It is more than obvious that he was abused as a child but he kept this secret inside and eventually he could not deal with it anymore. His family have all said that he was never abused, but therein lies the problem. He had no one to talk to.
my family have no idea i was abused so i understand your comment. I never tell anyone as a man now i am embarrassed so i understand totally the trauma speed might have carried
@@Star5dg I’m sorry it’s taken 2 months for someone to pick this comment up. I’m sad to hear that mate - I hope you are doing ok and have at least someone in your life that you can talk to bud x
@davegrahamdj bless you my brother. All sexual predators especially those who abuse children always find jobs working around children. This nonce who abused these footballers has now died in prison and will now be in hell getting a red hot poker shoved up his backside. There is no escaping judgement day which we all have to face one day. I hope you manage to come to terms with what happened to you and you have no blame whatsoever. Take care my friend and be safe . Gid bless 🙌 🙏 you and your loved ones ❤️
Until a person has experienced abuses of this nature, they'll never know how hard it is to fight suicide thoughts as a kid, ideation takes so many lives.
There is NEVER a clear reason why one person commits suicide. You'll never, ever know. The same person who does that might not know why he can't stand life any longer. Remember it's a sudden decision most of the times, and even when it's 'planned' it takes really NOTHING to do that. If people knew why they can't stand living their lives, they'd work it all out and they'd still be alive. Psychology has never and most probably will never fully explain why life can be so unbearable to many, many people. I wouldn't come to easy conclusions. Too easy. Especially in Protestant Britain. I can't stand Catholicism as well as any other form of organised religion, and I can recognise a wee bit of some anti-Catholic mood in many reacions about paedophilia and sorts. Watch out, I'm a Rangers man, so you'll have no doubt I'm not 'working for the Pope', but I cannot stand religious prejudice whatsoever. It's tribalistic.
Don't think Gary was at all disgusting it is a terrible shame if it turns out he was abused that's enough for most people to end their life to get away from the mental torture it surely causes it's easy to judge when it's not you Grow up and find some compassion you never know when you will need it yourself
@@pkune5158spoken just like someone who’s never suffered mental issues in their life. Well good for you. But some people struggle, it’s a shame you can’t see things from various angles.
I so hope this isn't the case...this would be such a terrible thing to have going through the mind. If something like this did happen to the poor man, how well he did to hide any affects is incredible. We will probably never ever know the reasons why Gary took his life, I just hope that if it ever comes out it never drags the man's name down.
I stopped at bennells house when at wba fc we beat crewe 3-1 and netted 2 I was asked to go on trial in 87 I was lucky.. Ted Langford scout at Villa and Leicester City another 77-91 doug Ellis and Graham Taylor covered it up. Langford my Sunday league manager he knew I kick his bollox I don't talk to Stephen Froggatt ex villa cov wolves as bottled to testify at high court in London in March 2000 . My mates only got 10k 13k payout from villa, man City payout out 4 bennells victims, Paul Stewart. #RIPGarySpeed
It's wrong to say Gary committed suicide. For those who have forgotten, the coroner at the inquest reached a narrative verdict and stated that cause of death was by "self suspension" but that there was insufficient evidence to determine whether it was intentional, as he may have intended to make a "dramatic gesture" and then "nodded off to sleep". The inquest heard that the pressure of management had put some strain on his marriage and that he and his wife had argued before his death. I know some people hide their depression but those who do are usually alone for a certain period of the day. Gary spent every hour of every day with family, friends or colleagues and none of them said he showed any sign of being majorly depressed or suicidal. When people are so depressed that they make a conscious decision to commit suicide, they don't usually kill themselves after getting drunk and having a major argument with their wife. It's a shame his wife has somehow forgotten the details of this big argument because I think knowing what was said by both parties is the key to knowing what was going through Gary's head at the time of his death. I think people should respect the coroner's verdict because it's clearly correct.
Every time I see a famous suicide, or a famous person really acting out with drugs and other crazy behaviour I am positive there is link to this kind of stuff. Worse still powerful people do it to kids as torture to turn them into basically robots and then out them into positions of power and celebrity so they essentially have puppets. Powerful families who are psychopaths actively make their children abused so they act right in later life. The last thing they want is their children acting up and messing with the family name and fortune so they turn them info robots who are brainwashed. It sounds like rubbish but unfortunately I've learnt enough about it to know it's very real!
Wow an amazing find. Sadly there's no way of having any idea if he was involved and how much of the effect it could have on an individual. Year without counselling could have built up. Really something to think about. Does anyone know the fait of this sick man?
I just need to ask a forensic question that has been playing on my mind. Can anyone help? How is it possible that he could have fallen asleep and actually hanged himself with the cable around his neck if you fall on the stairs surely they would have supported his body, or did he fall through a gap in the bannisters and downwards I just don’t get how his body could hang if he was on stairs?
personally I think this video and a lot of the comments are disgusting for using gary speeds death as an advert for a cause... you lot will say or do anything to prove your point, to the point where you don't care if innocent people are hurt...shameful
I read a few "ask Duncan Ferguson" comments on threads about Gary Speeds death. Duncan and Gary played at Newcastle at the same time? Personally I don't think finding our that somebody else is the dad of your son would be the cause of suicide for someone like Gary Speed. I always hated Duncan Ferguson.
Wonder many times this monster used this gag " il get you on the city bench" then produce the tadger fooking millions at it wasn't just this monster f..king network Crewe was heavily mentioned
