@@Dersill6 -She had been abusing her medications after a big surgery for over two years. -Eventually, she resorted to sleeping with that co-worker to cover up any amount of money she couldn't arrange cuz he had become her main dealer.
Nope, don't trust her. She still cheated on OP regardless if she was just trying to get drugs off the guy. Besides, she still abused OP's son and manipulated him so bad he needed to get therapy and begged not to see her again.
Yeah if I were OP at this point how I feel would be irrelevant. Even if for some reason I will wanted to be in a relationship with the cheating wife the fact that she makes the son feel unsafe and she emotionally manipulated him would be a deal breaker by itself. You just can’t trust her around the son anymore.
I’m going to use the ceramic plate analogy here. Marriage is like a ceramic plate: once it’s been broken, no amount of apologizing will ever fix it. Oh you can apologize until you’re blue in the face, but it doesn’t mean anything. You can definitely try and glue all the pieces together of course, but it’s going to be even more fragile than before, and one wrong move at it’ll break again. Same with marriage. You can work to fix it, and hell, maybe you do, but now the person who broke it in the first place is going to have to be extremely careful about what they do and take every single precaution because even the smallest mistake will irreparably destroy the marriage permanently.
I hope she doesn’t get any custody and he never accepts her back into his life, but I also hope she gets the help she needs. She’s clearly going through something, and addiction isn’t easy by any means.
Yeah it is and I deal with it in a funny way I have TERRIBLE acne and I have a weird obsession with bread and I won’t stop eating it and my acne is so bad🥲 probably should get meds for it but I don’t want to
Same go find a better person and don’t marry them just live in the same house of a few years just so you know you like them then you don’t waste money on the divorce
@@Whatjusthappenedfffuck Most people deserve a second chance in life. Nobody is entitled to a second chance with their partner. If they say it's over, it's over, cry me a river.
I hope OP doesn't get back with her even just for the sake of his son. Whether OP forgives her for cheating is up to him but she literally abused her autistic son, emotionally manipulated him and he's now terrified of his own mother. More of her isn't gonna be good for him.
Don’t give her a chance substance-abuse therapy is a thing for a reason if she really felt so bad, she would’ve gone to substance-abuse therapy not slept with a guy
I wouldn't trust her anymore BUT: We don't know what she's really thinking at this moment, but I personally wouldn't want to have anything to do with her anymore
Honestly I think the best reaction to this would be: I will go through this divorce for the sake of our son and myself. I'm glad you're getting treated, but you broke our trust and need to accept that. If you love me and our son, you'll stay away from now on. Staying together after all that's happened would be wrong for all of us. I hope one day we can forgive each other, but forgiveness doesn't mean we'll be able to rebuild the home we once had, because the foundation of trust is gone. This is your chance to start over for yourself. Don't squander it.
I know the pain of people being addicted. Its up to him because i know people who are in these substances may be day and night difference on and without them.
Bro I don’t know why he thinks he is the worst father ever he just didn’t know it was happening that doesn’t mean he is bad, when he found out he did all of this proving he is an amazing father
Bro, this is under one hour, I just watched the short about it and then I just noticed there was posted 11 minutes ago ago at the time I’m commenting this
Your not the worst father ever, in fact your a great father you have done everything you possibly could to help your son and its all your ex wife's fault with you the best
Ok I feel like if he’s actually thinking about taking her back he should talk to his son to see if he’ll be alright with it and slowly moving her back in his life but if not then still ask the son if he’d like to see her or not and if not leave her at a curb
They kinda did a little, more just about her addiction. Since she was addicted to meds she probably had a little psychotic break and needed to be admitted.
@@sharkonsushi5939 yea that was mb for commenting before finishin the vid The actual reason that she got admitted into the psych ward was probably cause of the substance abuse and addiction or maybe her source tried to cut her off and she had a mental breakdown
I hope OP uses that letter in the divorce as evidence. It has so much going on, all the confessions, and it could most definitely be used against her as it's physical proof.
No, and his lawyer will tell him that too. She used the magic words "substance abuse". The court will halt all decisions of any permanence while she is in treatment. So if he shows the court, she will get that 6 months pause while she seeks treatment. That's 6 months for her lawyers to strategize and maneuver, get friendly therapists so she can seek custody etc. They will blame it ALL on the drugs and not her personal choices. I've seen it. It will take her relapsing 3 or more times, before he can even seek to sever her parental rights.
I feel so terrible for this guy, all he was doing was living life and enjoying taking care of his wife and kid, only for that broad to be backstabbing him the whole time and ruining his sons mental state. Sad to see this happen so often, and him saying he’s a terrible father only makes me feel worse because he could do nothing to know.
Well… this is really hard situation, I mean it was sus that she wanted to share the custody and when he did not agree she gave him that letter But if it was true I would give her a second chance. I hope OP will do what is best for all of them.
The reason the cops lied to you about where she was is because in an ongoing investigation, they have to keep everything secret till they finally find all the evidence they need as to not raise any distress or panic in the public
DONT GO BACK WITH HER!!! First of all, she cheated on you when you gave her your all, then you found out she had ruined your son's mental health, but all of a sudden she asks to go back. That is SO messed up. And if the Judge gives her custody that judge needs to go to a therapist or smth
Does anyone know if there's more to the story? It ended so abruptly and I need to know if he kicked his wife to the curb like he should or if he picked out and took her back.
After listening to this vidio, i am disgusted by how the mother acted. Because of the last bit espesialy i wouldnt give her anything i wouldnt even give her a second chance even if she agreed to be my slave for life. She dosnt deserve anything after what she did to the kid, he has to have therapy because of her.
Why does this guy think he’s the worst father which he most certainly is not my father is way worse i just don’t understand why he thinks that because he didn’t know that he was married to an asshole not his fault
Imagine going to a bar talk to 3 guys they all say how they divorced there wife and you say “The police showed me a video of my wife gettin back shots from a co-worker”
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