GENDER REVEAL & Pregnancy Chat: 11-12 Weeks! 

Hi Fleur, please don't worry about your weight! One of the reasons I watch you is because you're such a lovely person inside and out. Some of those other bloggers who are skinny and perfect on the outside seem very phony on the inside. Just stay healthy during your pregnancy and don't fret about those kinds of things! I love watching you no matter what!

Both Louise and Fleur having girls! So happy for both of them.

I actually love that you didn't make a whole spectacle of the gender reveal and made us wait and just told us so casually in this vlog as it happened :)

I legit can't wait to meet her!!!!😭🙌🏻🤗💕

I have no idea why.. but I got ever so teary when you announced you were having a girl.. the glee on your face is beautiful! I'm so happy for you both xx

Aw a little girl will be lovely, so happy for you both 💖👶🏼👨‍👩‍👧 I'm just imagining a mini-fleur and mike having two favourite girls in the whole wide world now ❤️ love that you are doing this your own way, keeping certain things private etc rather than following the show everything trend and making over the top gender reveals, I much prefer this simplistic personal approach ❤️ thank you for sharing this with us. you are looking beautiful xx

Thank you all SO MUCH for your wonderful comments! I wish I had time to reply to them all today! Sadly, I don't so I'll just say one big THANK YOU!

Congratulations Fleur!!! I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first baby and it's a little girl too! So excited! 💖🌸🌷🎈 So happy for you two!

ahh I just knew it was gonna be a girl! you both look sooo happy and I couldn't be any happier for you two!! I am so so excited for this baby to arrive and be cherished and treasured by the two of you, your families and all of us!

Awww congratulations Fleur and Mike!! Your little girl will be just gorgeous 💓💓

Congratulations Fleur and Mike. So fun to follow the #babydeforce journey! Thank you both for choosing to share your joy with us! All the best! ~ Melody and Vincent

Thank you for opening up about your insecurities Fleur. I've always watched your videos and envied you for your life, your friends, your family. Even though I know nobody has a perfect life I still felt kind of unable to relate to you because your videos show such a positive light on life whereas I suffer from depression and anxiety. Seeing that you have some insecurities as well let me know that it's OK to not be perfect all the time and that maybe one day I can overcome this and have such a supportive group of friends and family like you do. Love to you and Mike and babydeforce from Canada

aww I'm so happy for you! She's going to be such a lucky girl when she's older with all your makeup and clothes hehe!

Omg congrats!! I'm so happy for you both!! She's going to be so loved and so beautiful 😊

I can't believe so many comments are arguing about using genders or sex. It's happy and emotional day for you, don't let these affect you. So happy for you!

Having had 2 kids I cannot recommend wearing support belt from early on enough! It really helps with taking pressure and weight off your hips. I had horrible pelvis pains last time and would not have coped without support belt. I'm convinced it helps with stretch marks also especially in under belly button area. I got mine cheap from eBay and Amazon.

MINI FLEUR AWWWWWWWWWW

Congratulations 🎉🎈 RU-vid is being taken over by baby girls and it's amazing!!

You should definitely block the comments for videos regarding the baby...way too much hate on here that you don't need to deal with and don't deserve. Congrats on your baby girl :)

Oh, Fleur and Mike! I've followed along since your uni days and it feels so special to be let in to this new development. I've admired the way you've handled this whole crazy journey w/ RU-vid. I love that you're selective with what you share. I wish you all the best, thank you for being a sunny, real and beautiful corner of RU-vid. J xx

I loved the honestly and vulnerability at the beginning of this video, I think it takes a lot to admit you're not confident. Huge congratulations on little Lady de Force. You must be so excited!

OMG a girl! Congratulations xxx I have a little girl too. They're the best!

Fluer! You're one of the only youtubers who doesn't do click baits. I love you for that! Love your real style that has lasted all through the years. I am so happy you're having a girl! She's going to be so lovely!

These pregnancy updates are some of the best videos you've done--so honest, vulnerable, and sweet. Huge congratulations to you and Mike on your baby girl 💗💗💗

Notification squad! I'm so happy for you and Mike and I wish you all the best. ❤️

With your hip problems I recommend seeing a chiropractor. I see one for my knees and it's really sorted the problem. I am unsure about pregnancy and treatments but it might be worth looking into. Especially in time for when you give birth. I am so excited for you and Mike xx

I’m currently 15 weeks pregnant and I remember watching these vlogs at the time they were posted and really enjoying watching you on your journey. Now I’m 15 weeks in I’m really relating to them so much! It’s nice to go back in time and see someone who feels the same as I do now discussing it on a public platform. I just want to say thank you, Fleur ❤️

I never comment on videos, but honestly Fleur, you look phenomenal. Do not worry about putting weight on, you're growing a baby, it's amazing!! And after she's here you have all the time in the world to relax into it and get back into a healthy routine. Enjoy x

AHHH! IT'S A GIRL!!!!! Mini-Fleur... perfect!!! ...and she's going to be Mike's little princess for sure! I'm loving following along with you on this special journey. :) :)

I LOVE that you talked about how you're feeling about your weight. You're my actual idol and I fell in love with RU-vid because of you and have always been nervous about starting a channel but it's my ultimate dream. That being said, I'm also in my early 20's and have just started thinking about if I'd ever in the future want kids and I think that's actually a huge fear of mine (the weight). I was also a chubby kid, but I mean until I graduated high school. I finally was able to shed the pounds in college but it's the weight is forever on my mind and wanting to keep it off. I also think it's partially why I'm nervous to make a RU-vid channel- I don't want to be the "chubby RU-vidr". But I never thought you had these issues too- especially since I think you are the most beautiful person! So I'm so glad you shared this because I really related to it and it made me realize how normal these thoughts and fears are!

I forced myself not to look at the comments the whole way through until you revealed it, Fleur. I'm so happy for you both and can't wait to see this next chapter of life for your little family!

Fleur, I'm probably too late to comment on your pregnancy announcement video, but I wanted to say congratulations! I wish words could convey how happy I am for you and Mike. You two are the sweetest, most genuine RU-vidrs I've watched, and it's been so sweet watching you year after year getting bigger and bigger, but seemingly more and more humble and happy about RU-vid! Biggest blessing for your baby girl to come!

Mike will be swimming in the estrogen ocean! All girls! Congratulations to you both!

yay!!!! Her and Lulu are totally going to be best friends!! So excited for you guys!!

the look on Mike's face when you said 'it's a girl' is just EVERYTHING! Sooooo happy for you!

Aw congratulations Fleur and Mike! I bet Mike is way more excited than he's letting on, who wouldn't be excited for a little mini Fleur? 😊 So happy for you both!

The way you spoke about your weight was very heartfelt. I hope you remember to remind yourself that if someone posts on the internet about your weight it says more about them then you! And you have a great figure anyways! Congrats!

Your comments about that the video title should have been "sex reveal" and not "gender reveal" are really nerve-racking. Fleur's baby girl currently doesnt even give a damn about its gender. You can ask the baby about its gender, when it's older. This video is neither transphobic or upsetting. I really dont understand why everyone is getting so offended about this, I think it's quite clear what she meant with this video. It's kinda sad that youre trying to make Fleur feel guilty or bad about this ... Your attitude makes me sick, so please go and MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!

Hi Fleur! I want to thank you so much for talking about your anxiety with weight. I've put on a few pounds myself lately because I've been switching birth control methods, and it's gotten me down, so it was really uplifting and comforting for me to hear your story right now. I think maybe I'm more interested in beauty videos than fashion videos, so I see your face more often than I do your body, but I've just always thought you were so pretty. And I kept watching you because it's so easy, and you seem so genuine and sincere! I'm always so excited to see you upload videos, and it always feels so warm to learn that the role models you have on social media are real people too who are going through the same things you do! It thrills me to watch you have this baby now, I've been watching you since before you and Mike got married, back when I was a young teen, so I'm very happy to watch you on this journey now. I wish you the best of luck with family and self-confidence!

12 week scan actually freaked me out because it made me realize all the things that COULD HAVE been wrong.. luckily both my babies have been healthy. Can't wait for mini-Fleur! 😍

Congratulations! She'll be a beauty just like her mum and Mike will love having a daughter! He's going to be an amazing Dad. X

So excited!!!

CONGRATSSS FLEUR AND MIKE!! Mike I know that you were kind of expecting a boy, but you have no idea how wonderful the relationship between a father and a daughter is. I am not saying that the relationship between a father and a son is any less wonderful but this girl is going to change your life and show you a very special type of love that you haven't experience yet. She is going to steal your heart as soon as you see her for the first time.

I've watched you for the last seven years. Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us. I can't tell you how happy I am for the two of you. I know you'll both be incredible parents because you're both such kind and thoughtful people.

congrats fleur and mike!! :)

So excited!!! Congratulations.

You all are the cutest. Your excitement is so genuine and lovely. My husband and I have a 5 month old son and watching these videos makes me cry remembering how amazing every single appointment and scan was to us. We had several the first 12 weeks due to some infertility issues but every time felt like another milestone. And your feelings and reactions to those moments are so similar to my own that I really enjoy these videos. We also did the harmony test and even though it wouldn't make a difference hearing "low risk" definitely puts your mind at ease. Enjoy every second of pregnancy because it goes quickly and then life literally hits fast forward. Thank you for allowing us to be part of the journey.

Congratulations! I remember at about 10 weeks having a major meltdown because I wanted to vacuum the house and my husband told me to rest. I just screamed in his face and burst into tears. As calm as anything my husband looked at me and said, 'well I wasn't impressed with that'. Totally out of character for me but my lovely husband put up with it. Pregnancy! Not my favourite state of being but the scans and listening to the heart beat and obviously the beautiful baby at the end makes it totally worth it.

Fleur I am so,so sorry for the amount of negativity you have received. You don't need extra stress when you're pregnant. Look after yourself and your baby girl. I am sure she will be beautiful just like you! Love and best wishes, Natasha xxx

Babyyyy girl awwww 🎀🎀🎀🎀

Fleur, you are such a beautiful person -- physically and personality-wise. From the moment I saw your first video I was drawn to you like no one i've ever watched because you have this genuine, loving, charming pure energy about you. I know we are strangers but I really love you and feel so invested in your life and well-being. Strange as it is, know that you have the genuine heartfelt support of your fan base as you go through this and all else. Congrats on the girl!!! Sending love!

ahhh congratulations. It's such a processing moment it's like your future opens up before you in an instant and you can't possibly take all that in.

Fleur I am so sorry for the negative comments you have shared something so personal and exciting in you and your husbands life and people are just rude! She is having A GIRL end of discussion. She didn't say if my baby wants to be a boy I totally wouldn't accept that did she? she simply told us the gender/ sex of her baby is female. Lots of love to you and your husband and I wish you the very best. x

Did Mike look a little happier in the actual room? hahaha. Congrats you guys! She's gonna be a cutie!

I've been watching you for about 6 years now and I'm so happy for you and Mike! And it's so nice and refreshing to hear you being raw and honest about how you're feeling and insecurities. Best wishes to you and your little family.

Fleur this is such a beautiful video! You always look amazing but it was so refreshing to hear you voice your insecurities. You seem like such a genuine person and I'm so glad you're having a girl. No doubt she'll be as stunning as you are. Much love. x

Oh a girl!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ would be so perfect if she had a flower name- a mini fleur!

I'm actually disgusted with the amount of comments on here going on about the gender of the baby. Just be quiet if you have nothing nice to say, fleur is having a baby and we should all be happy for her. Quit with the disgusting comments.

What a lovely wee video. Also please do not apologise for not filming in the scan! That is such a personal thing for just you and Mike, it would be a but intrusive for us all to watch! :) very happy for you to hear everything is all healthy and you're happy! :)

Wow. I know that u feel like that but seriously you are stunning. Talking about these topics and how you feel just makes you more relateable to us. Everyone has insecurities. Ur not alone.

Ahh congrats!! 💖 I'm so excited for youu! 😁😁🎉

"It's rigged" mike says, even though it's his portion who decided the sex. (;

thank you so much for your thoughts on body positivity

You have that pregnant glow everyone talks about, you look very pretty! Don't worry about feeling bad because you're putting wait (even though it's for a good reason, as you said), I get it, we all do. I think everyone has felt that way and you saying it publicly made me feel understood and more confident about myself, because I'm not the only one. I'm so happy you are having a girl, it's such exciting news! Blessings for the baby and the lucky parents!

Why is everyone freaking out about the gender/sex thing like stfu. You're literally looking for something to be offended by. Its suppose to be a happy day. She is having a girl and CONTRATS!!!! So happy for you!!! And it's actually none of my business or yours about the baby's sex/gender. It's just great she shared her experience and reaction.

lol "mini me" !

i loved ur honesty and transparency in this vlog talking about putting on weight and body image. Wow Fleur opening yourself this wy has made me feel connect so much more with you.. Honestly, you are perfect the way you are, even if you put on weight, you still deserve what you have.

With Mike and Fleur as the parents, that baby is going to be beautiful and incredibly sweet! ♥️ I'm very excited to see the baby!

What is wrong with you people,she is having a baby why can you just not be happy for her,it's amazing, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY ABOUT IT MAYBE YOU SHOULD STOP WATCHING HER,

I wish all the trolls, all the haters, all the keyboard warriors out there would sit and really listen to what you say at the beginning of this vlog. Anticipating their comments, bracing yourself for the negativity about weight, should not be a part of anyone's day and it certainly shouldn't encroach on the joy of bringing a new life into the world. Huge congratulations - having met you both a couple of times, I could not be more thrilled for the pair of you. How bloody brilliant xxxx

She is going to be such a lucky girl having access to your wardrobe and handbags fleur!!

So happy for you!!! Don't worry about your body image, you're lovely and so pretty, Fleur! Mike's gonna be absolutely in love with his little daughter. Best wishes!

Aah I know I'm late but congratulations! So happy for you xx

I find it most compelling that most liberals out there insist that "gender" is the politically incorrect term when discovering if a baby in the womb has XX or XY chromosomes, when they think "marriage" is the politically correct term for the LGBT+ community when its correct definition is the love between man and woman!

You just make me so happy with your pregnancy updates! It's so nice to be able to follow your journey. All the love from Denmark!

I was smiling through the entire end of the video. So exciting. I have one girl and another girl on the way the same day as you! It's such a blessing. And yay for a low risk baby! We just got our results back too and we feel so relieved.

I thought it was a boy but a girl is amazing omg for moms is the best thing because you get to dress them and style them all the time!Congratulations!!!🎀💖💖💖💖💖

I'm surprised I haven't seen any comments against assigning gender at birth

Omg! What a blessing 😍❤️ congrats on your baby girl Fleur and Mike!!! She's going to grow up with the best parents!!

Fleur, I'm so, so incredibly happy for you! It breaks my heart to see that you're a bit unhappy with how you look but I just want to say you look absolutely beautiful and glowing. Your baby girl is so lucky to have such wonderful parents. Thank you for bringing us along!

Congratulations it is going to be very lucky you and mike will be amazing parents 😀

Wow, really hope you guys ignore all the stupid gender comments. Congratulations on your little baby girl, so excited for you both!!! :)

Crying so much right now!! So so happy for you and Mike seeing the big smile on your face when you announced it was a girl was so cute!! Congrats congrats congrats ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Congrats!! Don't worry about weight. It's just a number. Concentrate on the little bundle in your belly. I have identical twins girls. I think you look radiant and your glowing. Loved this video and Mahalo for sharing your great news. ❤️🎀🍼

I've never clicked on a video so quick 😂

So happy for you guys😻🌸

I'm so happy for you and Mike. I have a healthy 3 year old, but my partner and I just had a miscarriage in May. So I can completely relate to how draining the physical changes of pregnancy can be, just stay positive! Wishing you all the best throughout the next trimesters of pregnancy, Fleur ❤️️

Omg! I swear I knew you were having a girl!!! Ever since you made your pregnancy announcement, I just had this feeling! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

Congrats you and Louise are both having girls

It's a girl 💕

You are one of the most beautiful and kind hearted RU-vid influencers to me. I am so happy for the both of you! Congrats

You are having a baby!!!! Do NOT worry about what others say!!! You are beautiful!!

It's a giiiiiiiirl congratulations 💕💕💕

Fleur, first of all congrats!! Second, I would suggest turning off comments.

Fleur I totally understand when it comes to weight and being short. It's like you put on just a little bit of weight and it's instantly noticeable but you always look fantastic and healthy and the latter is the most important thing! I know this vlog is from a few weeks back but I hope you're feeling better and can't wait to see all the lovely things you will pick out for baby girl DeForce!

It's kind of amazing that people put their pregnancy journeys out there on the internet, considering the amount of negativity with which others respond. It must be very difficult to be so happy about a little one coming in the face of so much criticism for every little thing. Kudos to you and Mike for putting yourselves out here, and letting us in on your journey. Whatever others are saying, I hope you know that you have my support and prayers and good vibes. I can tell you are both going to be great parents! :)

I don't know how you found out so early. At my 12 week scan, I was told it's too early. I was told to wait 18-20 weeks scan.

I am amazed at how people are reacting over a fucking word. Can we all just take a minute to realize that Fleur is a human with actual feelings. When you all criticize her on the way she used a word and call her stupid, bigot, ignorant, and many other hateful things, it doesn't make you much of a better person. I have always heard people throw "gender reveal parties", not "sex reveal parties". I understand that the definition of a gender is either male or female **typically** (not always) used with reference to social differences rather than biological ones, but the baby's gender is still a girl..... At this moment right now she's a female, (SHE HAS A VAGINA) and she will stay a female until she decides (if ever) to become a male.

One of the most honest vlogs I've seen you do. Really appreciate your genuineness. So much more relatable. So happy for you both.

Hi Fleur, this was such a beautiful, honest vlog. The part where you talked about your relationship with your body and how you felt about it growing up was very relatable, and it was lovely to hear you being so open about a topic that can be difficult to discuss.