In this case I think the cheater cheated because she was selfish and wanted two partners for different purposes. Op was for stability while Brendon was for intimacy.
Cheating, getting pregnant, planning to commit paternity fraud? "It was a mistake." LOL it wasn't a mistake, it was a plan to get what she wanted without personal sacrifice, a plan that requires everything of OP and nothing of this whrrre.
It's. Stupid that the girlfriend wants you to raise the baby.That's not even yours , and she keeps saying that's it's just a one time thing And The red flag Was when she keeps texting And hanging out with him
True man some women are delusional and believe that their cheating isn’t bad the same as men, and making them raising an infidelity child is no big deal, those women need psychological help and don’t deserve to be around good men
Wow, that must have been devastating to hear. You made the right call by standing your ground and not letting her drag you down with her lies and manipulation. It's heartbreaking, but you deserve someone who respects you and your future.
5:06 Trying to get over someone when you have to see them everyday sucks so much. My ex broke up with me, but we shared a class, so every other day, I was forced to see her. It didn't help that she seemed extremely happy and would constantly be touchy and laughing with another guy
that shit is deliberate... in her twisted logic, she was affirming your place in her mind as beneath what ever guy she is busy with next... see her for who she is, not the memories of the two of you that fuel your feelings, be present in the moment and let her go like the end of a Netflix series you enjoyed, but had a shit ending, so that you can become indifferent to her... focus on yourself, and you will see you have so much more time for you again, so choose to make improvements... while she is feeling better, you actually put the work in to be better. after all we are human beings not human feelings.. so focus on who you want to be, and go be that...
Poor kid's gonna have a clinically insane mom. Please just put him up for adoption. It sounds cruel, but I just know this kid is going to go through a lifetime of abuse and/or neglect. 😣
I am glad the OP kept the paternity test, and "Sophia" screwed up... literally. She really went over the bend when her toxic narcissism failed, and she really needed to be locked up.
Been through something similar, its very hard to get over someone you love and for whom you would have done anything, even give up your dreams. But everyone has toget some character development. In the end, you get stronger mentally and emotionally.
It was so confusing for me cuz when the boyfriend confronted her he was like I have a pregnancy test. This will prove that you cheated on me. That's not how that works unless it's some kind of special test, but they didn't say it was so how the hell is that going to tell him anything?
Fact is the former boyfriend is on the hook for child support after a court ordered DNA test. These kids are just that... Kids. Best thing is adoption for the newborn.
Depends. The newer and less harmfull option is over the mothers blood which contains a bit of the childs DNA while pregnancy. Otherwise by extracting amniotic fluid also per needle, what can harm the unborn. Its also illegal (in germany) exept if u do it after abuse/rape of a minor or equal crime.
healthcare provider can perform a DNA paternity test during pregnancy, also known as a prenatal paternity test, as early as seven weeks into pregnancy. The most accurate method is non-invasive prenatal paternity (NIPP), which involves taking blood samples from the mother and alleged father and comparing their DNA to the fetus's DNA in the mother's bloodstream. The test is more than 99% accurate and is considered safe for both the mother and fetus
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