Gentle parenting HOT takes | EP 228 

The shirt is 🔥🔥🔥🔥

Exactly what I thought!

100%. I have 3 boys under 7!

Preach! It’s like they have a disease-

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Thought exactly that John would wear that on his pod! Haha

You have no idea how much I hope this is true lol

Also it was HILARIOUS when he bit me. Obviously there was some discipline, but it was hard for me to not laugh immediately

i so agree! they know what they're doing when you say NO and then they grin and try to see how far they can get with you.

Yes, I would say around 6 to 7 months the awareness starts.

Liquid Death? You do realize there are several videos about the people who created it and them casting spells over it when it's being made. I'm shocked.

Agree! It’s so sad when they intentionally disobey, and it starts much younger than people think.

Thank you for sharing your experience! Gentle Parents are feral if you say that you spank. They think time out is abuse 🤯 time away to breath and be alone helps my child so much!!

Genuinely curious of your experience with spanking? The way my parents went about spanking me as a child didn’t work well, how did you parents go about it?

@@ava.noelle Thanks for genuinely asking! My dad made it a point to never spank out of anger. He also always asked if we knew why we were getting spanked & then very calmly & rationally would explain something like, “Because you lied, you’re getting 1 swat” etc. It was always the clear consequence because of an act of disobedience. Then afterwards we’d pray & and ask Jesus to forgive us & he’d remind us he loved us & we’d hug. I feel like where parents mess up is 1. Being angry & making it a scary traumatizing event, 2. Spanking without the kid fully understanding what they did wrong. For me, it was always very clear that I didn’t want to do that thing again since I’d gotten spanked for it. Also, they had a very specific spoon they used, that hung on the kitchen wall, so lots of times if they just pointed to it we’d quickly stop arguing or fighting. My dad was a firm believer in this so that “kids fear the rod, not the hand of their parent”. Oh also, the rules were clearly communicated so we knew which ones would lead to a spanking. For us, the big ones were lying, hurting a sibling physically or with mean words, & being defiant or disrespectful. So that was what I did with my kids. As a pastor, I heard him say many times, “You don’t spank your kids for spilling their milk, or some accident like that, and you don’t spank them for things like dragging their feet getting ready. It has to be a direct violation of your family’s rules.” Hope this helps. 😊 God bless!

@@ava.noelle Here are a couple scriptures too that is the reason I still believe spanking done right is effective! “Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs‬ ‭22‬:‭6‬ ‭“Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.” Proverbs‬ ‭13‬:‭24‬ ‭‬‬ “Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die. Punish them with the rod and save them from death.” Proverbs‬ ‭23‬:‭13‬-‭14‬ “The rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. Correct your son, and he will give you rest; Yes, he will give delight to your soul.” Proverbs‬ ‭29‬:‭15‬, ‭17‬ ‭

Passive Parenting right there😬