my heart broke when i heard she was diagnosed with leukaemia, poor girl has been through so much already. i just hope she recovers as quickly as possible. op seems like such a sweet dad and i’m glad his daughter has someone like him to love and care for her
@@JoshPrceSuel2630 Lashing out and going into a fit is how a weak minded person behaves. Trying to rephrase weaknesses as strengths won't make them strengths. Once she rebuilds her valour, pride and confidence, we can talk about taking the necessary steps to be strong.
My heart aches for that poor baby. She’s had it rough. But she has you, and that’s gonna help her so much. She needed the support you’re giving her for such a long time. And now she’s finally getting what she deserves. She didn’t deserve to deal with what she has had to. And you’re a great new dad.
Im a 20 yo young man and still get teary eyed when I see sons have a good relationship with there father, when I was a young kid I had a good relationship with my dad he took me hunting and fishing and got me into boy scouts, then he got hooked on pain killers and other opiates and they ruined him One day he just wasn’t in my life, I understand a lot of what she’s going through.🥺
To summarize, the daughter has the typical habits of abuse victims. Nightmares, panic attacks, anxiety, and she tends to pour all her attention into things that wouldve kept her away from home like schoolwork. At one point she gets upset when seeing girls with a loving mother out in public and relates to her father how much she wishes she had that with her own mother. She ends up with leukemia, he mentions hed had family memebers with it before so it mightve been genetic. She is extremely emotional and throught the couple months of chemo loses all the weight she had managed to gain ehile living eith him so she is dangerously underweight again. The story ends with a happy ending, with her going home to her own bed and hanging out with the dogs she so adores.
Okay! Not to sound dismissive of the story but I'm gonna need a recipe for that cake at the beginning. The one they branded, either Chinese or Japanese. It looks like s cloud in a pan! Just FLUFFY!
It's called jiggly cake or japanese cheesecake the ingredients are few and simple but the process can be a little tricky since it doesn't use baking powder to achieve the height, just beaten egg whites. You can find many detailed recipes on google and youtube videos 😊happy baking 🍰
I’ll be paragraph person. So basically the girl loved the dogs, got along well enough with the dad but would sometimes take her frustrations out on him which he let her know hurt him but let her do. They build a good relationship and she likes reading and playing basketball, and is also great in school. She said reading was her escape, but she was diagnosed with Leukaemia. She was very upset because she wasn’t able to read and was very angry, but she fought strong and eventually got a stem cell transplant and was being spoiled by her family as a congratulations, she’s doing better now and she even called him dad once or twice
Poor girl didn't know love of a mother for 15 years. But I'm glad she's got you as a father to fill in the hole in her heart. To make her feel loved and wanted again Sending good vibes your way 💕
@@ZosiaBlobnah it’s half real, in the real story it has an happy ending where the daughter and dad get along but the leukaemia part was probably made up to make the story more juicy
:( last time I heard this story was before the diagnosis and Im gutted for them both I hope everything turns out well and beat this horrible disease ❤ stay strong 💪🏻
So glad you have the right attitude for your daughter. Cancer/ Chemo is hard. Stay strong through for her. Glad she has you to support and help her through this. She will need your help. Just show her your love. You might have rough times but you can be her rock. Good luck to both of you.
Good evening from Mississippi!! You are a great Dad! You stepped up to the plate when you didn’t have to. I know you’re thankful that during this horrible time of her illness she is with you, being loved and being cared for. I’m so glad she’s not with her mom during this time. God works in mysterious ways….I think you both probably needed each other. Take care, God Bless!
One tiny bit of advice for long term happiness - don't be your child's whipping boy. Once in a blue moon is one thing, we are human. But daily/weekly/monthly, unacceptable. It's controllable when she taught how to express it in a healthy way on something other than a living being.
Your daughter is so strong otherwise she would not have survived the years with her egg donor.Having cancer is tough for anybody at any age, but your daughter has had the cards stacked against her her whole life. And if there is one good thing to come out of that is that it has made her stronger. We found out that my son had cancer when he was a junior in high school. He had stage four and everybody said that he wouldn’t make it. With the exception of me and his doctor. The treatments themselves are the hardest part. My son wanted to give up on his 18th birthday. And I lost it I told him it was his choice and that I couldn’t legally make him continue his treatments. I was so upset that I could barely talk when I was telling his doctor that he wanted to quit. That doctor tore into him. The doctor told him that he wasn’t going to waste his time nor was he going to be just one more statistic. So a long story short . My son is now 52 years old and the cancer has never returned. If she loses her hair well you take her to a wig shop and make a day of you two being silly trying on wigs . Yea you too! Just try to keep her spirits up. And if she cries then you cry with her. Most importantly just pray! You and your daughter will be in my thoughts and prayers. If I can help you in any way please PM me and I will do my best to assist with anything I can! Please keep us updated on her progress.
This poor girl, I hear stories like this, and see my friend's granddaughter get brain cancer 3 times before she was 6 and remember the time, we took my mom to the Alzheimer's ward in the nursing home, and I saw all those poor people trapped in the bodies that have betrayed them. I just don't understand how people can worship such a cruel god. If there is a god, he is not the caring god he is made out to be.
This is my biggest fear that when I was younger or when I was released from prison I had a lot of 1 nights stands with all kinds of chicks that I met at a club I worked security at (ended up marrying 1 of them) but someone reaching out to me saying that I am their father
CHiNGO of prayers and abundant love for this beautiful precious child! I am amazed at her beauty and resilience, to be at the place that she is in her life where she can focus on the positive, be open and accepting and even make the effort My GOD! Words do not suffice!
5:44 I know it’s so easy to manufacture these kinds of stories but I really believe it. And my heart when she said thanks dad and it made his year. It’s a vibe so f ing wholesome.
Wow, that's so wrong it's beyond unfortunate but painful as well, let's hope that the stem cell transplant helps her out and hopefully she recovers as soon as possible, thoughts and prayers for your daughter at this time.
She's lucky to have you as a dad I can't say the same about her mama also tell your daughter there is an old saying where I come from it's called you fall off the horse you get right back up on the saddle and everything will be all right in other words don't let this sickness pull her down keep her head held up high and put everything in God's hands and he will take care of her.❤
I truly hope that all is well with you both. Best wishes and thoughts. She deserves the best and from what I gather on your post, you're doing your damnedest to be that for her. Bon chance
Sadly, this is where most cancer stories go without abuse and all that other stuff usually cancer just kind of pop up no reason that’s why it’s so scary and sad to see good luck and the best of Hope with you
May you, your daughter and family find whatever peace you can have. The updates ended in January 2024 so I assume all is well. I will respect your privacy as I saw you deleted all your threads. Anyway, I wish you well. I wish you the best there is. Take care of yourself and each other. Make the most of every day. Take care, everyone. Peace and love.
It breaks my heart that the last update was OP talking about a stem cell transplant and then there was nothing after. Can anyone find the OG account, did the poor kid survive :(
Damn, you're right, imagine if he did that, then he wouldn't need to go through all that bad stuff like bonding, taking her to eat tacos for the first time, cry of happiness when he got called "dad" for the first time. It certainly would made his alone monotonous life with only his dogs a lot better if all of that didn't happen
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