Surprisingly, I never got the "talk". Most kids my age got that figured out LONG before, but Jr High had a seminar for everyone on this subject. And then it happened again in the general science class too. And then it happened again in an another seminar.
Yeah, mine was getting both ends of the spectrum one being sex ed class from a Unitarian church that was VERY thorough on details and lasted a full month and gave us a thick textbook at the end...the other was high school class that the teacher tried using Oreo's to explain STDs...
I wonder if _any_ teenage boy ever gets 'the talk' _before_ he knows all about it from (a) his friends, (b) his older brother or (c) the internet [or, in my day purloined magazines]
@@oliviarobinson3 are you sure that they did it? Me and my friends also used to say that at about that age and my girlfriend just joined in and 'proved' that I did it, even though we never did it.
I was 17 before my dad decided to have the talk… by then I knew more about it then school. And to tell the truth George handled the situation just as well as my dad did🤣🤣🤣
When this topic comes up, I always wonder what’s a good way to do it because the main issue is that the first time the kids bring someone home surely ain’t gonna be the first time they meet and teenagers do have a reputation for occasionally starting at an age when they are younger than their parents may suspect.
One time at a cosplay convention my brother and his girlfriend fell asleep on the bed at the hotel and the next day he wouldn’t hear the end of it from our parents. This was near the end of their senior year.
My parents simply left lying around a sex-ed book, knowing that I'd pick it up and read it. [I was so hungry to learn to read that I refused to go back to kidergarten after the first day when I found out they weren't going to teach me to read that year.] For the early 60's, it was even-handed, straightforward (heh) and what I got most out of it was that I liked pictures of boys (even in freaking cut away diagrams) and was uninterested in the extreme about whatever in the hell girls were about. Still, good book.
@@rashigupta5995team america. It looked like it was for kids so we watched it when we were around 10 years old. It's the same creators from south park.
I never had a talk like that with my parents, I learned that from school and from my surroundings, I know its kinda awkward to have this topic with your parents, its just weird.
Actaully to avoid sexual assault, causing your partner to go through unnecessary torment, to protect yourself from STDs and unwanted pregnancy. I think you can go back. A bit of extra pleasure is not worth not being safe.
Don't ever 'leave it in', even if she says to. IT'S A TRAP! An 18 year sentence you don't want. My thoughts were always, do I really want to know this person that long? Usually the answer was... Hell no! Then the whole STD thing and... Yeah, just wait.
In the unlikely event today that there are still NUCLEAR families, the parents probably wouldn't ever think to advise their teens to ABSTAIN from sex before marriage. Instead, the parents emphasize PROTECTION, assuming that their teens will freely engage in premarital sex. Where's the religious teaching that warns against fornication and adultery? Liberals certainly don't encourage such teaching but instead subscribe to the idiotic mantra of "If it feels good, DO IT!" Abominations all.
Sex is a natural human need and can lead to many problems if represent. The bible uses marriage to control women since it grantees that her offspring is from the father and only him. I have a theory that so many crazy fucking religious people are so mad because they’ve never had good sex or understand sex or know anything about sex.
@@georgemcgukin5576 And actually.. it doesn't guarantee her offspring are from the father. Now that we have DNA testing, we have proven that even in *highly* religious communities that some children are not from the father. Lowest among the highly religious and the wealthy but still happens frequently. I agree they *thought* it guaranteed it. In France, they've made doing a paternity test at birth illegal. No need to do that unless there was a major problem. There have been many religious communities that had healthy attitudes towards sex, even among protestants. I don't know if it is more or less common in religious and non religious communities. And non-religious communities certainly have their *own* mix of healthy and unhealthy attitudes towards sex.
Bruh, we're SEXUAL BEINGS, having sex is not an abomination at all. Raping, killing, telling women that their only purpose in life is to be a wife and a mother... Those things, are abominations.
