I Come Home to Surprise My Wife and Instead Get Surprised Myself When I Catch Her in Bed With My Best Friend. Now She Blames Me for Everything. #askredditreading #redditupdate #redditrelationship
“But he was cheating first” - Karen probably, honestly if you think something’s off say something if you believe someone is cheating make sure you have proof otherwise it’s he says she says and can even blow up in your own face if people have reason to believe your being vindictive or something
Yes. This is why i also say that even if the spouse cheated, that doesn't mean that you should cheat too. Because if you're not already in the finalization of the divorce, and you sleep with someone, and they catch you, they can turn it all around and say that see they - you - slept with this person and divorce isn't finalized so who's to say that they - you- hasn't done it before, and just deleted all proof of said cheating.@@jayewrite1256
Domestic dispute calls around military bases spike when troops get back from deployment because that's when military spouses come home to find their partner cheating.
r i g h t .. OP forced his wife to sleep with OP's 'best friend' /s .. she did force him to file for divorce. and he inadvertently found out how the "best friend" got into the wife's bed
If this was a real story, the soldier on leave would have put his 'best friend' through a wall (and does it well that the AP doesn't remember what happen to him, so he doesn't get reported before he goes back). Burn all the photos he has of her together with him, and report everything to all friends, family, and associates who will see her differently... she is stupid to believe her AP just to get in her pants...
You are away from home for years at a time and the best friend saw an easy target suffering from loneliness, same reason why long distance romance rarely works.
I do... but it's still crummy. Do NOT marry a military spouse if you aren't ok being alone for long stretches... and do not marry, as a military person, if you cannot be faithful to your spouse while on deployment.
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