I'm single women and wish I could've waited to have children even though I was 21 before I ever had sex marriage is a sacred blessing that two people share as one my parents was married over 50 years I lost my parents my mother was 62 and my dad just passed in 2017 at age 88 so I'm from a family of
@@Lajuanitsme I’m married now, but my husband and I didn’t wait, and I regreted it for awhile! Praise God for repentance and his mercy! We have 5 beautiful daughters, after we were married for a year. 31,29,27,17,17!
now I love y'all and them, but lets keep it real, if there are alot of consistent infections, discharges and UTI's than, that leads to the question of permiscuity, somebody is stepping out ...
This honey was a good one!! Been married 24 years and everything y'all said is 100% on point. I have laughed this evening sis!!! While eating my garlic parmesan popcorn 🍿 😋 Very Good
Been married 28 years . To hear the men chime in with so much maturity is so encouraging. Thank you. Tab and Chance keep this conversation going. It's necessary.
My mom told us about prevention, but I wish she would have stressed abstinence. Thank God my husband and I got married, and it’s been 33 years of blessings!! Thank God for his mercy and forgiveness!
@@ladyt4062 that’s awesome that it worked out well for you! Parents definitely need to talk to their children . If I’m lucky enough to have children, I’ll talk to them about waiting until marriage to find the ‘one’ for them. I feel like it gives both partners a sense of security with love. I’m trying to wait until marriage myself but at times it’s definitely frustrating. When I was younger I was going to do it because I had friends who were doing it. Glad I didn’t though. I hope I’ll be blessed with someone though.
Watch out for those menopause symptoms🤣. Mine is turning 6 on Wednesday the 18th. Hubby is 55 and I am 50. My visit to the doctor when we found out was literally hilarious. Went in thinking it was that end of life giving cycle, to find I was about to bring forth one more❤️. We would not change it for the world, but bayyybeeeeeee...these new ones are something else. My first son Nolan II, was born at 33 and he was so calm and laid back and we just knew this one would be too.....but no ma'am....Nassir bucked the system and stiffened his legs up while they were attempting to swaddle him in the hospital like kids do when they do not want to be put in the car seat🤣....He has NOT slowed down since.....Blessings to you both and your beautiful family❤️
YES Chance! My husband cough twice or feel his nose stopping up, he go Ed crazy! He needs medicine, a steam bath and a nap. I get a cold and I still make the house our home. I loved my husband even more when he realized the strength of me, his wife, a woman!! That’s maturity, respect, and love - A Grown Man!
"There was no conversation about respecting women. It was about the acquisition of women And this was coming from women." Whoa, what A powerful statement. Tab the way you did that lil skit to illustrate your point about the bottom falling out was hilarious 😂😂😂😂
Ok Tab, you need to do this on a regular because at the end Chance really started hitting on topic. You 4 guys need to make this a series. Black Love and how it really looks, devoid the lights and cameras.
This obsession with “black love” give us a break y’all get tf over the racial superiority because it’s just as problematic as being made to feel racially inferior in history. It’s just as beautiful to have a black person and a white person together in partnership. Love is love. Black people should not be made to feel BY THEIR OWN PEOPLE like they’re wrong or disgracing their community for choosing to be with a non-black individual. Did you know that EVERYONE originated from Africa and we only have different skin colors because we migrated and the sun exposure/vitamin D exposure/environment changed the color of our skin? We’re all brothers and sisters. Gtf over it.
@@thecommonsensecapricorn I completely understand, your frustrated and dealing with a lot. Understandable you need attention. "Black Love" Syd doesn't fall under a single umbrella. That's like saying Jesus falls under Jews. Jesus is everyone, Black Love is composed of a lot of things. But if I wanted to dwindle it down to black on black love in all its shades and diversity, guess what, "IT'S MY BUSINESS!" Love you Syd. So much blessings, wisdom and understanding I hope falls upon you..🫶
This is Godly love and it ain’t got nothing to do with blk love, Wht love, Red love or blue love! Get a godly person someone with the fear (respect) of God in their hearts!
This was very good. As black women and men we need to have these different conversations with our kids. I have a 5yr old son and i pray that i have the knowledge that you all have to talk to my son about sex in general.
PLEASE! I beg you...Please do highlight reels for social media so I can slowly spoon feed this to my hubby. Especially the end of pt. 2 where Tab said... feeling in the mood at 4 pm but sleep at 9!!!! So many GEMS!!!! Thank you for this blessing.
Now that's some real talk! This is the type of conversation all first-time married couples should have with someone in their family who's committed to making the marriage "last forever!" My husband and I are trying to be that Auntie & Uncle for the younger couples in our lives. Marriage is an investment! You can only take out if you put in. I've been with my husband for 31 years and we've been married 29 years. Please keep the conversation going- that is going to help alot of couples. Love y'all🥰
I agree!! After seeing the beautiful change since the pandemic to model these conversations I've changed how we are doing our wedding instead of focusing on a one day destination we've asked a select group of married friends and elders to do minimum 5 days of a couples trip to have these kinds of conversations to enhance our beginning of life together and create a covenant of folks equally invested in providing positive non issue specific advice for us
That’s why sex is for MARRIAGE!! God doesn’t want us suffering from yeast infections, etc, etc, !! It works out so much better, and it feels special and not trashy in my opinion!
This, as well as another convo I had with some ladies, really reminds me of how imperative it is that we have this convo with the children. I pray my nephews & nieces would come to me if for some reason they don't feel as comfortable going to their parents. Having someone to talk to and navigate when you're young is sooo important!
Oh, God, I Thank You for Tabitha Brown. Such an amazing down to earth woman with a beautiful soul & spirit. Part 1 & 2 were enjoyable. Beautiful families.❤
I’ve been going thru Menopause for almost 5 yrs, I’m 49! Longer the Menopause the less chance for Alz!!!! Thank God for these night sweats and mood swings!!
Woooooo yes!!! When we get to our mid 30s, somebody really needs to tell us about the possible changes we will soon start having and how we can strengthen and stave off some health issues as women. Even doctors said I was too young at 40 to be having symptoms. Umm like no! Anytime really after 35 you can start gradually having perimenopausal symptoms. And some women can even start before that with other health issues. Def trying to get all my Vit D, Calcium, Collagen and exercise in! We need more talk on these issues and arthritis, bone loss, etc.... Love yall so much for being so open! Truth be told 💗💖🌟
Honey listen!! This is the truth!! I’m 31 and it’s like this body knew and all kinds of stuff started to switch up. I’m like, “hold up wayment nie!!” We really need more openness and knowledge about how our bodies really change.
I’m so thankful to hear this conversation taking place so openly and honestly. It’s the first time I’ve ever heard couples discussing such important issues that affect their entire relationships, and I hope others allow themselves the privilege of watching these discussions, including the joy and laughter. Thank you for this grace and gift.
Babyyyyyyy This is and was much needed conversation. I really hope that many listen and share part I and part II. Love y'all for speaking the truth! I love Fridays With Tab & Chance!
Part 2 of this conversation was great as well. You all were hilarious. Funny up until the last second.😂 And, everything yall said was on point. A very informative conversation. Thanks for having this convo out loud.
Thank you for your openness, honesty and insight into an important subject matter. Enjoyed the subjects and had a good laugh...while listening and learning
So L❤VE these relationship chats you all have...If momma, daddy, granda & grandpa nem would have been this transparent we would have been so much betta off..Thanks Chance & Tab!
I'm here for Tab&Chance UNCUT Raw🗣 I love watching and listening to y'all! I just be soaking it up. I'm 33 and have been following for a few years and can't say I've been disappointed. Thank y'all
Thank ya man 🥹❤️ even the first episode was very informative! As a single mom I’m definitely about to have that talk with my son who’s entering middle school next year. Thanks again much love and blessings 💕💐
Hilarious and full of wisdom at the same time. Y’all are amazing. Words cannot describe how much I appreciate your sacrifice to be so vulnerable. Thank you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Truly enjoyed and appreciated this video. As a 31 year old married for 12 years my husband and I still have to have difficult conversations and learn as we grow together. I appreciate y’all!!
OMG. I absolutely LOVED this 2 part series on Love and Sex. at 66, you guys taught me so much. I had most of these questions in my head but never discussed it with my partner. I will watch this with him and know it will spark a conversation. I believe he also will enjoy this honesty as much as I have. Tab and especially Chance, this was NECESSARY! Please keep this type of conversation on rotation. You shared "pearls" with for young and old men and women. GIFTED is all I can say. Oh, it's on tonight lol
This was the most educational amazing video I’ve watched in a long time. Thank you Tab and Chance and to the other couple I honor your transparency and honesty ♥️🙏🏽💯
I sooo loved this conversation. I laughed, I was appreciative of mens maturity at times and compassion. I learned some things about men’s thought process at a young age. So thank you all. For the record I’m 45 and single. I still much appreciated the couples convo.
This is so darn awesome the level of vulnerability, transparency, real and raw honest conversation about intimacy & sex with your partner! I’m currently single but I still appreciate this knowledge especially for the younger generation! I’m looking forward to meeting my life partner for the rest of my earthly journey! ❤️💙💕❤️💙💕 Love you Tab & Chance and Friends!
Thank y'all for being transparent and sharing this knowledge! Please make more educational videos such as this. As a church girl (a real one, not the Beyoncé definition) whose single season is coming to an end, I have soo many questions and reservations regarding this topic, so this was very eye opening & informative.
This was very good (in my Tab voice). You guys had me laughing and paying attention. Thanks guys. My husband and I are approaching year eight of marriage and year 13 of relationship. Thanks for sharing.
