well, but unfortunately, ended up needing it after I tried everything.
@deannaw9657
@deannaw9657 10 месяцев назад
SO EXCITED for your collab!! The minute Mack announced it on his go live, I thought about what a great opportunity it would be to grow your channel FAST😊!! Good luck and great job as always!! ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I know! I am beyond grateful he is willing to allow me to be part of this collab! It's a dream come true! Thanks so much for your support!!❤😊
@johnkelly9451
@johnkelly9451 9 месяцев назад
We are looking forward to collab too!... Going to be Epic for viewers and even more Epic seeing our fav channels via eachothers recommendations and mentions...So amazing how each of you help others and inspire so many for their own places and for others too. Thank you all for everything! ❤❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
@@johnkelly9451 Thank you! The support has been amazing, both from my viewers and from Mack and Barbie. I really love that we all are cleaning in VERY different areas (big city, rural, suburban) and all have our own styles, so it's going to be a fun collaboration!
@johnkelly9451
@johnkelly9451 9 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp That's what makes each of you so special...(big city, rural, suburban), The common thread is you are all so good and help people that really need it and each of you have good hearts... We've learned alot from each and apply it in our own homes too... we thank each of you... collab is going to be fun... Just thrilled to see you all together in a collab... maybe someday you all could do a distance zoom clean video then a live zoom q & a... once in awhile later?.... Whatever comes next... we will be tuned into each of your channels! Thankyou... ! ❤️!!!
@laurahicks8084
@laurahicks8084 10 месяцев назад
Looking forward to your cleaning collaboration!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Can't wait!
@annwilliams6438
@annwilliams6438 9 месяцев назад
I have found that as a person with physical problems that the only way to not have my home a pile of clutter within two months is to have a daily routine. Got to do a little each day. AND have small dustbins in a lot of places (which can be easily emptied each day.) In each bedroom, in the sitting area, in an office area, in the bathroom, in the kitchen of course, in the dining room, in play areas. Having a place where bits and pieces can be thrown within three or four steps - and with a flip of the wrist for each bin/container they can be emptied into one bag which can then be thrown out each day.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
I love this! Such a simple, yet effective way to keep everything clean and tidy.🤗
@niksand1713
@niksand1713 10 месяцев назад
You are a great person and friend!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Awww...thank you. She is easy to love!
@melaniewest3947
@melaniewest3947 10 месяцев назад
We all need help at some time. This lady needs all the help she can get. It does get better
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you. It really does. I know she is feeling more hopeful than she has in years.😊
@debby891
@debby891 10 месяцев назад
I love your videos, have so much admiration for your compassion and selfless giving of your time and hard work so that others have a fresh start. After reading a few of the comments I would just like to say that I do think it’s important to share a little of the background of their situation that caused this and you do it very respectfully as does, Auri, Barbie and Mack. I am 64, have had 26 surgeries to include 4 total knee replacements, back and neck disc surgeries, use a cane and a walker and also care for my 85 year old mom with Alzheimer’s. I am the opposite, am and have always been OCD clean so needless to say is a huge physical challenge but my way of coping with the constant physical pain (I’m allergic to all pain meds) and the unbelievable emotional challenges of dealing with Alzheimer’s. Many times people say “you look great and your home is always beautiful “. I internal response is blind people look great but still can’t see so many times people don’t realize the real hidden struggles that one is living with. Great job❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks so much for your comment. I know it's not the most cheery video, but I, too, think it IS important to share people's struggles. I think so many people feel like they are the only ones going through a specific struggle and, for some reason, it just feels better to know you aren't the only one. It gives me hope and makes my own burdens seem manageable. And, holy cow, 26 surgeries?!! That is WAY too many for one person. And without being able to take pain meds, I can't even imagine the constant pain you must be in on top of dealing with the emotional challenges of helping your mother with Alzheimer's...one of the most awful diseases you can witness and one that is usually harder on the caregiver than the person with the Alzheimer's (runs in our family, too). I'm so sorry! But, you're right, we put on a happy face and just push forward so it's hard for people to know how big our struggles are sometimes. My heart goes out to you and your mother!❤❤
@micheleboschert175
@micheleboschert175 10 месяцев назад
Thank you for supporting this dear one.💗
@sarahwilks2413
@sarahwilks2413 2 месяца назад
Bonnie you are amazing! What a fantastic job you did, can't wait to watch more in the series xxxx
@RobinSpencer-wc6hj
@RobinSpencer-wc6hj Месяц назад
Awesome job! Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤
@cziegle3794
@cziegle3794 10 месяцев назад
Yay top 17 and top 111 comments and likes. Love this channel. Best to you and your family. Thanks for making this video.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for your support!❤
@tonimcbride2205
@tonimcbride2205 7 месяцев назад
Beyond thrilled for her to move. PTSD is not nice. This house is a trigger considering all her suffering. God bless this lady. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
Thank you, Toni! She and her family just moved a couple of weeks ago and I know it has helped tremendously with the PTSD.
@tonimcbride2205
@tonimcbride2205 7 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp a trillion percent, bless her heart? ❤️🙏🏽
@lisamcdonald9792
@lisamcdonald9792 10 месяцев назад
What an amazing difference ❤ You do a wonderful job! I hope this family does have better days ahead. God bless you for all you do. Also, you have a new t-shirt idea for channel "Oh look more water bottles" 😁
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much! Yes, I've thought about that as a shirt idea, but I also don't want to copy too much of what Mack is doing. I'll think about it though. I guess it is different than "Oh look, more dishes!" and maybe a fun version of my own. 😋
@lisamcdonald9792
@lisamcdonald9792 9 месяцев назад
I don't think he would mind at all! LOL 😁😁@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@christinecornezcolmenero9356
@christinecornezcolmenero9356 10 месяцев назад
Just found out about you through Mack, so I immediately subscribed to your channel. I have been watching him and Barbie for some months now. The collaboration should be great to watch. I'm looking forward to it. I admire your capacity to give to those who are experiencing difficulties. You guys/ gals are great.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Awesome! Welcome! I'm thrilled you're here! I'm so excited about the collab! It's going to be awesome!😊❤
@sharonchandler6245
@sharonchandler6245 10 месяцев назад
Bless you for helping her.
@aurorauniversalis1633
@aurorauniversalis1633 10 месяцев назад
Great video as always! Hopefully she moves out, moves on and gets the fresh start she needs.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I hope so too! Thank you!
@annw1395
@annw1395 9 месяцев назад
You're a miracle worker! Huge transformation!
@sandebryant3878
@sandebryant3878 10 месяцев назад
I pray every works out well for this lady. Mental health and physical health mix together can definitely be a struggle. How has she kept the rest of the house that you did clean for her? I hope your hard work was continued. ❤❤ I felt the same as your husband. And I hope it's not true. She may need to check into getting a house cleaner for two days a week.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
She has definitely, not only kept it up, but has gone through and gotten rid of so much of the stuff that she has been trying to ignore for the past few years, but now finally dealing with it. Besides the physical issues she is dealing with right now, I do know she is feeling a lot more hopeful than she has in a long time since reaching out for help and deciding to move on from this place with horrible memories. Thanks for your comments. ❤
@NaturalDirtQueen
@NaturalDirtQueen 6 дней назад
Thank you for the original sound on the vacuum section ❤
@NaturalDirtQueen
@NaturalDirtQueen 6 дней назад
Very Satisfying ❤
@ShellyCline
@ShellyCline 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for helping her Bonnie. Your compassion and empathy is so heartwarming. As a DV survivor I can absolutely relate to that anxiety. I wouldn't be surprised if her anxiety is related to the abuse and not so much the bugs. But there's only one way to find out. Git awn outta there lol. I hope she and her family are able to move soon and get a fresh start. Wonderful video. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
"Git awn outta there..." Love it! Yep, I'm sure the abuse has way more to do with her not doing well in that house. I'm sad to hear you have been through DV as well. Glad you are a survivor!❤
@ShellyCline
@ShellyCline 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp thank you, Bonnie 💕
@LadyAurora10
@LadyAurora10 9 месяцев назад
You are so sweet. 🙏🏻 Amazing result!
@cintalopez-teijeiro5683
@cintalopez-teijeiro5683 9 месяцев назад
Girl! You made me laugh loud with the Tetris 😂😂😂 So good you helped her again ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoyed!
@aussieisy
@aussieisy 10 месяцев назад
Nothing little about what you have done for this family, it is HUGE for them! God bless you!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Yes, thank you! It's been a blessing for me as well!
@kellimeguiar534
@kellimeguiar534 10 месяцев назад
It's such a beautiful thing you are doing for her. Especially these days it's getting very difficult for everyone it's got to be even harder these days for folks with health problems and ptsd.
@kellimeguiar534
@kellimeguiar534 10 месяцев назад
It really is wonderful to see others helping others. We all need to just be kind to each others. I have really serious knee issues so I completely understand. I just have to stick to a schedule so it dosen't get away from me. Thank you for understanding and caring.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing. Yes, it seems everyone is struggling with something.
@shawntennant9049
@shawntennant9049 9 месяцев назад
You are a good steward! Thank you for giving me motivation to get up & get something done
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Awww, thank you! Go you!😊❤
@patriciap2355
@patriciap2355 10 месяцев назад
👍🏼J’aime votre empathie ❤et j’admire votre dynamisme!! Bises de France 🇫🇷
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Merci! C'est très gentil de votre part.❤
@diane6037
@diane6037 10 месяцев назад
Great job 👏 you are helping her transform her life, wishing her a happier future, Thank you for sharing with us ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
You are so kind. Thank you!
@mollylindsay1825
@mollylindsay1825 10 месяцев назад
Love your positive attitude, Bonnie. Also appreciate you sharing your neck pain knowledge, learning is always helpful.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! And having typed for a neurosurgery clinic for 9 years and a pain specialty clinic for about 16, plus my own issues, I know WAY more than I ever wanted to know about neck pain and the different treatments...LOL!
@cathtf7957
@cathtf7957 10 месяцев назад
Why is it that nobody ever just says, " I don't do cleaning or housework? "
@fjklfdasdf
@fjklfdasdf 10 месяцев назад
that would be so refreshing!
@rebeccaashton5390
@rebeccaashton5390 10 месяцев назад
You did a great job. What a difference. Thank you for helping this lady and her family. So glad to find your channel. I am looking forward to the collab with Barbie and Mack. 3of my favorite people in one video. Woo hoo.😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much! I'm so excited for the collab!
@kimberlymckellar6995
@kimberlymckellar6995 10 месяцев назад
You’re AWESOME! 😊😊❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
And you're very sweet!❤😊❤
@maryrichardson6205
@maryrichardson6205 8 месяцев назад
Paper and books are the worst to go through, good job.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад
I really enjoy paper clutter, actually. I know it's weird, but I get a little excited to go through a pile of paper!😄❤️
@laurastewart2418
@laurastewart2418 6 месяцев назад
I subscribed...really enjoying the videos😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 6 месяцев назад
Yay! Thank you!
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977 10 месяцев назад
I hope she sells this house and moves to a new home. My advise is to only unpack what she needs to begin with to keep maintenance to the minimum. She can´t go through much decluttering now, she must be in a better place for that 💜 I did this; I have an illness that makes it hard for me to maintain the home like it was but I also can´t push myself to get rid of too much. I somehow managed to strip down to somewhat minimalist living but stored the rest of my things in upper cabinets and in my storage room. So very, very helpful on my journey to better health.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Great advice! I have been pretty surprised with how much decluttering she actually has done while we've been packing things up. I think a lot of it was easy to get rid of if it had any association with her first marriage and, because she wasn't functioning for so long, most of that stuff was buried. Once it surfaced, she didn't hesitate to get rid of it. But, I agree, taking her time to unpack things into a new house will help because I think it's amazing how little we can actually live with. We don't need all the "stuff" that just takes more time and energy to take care of. Thanks for your suggestions!
@carolynoquinn4573
@carolynoquinn4573 10 месяцев назад
Hi Hon! I can't wait to see The Collaboration!!!
@leashy1204
@leashy1204 10 месяцев назад
Great job!!!💞💞💞💞
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!!
@elfstarsaka
@elfstarsaka 10 месяцев назад
I have similar neck issues, and when it's bad, it really does make it nearly impossible to do anything except lie down and take the pressure off my neck. I hope they are able to get a fresh start so she can start healing, at least mentally if not physically too.
@debby891
@debby891 10 месяцев назад
Same with me and I did have disc fusion surgery in my neck and still can be debilitating
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I'm sorry to both of you about your necks. You don't really realize what pinched nerves and disc bulges in the neck can effect unless you've dealt with it. It's pretty miserable. Hard to stay in a good mood when you have constant pain, headaches, numbness, can't use your arms well, etc. I feel ya!
@marloespeters8404
@marloespeters8404 10 месяцев назад
Ik wish this family all the best ❤ oh and i can't wait for your collab with Mack and clean with Barbie 🥰🥰
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! So exciting!
@ediebutt3439
@ediebutt3439 9 месяцев назад
Looking gooooooood!!
@grandmasfavorites
@grandmasfavorites 9 месяцев назад
Thanks
@cyndaarce6986
@cyndaarce6986 10 месяцев назад
If you sprinkle 20 Mule Team Borax on the rug it might help get rid of the bugs. I know it does for fleas.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Yes, you're correct. This is actually what we are doing to treat everything as we pack it up is we sprinkle a little bit into each tote/box before we start packing things to make sure we are killing everything before moving it to storage. Then we sprinkle it all over the carpets after the room is cleared. I meant to talk about that in this video, but I will on the next one.
@marystrenke3050
@marystrenke3050 10 месяцев назад
Two of my sons fit the description of executive dysfunction 😮 Chaotic to say the least
@debby891
@debby891 10 месяцев назад
My son and grandson too
@suewright984
@suewright984 10 месяцев назад
My son as well. It’s real.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Yeah, it sounds pretty awful.
@lisasteinhardt6537
@lisasteinhardt6537 7 месяцев назад
Mack is awesome... He put me onto you
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
Isn't he the best?! So happy you're here!!
@bearfog07
@bearfog07 10 месяцев назад
Another amazing transformation! Thanks, Bonnie x
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for watching!
@mjs.2000
@mjs.2000 10 месяцев назад
Great job. 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! ❤
@mariaalvarez8385
@mariaalvarez8385 10 месяцев назад
Great Job! Can't wait for the collab you are going to do with Magic Clean and Barbie!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! It's going to be so much fun!
@lorettalouvros207
@lorettalouvros207 10 месяцев назад
Good job! Amazing👏👏👏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks so much!
@jamiehogg1807
@jamiehogg1807 10 месяцев назад
The TETRIS music made my day. Gave me a laugh and motivation. I'm the same with sorting like that in the dishwasher 😂
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Love it!❤😅
@buckeyedav1
@buckeyedav1 Месяц назад
I love the way their desk are arranged. Anna In Ohio
@AndiE-pq6xp
@AndiE-pq6xp 5 месяцев назад
It's a chain reaction!! Every time you do something for someone It's contagious!! ❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 5 месяцев назад
It is!😊🫶
@lanahundley8625
@lanahundley8625 9 месяцев назад
You inspire me 😊
@Paula-mk8so
@Paula-mk8so 9 месяцев назад
Hi .I am here because of Midwest magic cleaning and barbie and I've just subscribed to your channel .I enjoyed the video 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Welcome!! Thanks so much for being here!❤
@cynthiaphillips1474
@cynthiaphillips1474 10 месяцев назад
You do beautiful work! But if I had bugs, maybe I would put garbage where it belongs, in the garbage can!
@sellyourhomenowbook
@sellyourhomenowbook 9 месяцев назад
Excellent job as usual.
@lawaincooley6788
@lawaincooley6788 7 месяцев назад
Awesome job!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
Thanks!!
@angelajenkins6933
@angelajenkins6933 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for helping this family, I really like your channel and thank you for being such a patient and caring person. I pray your channel grows alot!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Awww...thank you so much!🥰
@Brandi62
@Brandi62 9 месяцев назад
You are the organizing queen! I have never seen anyone pack a tub so well! You are right, that nerve pain from the spine is horrendous! I have had two rounds of surgeries with two at a time in the same week. I had 3 dics repaced and had my shifted spine stabilized with plates and screws so I know how bad that pain is! I hope she gets some relief soon.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Wow, that's really a lot for you to have gone through. Three disc replacements?! I actually thought there was a limit of two disc replacements. But maybe that's just dependent upon the surgeon. I know mine wouldn't do more than two. I hope it really helped you!
@Brandi62
@Brandi62 9 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I had two discs replaced the first time and the third a year later. Thank God it finally took the nerve pain away! My hubby likes to clean so I was blessed that he could help.
@lawaincooley6788
@lawaincooley6788 7 месяцев назад
You are a blessing to this lady. ♡
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
🥰🙏
@patriciastubbs7605
@patriciastubbs7605 10 месяцев назад
Very inspiring !!❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! 🙂
@Demi-qn4gb
@Demi-qn4gb 10 месяцев назад
Excellent job...i so dislike these wall to wall carpets.... consider them always dirty no matter how often clean or vacuum
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! Yes, carpets can definitely be hard to keep clean.
@lanahundley8625
@lanahundley8625 9 месяцев назад
💗
@cindyroberts5703
@cindyroberts5703 9 месяцев назад
I loved your narrative and another job well done.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you very much!
@michellesimpson6734
@michellesimpson6734 10 месяцев назад
Great Job!! Thank you for sharing.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for watching!
@dorenedaniels7493
@dorenedaniels7493 8 месяцев назад
My goodness now this is beautiful God bless you 🙏❤️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much❤️❤️🙏
@connieverbeck1110
@connieverbeck1110 10 месяцев назад
Wonderful!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@dianeb411
@dianeb411 9 месяцев назад
So happy to see and hear your growing self confidence. You are so amazing, l see your true self that is loving kind and giving. Looking forward to your group cleaning adventure!!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much. That's so sweet of you! ❤️
@magdalenaborkowska4950
@magdalenaborkowska4950 9 месяцев назад
❤️
@annietoro4648
@annietoro4648 10 месяцев назад
Well done as always ✅👏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@andreametternich6662
@andreametternich6662 10 месяцев назад
Super job!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@Wachtelkatze
@Wachtelkatze 10 месяцев назад
Love it 😍
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! 😊
@nazneenabbas9119
@nazneenabbas9119 10 месяцев назад
Waiting for your next vlog ❤❤❤
@rachelpalumbo8135
@rachelpalumbo8135 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thanks for watching!
@brendarussell1265
@brendarussell1265 7 месяцев назад
Good job !!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад
Thanks!!
@ingerfalch-jacobsen1717
@ingerfalch-jacobsen1717 8 месяцев назад
Also, some serious packing skills you got there!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@debraroma4319
@debraroma4319 10 месяцев назад
Watching cleaning videos usually helps ease my anxiety, but these detailed sad stories don't help cheer me up one bit.
@antoniad.6177
@antoniad.6177 10 месяцев назад
Sad stories happen. The take away from this should be, if we don’t have such deep struggles as this gal does, to be thankful and count our blessings. An additional lesson should be that judging others sucks bc we just never know what’s going on in others lives!
@hmontalvo64
@hmontalvo64 10 месяцев назад
No volume helps
@4455thor
@4455thor 10 месяцев назад
I think the sad stories belong with the clean up. And with the clean up comes HOPE. And hope is SO all important. My house is a mess too, but after seeing a video like this I find a box and fill it or empty it. Sometimes only in part, but I DO something. Our basement is being "haunted" by water from below, so a lot of thing have to be protected from water. Ideally we should empty the basement, but we don't have the room upstairs. So we empty by throwing out, donating and selling extras. We are of an age, where we downsize, because we need to move within a few years to a smaller place.
@sadieross-johnson2800
@sadieross-johnson2800 10 месяцев назад
Keep up the good work, I love your content and attitude. As an aside, what is it with American houses and carpets, I’m not saying houses don’t have carpets in England but we have a lot more hard wood floors, which are much easier to clean. I only have carpet on the stairs.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you Antonia, Thor, and Sadie for your responses to this. I know it's not the most motivating or cheery cleaning video, but I figure there are plenty of those out there. I love a good motivating cleaning video, but I also want to bring more awareness to the mental health aspect of things and how rampant it is and also how it touches so many parts of a person's life. Everything may look perfect or at least completely normal in the lives of people we associate with, but you never really know what is going on behind closed doors. I just want to show this side of those closed doors to help people have more compassion for others and treat everyone as if they are going through something pretty rough because they very well could be.
@sheryllester3490
@sheryllester3490 9 месяцев назад
Mack from midwest magic sent me over. I subscribed. Love what I'm seeing.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thanks for being here!❤️
@cathyprosser1050
@cathyprosser1050 9 месяцев назад
When you were clearing out under that desk and said Oh look, another water bottle😅. I was reminded of Mack on MMC when he'll say Oh look, more dishes (to wash ...😂😂). He's even got t-shirts now that say that. Anyways, that was kinda cute. You did a great job. You are a wizard at organizing things to fit a maximum number of items in a box😊❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
LOL! That's actually why I said it that way.😄 In one of my very early videos, I cleaned the room of the boy who lives here and he had about a million water bottles and I found myself saying, "oh look, more water bottles," not really even intending to say it like Mack, but it came out that way and so I thought it would be funny to say it just like Mack in this one...haha! I still need to get me one of his shirts.😜👍
@lindamiller1945
@lindamiller1945 10 месяцев назад
Great video
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoyed it. Thank you!
@lgibson0515
@lgibson0515 9 месяцев назад
Amazing! Im sure with the media coverage & the collaboration, your channel cant help but grow!! 🙏 🎉❤🎉
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Right?! I am just elated at how quickly it is growing! It's like a dream come true to be able to help people as my job!
@gmateri67mc39
@gmateri67mc39 10 месяцев назад
Nice job!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@StoophStoph
@StoophStoph 10 месяцев назад
Dang, I saw this just in time. I was on here binge watching all your videos and all of a sudden a saw a new one pop up on your pageXD
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Awesome!
@kerryforman8129
@kerryforman8129 10 месяцев назад
Why not have exterminators there? They can’t sell knowing there is a infestation.
@melaniehutchinson5306
@melaniehutchinson5306 10 месяцев назад
Thanks!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you Melanie! How are things coming with your own venture into the free cleaning world?
@melaniehutchinson5306
@melaniehutchinson5306 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I am working on my writing career by starting a blog … planning my exit and early retirement from a long corporate career. Also now decluttering our empty nest. 🥳
@mightygamer7474
@mightygamer7474 10 месяцев назад
Came over from Midwest Magic Cleaning. Looking forward to checking out your channel.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Welcome! So glad you're here!❤😊
@elainelittauauthor2218
@elainelittauauthor2218 4 месяца назад
Good job
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 4 месяца назад
🥰🙏
@colinecleans
@colinecleans 10 месяцев назад
Doesn't it just spark joy when the house owner gets motivated to tidy up as well, at the moment we are cleaning at their house? 💙🤍
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I know. Strange phenomenon. It's amazing what a friend and helper can do. Thanks, Coline!
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 9 месяцев назад
Thanks! Have fun with Mack and his family and Barbie ❤ I want to be a member❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you Dixie! You are the sweetest! I've spent the last few hours with them and they are all, including Emily, amazing people! So excited to tackle this house tomorrow!
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 9 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp ❤️ don't hurt your back 😳❤️
@snudder.s.m.l.5026
@snudder.s.m.l.5026 10 месяцев назад
Some people just steals our hart ( in a good way) Big hugs from Denmark 💝🥰🌹
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
I couldn't have said it better. Thanks and hugs back to you!❤😊
@snudder.s.m.l.5026
@snudder.s.m.l.5026 10 месяцев назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 🌹💝🥰
@deborahhopper4832
@deborahhopper4832 10 месяцев назад
Wow! What a great transformation ❤️😀👍Can’t wait to see your collaboration with Mac and Barbie😀
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 месяцев назад
Thank you! It's going to be awesome!
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