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Germany Made Me A SUPER RUDE American!! After living for 9 years in Germany, Stefan noticed that I was a SUPER RUDE AMERICAN the last time we went to the USA!!
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@nopenope9724
@nopenope9724 5 лет назад
I worked as a cashier in germany. Please say Hi. I'm a human. Thanks and please are welcome, too.
@Raven28Pisces
@Raven28Pisces 4 года назад
Nope nope 🤣🤣
@ChrisTian-rm7zm
@ChrisTian-rm7zm 4 года назад
Isn't it annoying if you have to say hello and hi all day long?
@martinweizenacker7129
@martinweizenacker7129 4 года назад
​@@ChrisTian-rm7zm No, it's not really. What's annoying is if people don't stick to the unwritten rules such as bagging your groceries WHILE I'm scanning, not afterwards (or better: just put them back into the shopping cart). And it's okay if you aren't so fast, but please, at least try to. It's quite frustrating when the line is growing crazy so that I have to call a collegue to open another register just because a single customer takes forever.
@nopenope9724
@nopenope9724 4 года назад
@@ChrisTian-rm7zm Yes, it is! "Hello, 5,32€ please, do you have our rewards card? Do you collect our loyalty points? Do you want the receipt? Thank you, bye. Hello, 15,98€ please. Do you have our rewards card?....." Tedious!
@justanobody864
@justanobody864 5 лет назад
Alter! Ich würde die krise bekommen in Amerika beim Einkaufen wenn ich da mit jedem Quasseln müsste...
@jgr_lilli_
@jgr_lilli_ 5 лет назад
Ist so! I want to buy groceries, not make friends. If someone chatted me up in German Edeka, I would assume they wanted to hit on me. LoL
@celinasbasiic
@celinasbasiic 5 лет назад
Same alter xD
@ralfmoebius4260
@ralfmoebius4260 5 лет назад
@Wolfgang Preier russischsprecher gibts schon verdammt viele in der welt... vielleicht isländisch oder finnisch?
@ralfmoebius4260
@ralfmoebius4260 5 лет назад
@Wolfgang Preier vielleicht ist es ja wenigstens ein extremer dialekt. So russisches niederbairisch...
@TheYasmineFlower
@TheYasmineFlower 5 лет назад
@@ralfmoebius4260 Klingonisch oder High Valyrian. Auch immer gut.
@strahlberger
@strahlberger 5 лет назад
Norddeutschland ist soviel einfacher. Man sagt zum Kassierer, Arbeitskollege, Familie oder fremde Person auf der Straße "Moin". Weniger wäre unfreundlich und mehr ist unnötiges Gesabbel.
@tasminoben686
@tasminoben686 5 лет назад
Moin, stimmt! Auch hier sacht man 'Hallo' oder halt 'Moin' zu der Kassiererin. Ebenso 'Danke, 'Bitte' und 'Tschüss'. Und, wenn's grad paßt wünscht man auch'n schönen Tach, Wochenende oder so. Und mehr iss nu wirklich nich nötig. - Grins -
@derbuschmann3604
@derbuschmann3604 5 лет назад
Das Wort "Na?" ist in Norddeutschland ein Heiratsantrag.
@strahlberger
@strahlberger 5 лет назад
@@derbuschmann3604 Aber die Antwort ist meistens "hmm".
@Anson_AKB
@Anson_AKB 5 лет назад
"moin moin" - "du bist heute ja so geschwätzig" :-) in einem kleineren Geschäft ist "Guten Tag" und "Auf wiedersehen" üblich (in einem größeren "Tach" und freundlich nicken), und wenn man zB am letzten Freitag oder Sonnabend stattdessen "schöne Feiertage" wünscht, ist das schon was besonderes ... außerdem ist es weder üblich noch unüblich beim Bezahlen "Bitte" zu sagen wenn man das Geld gibt, "Danke" wenn man das Wechselgeld bekommt, und umgekehrt "Danke" und "Bitte" beim Kassierer. aber das ist dann auch schon etwas "geschwätzig" :-)
@dudem01234
@dudem01234 5 лет назад
Und wenn dir einer dumm kommt:,, mach dich vom Acker du Sparten!!!" Das ist Norddeutsche Freundlichkeit XDXDXDXDXD
@Speireata4
@Speireata4 5 лет назад
I always greet the cashier here in Germany and I wish them a good day after the transaction. But nothing more, because there is not time for more.
@autumngolden3259
@autumngolden3259 5 лет назад
Truth! Usually you are too busy trying to madly grab your groceries or goods after the cashier scans them while people stare you down from behind in line;)
@meursaultscourtroom8886
@meursaultscourtroom8886 5 лет назад
German cashiers are crazy fast!
@ralfmoebius4260
@ralfmoebius4260 5 лет назад
@@meursaultscourtroom8886 wo?
@NicholasCorvin
@NicholasCorvin 5 лет назад
That's more or less the normal, polite way to behave. There's usually no time for more talk.
@M_i_z_a_r_y
@M_i_z_a_r_y 5 лет назад
@@meursaultscourtroom8886 rather than saying they are crazy fast id say our system works better, if i remember correctly american cashiers often or always fill the bags with your stuff , while in germany they just scan it and the ppl that buy the product speedstack evrything into the bag/cart
@Welteninsel_K
@Welteninsel_K 5 лет назад
We (Germans) do say "hi" to our cashiers, but simultaneously hand them the product and sometimes the money too. Doing smalltalk before that would be very inefficient. Edit: And most people say "have a good day" when they leave.
@speedobido1051
@speedobido1051 5 лет назад
Oha, ich verabschiede mich nicht auf englisch ;D
@josetk9770
@josetk9770 5 лет назад
@@speedobido1051 da ist ja heute jemand GANZ lustig drauf😑
@speedobido1051
@speedobido1051 5 лет назад
@@josetk9770 Das kann doch gar nicht lustig sein; Deutsche haben doch grundsätzlich keinen Humor 😐
@josetk9770
@josetk9770 5 лет назад
@@speedobido1051 uff dann ist ja gut dass ich nicht ganz deutsch bin😂🤷‍♂️
@lexyrias5132
@lexyrias5132 5 лет назад
as a cashier in germany I can tell you... there are alot of people who don't talk to me at all. The don't say hello, thank you or anything. They don't even say "I'd like to pay by card please" the just hold up their card.
@heike5222
@heike5222 5 лет назад
Aber auch in Deutschland ist es unhöflich den Kassierer nicht zu begrüßen. Ich arbeite selber an der Kasse und hasse wenn ich behandelt werde wie ein Automat.
@PropperNaughtyGeezer
@PropperNaughtyGeezer 5 лет назад
Darum mag ich Automaten.
@spitymaeh
@spitymaeh 5 лет назад
Also ich begrüße immer die Kassiererin und sage danke und wünsche einen schönen Feiertag und so
@liesadegroote8817
@liesadegroote8817 5 лет назад
Yeah I get why you feel like a machine if customers do that. When I go to the store, I try to be friendly to the cashier (smile, say hello and goodbye...). Just handing the groceries and the money seems very rude to me. By the way: I’ m from Belgium and I can understand German, but I can’t write or speak it well. 😉
@josetk9770
@josetk9770 5 лет назад
Es kommt manchmal vor dass mich Kassierer gar nicht begrüßen😐
@tasminoben686
@tasminoben686 5 лет назад
Liesa De Groote Netter flämischer Akzent. - Smile -
@twinmama42
@twinmama42 5 лет назад
In 1996 my husband and I stayed in Atlanta, GA for a couple of weeks with friends. And southern hospitality with lots of chitchat and calling everybody "honey, sweetie etc." sometimes unnerved my German mind ("Get to the point unneccessarily friendly waiter. I'm hungry, ao I want to order. Damn it"). But then we drove up to Long Island, NY to visit some friends of my parents-in-law and some business-partners of our company, I noticed people becoming less friendly by the mile. When in the hotel the waitress, that served our breakfast, plainly asked "What do you want?" (in a very stern and unfriendly tone) without any preliminary conversation I was utterly shocked. She was rude, even for a German mindset..
@kobostinywings
@kobostinywings 5 лет назад
As a Brit I'd find "what do you want" hellishly rude
@carudatta
@carudatta 5 лет назад
You rude thing, you. I remember an old lady pushing her shopping cart along a supermarket aisle, ramming it into my back at full speed. A FULL shopping cart. I was nearly knocked over. In trying to stay upright, I made a bit of an arm movement and accidentally pushed a small box of something (cookies, I think) off a shelf. I turned around and gave the lady an indignant look. Whereupon she said, in an angry tone (Viennese dialect): "It was YOU who knocked that box over." That's what I call rude.
@bethgriesauer3825
@bethgriesauer3825 5 лет назад
I've been in Austria for 23 years. When I go home to California - the friendliest state in friendly America - I am blown away by the friendly, open welcoming I get while out shopping. It feels so good! I once got into a conversation with the employee/cashier in a vitamin store about how different customer-cashier interactions are in Austria compared to where I was in San Francisco. He felt sorry for us in Europe! After a ten minute chat (the shop was empty), he came around the counter and gave me a big hug goodbye. That has never happened to me (to anyone in history?) In Vienna!
@LpSC2online
@LpSC2online 5 лет назад
If you want to make some small talk in Vienna, you can also do so; it is not impossible, I have done it a couple of times at the right occasion. As long as it is authentic and not invasive, there is no problem at all. You might still have to learn how to do that in Austria. In my POV every conversation that does not start genuine between strangers or might even start forced is a deal-breaker. That being said, I would not want to be hugged by a stranger usually - at least not after chatting for 10 minutes.
@Commentorist
@Commentorist 5 лет назад
Well,what helps a lot ,is to learn the local dialect.Mostly the straight way to the peoples heart.
@Commentorist
@Commentorist 5 лет назад
@@AndersGehtsdochauch Ja,wenn's extrem gekünstelt kling is es besser kein Dialekt zu reden.
@bethgriesauer3825
@bethgriesauer3825 5 лет назад
@@LpSC2online - The point is, after 10 minutes of talking to someone in California, they don't feel like a stranger. It's not "small talk", which I do engage in in Vienna. I have colleagues I've worked with for years here who still feel like strangers.
@twincast2005
@twincast2005 5 лет назад
No hugs from strangers, thank you very much...
@annamuller3206
@annamuller3206 5 лет назад
No, sorry, it is not typical german not to greet or only hand over the money - that‘s also very rude in Germany! The cashier is not a vending machine. ;)
@jgr_lilli_
@jgr_lilli_ 5 лет назад
Especially in a smaller store with no queue behind you! I would always say something like "Hallo! Ich hätte den Hut gern." or something similar.
@Dani4891
@Dani4891 5 лет назад
I agree!
@elnolde754
@elnolde754 5 лет назад
I totaly agree
@emeraldcupcake1438
@emeraldcupcake1438 5 лет назад
Ich sag immer Entschuldigung wenn ich zwischen dem Regal und einer Person gehe😂❤
@vendela678
@vendela678 5 лет назад
ich auch. aber ich bin in der Schweiz aufgewachsen.
@iSn0w
@iSn0w 5 лет назад
ich auch. 😂
@Anson_AKB
@Anson_AKB 5 лет назад
langsam ins Blickfeld gehen und nicht durchrennen und jemanden erschrecken, selbstverständlich. aber sich entschuldigen käme mir wohl meistens vor als würde ich die andere Person auffordern, mir mehr Platz zu machen. Falls diese andere Person aber mehr Platz macht, sage ich meistens kurz "Danke", was oft verwunderte Blicke hervorruft :-)
@emeraldcupcake1438
@emeraldcupcake1438 5 лет назад
@@Anson_AKB 😂
@JulGer1
@JulGer1 5 лет назад
Ich auch. Das Beschriebene ist kein typisch deutsches Verhalten. Ich glaube sogar die deutschen sind wesentlich höflicher als Amerikaner.
@IntyMichael
@IntyMichael 5 лет назад
Not saying hello or good morning etc. to a cashier is rude in Germany too. I do it all the time.
@tramper42
@tramper42 5 лет назад
IntyMichael : True, a short „Guten Tag“ should be the bare minimum. As I understand it, there are more sentences spoken in USA... can also happen in Germany, when you are very often at the same store/shop e.g. bakery and/or in the German countryside, where things are „going slower“, also because less customers waiting.
@williwuttke
@williwuttke 5 лет назад
I think a german cashier would be very puzzled if I asked her or him "Wie geht es Ihnen?", but at least where I live it's very normal to say "Hallo" or, here in the north, "Moin". And we also say something like "Schönen Tag noch", which means "have a nice day", of course also "Schöne Feiertage" or "Schönes Wochenende", when we leave. Smalltalk depends on the situation. If I know the cashier I happen to say "Oh, Sie waren beim Friseur, sieht gut aus". Weather is always a topic to talk about. On the other hand, the cashier and me, we both agree in being there for doing our transaction and not let all the other customers have to wait until we would have finished our chitchat. Referring to the behaviour in the grocery store, I would like some more "Americanism". I always say "Entschuldigen Sie" or "Darf ich mal..." or "Bin schon aus dem Weg" and react quite annoyed, if someone shoves me just to get where I was. Or if someone leaves his cart standing just in the middle of the aisle instead of putting it on the side to leave enough room for all the others.
@S_Black
@S_Black 5 лет назад
One thing to keep in mind though is that the American "how are you?" is usually just another way to say "hello". People aren't actually interested and don't expect a real answer. If you ask that in Germany you actually mean it. At least to a stranger. When said to a friend it can be just a greeting as well
@3n3rgy90
@3n3rgy90 5 лет назад
Ich sage Hallo am Anfagn und Tschüss, danke wenn ich gehe. Einen schönen Tag noch würde die Kassiererin bei meinem Lidl gar nicht mehr höhren, da ist die schon beim nächsten.
@athen3212
@athen3212 5 лет назад
In Swiss German :" Grüetzi/Grüess Gott; Gueten morgen; Gott grüäss di uch; Gueten Tog ;Gueten obig/nocht. "Wie geht es dir hoite? Donke guet und dir? Wi heißt din Per? Er hoist Hons Ondreas Jochen. " Wo woanst du?" I wohn i Züri. "
@stephanh.3378
@stephanh.3378 5 лет назад
In science there is a name for that phenomenon: Reverse culture shock. People often feel like being in between two cultures and same time being very confused
@martianpudding9522
@martianpudding9522 5 лет назад
Are you supposed to ask the cashier how they are doing? I'm Dutch and that seems so rude/invasive to me.
@bethgriesauer3825
@bethgriesauer3825 5 лет назад
You could. "How are you today?" Usually it's the cashier or shop assistant who asks the customer, though. It's just a greeting. In Austria, traditionally people greet each other with "Gruß Gott!" but no one literally means "Greetings to God".
@katy3115
@katy3115 5 лет назад
Typical exchange: Cashier. "I, how are you?" Customer, I'm good, and you?" ashier, "good." This is done automatically while the transaction takes place and almost without thought. At the end of the transaction: Cashier, "Thanks, have a great day." Customer, "You too." It's really not personal at all, it's just habit, I guess.
@carudatta
@carudatta 5 лет назад
@@bethgriesauer3825 Grüß (dich) Gott originally meant "May God greet you", but in its current form it does sound like you are telling someone to greet God. I sometimes answer "Grüß ihn selber".
@nicosteffen364
@nicosteffen364 5 лет назад
Well, it could be strange if everyone asks the same, but being nice is a good thing, hello and have a nice day should be possible. When i realize that the cashier wants to have smalltalk i do it, when not, hello and good bye is the minimum. Just be nice, they are working and who likes to be told rude things or not be seen as a human bring?
@linnuewinnue
@linnuewinnue 5 лет назад
Thinking about it, I would agree. It is kind of rude...what would happen, if you ask someone (stranger, like a cashier) how they are and the answer is "fucking bad! It hate my life!" ...would you start talking about it? While others are waiting behind you? And then you wave goodbye and the next one is asking the same question and again the answer is "shit!"...isnt that rude, having to answer those kind of questions again and again. Or what about just saying "oh okay!" as an answer and proceed paying. I think that is rude too. (I'm german btw...so, yeah :D) Edit: Im alwasy in for a nice and honest greeting, thank you and goodbye.
@dimples1959
@dimples1959 5 лет назад
And as an American I actually prefer not to engage in small talk because it feels pointless to me. Most of the time especially in instances like at the grocery store, I just like to make my purchase and leave. Most of the time the cashier and I know that neither of us really cares how the other person is doing. We're just trying to get through our day. It's just the polite thing to ask. I prefer self checkout for this reason because it feels more genuine.
@angelique_cs
@angelique_cs 5 лет назад
I always find these differences so interesting. It's nice to acknowledge and adapt to the cultural norms where you are visiting. It makes for a smoother and more pleasant experience when you keep those in mind. My job in the US is based on "small talk" and deals often with the elderly (who often don't get to have many small conversations) so I've grown very proficient with that style. Great video; and really fun to see Stephan and you together!
@songbird989
@songbird989 5 лет назад
Okay, why do I find this video particularly hilarious? LOL It reminds me of the cultural differences between us Americans and the British. They're reserved and we're loud and enthusiastic! lol Apparently, people in other parts aren't used to that! BTW, I loved seeing Stefan's adorable face again! lol :)
@BarbaraHeim
@BarbaraHeim 5 лет назад
Ich bin deutsch, meine beste Freundin schweizerisch und wir stellen immer wieder fest, dass obwohl wir sogar vermeintlich die selbe Sprache sprechen, die kulturellen Unterschiede enorm sind. Obwohl wir uns dessen bewusst sind fühlen wir uns doch manchmal von Gewohnheiten oder der Art zu kommunizieren in dem jeweils anderen Land vor den Kopf gestoßen, Das ist manchmal anstrengend aber auch sehr interessant.
@mariezp
@mariezp 5 лет назад
How funny! Dana is now rude and Stefan is the one interacting with people.
@MultiScooter63
@MultiScooter63 5 лет назад
I do not consider your behaviour as rude (as native german). In Thailand, where I've been around 20 times, I noticed that cashiers are very happy if I say some words in thai, like "Hello", the amount of money, "thank you" etc. so I recommend to every tourist there to learn a few words and smile in the shop, or at least do some chat in english, this will be highly appreciated.
@rayray_bee
@rayray_bee 5 лет назад
I am married to a German and we live in Colorado. When he first visited me in the US he was so baffled by the fact that strangers walking down the street would smile and say hi and that people working in customer service would ask you how you are doing. Now, every time we go back to Germany, he complains about how unfriendly and “rude” all the Germans are 🤣.
@boombaby1769
@boombaby1769 5 лет назад
Oh boy, yeah, I remember something. Our team attended a sales meeting in Kyoto. We had been told beforehand that we shouldn't tip the waiters, as tips are regarded as a way of saying "Do a better job next time" in Japan, but it seemed my boss hadn't been listening. We had a great meal in a fancy restaurant, and when he paid the bill, he left a tip on the table (some coins and bills). When we left the restaurant, I turned around and saw the waiter throwing the money to the ground, with an expression as if he had just been fired. This was quite a few years ago, I don't know if this mentality has changed in the meantime, but this was definitely a cultural faux pas. My boss had been rude without even noticing.
@dimples1959
@dimples1959 5 лет назад
Oh goodness. That's definitely something I'll remember if I visit Japan!
@Oceanborn712
@Oceanborn712 5 лет назад
I really hate when people start chatting me up randomly. Just this week, I accompanied my mother when she was doing her grocery shopping and she randomly got greeted by someone she apparently knew. A while later, my mom was getting some eggs and I was waiting for her with her shopping cart and that woman from earlier just randomly walked by and gave me a very short half-sentence comment, essentially saying "Shopping isn't that great when you're just following around, huh?" and my internal reaction was "Wtf what do you want from me? I don't know you. Leave me alone!"
@avivapeltin
@avivapeltin 5 лет назад
My small talk can be very "German" in America I'd say most of the time, depending on my mood. I live in Seattle, so I'd say not being very chatty is pretty typical for people here, but it depends on the person. Usually I'll just say, "How are you?" but not get in an actual chat with a cashier. Sometimes it'll turn into an actual convo, but most of the time, no. Cute video!
@penwiky9637
@penwiky9637 5 лет назад
agreed. most people just want to get their stuff and go. employees have to work. It makes me wonder how we actually make friends if everyone is keeping to themselves lol
@karenschafer2827
@karenschafer2827 5 лет назад
Living in the Northeast all my life, I feel the culture shock in for instance supermarkets in the South. People are not just cordial, you have whole conversations with strangers while buying your fresh squeezed orange juice at the Piggly Wiggly!
@KP-vg3zn
@KP-vg3zn 4 года назад
Same culture shocked happened to a friend from Philly. She moved to North Carolina because her husband was in the military. She said southerners talk to strangers like they've known them forever. I had a culture shock when I visited Massachusetts for the 1st time.
@smallblueangel
@smallblueangel 5 лет назад
but in germany you at least say hello to the cashier
@xet477
@xet477 5 лет назад
Saw you guys again Friday at ostbahnhof. It's crazy that I started watching your videos and now live all the way here
@stevenfischer9323
@stevenfischer9323 5 лет назад
Eine Transaktion bedarf aber auch einer Eröffnung und eines Schluss. quasi! Hallo!.. Transaktion!... Tschüss, schönen Tag noch! Reicht völlig aus. Es ist höflich und trotzdem effizient!
@joeaverage3444
@joeaverage3444 5 лет назад
The funny thing is that in Germany, in the right circles, everyday politeness goes a very long way. I lived in the U.S. for a year once, and although all the unwritten rules of U.S. courtesy were confusing to me at first (and some still are), I adopted certain things for my everyday life here in Germany that have served me very well. While it's true that Germans aren't famous at all for politeness, a well-measured use of "please", "thank you", "Excuse me" and other things like that really don't go unnoticed, especially in the business world. Since my time in the U.S., I also struggle to be brutally honest to people and show them my disapproval the idiosyncratically German way 😁
@keidun
@keidun 5 лет назад
When I was stationed in Germany 45 years ago with the US Army...we were taught to always greet people (Großer Gott, Guten Tag, etc) and to always say Bitte and danke schon when we shop...another word they taught us to use, Entschuldigung...
@xaverlustig3581
@xaverlustig3581 5 лет назад
@@keidun Probably "Grüß Gott" which is a common greeting in southern Germany - not at all in the North though. But given that the American zone was mostly in the south (except Bremen and Berlin), that's where you would likely be. "Großer Gott" means "great god", that's not a greeting. After 45 years you're entitled to misremember :D
@keidun
@keidun 5 лет назад
@@xaverlustig3581 I have never figured out that wording...it is like you are saying God is great.......I just remembered another word we used all the time machts nicht...we pronounced it mox nix...
@xaverlustig3581
@xaverlustig3581 5 лет назад
@@keidun It's literally "Greet God", it originally means something like "may you be greeted by God". Today people don't really think about the religious overtones, it's just the common greeting in most of Bavaria and some other parts in the south. If you use the northern "Guten Tag" there, you're outing yourself as being from far away. The reverse is true in northern Germany :)."Macht nichts" is literally "makes nothing", meaning "never mind", or "no bother".
@keidun
@keidun 5 лет назад
@@xaverlustig3581 another greeting I learned was Servus...use in South Bavaria around Munich and Regensburg
@repnzscasb560
@repnzscasb560 5 лет назад
czech rep is even worse, they crash into you and wonder why you're in their way
@thejourney1369
@thejourney1369 5 лет назад
As an American, I can’t imagine not making small talk. My husband tells me that when I get in line behind someone in a store, I’ll know their life history before we leave. I’ve met some wonderful people that way. Many, many years ago I worked as a desk clerk at a lodge in a nearby national park. Noticed that they were from the same city several states away that my Mom had been born in and where her sister and her husband and my great uncle lived. Come to find out, he knew my aunt and uncle. Good old American small talk! I wouldn’t trade it for anything!
@tomatensalat7420
@tomatensalat7420 5 лет назад
America would exhaust me :D
@thejourney1369
@thejourney1369 5 лет назад
tomaten salat actually it’s amazing what you learn from and about people!
@annahollander111
@annahollander111 5 лет назад
Very interesting. I am German living outside Germany. I have an American friend who more than once accused me of being impolite and inconsiderate. So THAT is the reason!
@joshsmit779
@joshsmit779 5 лет назад
I'm rude because I have the mindset of a German but I was born and live in the US. No small talk for me thanks, and you better get out of my way in public lol
@debratillman4122
@debratillman4122 5 лет назад
honestly, I have never met an American who behaved as you indicated. I don't know what I would do, possibly be confused and move on.
@KiraFriede
@KiraFriede 5 лет назад
To be fair, what she did would be considered quite rude in Germany too. You usually say "hi" and "have a nice day" to the cashier. Nothing more though.
@songbird989
@songbird989 5 лет назад
There's no excuse for that rudeness Nicholas and yes, this is coming from an American!
@Freeakiy
@Freeakiy 5 лет назад
@@songbird989 I don't get why what he said was rude? like being obviously in the way of someone is being rude I think. don't stay around where people are walking because that is rude.
@Commentorist
@Commentorist 5 лет назад
And where's the problem now?
@anna.m8
@anna.m8 5 лет назад
Germany in supermarkets: "let's pretend nobody exists in the store". Even if you bump into someone
@peterbruells28
@peterbruells28 5 лет назад
Wait, there are other people in the store? Where was that?
@wrestlingfan-yq1wh
@wrestlingfan-yq1wh 4 года назад
Anna M it’s better and it saves one from stressing out and feeling uneasy around too many folks.
@lissalack1490
@lissalack1490 5 лет назад
Stefan, thanks so much! You need to teach Dana good manners when you travel! So funny!
@Baccatube79
@Baccatube79 5 лет назад
I love how Stefan says root instead of rude. Rock that final devoicing!
@kenninast
@kenninast 5 лет назад
In Belgium it's like in Germany. You just keep to yourself. But I'm not like that. I always say hi and how are you to people working in a shop or to the bus driver or so. And the responses usually are very positive. I mean, I don't do that for myself. I couldn't care less. But I know those people don't have dream jobs. So I say a few things to brighten up their day a bit. And now when I come to my regular supermarket, people already greet me with a big smile and bus drivers flash their head lights to say hi to me when they pass. That makes me grasp how important those small things are. They don't cost me a thing, but they are valuable to the other people.
@ember1794
@ember1794 5 лет назад
I myself also feel uplifted when one is nice to people and they are nice, as well - it's a win-win, I suppose
@dubissokomisch
@dubissokomisch 5 лет назад
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@peterreitmann4496
@peterreitmann4496 4 года назад
Haha,i'm a german living in the States for 30 years now, when i go back to germany to visit, i feel that i'm way to nice in stores and such. It always makes me laugh, cuz, i was married to an American woman, i tell ya i can relate! Keep up the good work!
@OperaLover84
@OperaLover84 5 лет назад
I think we Americans can learn a lot from German social behavior. There are so many superfluous social interactions and ridiculous niceties in our culture, and that can be really exhausting. Especially for introverts like me, who would rather move through their day efficiently and with as little social interaction as possible, a shift towards the German style would be quite nice :) I don't think that will ever happen though, because as Americans, the idea of being owed politeness, dignity, and respect (and personal space, lol) 24/7 is practically in our cultural DNA.
@martinrossi532
@martinrossi532 5 лет назад
Ich fände es gut, wenn wir in Deutschland auch mehr Smalltalk mit Fremden machen würden. Gerade in Großstädten fühlt man sich doch oft allein, obwohl man permanent von Menschen umgeben ist.
@frs-01-35
@frs-01-35 5 лет назад
I am German and live in Germany and I always say something like excuse me if I want to walk along an aisle and there is another person. I also always greet the cashiers, at least with good morning or hello (but I do not chit-chat much more than that). Maybe it has to do with urban life vs rural life. We live in a place of ca. 4000 inhabitants.
@athen3212
@athen3212 5 лет назад
Yes in Swiss German you can say :"Entschuldige si bité,dorf i kuerz vorbai gehe? "Grüäss Gott,konn i mol durchch? " Pardon, dos wor nit mit obsicht gwesen,es wor usversehen." I hoff si konn mi Fehler verzeihen."
@synus29
@synus29 5 лет назад
Than you're rude even in Germany 😂. When you go between the Person and the stuff their looking at you of course excuse yourself or ask if you could pass. And to the not saying hello to the cashier is luckily not the usual way in Germany. I'm working at the counter at Aldi and I would say about 80% of my customers say Hello to me. So Dana is not only a rude American she is aswell a rude. German. Tztztz Stefan you're a really bad rawmodel 🤣
@CarinaCoffee
@CarinaCoffee 4 года назад
Yeah, I work for a discounter, too and we're supposed to say hello to people, look them in the eyes while doing it and wishing them a nice day. Usually people greet me as well. I mean, usually people wait for me to tell them how much it is, even when they already have the bill in hand (since we're supposed to say that too), but when someone hands over the money real quick I just assume they're in a hurry and try to hand them back their change quickly. And I always excuse myself when I cross between someone looking at the shelf or thank them when they make way.
@carola-lifeinparis
@carola-lifeinparis 5 лет назад
German living in Paris. In Paris, every conversation begins with Bonjour. Getting into a bus begins with Bonjour. I learned that it is not "Bonjour, ça va?" for strangers in the airport, but for every coworker or acquaintance it is. Even if you do not really really care. Unlike in Germany, where if I ask, I want to hear the 5 min update, not just a "geht gut". I am a bit like Stefan, I adapt to the situation. Maybe it is a German thing to conciously adapt to places? Being more English than the English, more French than the French.
@perdidoatlantic
@perdidoatlantic 5 лет назад
One time in FL I was in Walmart and put a big watermelon in my cart and continued shopping. I kept noticing an old black woman behind me with a mop. At the checkout I realized the watermelon was punctured and the whole time I was shopping I was leaking watermelon juice into the floor and she was quietly following me mopping up the spill. I said to her “I’m so sorry. You should have told me. I didn’t realize it”. She just stood staring at me silently. I couldn’t decide if she was being passive-aggressive or not. 🤔
@Magistrella
@Magistrella 5 лет назад
1.) 2meters, really? Some parking spaces are less wide then that... (our whole isleways are less then that). You'd be excusing yourself non-stop here. How the hell do americans survive in big cities or open-air markets? 2.) Saying nothing is even rude here, cashiers might not show it but you're annoying them by not being friendly at all. A small hi and a smile go a long way I imagine grannies jumping out of my way when shopping >.> 2m Titan comming through! "Excuuuuse me, princess!"
@gotalifeanditsmine
@gotalifeanditsmine 5 лет назад
Where are you from?
@gotalifeanditsmine
@gotalifeanditsmine 5 лет назад
Where are you from?
@Welteninsel_K
@Welteninsel_K 5 лет назад
Plus an excuse in America seems to have no value because you do it all the time. In Germany you are really sorry if you excuse yourself.
@crappiefisher1331
@crappiefisher1331 5 лет назад
sorry but you guys are weird .. when i have to pass someone in front of them, while they are looking at the shelf, I will for sure say "Entschuldigung, ich muss grad mal vorbei". even tho "good" germans should pay enough attention to their surroundings and make room, if someone else is coming, so the new person can pass behind them... that's what I do all the time and most other people where i live do it as well... there is barely ever the need to pass in front of someone even tho the isles are small... and if you can pass behind someone without disturbing them then there is no need to interact... if they made room, because they saw you coming, a thank you is in order as well also when i for once don't pay attention to my surroundings, and stand in the middle of the way, while searching for something, and someone else says to me "Entschuldigung kann ich mal vorbei" then i take a step closer to the shelf, let them pass behind me and excuse myself for being in the way with a "Ups, sorry.." and a smile... so i would say normally halfway decent raised germans pay attention to their surroundings and try to not be in the way to begin with... at least where i live.. likewise not saying "Hi" or "Guten Tag/Guten Morgen" to the cashier is rude in germany too... it is true that we don't start small talk, but a friendly smile + a short "Hallo" and "Have a nice day/weekend" when leaving is completely normal.. so it has to be a bavarian or munich thing... or the people in Rhineland-Palatinate and the whole rhineland area are really just a lot friendlier than the rest of germany, but i don't think so....
@athen3212
@athen3212 5 лет назад
In Swiss German theren are lots of expressions: "Hoi,wi geht's,konn i mol gonz kurz vorbéi." "Es wor nit méine obsicht füer ihre Umstuerz." Pardon, dos wor ser unhöefflig von ihne gwesen, i möcht dot si sich béi mia pardonnieren(sich entschueldigen)." Hir i d Schwyjz sind wi olle höefflig unt möechten uch so behondlet werde. Olles muss mit Respekt gehondhopt werde,nit wi i Dütschlond ,wo jedér unhöefliger ols där ondre is. Ols i mol noch Lörroch u Stutgord gegonge bi, hob i Unhöefligkoit pur erlebt.Es wor ejnfoch ine Unverschämthoit. In Béispil is de dütsche Sotz :" Gib mir mal die verdammte Butter,du olle Ziege. Ich kauf hier nicht ein um von euch Kassiereren schlecht bedient zu werden!". I Schwyjtzer Dütsch würd d Sotz louten :" Grüetzi,Grüess Gott! Dorf i si bittän mir di Onker(Butter) zu üebereichen ,wen i si nit stör? "Hoi,Gueten tog, Gott grüesse di uch! Jo i konn dir di Onker(Butter) chern gäbe,ober wi hobn léider koine mer i loger.Es tuet miä vom gonzen Herzen léit,Pardon! Konn i ihne villoicht mi etwos ondres behilflig säin,ols eine widerguedmochung(Fridenongbot? Donke ser,is ober nit nöetig. Bis zum näechste mol,grüäss Gott erneut! Uf widersähe, Gott grüäss di uch zürück."
@IceNixie0102
@IceNixie0102 5 лет назад
I work at a Senior Center in Maryland, USA. We had a cookout/bbq earlier this week, and as I approached the woman at the counter to pay for my food, I handed her a ten, told her that my total was 7.25 and she owed me 2.75. She got so confused.
@lexyrias5132
@lexyrias5132 5 лет назад
well I am a cashier in germany and I've lived in germany my entire life. But I also think it is rude for people to give me money before I have scanned the items. It confuses me too.
@dearseall
@dearseall 5 лет назад
Ich bin etwas breiter. Im Supermarkt quetsche ich mich an einem quergestellten Karren vorbei, die "Fahrerin" desselben bemerkt dies und sagt zu mir: "Oh entschuldigen Sie, kommen Sie durch?" Darauf ich: "Ja, eine Elfe kommt überall durch." Darauf sie: "Aber SIE NICHT."
@FrauHotie
@FrauHotie 5 лет назад
Dana, i have a question and maybe you can explain it to me, I saw it all over the US: at a breakfast (or whatever) Buffet; Americans stack their plate full of food, but they NEVER eat all the food! And i dont unterstand why this huge WASTE OF FOOD seems to be okay for everyone? It always makes me sad to see this. ...Maybe someone can explain this to me... please? Thanks in advance! Kristine
@dimples1959
@dimples1959 5 лет назад
We say that people "have eyes bigger than their stomach". They take more food thinking they can eat it all and then can't finish it. Wasting food seems extremely common here as well. It's unfortunate.
@FrauHotie
@FrauHotie 5 лет назад
Thank you for your answer, Maybe there will be a change of mind someday 💪🏻
@annagajda5079
@annagajda5079 5 лет назад
It's funny for me when I watch you saying that Germans don't interact with each other, because from my point of view it's quite different. I come from Poland and since I live in Germany I noticed that I interact with strangers much more here then in my country. It includes cashiers and sometimes some smiles and nice glances while passing by in a narrow alley. Ok, it's definitly not American-style, but still for me it's much more then I had on a daily basis in Poland and I really like it this way ;)
@hugomf
@hugomf 5 лет назад
It’s kinda funny to me that, when I was living in germany, I literally used every day the word “entschuldigung“ when I was at a store or a public place. Perhaps because of that feeling that Stefan described of being in another country, another culture, and trying to not upset anybody. But yeah, entschuldigung is definitively a word that a used constantly.
@WhiteSpatula
@WhiteSpatula 5 лет назад
Being raised with both German and American social norms, I found a happy medium (here in the US). When I’m shopping and I spot what I want, I’ll make a bee line for it and simply eek out a perfunctory “Pardon” to anyone I pass by close enough to hear it. For me, that’s sufficiently hospitable. I’m not sure how other people view it because, well, I never bother to check outside my tunnel vision for their reactions. LOL! But it works for me.. greedy, selfish, American me. ;^} -Phill, Las Vegas
@minaazad2274
@minaazad2274 Год назад
I am Iranian and I live in Iran, when I was at airport toilet, I saw a tourist woman. She was very old, I said hello to her and because I was curious I asked her where she was from , she started telling me her life history 😂😐 and I was so shocked because I just wanted to know her country, finally she told me she was from Australia.
@Laufbursche4u
@Laufbursche4u 5 лет назад
I'm German and I think it's rude, too. But in Germany that's the difference between a large city and a small town.
@Fuckyoubloodymoron
@Fuckyoubloodymoron 5 лет назад
Disagree. I've always lived in the city and it's still rude.
@MarioMarioD80
@MarioMarioD80 5 лет назад
guess its really painful to be a mute in america
@Trifler500
@Trifler500 5 лет назад
idk, I'm an American and I don't think it's unusual to walk up to a cashier and say "Hello" and that's all I say until the cashier is done, then I say "Thanks, bye" and I leave.
@peter8aus8berlin
@peter8aus8berlin 5 лет назад
Sometimes I say:"Tschuljung" if I want someone out of the way who is blocking it. Stefan got Americanized: A German would never say:"Me and my friend...". ("Der Esel geht voran"; "The donkey goes first").
@erictrumpler9652
@erictrumpler9652 5 лет назад
It's simply ungrammatical...."me" is the wrong pronoun to use.
@peter8aus8berlin
@peter8aus8berlin 5 лет назад
@@erictrumpler9652 That's not the point. In Germany there is a silly rule that the other person(s) has/have to be mentioned first: "My friend and I/me" but never "I/me and my friend". ("Der Esel geht voran = The donkey goes first). The "me/I"-thing: Since everybody uses wrongly the accusative/dative (BTW: "It's me" is correct because of the "it is" = 3rd person) where the nominative would be correct there is no point in tilting at windmills.
@erictrumpler9652
@erictrumpler9652 5 лет назад
@@peter8aus8berlin As far as I know, that rule goes for English as well......so "me and my friend" is doubly wrong, and "my friend and I" is correct. No one would never even consider saying "I and my friend." Unfortunately "me and my friend" is used a lot colloquially.
@peter8aus8berlin
@peter8aus8berlin 5 лет назад
@@erictrumpler9652 "Me and you and a dog named Boo" by LOBO. Awesome song.
@erictrumpler9652
@erictrumpler9652 5 лет назад
@@peter8aus8berlin Yes, I agree, but that doesn't make it grammatically correct.....
@stephaniedorst5233
@stephaniedorst5233 5 лет назад
The opposite of extremely affective isn’t rude! Only because someone talk less, means, that person are rude. Balance is needed, also for people who are talking too much and saying nothing or smiling and don’t mean it.
@Zarkovision
@Zarkovision 5 лет назад
When I was much younger than now, I was shopping in German supermarket, where two women were blocking the way with their shopping carts. I asked politely If they would let me through, and one of the women simply said "no". So I just started up, and crashed with my trolley cart into the trolley cart of that woman and made room for me by myself. So you see: There is no point in being polite in Germany. ;)
@friendlyneighbourhoodbridg1354
I work in a grocery store in a massive tourist destination in my country, and I’ve noticed that I’m WAAY more lenient with foreigners’ habits and behaviours than 99.999999% of my coworkers and customers. I was working a few days ago, and a Chinese family came up to me and asked for help on something. I helped them and then, every time they needed my help with something (we were in an open area of the supermarket), the father would call out “hello!” to me and wave in my direction while I was helping other people (I don’t think he knew much English, but fortunately neither of us needed to speak much to solve whatever problem occurred). After they left, one woman said to me “i can’t believe how rude he was, just yelling out ‘hello!’ to you like that! Didn’t you think that that was rude?!” And I just said “no, maybe that’s how you call workers to you in his country? Maybe he didn’t speak much English.” She just shook her head in seemingly disappointment after I said that
@54321Judith
@54321Judith 5 лет назад
I would not say that Dina is rude I would just say she’s over exuberant bubbly sweet and kind like a puppy! I forgive you Dana!!!!💖
@Emslandkopfnuss
@Emslandkopfnuss 5 лет назад
Dort, wo sehr viele Menschen aufeinander treffen, kann man nicht jeden grüßen. In einem kleinen Dorf- oder Hofladen wird dagegen gern und viel miteinander geredet. Freundliche, soziale Interaktion ist nie falsch.
@jkb2016
@jkb2016 5 лет назад
Doch, wenn sie nicht gewollt ist.
@dalisandbooks8293
@dalisandbooks8293 5 лет назад
I grew up in America. Despised people who made small talk with the person working the cash register because they were holding up the line. I always had my cash/card ready to pay as soon as is was my turn. Then it was my turn to work as a cashier as still despised people who tried making small talk with me for holding up my line. After eight hours small talk gets exhausting. I don't like when strangers talking to me period unless I know I'm going to see you again like at the gym or a club or some other event.
@ytstigto
@ytstigto 5 лет назад
I'm Norwegian, it's exactly the same here as in Germany. I lived in England for a few years where the female cashiers would call me 'love', I think that's a little too much.
@kevinlessard5081
@kevinlessard5081 5 лет назад
I've lived in Bayern for four years now and I also struggle going back to the States and fitting in culturally (I found myself often thinking 'please stop talking to me and pour my beer/bring me my food!') I guess I'm lucky because I travel a lot for work and have gotten accustomed to just keeping a low profile in foreign countries and excusing myself a lot so I hopefully didn't offend anyone the last couple times I was in the States, but it certainly felt a lot more like a foreign culture than 'home' so zu sagen.
@autumngolden3259
@autumngolden3259 5 лет назад
After 2 years, I feel that way! I was in the US this past March and did something similar at Panera. I was waiting to throw away some trash while a lady was camped out at the can doing who knows what. I finally gave up after about 20 seconds and just went around her to toss my trash. She looked up and said in an impolite way "Ex-cuuuuse me!" :) I also leave no space in lines anymore and have much less personal space! I was also suprised at how much small talk cashiers make now that I've lived away! I used to be small talker, but no more! Loved this video!
@JimWorthey
@JimWorthey 5 лет назад
Here in Maryland, near Washington DC, I strive to be polite, but every situation is different. We often shop in "International" stores, where the cashiers are immigrants. Although 2 stores both span a range of Asian and Latin American cuisines, the ethnicity of the cashiers may be different. I smile and speak politely, but I have no expectation what will happen. Once I was seeking Chinese patent medicines and went in a store labelled "Asian Store." All the cashiers were pleasant-looking young women, but when I tried to ask a question, none could speak English. They sent me to the manager, who spoke little English, but explained that "Asian" meant "Japanese" in this case. In the big chain markets more people are using the robotic self-checkout, and even if you have a cashier, you keep busy pushing buttons on the little terminal that reads the credit card. I feel that I and others are friendly but there's limited opportunity for small talk.
@stilljt2864
@stilljt2864 5 лет назад
I’m an American and often how polite people are is nice but sometimes it gets annoying
@elnolde754
@elnolde754 5 лет назад
Hello You nice couple, like You both and Your Vids :-) Having big Family in America and being German and always in contact with foreigners from all over the world, speaking English and German every day, I want to change Your point of view a bit, if I may so. Since I am much older than You and having experience in cultural interaction since 40 Years I would like to point out that this differences have changed dramatically, in a positiv way. In the 60s and 70s the living was rougher and tougher here in Germany but due to that, the interaction between people was much more polite. You excused to someone when passing close or opened door for someone. But then in the 80s and 90s live was more pleasant but behavior went rude. It has really improved since then. Nowadays the cultures get more and more used to each other and I can't resist the feeling that is going for the better. And the best proof I have to underline that is: Your Video! 20 Years ago no one was interested to boggle a single Brain cell with rudeness at all. Now we can watch and enjoy a Young couple, loving each other and care about these very precious interactions between cultures and learn and improve from one another. Let alone, someone reconsider ones own behavior is proof of being "NON SUPER RUDE". Just the opposite ;-) We need more people like You, and I have the same feeling when I watch my own children interacting with others. I hope we will win ;-) Cary on
@nadinerick1182
@nadinerick1182 5 лет назад
Wait, what? Even when there's enough space in that aisle? I mean, I just went to ALDI, back and forth against the usual flow, lots of "tschuldigung"s, but then again, it WAS crowded.
@franklinnartz1381
@franklinnartz1381 4 года назад
In the Netherlands you can go by with: "Hello. No. No. The same" every Dutch person can fill in what the cashier said.
@andreasvogl330
@andreasvogl330 5 лет назад
When I moved to Norway I had to adapt quite a lot. You need to exaggerate a lot, when you think a thing is good. I'm from Lower Bavaria and the "basst scho" is the normal way to express "enthusiasm" . Not to exaggerate to excellent, fantastic or something like that can be seen as rude. You need also to praise everyone that is doing something (for you) with some exaggeration (or it feels as exaggeration with my background). This is still difficult for me, but I'm trying to adapt!
@Trifler500
@Trifler500 5 лет назад
As for walking around in a supermarket, mall, etc. I think it's normal in the U.S. to treat foot traffic similarly to car traffic. You tend to stay to the right side of the hallway, you don't bump into people, you don't cut them off. You kind of pay attention to traffic but you don't talk to anyone outside of your group. I would have thought it would be rude to cut off an old woman in any country, but I would have to be there when it happened to really say. Beyond a certain distance it isn't an issue.
@meursaultscourtroom8886
@meursaultscourtroom8886 5 лет назад
I noticed that in Germany too, it's not so much that people are rude they're just not friendly- polite. I found myself following suit fairly quickly, though to be honest I felt weird not smiling and saying excuse me!.
@yeoldegamer5112
@yeoldegamer5112 5 лет назад
Germany didn't make you rude. In the 1st case you were simply ignorant because you were mentally pre-occupied. The second one is a bit confusing as it sounds like the cashier has never had people who were in a hurry or don't like small-talk. Btw, over here people (Osnabrück area) normally say "Kann ich mal eben vorbei?" or "Darf ich da eben vorbei?". Entschuldigung alone would be unusual. And if they're younger (particularly kids) they kind of just fidget around until noticed because they're too scared or shy 😄
@stefanweigl4608
@stefanweigl4608 3 года назад
Dear Donna you become more and more sympatic to me. Your Passion you telling things in front of the camera is great. you are great. You Just have one disadvantage guess which one👍😄😄😄😉😉😉
@heinzherbert1706
@heinzherbert1706 4 года назад
Walking by in a limited space, many germans say "Entschuldigung". At least where I was brought up.
@kkensh
@kkensh 5 лет назад
Genau bei dem Beispiel was sagte wegen einkaufen, ich sage immer Entschuldigung, wenn ich irgendwo lang muss und versprerre die Sicht
@jandieken8354
@jandieken8354 5 лет назад
Seid ich vor einem Jahr aus meinem Auslandsjahr aus England zurück gekommen bin, bemerke ich wie ich genau das auch hier in Deutschland mache. 😂 Ich finde so ein bisschen Freundlichkeit kann ja nicht schaden.
@witty2u
@witty2u 5 лет назад
I'm German and I always say... Entschuldigung, darf ich mal kurz vorbei... Danke !... when I like to pass someone in our store. I do this since little and I know others who do.
@anamikaa
@anamikaa 5 лет назад
Just want to say that Stefan summed it up really well there, where he said the people are just acting according to their cultural norms and are not trying to be rude :) Also, with the supermarket aisles, in Australia we would only say excuse me if the person is in our way, in order to get them to move, or if we are blocking their view of the products. As for interacting in a transaction, we always say Hi, How are you, please, and thank you. Always. We wouldn't have chit chat beyond that, though.
@monikas.3914
@monikas.3914 5 лет назад
In Austria you actually say hi, when you go to the cashier...... You even have some small talk, when it is the supermarket you normally use
@ried_0-0_37
@ried_0-0_37 5 лет назад
Uh, happy to not live in America with my Social anxiety (still love America though)
@ried_0-0_37
@ried_0-0_37 5 лет назад
@Jonathan Parks changed it, sorry
@VenomMsk
@VenomMsk 5 лет назад
I don't like to interact with people just for interaction. Got sei Dank, ich wohne in Deutschland
@philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206
@philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206 3 года назад
I have always been greeted at the kasse in Germany with Guten tag, servos,Moin,Moin whatever, and Tschuß when leaving.
@WolfyLuna
@WolfyLuna 5 лет назад
In the Netherlands when I know how much it will be in advance I give the exact amount before it shows. I do not see this as rude myself. Of course I do say good morning/afternoon/evening (depending on the time) to the cashier.
@martinbinder2534
@martinbinder2534 5 лет назад
Even more interesting ist that Stefan wants to adapt when he is in the US. Me too, but I think this is typically German. I don't think Americans, Chinese, Arabs (you name it) think much about trying to act like the locals. It's the opposite: shop assistents, hotel employees get training how to better interact with the tourists.
@freya_the_rat6555
@freya_the_rat6555 3 года назад
Am I the only one to always say "Entschuldigung ich müsste hier Mal durch" if i walk past someone? Also, in germany we always greet elder people. Or am I the only one to do that?
@TheMoe78
@TheMoe78 5 лет назад
Well I learned cultural differences the „hard“ way. Back in 2006 I worked as a TA at Luther College in Decorah, IA. In the first few weeks, one of my students walked by and said “how are you”, I just greeted him and started talking about sth else when he stopped me and said: “no, I actually really wanted to know how you are”. Pretty embarrassing but I learned from that...
@Snowowl64
@Snowowl64 5 лет назад
I Live In Waterloo Iowa. 😁😁😁😁😁
@IsaBelliza
@IsaBelliza 5 лет назад
I’m American born and raised and I have major social anxiety (not enough to keep me locked at home because I make myself leave the house) and i am just like Dana. I get in get what I want and get out. I hand the cashier the item and the money at the same time and I hate small talk. Maybe it’s less the social anxiety and the fact that I’m German/Irish/english/welsh so it’s genetically in me lol
@jkb2016
@jkb2016 5 лет назад
No, it's the social anxiety.
@martianpudding9522
@martianpudding9522 5 лет назад
I actually feel like if you tried doing something like constantly saying excuse me in a German supermarket people might find you rude because they feel like you're crying for attention.
@Anson_AKB
@Anson_AKB 5 лет назад
if there is enough space that carts may pass each other (even if it is only a few centimeters, one inch) which is the case in many smaller and medium supermarkets, permanently saying "excuse me" would make an impression on other people as if shouting "Platz da, jetzt komm ich" ("out of my way, here i come")
@horstboss7855
@horstboss7855 5 лет назад
If I have to cross someone's vision (like walk between the person and the isle), I sure say "excuse me", too. Wouldn't say that's something for the states only. It's just a matter of good behaviour. =)
@VenomMsk
@VenomMsk 5 лет назад
I was in the USA one time and that was like nightmare if somebody came in the same elevator i was in. They started to talk to me! I knew i schould communicate, but it was realy terrible for me. Btw I'm russian.
@jkb2016
@jkb2016 5 лет назад
The horror! "Why are you talking to me? I did nothing wrong!"
@kirstenkunert5420
@kirstenkunert5420 5 лет назад
I am apologozing the whole time I am in a supermarket, maybe it is regionally different?🤔
@FalkeChr
@FalkeChr 4 года назад
Das hört sich immer so an, dass man in Deutschland rude sein muss. EINE freundliche Bemerkung zu der Kassiererin, shocked she and she ist absolutly friendly in the future
@martinweizenacker7129
@martinweizenacker7129 5 лет назад
Ich arbeite sogar in einem Supermarkt und trotzdem wäre ich nicht im Entferntesten auf die Idee gekommen, mich zu entschuldigen, wenn ich zwischen einem Kunden und dem Regal vorbeigehe, auf das der Kunde schaut. Aber davon fühlt sich hier auch zum Glück keiner gestört.
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