There is no way people are actually defending the mother, the wife was abusing him, cheating on him, and almost drove him to kill himself and people are trying to say that she still loved him 💀
@@blueberrypitbull87 Don't be a fucking idiot. Don't drag feminism into this, people who do that, men or women, aren't true feminists. They use the concept of feminism as a cover, and it's not just women, men defend this shit too.
The mom definitely cheated and was trying to cover for the wife because she saw herself in her. There is no excuse to cheat to be frank. If youre feeling like something is missing, communicate those needs and be open no matter how hard it may be. If it doesnt get better, then leave. There is absolutely no excuse.
@@ejrillingno, it just makes you just as bad if not worse. If not to your partner but to yourself. Two wrongs don’t make a right. There IS NO good excuse to cheat, and if you think otherwise I feel incredibly sorry for your partners!!
@@ejrilling I’m just saying you’re not any better than a cheater if you choose to cheat. Stop thinking you are. I don’t sympathize with any cheaters including you thinking you’re justified, which is even worse imo. Cheaters, including you if you cheated, can go straight to heck
The mom thinking cheating and flirting over messages for god knows how long is a “mistake” makes he question her own fertility. oP should tell dad to watch out since cheaters tend to side with cheaters and back them up.
Your own mother should have been more sympathetic with you than with your wife because of the fact that cheating is wrong and it should not be seen as no big deal when it is, plus if you chose to divorce your wife, do it because if the roles were reversed, she would have done it quickly,so problem solved right there.
The definition of cheating is not sleeping with someone else, but it’s actually just being unfaithful or violating the trust of your partner. Talking shit about your partner, flirting with someone else, and obviously sleeping with another person are all forms of cheating. The wife was completely wrong about “we didn’t even do anything” because they did.
As someone who has had a youtube channel I’ll answer: It takes at least an hour for a 20-40 minute video to update to HD, so give it like 5-10 more minutes, the creator isn’t lazy
For anyone wondering how it ends and if OP actually ends up killing himself, this is going to be a summarized version. So basically OP came to the realization that he should get some closure first and he stayed out the whole night on the train tracks, laying there not the whole night on the train tracks but the whole night outside and he came back and told his wife if he caught her and they went through the whole thing and he ended up starting to divorce her and throughout this, his mother found out and defended his ex-wife saying it was just a mistake and that he should find it in his heart to forgive her. So he cut ties with his mother, and about nine months later he ended up, finalizing the divorce with her after a long process of her being dramatic and so much more stuff. And if you’re wondering, what happened to his friend that she cheated with he has, not been able to be in contact with any of their mutual friends and the mutual friends are like shunning him to the side so there’s that closure. Mom went no contact with her and talk to her again to see if he could make it up to her one last time and turns out she wasn’t willing to change that after her supporting his ex-wife and so he cut her off completely. He still kind of in contact with his dad, but you know not really. So it’s been about a year since the whole debacle for him and now he has a psychiatrist who told him the past this in the past and to move on and he said much better place now and he’s glad he never ended it.
His mother is absolutely DISGUSTING, how could you do that to your own child??? He's been so patient for so long and he's been abused and taken for granted. I hope he gets all his proof and gets everything in the divorce
well at least when you took someone else's story you changed it a little. in the real story the parents allowed the wife to stay in the house they owned which was why he wasn't talking to both his parents till the hospital.
Mom is definitely a cheater or at least wished she was. To side with the one who betrayed her own son...it takes a special kind of evil for that. Anyways, really enjoyed the psychiartrist's words, and it's definitely something I'll try to carry with me.
Your parents married their soul mate. So they each felt the same about one another that's why they have lasted. These days 1 person feels they married their soul mate. The other person within the marriage is just going with the flow of the life river. Till they decide they don't like the river anymore.
Some women are absolutely disgusting in their attitude towards men. Siding with someone you met as an adult who hurt and betrayed your own child is shameful, it's like she's trying to hurt her son as badly as she can.
This mother is such an idiot. Because she always wanted a daughter she betrays her son. Now wife is gone, son can't stand her, or his father. They will be alone hope it was worth it. Wonder what they'll do if op remarried has a kid and they never know about it.
There is no way people are actually defending the mother, the wife was abusing him, cheating on him, and almost drove him to kill himself and people are trying to say that she still loved him
OP needs to tell his mother the entire truth. tell her that his wife made him so depressed he laid on a train track and was going to fall asleep there. I feel like people sre skipping over that part.
"Only after disaster can we be resurrected. Only after you've lost everything are you free to do anything." -Tyler Durden Yeah, that's so freaking true... I was also betrayed by my wife. Luckily I only had about 4 years invested in her, but it's been more than 10 since the divorce and I still occasionally dream about her... well, I guess you can say the "her" I fell in love with. That person doesn't exist anymore, like you said. This story made me realize that. Maybe now I can finally move on... so thanks for that.
I understand the comments with the mom and the wife. They’re both absolutely absolutely terrible. What about the father? I mean… He didn’t seem close to his dad, but his dad seem to be somewhat there maybe. I’m honestly very confused when his relationship with his father. They don’t seem close, but I feel like the father may be getting the wife backlash when he seems to be far out of this equation.
What most dads do. Ignore the situation until they are needed. If he sided with son, mom would probably divorce. Side with mum and ex op would cut him out. Dads dont like choosing sides.
All things considered she was 100% correct that lie detectors are complete bullshit, kinda stupid of him to act like it was a gotcha when she was absolutely right about that part.
After OP, the only other victim in his scenario is the father. He lost his son, and his wife os probably a cheater as well. And he didn't even do anything, though that in itself might be his fault. To just watch from sidelines as the life of his son falls apart.
If the are an alcoholic it never gonna work intill the clean. And if you start siding with the cheater then you are gonna get ignored. The mum is insane thank goodness the dad is sensible.