i'm sorry what. OP's family cut her off after she got pregnant with HER husband but said nothing when the husband cheated on OP with her own sister. damn that fucked up
It's so damn messed up tbh , like almost every reddit story but I can't help myself to watch them more And btw off topic but I love your sanemi apple PFP, it's kind of cute
they were technically both in the wrong, since sister in law knew damn well OP's husband was a married man but still went after him anyway. and she had been actively trying to get with him for months before the kissing incident
The betrayal from both your husband and your sister is unimaginable. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, but you're incredibly strong for sharing your story. Wishing you all the best moving forward.
That's not how the world works you can't just get loads of cs just because you want it?? Even if that's how it worked its called support for a reason in most places you can't just leave someone to go broke
@@justsomeinternetuser a lot is still the minority because cs is based on lifestyle and for him to go broke he'd have to have been living above his means or close to that, and in that case going broke probably would've been inevitable anyways
The family(Especially the sister and husband) is tah in my opinion how they don’t see that her sister took her 10year husband to get married Wanted her to pretend she was never in a relationship on her wedding he went back to her she started sending death threats ect That’s a horrible fam in my opinion 😊
The stories are so addicting even though they’re ChatGPT written, if this were real(which it’s not) she would need to divorce him in my opinion, and find someone to actually treat her right
The OP's family ATAH because of the fact that the OP's sister is more at fault due to the reality being she was after the OP's husband relentlessly and had no remorse whatsoever but the op was better off letting her husband go and go with someone else and the OP's husband should have been faithful to her and not lead his own sister in-law on and had an affair, plus the parents and others should more chastise the OP's sister than her because actions speak louder than words and that can't be taken lightly down the line.
It’s crazy that the sis in law and the husband call this “love.” Love and lust are different things, love is a choice. Choose your love and love your choice.
What the fuck is wrong with that family so when ops husband cheats on her with her sister getting her sister pregnant with the family knowing everyone is fine with it but when the husband goes back to op and then gets her pregnant now it’s cheating and it’s so unforgivable bro cut off the family cut off the husband leave the country and go start a new life because clearly the whole family including the husband and including OP seem out of their mind like I understand how devastating it can be to have a husband she cheat on you but who in their right mind would get back and get them pregnant after he just cheated on you with your sister saying that she loves your sister more than you wtf The family and the husband are in the wrong but so is OP because they eventually went down a path which they shouldn’t of gone down causing them to also be an asshole so everyone is in the wrong
I have the feeling that OP spent all her life being undervalued by her family and has some beef with Lisa, and that may be the real reason for the pregnancy. She wanted back the only thing that differentiated her from Lisa.
He did that to himself and your family is a POS for condoning your sister‘s behavior. The moment they found out she was trying to get with your husband they should’ve automatically lost all contact with her. She should’ve been treated as the OutKast not you, because she took your husband, it wasn’t the other way around. It’s so crazy to me how Family is always quick to support the toxic person instead of the victim. You need to get the heck away from these people. If I were you, I wouldn’t have gotten back with him much less have his kid. The moment I found out he cheated on me with my sister I would’ve removed my entire family from my life along with him.
This happened to my sister and now I ruined both my ex bil and ex sisters life (context : I'm a lawyer that's why I ruined their life in court case)now they are begging me to forgive them after they found out my sister k***ed herself
nah ok I get that she is clearly not the golden child and everything, but the man clearly said he was polyamorous, there was no way at all he would've got back together only with her. Her family should be ashamed, her sister is terrible, but OP is really stupid, and I know she was passing a rollercoaster of motions but still. Hell, the only character that we could say that won in this situation is the husband, since his declared goal was to be polyamorous with both of them and in a way or another he did that. And he is at the fault for the whole situation
how can op still loved her husband no matter what he's done... she was so wrong to believe n come back w him again (knowing this kind of person would never change). now op should divorce n live her own life, peaceful n successful. that might be the best revenge to those ppl
Everyone sucks here FR, Op's sister, parents and bf more, but Op sucks as well, she has no sense of self-respect and everyone in that family including the bf is fcked up. WTF did she think would happen if she got back with him? He already cheated and lied + all that crazy talk. I don't think not "experimenting" with more women was his choice but more like him being so weird they just never went near him. The only ppl with common sense here are Op's friend that just distance their self from both her family and her bcs all this is just a useless massive headache i would not want to deal with.
I was married for 15 years "10 years" Yeah so why waste more time with him? Fuck the time that you spent together Why would you wanna be with someone who will hurt you more? My ex husband married my bff. Same situation Right after the divorce Yes OP is an idiot for going back with him Don't ignore red flags "I wanted to be happy" So you ignored the reality
OP statements are either being misheard by me or are inconsistent. did she say she was for sure pregnant at first then takes a test saying that she isnt? then she was apparently taking birth control from when they were trying to get pregnant? im so confused
The husband clearly said he is polyamorous and is goal was to be with both of them. The last thing OP should've done was to get back to him hoping he would've left the sister, because that clearly wasn't happening. OP was quite stupid to even hope for that in the first place, she should've accepted the divorce on the best terms possible and just run away from that whole mess and keeping as low contact as possible with the family. The husband will just start cheating on the sister anyway, so everything will still fall apart in the end
I'm just going to say it straight I have no sympathy for the poster because she had all this support from her family her friends and the very moment she's stupidly decides to be like oh hey I still love this guy so I'm going to take him back and get pregnant by him once that gets out to everybody look what you lost all because you couldn't just let go of the one person who turned your life into a living hell for nothing because they couldn't keep their little pee in their pants but you still wanted them now the consequences are knocking at your door and there's nothing you can do to stop it I know for a fact I wouldn't want to lose my friends or what little support I do have from family but man this is like the most stupidest shit I've ever seen
Man, my ex broke up with me as she is bi, now her and i have good relationship and we both miss eachother. She is in a relationship so she cannot get back with me.
Do not give up on your husband you need to show him those texts from your sister,explain your story to him and maybe show this video tell hih how much your in pain mentally because of this if it works out can you give a update pls maybe a part 2 on RU-vid plss i hope your ok OP 😊
@ReinaAfricana no because I think the husband doesn't know much he needs to know what OP is saying if he wanted her back the first time that shows he does love her i seen alot of these I'm seriously
@@seanterry3512 bro the husband clearly said he is polyamorous and is goal was to be with both of them. The last thing OP should've done was to get back to him hoping he would've left the sister, because that clearly wasn't happening. OP was quite stupid to even hope for that in the first place, she should've accepted the divorce on the best terms possible and just run away from that whole mess and keeping as low contact as possible with the family. The husband will just start cheating on the sister anyway, so everything will still fall apart in the end