Because the actual story is a hour long here: OP saw his soon to be wife on the phone with her sisters husband marty asking where the sister is, the soon to be wife sarah says she was just there and the OP starts to question that because she was not just at the their house, he gets curious and snoops through her phone to find her sister is cheating on marty with a coworker and she's been covering it up, he now doesn't know if sarah is a good person to marry and has decided to cancel the wedding
You forgot that he was born in the US of yapmerica in north yapmerica on the planet earyap in the yapper system in the milky yap galaxy in the yapaverse
In the end he says "thanks for all the 5 people who are still invested in my crappy life story" Bro i have listened to this from start to end. I with OP only the best. He repremended all those situations better than i could have done.
did you hear about the part where he doesnt want marriage in future. If this story is real, this dude will never trust her to marry her. He keeps saying he wont waste her time but hes doing exactly that. Sarah sounds like she'd say yes to anything this dude asks of her regardless of whether it makes her happy or not, and now shes likely feeling very guilty which will magnify things. He should have just walked away
OK, I’m really irritated at Evelyn’s parents because just because they divorced doesn’t mean they couldn’t be able to see their grandchild. If I were them, I would’ve worked on having a relationship with Marty even more. And then help my daughter get split custody so that they still could’ve seen their granddaughter when they wanted instead of stooping so low to where they won’t be able to see the child at all. What is wrong with people?
I was hoping it was a wedding surprise or something. Why is it an affair? Can't people just stop doing that kind of thing? Break off with the person you're with before getting it on with another person. IT'S SO SIMPLE!
Because these people are dependent on their partner in some way and still desires someone else, these people will do anything to protect their public image
TLDR: This is gonna be pretty long for a tldr because the whole thing is an hour long. OP helps brother in law get evidence that SIL is cheating and then BIL catches them and starts filing for divorce. OP goes home and finds Sarah comforting SIL and plays dumb on knowing what happened and Sarah is completely honest and then OP drops the bombshell that the wedding is off then SIL puts it together that OP knew and helped get evidence of the adultery and attacks OP but then gets arrested. There’s like 1 or 2 days where OP and Sarah don’t talk and then they do talk and Sarah says OP was sexting a OF model but she didn’t bring it up because it had ended but OP had no idea what she was talking about so he goes on his computer and figures out it was his brother messaging the model. OP confronts the brother and the brother explains that it was during a rough patch in his relationship but that rough patch is over and brother’s wife knows. OP and Sarah end up not together but in like a exclusive platonic relationship
That doesn’t mean she will cheat she is just covering for her sister probably because she feels obligated to do so. Maybe she doesn’t want to see their family ruined but that’s no excuse. If I was her sister I wouldn’t lie for her because I am not getting mixed up in their drama and I’m not lying for anyone
She forced herself to love him and faked a personality to make herself his dream girl , she doesnt have her own personality, she molds into whoever the person shes talking to would like
I think that you actually handled all the intertwined crazy situations/events personal matters very well and very level headed as was possible. Well done and all the best in and with your future. Thank you for sharing with us strangers online.
Sorry for the long text: OP discovered that his fiancée was helping her sister (OP's SIL) cover her cheating. He didn't agree with it and helped his BIL to find evidence and confront SIL. SIL went crazy and attacked him after OP accidentally revealed he knew everything and told her husband and ended up in prison, later turned community service thanks to her sister who helped her. OP also canceled his wedding and confronted his own fiáncee who both told him she was bullied from childhood by her own sister and besides, she had found OP's s3xting messages on Instagram from a year prior and didn't say anything. Turns out it was OP's brother who sent those messages because he had a rough patch with his wife. OP confronted him later on to prove his innocence and everything got resolved since the wife was ok with what her husband did. OP and fiáncee talked and OP realized she needed mental help, that she basically turned into a yes woman to everyone around her as consequence of the bullying she suffered. He mentions he loves her but that he doesn't know the real her and they're in a pause: not broken up but not living together.
Dude overhears his fiancee covering for her cheating sister. He tells future BIL/friend, and helps gather evidence like a private eye. Fiancee was comforting cheating (soon-to-be-divorced) sis when he got home, and admitted to OP she knew her sis was cheating for 6 months. OP broke off the marriage. Cheating sis assaulted him because she realized he ratted her out and was arrested. He talked to fiancee about breaking off the marriage. He explained why... and she accused him of sexting someone on OnlyFans last year. Turns out it was his BROTHER using his account.
I feel sorry for him. I am also a person for whom betrayal ends a relationship. I have never cheated on anyone, including friends and work. I'm just loyal. I have no problems with withdrawing if I see someone encouraging me to cheat. It's really simple if you love someone you're in a relationship with. I also didn't help anyone by betraying others. But, in fact, most people don't. Most people tolerate betrayals from others and even help until the same thing happens to them. It's sad because of course the cheater will be cheated on.
You should never marry if you have any doubts it’s best to postpone or cancel the wedding. Get those resolved and then decide what you were going to do.
in the end, Sarah is the one who lost most. If her so called fiancé EVER REALLY LOVED HER, once he truly recognized what her family has put her through, he would have been more forgiving…..
I think that it's sad that the cheater ruined her sisters happiness. She also ruined the grandparent connection for her parents. She is causing issues for her daughter. She ruined Marty's life too. I'm sure that he will be OK and he will help his daughter through this, but she really did cause so much heartache. For what? Some thrills in the bedroom? Was it really worth hurting everyone? I really wanted Sarah and OP to get married. She, more than, proved herself. If he really loves her, I think that they will marry. 🤷🏼♀️
What be pissing me off about these stories a person cheats when they talk mess about their significant other to their Affair partner then when they get caught Inn on the verge of divorce here come the Water Works
I would immediately halt any marriage plans,engagements and leave her deceptive ass. If she is helping lie and cover for her sister especially about an affair she will lie and deceive you at some point.Good luck with whatever you decide to do. This definately sucks! Sorry you are going through this.
I thought the same thing. The only difference is Sara was actively lying and helping her sister have an affair whereas op is just finding out about it. But the bare bones is the same. He needs to hold himself to the standard, otherwise he’s a hypocrite
He should make it a we are going to pretend to get married so we don’t waste the money kind of event. Do they have the marriage certificate already?? If not then put a stop to that secretly. You need to tell her the stuff you actually saw via evidence and save yourself from divorce and wasting more time. If she’s doing that for her sister she will most likely do the same about amd to You.
He hid his own brother's infidelity but broke off his wedding with his fiance for doing the same. Double standards much? 🤦🏻♀️ (PS: paying for OF for virtual sex for months is equivalent to having sex with someone physically)
This guy is an SIU investigator acting like he's FBI. I work in legal defense for a big insurance company, and i work closely with SIU and private investigators. I respect SIU but they aint the shit compared to private investigators and other agencies. This guy wanted an out from the wedding, bored out of his mind at work, and was so thirsty for drama. Everything was about him, how this affects him, hes righteous, he's the hero, etc 🤮
Omg so true. I thought the same 💯 if he really loved his fiance he would've atleast discussed it with her before breaking off the wedding. That thought didnt even cross his mind. He just wanted an out.
and he jumps through loops to make it appear as if hes doing the right thing cause he gets called out big time for it. he than claims that these things are not remotely close to being the same thing. Paying OF and interacting with them/sexting is not the same shit as watching porn but thats what he reduces it all to. If this shit is true, the dude will waste Sarahs time messing with her for months or years, and likely wouldnt marry her (as he made it clear he now doesnt think he wants marriage ever). He also doesnt want to walk away cause shes "hot" and seems to agree with everything this dude ever asks/expects of her.
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