Dylan has it right from the start. Become the change you seek to experience. What does this also mean? When someone keeps something at a friendship or friends with benefits level, you have to be so confident that you can say, “no person can ever just be friends with me. Because even as a friend I’m so amazing, that eventually they just fall for me because they see how amazing I am.” When you remove the urgency, you’re then allowed to build a strong and solid foundation, because isn’t that what you truly want anyway? To have a strong solid foundation to the point where you two have built something so strong that nothing can break that bond? You have to see that as an opportunity to build great communication between you two, to build healthy habits between you two, to build a connection that’s one like you’ve never had before, but even better. I think it’s so easy to fall into the trap of wanting everything NOW. And wanting something to happen yesterday. I get that, I was guilty of that. Then I realized HOLY SHIT! My partner has things going on with him that if I’m not stable, steady, and balanced, how can this ever be that? Truly be the change you seek to experience, because when your energy is one of harmony and stability, the other has no choice but to follow suit. But don’t hurry that up either. Let it unfold. Love really doesn’t look to take, take, take. Love has more than enough to give, patience, love, kindness, understanding, compassion, but most important when you’re giving it to yourself, you’re not seeing what isn’t happening right this moment. You’re allowing the other things to sort themselves out while still providing love and support. Not only to yourself but towards your person. Be the example, take care of yourself so that every time you interact you’re not looking to get, to take from them, but rather share and give. Because when you give to yourself, you have more than enough to give. Dylan has been right, when you remove the urgency, you have the ability to be in your moments with your person and they end up being such great moments because the pressure is off. Because you just know everything is moving in that direction. Sometimes we make the mistake to give something a false narrative and you have NO idea what the other is going through. Take a step back and breathe, stabilize, and truly understand that with patience, trust and perseverance, you can get to where you want to get to. It doesn’t have to take an eternity either.
@@IAm_DylanJames I saw that! I said AW! That was me! Lol. But yes, to further the message and without getting into too many details. People, please just love others. Don't be so quick to judge. Your SP or other, some people haven't learned how to be able to communicate effectively. People's upbringings sometimes causes them to shut down during some tough moments, or, they simply just don't know how to process their own emotions. When we stabilize, we set the example for them. When we learn how to communicate from a space of no judgement, they see that. It might take them a moment to process what's happening because it's new. And like anything that's new, it feels awkward at first. It doesn't feel natural, but the more you do it, the more they see it, and the more natural it becomes. BUT what happens when we come from a place of judgement is, we don't allow for the comfortability to be there between the two. When you're coming from a place of getting, you completely blind yourself and you don't even get to start establishing a solid foundation. You want to be able to have a solid foundation with people, especially your SP. You want to have something so strong that you two can overcome everything that comes your way. And I don't mean outside interferences with the relationship, BUT I mean life matters. Let's not forget that natural things happen in life. The loss of family members or cherished ones, meaning death. If your person doesn't know how to process their own emotions fully, can you only imagine what they might be feeling during a challenging moment like this? It doesn't have to be a death, it can be anything else that might be stressful to them, or might seem extremely threatening to them. BUT when we align with ourselves, when we become authentic, loving, compassionate, caring, and nurturing, we then allow the proper flow and positive changes to happen. Be so considerate and so patient, and the way to do this is by tending to yourself first. Give yourself everything that you are seeking, and then you won't be demanding that from those around you. You can truly be the inspiration and the catalyst for positive changes. Start listening to and follow your heart, no matter how challenging it is at first. Who cares how long you've been at this. Everything can turn around for the "better" in a matter of seconds. Only for you to find out that it was always working for you and not against you. If you're in a situation where you're just friends with a person, or, FWB, become the best friend this person could have ever asked for. In the process of becoming this persons "best friend" they end up feeling that much more comfortable with you. That's something they can't ever have with anybody else. Become so confident that you can tell them to their face, "NOBODY KNOWS YOU LIKE I KNOW YOU." That speaks volumes. More so than you think.
@@MA-ti6dg its so beautiful... its just that this pesky thought which goes like " so if i am ok to be their friend or the best friend they ever had, will i be friendzoned?? and would our relationship just be that and there?
@@swethacreativesunshine236 and that is okay to have at first. It really just means that you’re afraid to not get what you want. It really means that somewhere within you, there is something that is making someone outside of you be more valuable than yourself. This is where I would highly suggest to keep working on your concept of self. When you finally believe that you’re amazing and you have so much going on for yourself, you’ll slowly stop placing so much importance on things outside of yourself. What I mean by importance is, you’ll no longer see things outside of you as unattainable, you’ll see them as normal things to have. Self love really goes a long way. When you have that, you won’t be wondering if that’s all you’ll be. You’ll just know that there’s no way they wouldn’t be able to fall in love with you. And if you’re very much concerned about staying in the friend zone, somewhere inside of you, you still have a void within you that you’re trying to fill. You’re looking for something/someone outside of you to fill it. Start filling yourself up more and more, and you’ll see that this won’t even be a concern for you anymore. ❤️
Dylan was right about his teaching from the start and what he keep saying every single time. Drop the need, drop the urgency, drop the waiting and looking for changes. Just affirm don't resist allow what is the present and keep on persisting. I was doing visualisation, affirmation, sleep meditation for a month now. I was like the others who have anxiety of all negative what if playing in my head. Until one day I surrender and I said to myself I'm going to have what I want. I saw my SP seems losing interest in me. And that push me to really focus on myself, my mind. Day passed by things seems negative and then one day while listening to my sleep meditation I got a dream about my SP's relative and it's positive. So I take it as a sign that my subconscious got the message. Then next dream I saw my SP looking at me so in love with me. That's when I know my manifestation impressed on my subconscious mind.. my 3d wasn't that great. So I let it be and trust the process. I keep persisting even there nights I was crying and sad but keep on persisting my own reality. Until this week my SP gradually change. He seem prioritizing me a little bit. Informing me what he's doing. Initiating calls not once not twice but multiple times. He's doing the calling for 2 days now. Everytime I'm thinking about FWB I am saying to myself. That I am not a victim here. no one is a victim and I always put into my head I can get whatever I want. I can't believe I'm going to type down comment saying that there's a movement now in my reality. But here I am, extremely happy to see movements.. now I'm going to persist even more to my end result. Guys keep moving dont waste your efforts by being undecided about what u want because that was me before.
Yes this is so spot on!! I don’t listen to break up songs and I never think about we are friendswith benefits! And we never had the relationship talk!!No we are in a stable secure committed relationship!!! And guess what that’s what happened!!
You know i stopped listening to sad songs. Now i can listen to them without feeling any attachment to them or SP 🥰
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I just look up at the relationship of Tom Ford and Richard and they have been together for 35 years. But after 24 years they got married. Guys, after 24 years together. I really believe that we have been brain washed by society to believe that without official marriage we aren’t loved and appreciated.
@Jelly Misskelley I think what they're saying is, even with no legally binding marriage, even with society telling them gay people shouldn't be together, and probably some other gay men telling them it's pointless to commit, have some fun and explore new people, they still stuck by each other, avoiding all kinds of naysayers. Pretty notable when people can commit like that, at least in our modern society.
Yes I totally agree we are living in a loveless society where it is rare to meet people with open hearts ! Society perpetuates the theme of a cold closed fearful heart …… huge shout out to those of us brave enough to be open to love & have faith in a great outcome
Yes! As Neville Goddard says, “Change the conception of yourself and your whole vast world wil follow. Everyone is you pushed out.” It’s never about the external - it’s all INTERNAL. I love the idea of quantum physics and how it applies to the Law of Attraction/Assumption/Manifestation as well. If we look at all religious texts and scientific theory as it relates to the circumstances in all of our lives, the foundation of all is love. Which we can see via the mirrored reflection. If love is not present within, it can’t be present without. Our conscious thoughts + every present feeling indicates where we are in our self-concept/assumptions, and is key to what we are currently manifesting. If we are always in a state of love (true self-love is not threatened by anything, it is peaceful and confident and knowing and extends outward) then that is what is reflected in our reality. Self-doubt and the feeling of lack or desperation is what causes all of these problems in our relationships - it’s NEVER about the other person, it’s about us. In my own relationships, I never had a good self-concept and had a very strong aversion toward men even though I really wanted to be loved. I was seeking it outward instead of fulfilling and instilling it within myself. When I started doubting my partner’s feelings toward me, he started treating me horribly. You can name any and every disrespectful/abusive act - he did it. Until he ghosted me for the fifth time and I cut all communication - I realized that I had a LOT of work to do and it has nothing to do with him. My pain was self-inflicted, and he was simply mirroring ME. It took over a year before he came back into my life and that was because of all the negativity I had swirling around internally. I blamed him instead of releasing those feelings and turning them on myself, full of gentleness and self-acceptance. Yes, he was accountable for his actions and he knew how he treated me was NOT okay. But he only knew that because I knew that and wasn’t going to accept that in my life ever again. That bitterness I felt slowly dissipated and was replaced with a strong self-love that eventually extended outward toward him. Because I loved myself, he was allowed to love me. Because I changed, so did he. This is KEY. 💕 🤍
Dylan..... you have completely changed my life, i cannot thank you enough, you are the only person who has actually made manifesting "click" in my head, i absolutely love and adore your beautiful face, thank you for what you are doing for all of us ❤️
Was recently ghosted but couldn’t work out why bc it’s never happened and not anything I ever believed would happen. I’m on tik tok all the time and people are constantly sharing bad dating experiences, being ghosted etc. I’m such an empath and I think you made it clear, absorbing all that can seep into my mind and create those negative experiences for me!
Yes! I always used to complain a lot About my SP in my girlfriends group, even when things were good, just to kind of entertain them. I stopped it a month ago and started to be a conscious creator. So much shift is happening ❤️🔥 thank you. And not only because things are getting better with my SP, but because I’M feeling SOOO much better. I really was in a dark and heavy place before. Still I have some work to do to reprogram myself. Dylan I really love your Videos about Confidence gaining ❤️🔥 helped so much! Would like to hear more about Trauma solutions. I will update when all my wants are fully manifested.But for now I already can‘t thank you enough ❤️🔥
Hi Dylan, could you please do a video dedicated to no contact situations. I know you've added little details in the past, but I think many of us would like a whole video.
@@Jojo06190 you’re posting this everywhere and continually talking about how you don’t know to shift your feeling state and you’re focusing on all the problems… it’s all over this channel. Start to learn yourself, stop focusing on the need for movement so much and drop into trust. You’re getting in your own way and wondering why nothing is changing, you need to empower yourself and really figure out what helps you feel confident and drops the focus on doubt lack fear need want… you can do it
@@truthheals5723 I am in no contact, was in a FWB situation with a guy and suddenly he left. I was trying to regain confidence and manifest him back but after a year, suddenly he got married. I dont know how to shift into the feeling state anymore.
Have been watching and rewatching your material. It makes so much sense, is so encouraging, and you are so wise!! Thank you. This is a project for oneself. Time is BS.
I trust and claim.. it is done! She loves me and is loyal to me, I am Always 1st choice, all blocks and fears are gone, she sees the truth and I am always chosen, we are together with our 4 girls, we are committed more than ever, we are a family again... TRUST and BELIEVE!!❤️💯
I am manifesting Dylan to use this song on his Instagram story in the near future. The first verses are spot on for manifesting! So cool. Love you Dylan!
This may seem small but whenever I would wake up in the morning and see you posted a new live stream, I would think “I want to watch Dylan’s live stream in real time. So, yesterday as I was laying on my bed I saw your notification and was able to watch this video in real time. I literally thought about it and let it go. Literally took a week ❤️
Thanks Dylan! I've found your channel just a bit ago and I can't stop, I genuinely believe you're the best coach, the way you word and say things just make it click for me. I've been struggling a bit if I'm honest although, I was working on my self confidence, listening to the tracks you put out for limitless manifesting. One day after listening to this track for around 3-4 days, I felt really amazing just on my own, I felt confident and overall just great. Then the next day, I got obsessed with an SP, my mood instantaneously dropped into a worse mood. I think it's due to my beliefs about love, I'm questioning if I should listen to love self-concept or limitless manifesting. I don't want to be obsessed because it can drop my mood so fast. Does anyone have any advice? I'm thinking about dropping everything I think about my SP and work on my self concept for a while, and working on my life and my beliefs. That being said, your affirmation tapes have seriously helped, and they work really well, my state of being changed the moment I kept listening to them, and man did it feel great. Much love from TN
Oh my goodness BFF! I’m just now watching this vid and you’re so on point widen talking about what we watch regarding love. Honestly, I try not to watch anything that has violence in it either. Although I love assassin movies but I realized it was doing something to my energy and limiting my beliefs subconsciously. Some people don’t even realize what happens to their psyche while partaking in anything less then a higher vibration
This hit home 💯!! I’m like la la fun, enjoying … to omg this feels like a relationship (I’m gonna be tied down😳, this can’t happen omg ) to pulling back quick just because of the title/word/whatever… 🤦🏻♀️
Dylan, I started this LOA 6 months ago and can say I am in alignment. But then I heard you once say, … your reality is your manifestations. And even though I am happy, I realized not much is manifesting. so I realized I must have some limited beliefs and that’s when I started listening to the nighttime affirmations for about 30 days. BUT Now I’ve started feeling frustrated (wasn’t frustrated before ) I’m actually going backwards in a lower state. It’s not because I need the manifestation to feel good, it’s because I start to wonder how all these people listen and see things happening and I don’t see things so I start to wonder about what’s going on. Again/ I don’t need the manifestations to be happy. I have inner happiness, friends, learned how to be happy at work and have money coming in. For me it’s more about Starting to wonder about all this. . As Abraham Hicks says- you can never go back and I won’t her go back to the depressive anxious person I was, but im now starting to wonder how are my desires I have put out in the universe not moving when I have been in alignment and then some people listen for one night and see something magical happen?? Oh well / I am going to keep listening and doing my thing and keep staying in alignment. Like I said, I don’t even care about manifestations anymore - but just wondering… .
What helps with that is prioritizing feeling good over manifestations. You want to soothe yourself into a state of total satisfaction in the daytime, so much so that you find yourself genuinely not caring whether the manifestation shows up. Because you *feel* like you have it anyway - meaning you feel the way you believe you'd feel if you had what you want, and the reason you want the manifestation is for the feeling it will seemingly provide. Once you already feel that feeling, you lose the focus on (and need for) the manifestation because you *already have the thing you believe the manifestation will give you*, which is a particular emotional state. Settle there for just a little while, and boom, things pop. Sleep with the beliefs at night, consider your manifestations done, and then reflect on the feelings, thoughts, and beliefs of the version of you who ALREADY has what you want. Discover those thoughts/beliefs/feelings and then mimic them. That, paired with sleeping with the beliefs on, is all you have to do. Hope this helps a little bit, darling
Do not worry...I'm listening from end April, and also ordered personal tape. I completly understand you, because I've felt the same. Nothing, just nothin in 3 d changed. But few days ago I realized that now, just few days ago, I'm really sure that it's done. I do not wait, hope...nothing...I know that is mine...and who cares if it comes few days or weeks sooner or later...and if doesen't come...whatever. So my point is...I was also sure for last few months that I'm not attached, that I'm stabile, relaxed ..but somewhere in the behind it was still here...I know it now, because now I know how it feels to be just sure and knowing. So persist...the worse thing that can happen is that you became the best version of yourself...and only that is success. I know that I was never in my life better and more confident about myself...and..I like it. And 3d...who cares.... Btw..I was doing, last 1,2 months affirmations, and some Neville stuff. For me, it wasn't enought just listening tapes...so ..maybe try with that.
@@zb376 thank you so much. That makes sense. I honestly do feel like I am living in the end and truly feel confident but it lasts about 3-5 weeks - lol I go into question mode and wonder what am I doing wrong even though I feel good. Oh well - no worries - I’m good :-)
Definitely looking younger, I thought this was an older video. And I am a harsh critic. I see comments on other videos saying someone at 30 still looks identical to a teen, and I'm like...no I can tell you're 30!
Could you also make a video on changing and being stable when undesireable behaviors pop up (wont stop partying, inconsistent efforts, no effort to talk, rather hang out with his friends than you)
Oh how I wish I saw this 2 weeks ago!!!! I think I might have just made the worst mistake of my life and now I have to start from scratch again. Goodness
You are amazing, recently found you and just loving listening to your content. Working on myself and only listening to you right now. Thank you and you have a new subscriber!
Ive literally thought this MY whole life that these tv shows songs teach us crazy and unproductive stuff esp the soap operas night/day whatever telenovas ... its actually sad .. esp for the younger generation of today soo impt to make em aware of this not to engage in what if case scenario bc we create that shit !!! This was soo true !! I think about this on the daily tbh but with Covid n all im also alitttle hesitant being intimate with starngers ... I were yalking about adam sooo u manifested hom loll in the middle of ire vidieo loll thats awesome 😍🙌
Love is the ability one has to learn. In this karmic plane of existence Our experiences are sources experiences alone. No getting attached to experiences you may feel like are your own. Source is collecting information.
I’d love a video about communication from you Dylan. Or Can u do a video about no contact/bad circumstances & communication, to changing it and having a stable relationship with them. Also sadly whenever I listen to your affirmation tapes to sleep I have horrible dreams and almost feel worse tbh… idk why but trying to persist?
He mentioned something in another video about that being your subconscious trying to stay with the original programming we've trained it to have I believe... But that if we keep listening it gets better. I had a similar situation... By the second wk the dreams got better
I need to understand something...I get that one doesn't want to feel fear or negative attachment when dating, and to love and enjoy the process of being with each other and allowing it to flow, feeling chosen, yada yada, but, isn't the ultimate goal a relationship where you just know you're with your person and you're his and to feel so much love and joy, like Serendipity and Synnergy, and ultimately "attached" Like there's nowhere you or he would want or choose to be except with each other? Like, Dylan, even in your marriage with Adam, do you still never allow yourself to "attach" because that repels? Are we ever supposed to attach or are we always supposed to attract to us more than we reciprocate? I know how I love and when it's love, in the past, I don't hold back my heart. I ultimately desire a love that doesn't hold back from either of us, isn't one-sided but, 100+/100+. Isn't that ever our goal? Or does that exist? Am I making sense? I guess my question is...What is a Healthy way to desire someone to share my life or are we always supposed to never make someone so important to us, allow ourselves to be "swept" in the joy of our falling for them and our love deepening, because then when they feel how much we are invested there's an imbalance and they then repel? Or is there a point that you both are completely trusting that "we just know we are" and trust "this is ours", exclusively? Does that make sense 🤔 😏 😁
Hi Dylan! Can you please make a video specifically on getting an ex back despite past traumatic history? also what do you think of people who say you shouldn’t get back with someone who abused you in the past even of they changed and showed up perfect
`P I have the same my sp is also not in my city so thats for me even harder. And I dont know where he is exactly. Also would like to get advices first steps
If we’re feeling totally stable and enjoying the emotional connection and company of our person, but we just really prefer to be exclusive with someone before becoming intimate (beyond a certain point) can we manifest that trajectory of the relationship instead? Do we have to go through a FWB phase? I mean, I guess we can manifest whatever we want so of course the answer is yes, right? Lol! I feel like I could choose to have fun In that way I wanted to, but I prefer to share that inside of a relationship. Curious to see what you say.
I know even I have the same question, hope Dylan answers this one 🙈🙈🙈❤️❤️❤️ there has to be some exclusivity between us. I don't wanna go through fwb things and then get disappointed. 🙈🙈 I just want a commitment ☺️ a permanent partnership ❤️ like buddies but best ones with each other 🥰🥰
You can. It is healthier way this way. This video is more suitable for people who are in fwb situation but want more or tends to go in fwb situation but not getting more out of it.
@@jeannetempest9127 Thanks a bunch to make me know that am not just some old school old fashioned soul. I feel connections are to be special, to be made with only one person who resonates the best with you and not multiple people, hence got this question in my mind! Thank you so much for answering..
Hi Dylan thank you for your teaching and videos .. could you give us more tips on trusting and living in the end.. Cause some of us have chronic anxiety and it will really help if you can help us with not flipping back and forth. Thank you so much for everything so far 💕
He spoke about this in a video. Maybe this might help you but what I did that worked was, I truly did breathing exercises A LOT! When I felt it coming up. I literally had to say NOPE! Because the thing about it was that we allow our minds to take over. I would have to make a dedicated effort to do the breathing exercises and affirmations of, “I am safe, I am secure” over and over until I started to feel better. Then I would come in with some self talk that matched what I wanted it to be. I said my nervous system is always calm and relaxed. Joel Osteen also has great videos on this. He says it needs to be a lifestyle change with our self talk. It can’t just be a few days or weeks and then we get discouraged. This is why we have to do it for the sake of ourselves, and not to just get something. It starts with us. Hope this helps a little
lol for me it was a potential fwb situation but i honestly thought he was joking with me about it and i said no to that and rather have a "real deal" relationship. he dipped after that convo LOL ... affirming for my sc and that he's bored of fwb, stuff like that 👀😎
@@Nbx3 lolll omg i forgot i wrote this comment xD. whoever i though SC was in this original post... was not meant to be. lol i later found my current partner at school and we were casually standing next to each other and talking about anime. currently been together for 1 year 2 months :)
Hey dylan... love your videos... I have a doubt. I watched one of your earlier videos ( how your subC mind words) and you mention how people also come with limiting beliefs.... and if your person is not able to commit/give love, its because of their limiting beliefs and past relationship patterns. So our reactions define what we are perpetuating further. Could you please explain how us removing our energy from that and working on our beliefs, makes them shift their limiting beliefs and show up differently. ???
Because we are all one consciousness. As I change, he changes. As I grow, he grows. We are individual expressions of the same One Creator Mind. This is true especially when we are conscious of our power. Which is what happens when we reprogram our subconscious mind and we focus on ourselves.
The key here is to stop letting your mind roam to an old story and the attachment that you have to that. Because then you end up recreating it over and over and over. This is why when you shift your focus on to yourself, then things can finally start to happen with the other individual. The part that trips many people up is the fact that they’re looking out to see what’s happening, they’re constantly checking and wanting to rush, when if you simply relaxed and allowed, things would not only flow smoother and “miracles” can happen BUT they’d happen much quicker than you’d think.
I would like to clear something here Dylan. I would be glad if you could give a reply. So when you say you should be enjoying the process and equally enjoy meaning in a fwb situation, you don’t set any boundaries and you allow them to continue with the fwb situation. At the same time I remember you saying in another video that you shouldn’t take every shi* and should be able to set some boundaries. Should that mean that you should never tell your friend that you don’t want to be in this fwb situation and will be able to change just by persisting? Kindly give a reply.
He has said in a previous Fwb vid and in this one as well that if it doesn't feel good for you to do this DO NOT do it. To do only what feels good to you, so if a fwb situation is not what you want than don't engage in one and still know you will get the sp you want 😉
Hi Dylan how can I tell the difference between I really love my sp or I just want to have my sp as I can’t have him/her now . You know just like a child who likes to have things they can’t have . Thank you 🙏
Thank you Dylan 💜 so if it feels better to just not have sex with them and still pleasantly expect the relationship is that ok? I’d rather not be in a fwb relationship because that’s just what makes me feel better and I’m a lot more stable. But I’m not sure if that would be the right approach
I had this fear ever since our relationship reached this point. I brought it up with SP, and he said he does have feelings for me too and wants a relationship, but he is not ready. So I don't know if I want to continue FWB while he gets "ready"
This is a really good focus. Thank you. Are you still answering follow up emails? I had an email coaching of which you had sent out the coaching plan and custom self concept tape and I have sent a follow up email. But not yet received any answers.m in fact I sent out a few.
Dylan i enjoy harmoniously, however if your partner itself says thst he us in a toxic trade with me where he comes to you when he needs me and he may not want me in future. And he is aware of it but he is habituated to me and can't help stopping himself. And asking me to be aware cos in future this might hurt me. What do you change concept in this case
my sp and i are in a no contact situation right now and i can be in the end state i managed that but however it scares me and not because i worry that it will not happen but because i worry that it will happen i want them but i’m also so afraid that everything is gonna work out and we will end up together??? i listened to the limitless manifestor for 21 days i listened to the love one for over 30 days probably now i’m listening to the confidence one i’m really stable i regulate my emotions i do breathwork and meditation 3 times a day i even use sleep hypnosis when we were in contact she would ghosted me for hours and i would feel sad but when she wouldn’t i would feel so freaking scared
my sp is my long distance BF so lately a fear/anxiety will pop up about commitment, 3ps etc. since we live apart & dont see each other much, i worry.. can anyone advise me pls? what beliefs should i work on to get rid of this fear? ive been doing SC work for a few months but this keeps popping up and making me anxious bc i dont wanna manifest a 3p
Hey Dylan! Love your videos. I’m a woman who’s sp is another woman with a boyfriend. Any recommendation for how to deal sp who’s in a open relation with they’re partner? She’s been inviting me to hang with them but I’m not sure how to go about it due to my conscious feeling like I’m faking being they’re partners friend when I’m manifesting a relationship with her only.
what happens if you became fwb with your ex? its kinda difficult cuz sometimes he flirts with me and talks about a future with me but then is inconsistently showing up.
