GET HOT WITH ME FOR VALENTINE'S DAY❤️ 

I’m now 41 years old and can relate to what you are feeling, but here some things I’ve learned: there will always be stress, but you can’t control everything, so find peace in things you can.. never forget your inner child, keep life fun and playful, and keep visiting your parents a lot, they will always see you as the baby they raised and love all your quirks ☺️

KAYLI YOU ARE SERIOUSLY MY COMFORT PLATFORM YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH MOTIVATION YOU GIVE ME, YOU ARE ALWAYS SO REALISTIC WHICH IS HONESTLY JUST THE BEST ILYY

A quote I often come back to when I start to get anxious about aging is "never regret getting older, it is a privilege denied to many" and it genuinely helps. When I was 23 I lost a really good friend to cancer and he's forever 24 and that's always a shock to my system. Life is hard and weird, but in the grand scheme of things we aren't here that long and we may as well try to find joy where we can. And we should normalize not equating success with happiness. I'm 100% at my happiest when I'm browsing Barnes and Noble and taking long car rides and listening to podcasts. Sometimes, most times, it's the small moments that make us the happiest and we always seem to forget that.

Just a heads-up, some lilies can be extremely toxic to cats, to the point that even licking some pollen off their fur can give them fatal kidney disease. I can't tell from the short clip what kind you have (looks like asiatic lilies? which are toxic) but please look into it and if necessary carefully remove the lilies from your house and take your cats to the vet. If that kind is safe for them, thank god!! And sorry if you already know, I'm not trying to accuse you because lilies are SO common in floral arrangements and not everyone knows they can be fatal for cats.

I am a 32 yo just rediscovering make up and I love learning from your videos. Sending you warm comforting hugs from across the ocean!

Kayli- It's true that your videos make people feel comforted, not alone, and generally bring people so much joy. I get such a big serotonin boost every time I open my RU-vid to see your video at the top. I know being a RU-vidr, it's basically your job to bring people happiness, but in life, please remember it is not your responsibility! No one person can make everyone happy, especially not an audience of thousands of people. I'm sorry you've been stressed. I seriously really appreciate the content you put out, I relate to you on so many levels and you really feel like a friend almost as weird as that may be because it's the internet! But I love the talking portions of your videos honestly. I'm 19 and have also been having a crisis sort of situation with accepting that my childhood is over, and how overbearing it feels to become an adult. You're not alone. We will always have our inner child and ways in which we can connect to stress free ways of life we experienced when we were little. But I know it's hard to remember that when it's a constant struggle. Anyways, that was kind of a book, but I appreciate you.

Please NEVER stop over talking ❤ I need people like you expressing their feelings about adulthood IT SUCKS THANK YOU

This is so comforting to me, it almost made me cry. I'm turning 20 this year and it just doesn't feel real. You made me feel so safe and warm and not alone. Thank you for all that you do. You inspire me to be myself and do what i love. Please don't ever change. You're amazing! xoxo

Thank you, Kayli. My depression has gotten really bad recently and I was about to cry tonight, but as soon as I started watching this video, I couldn't help but smile. You made me feel SO MUCH better and I love you SO INSANELY much. Your channel will always be the place that will cheer me up when other things can't. Thank you for everything!

Keep doing you girlie, we love the conversation. I’m in my thirties and I get what you mean about the loss of your childhood. Your twenties feel like you live a lifetime and you grow so much. You just have to ride the waves of highs and lows, and that’s how you find that identity 😘 love your channel and calming content! Thanks for the video!

Everything you said after you mentioned your apartments, is very valid. I’ve always felt the same way. I’m very close with my family and I struggle not living with them anymore. And hate my apartment also. I hate having other people around all the time it’s hard to explain but I feel like we’re aware of everyone else all the time and I just hate it

I’m having a major existential crisis too and you talking about your experience felt so conforting to me. I love your videos so much !

You know what this was such a nice video, I just sat and dyed my brows and lashes and did a whole skin spa routine on myself whilst watching you, and it felt like I was getting ready with a mate, honestly people who don’t like these videos and want it to be short and to the point need to find that elsewhere rather than making you do what pleases them. You keep doing you bub. ♥️

DO NOT LISTEN TO THE HATE! YOU ARE PERFECT just the way you are seriously. You are so unique and valuable and how much you talk and how you talk is SO calming. Please keep doing whats authentic to you and literally don't read the shitty comments please.

You’re one of the RU-vidrs where it feels like FaceTime❤️ I love your videos and you’ve helped me sm with hair care and I appreciate it, hope you’re always in a place where you feel good and cared for

That red looked absolutely stunning on you I literally gasped

OMG Kayli you’re LITERALLY expressing my thoughts when you talk about missing high school and not caring about anything and stuff. All that is so goddamn relatable I can’t🥲I also totally miss that particular period in my life, when my biggest problem used to be something like whether someone liked me or not and stuff, totally the same thing you told. I CAN TOTALLY FEEL THAT CRAP OF THE DAMN ADULTHOOD

I love that you talk as much as you do ... and how real you are. No show 🤗 feels more like a friend and less like a picture perfect influencer.... which is perfect. Thank you 😊

Keep talking kayli, thats one of the reasons why i love your videos so much!🫶🏻

Kayli please NEVER STOP TALKING. I love your chatty videos and i relate to every word you said about mourning your childhood/teen years and stressing over money. And I’m 23. Life just passes by. Take it one step at a time❤

Thanks for the cute v-day vid! i'm single this year and so i celebrated by getting tattooed 💖 also i SUPER relate to the feeling lost/discontent/overwhelm of being an adult with responsibilities in my early 20s. i'm 23 and i definitely value jobs and schedules that allow me more freedom to just *be*.

I love how you talk about whats going on in your life, what you like, just casual stuff. I find it really comforting and relaxing, like I'm chatting with a friend. Love your content, hope you're doing well

You talking about your struggles is painful but a relief at the same time - I can't relate to anybody but you recently and I find so so much comfort in just KNOWING you and hearing about all the stuff that you share and about what's going on in your life - I know you don't know me but I would put my hand in fire for you! Staying consistent is hard but for as long as you can do RU-vid I would LOVE for you to keep going 🥰

I love long videos with you talking a lot, because it feels like we're on facetime and its so comforting. 🥰

You are one of my favorite youtubers! Please don't ever speed up and leave us wondering what you are thinking/talking about Also you look beautiful! 💜 hope you can fight through this weird stage of financial stress and anxiety about getting old

i'm gonna be 22 this year, and i feel the same as you do regarding stress. also i love that you talk about anything and everything, it's just comforting

I love when you talk in ur videos because it feels like I'm talking to a friend, and its just such a peaceful and comforting space

U are the onlyyyyy RU-vidr I never skip through I relate to how u feel so muchhhh I graduate next year and I just love my family so much and being young it makes me kinda sad it’s almost over...I love ur videos they make my day!!❤

It’s not talked about enough how difficult your 20s are! I never felt like I was home in apartments and it feels like it will last FOREVER. I promise it gets better!!!❤❤❤❤

The red looked amazing!!

you're my comfort influencer

I love to watch videos where you talk, I prefer that rather than hearing just music 💗💗

Please continue talking so much. Your viedeos are so comforting and chill. You are great and don’t listen to haters, because you are gorgeous and beautiful

I love these type of videos 💝 thank you ma’am ily sending so much love

Girlllll, you look amazing with red lipstick, I love your videos and I feel a great peace when I watch them, I feel close to you! kisses from Brazil my dear 🇧🇷😚♥️

i agree guys should also get something for vday! i live in japan atm and here the girls give the guys something chocolate and then one month later the guys give something back so i made my partner some chocolate muffins

Idk why she doesnt have like over a million subs. She is honeslty my favouritye youtuber to watch. Love you Kayli

girl usually it's hard for me to watch videos when people talk, but that's my favorite thing about your videos. they're just so relaxing, and i can watch you get ready all the time... in a not weird way lol. but also i have the fattest insecurity about my lips being pale too! i always gotta be applying tinted balms!

The cake and strawberries are sooo cute! 💞😭🫶🏼

I just turned 22 and I definitely relate to this struggle. I also had loud neighbors move in above me and it really makes me hate my position in life, it feels impossible to find peace. It feels like everyone's goal in life is to be happy, and for me the goal is to just be at peace, I'm tired of the choas. It feels impossible to be calm at this age in this society because if I don't work toward a future now I might be stuck feeling this way forever.

I’m 34 and you are comforting to watch, keep doin you girl.

i love how much you talk! it feels like I'm catching up with an old friend

I love these type of videos, they help me feel less alone and just know you’re not alone with all of the stress of being in your 20s 😭 sending love 💕

I'm one of the people that enjoys these types of videos. They are super comforting🥰

9:15 I feel this so much!! You are the most relatable RU-vidr I have ever watched I’m so thankful you are you!!

I love you so much because you remind me of one of my good friends. I love you personality and feeling like I’m on FaceTime with you! ❤️❤️❤️

Hey, i found you're channel two days ago and i can already tell that im gonna be watching your video's a lot. You give a really comforting and save feeling and i feel so relaxt while watching your video's. I hope you're feeling well

Our hair is the same length atm and I want waist length hair as well so it’s nice we’re in it together haha 💓

I absolutely love that you share this kind of private things about your mental heath. i do not think that you are talking too much, everytime i am watching your video i feel soooo comfortable! i am like talking to my friend. thank you some much for that! i feel the same things you feel about growing up

girl ab the birthday thing, ME TOO. i have so much anxiety every time i think about getting older and all my responsibilities

Girl please never stop making these!! these are so. comforting and make me feel so girly and feminine watching these ✨❣ I LOVE U

I love it when you talk, it makes the videos much more fun, relatable and human.

girl i LOVE how much you talk in your videos, it’s so comforting and nice to watch while doing other things ❤

You do not talk too much at all !! It literally is almost like we’re on a FaceTime call or something and I constantly look for videos to watch while I’m doing makeup or literally anything and I love your channel for that. Your videos and content are great, I’m glad I found your channel a few months ago!! 💜

noooooo the red was so pretty !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Honey, I love your videos, they’ve been helping with my anxiety SO MUCH

I loooove your blowout hair omg! also you might not think it's groowing bc if you do blowouts then when your hair curls it springs up - the shrinkage is REALLLL lemme tell you. I have naturally curly hair and it looks like its like half the length it actually is

You should do a red lip more! It really suits u

Girl you are literally the queen of blowouts. Your hair looks amazing and I wish I could do them like thatttt!!!

I LOOOOVE when you talk I low key hope to hear you speak it truly is comforting just do you

Aww I had the same thing when I was like 22. A few years later and it gets a lot better! You’ll get more confident and realize that no one really knows what they’re doing and we’re just kind of learning as we go along - and that’s okay. You’re doing GREAT and in a few years you’ll look back and be so proud of yourself! You got thi

I really love your videos and how much you talk! Definitely feels like a facetime call and very comforting 💗

i love how you talk, you are very amusing and i could listen to you all day! People that hate on others rlly need to re-evaluate their own lives and focus on their self. You are doing something they can't and keep doing it!!!

I really enjoy your videos and listening to you just chilling and talking it's like facing time a close friend. I get so excited when I got a notification from you

Watching your videos always makes me feel like I’m talking with my comfort person and I love it 💗🫠

RU-vid just recommended your channel to me and I'm in love! You're so cute, so relatable and your hair is amazing! Also, you look gorgeous on the red lipstick too! Kisses from Brazil.

Pleaseee don’t do a short version of videos! I looooove your long videos!

My dude I'm sorry you're going through it. Honestly I feel like everyone once they move out has a similar realization. I did too and trust me it gets better you start to love your independence. Stay strong girly love your vids 🥰

I love the hang out FaceTime videos ❤❤ agree those people who don’t like listening to you talk can go somewhere else. You’re so beautiful

I feel you soooo much about the growing up and having these weird blues surrounding my birthday! Also love your talking videos so keep doing whatever you love 🫶🏼🖤

I literally watch to hear your updates! I love how candid you are, a lot of what you said in this one really hits home for what I'm going through right now. If people don't want to hear what you have to say then they can head back to tiktok. Love you ❤️

Girl the red lips suited u so well

i love your videos talking. u should post whatever u want. don't let anyone take u down.

wow finally I can relate to someone, I think it's a 20's thing that feeling of don't being sure about anything just like being between a position of having to take important decisions but at the same time not being sure if you are able to do it

I love your videos, including the talking. It's been a while since I had a comfort RU-vidr for makeup/hair videos and your vids are perfect. Hope you had a good valentine's!

As a mom of 4 and they are all around your age and getting ready to go out on their own, my advice is yes it is stressful, but that is life… come visit mom and dad bc home is a familiar safe place and no matter what, momma will always send food home with ya for the week. Lol. Enjoy the journey… it really does fly by

Congratulations, sounds like you're having a quarter-life crisis 🥳💔 Creeped up on me and my friends too at about 23-24. You can tell someone is having it by the panicked "what am I supposed to do with my life help" look in their eyes. It usually passes on its own when you realize more and more that noone really knows what they're doing, everyone is just figuring things out as they go. Helps you develop an "eh, oh well, it'll be fine" attitude, which I highly recommend.

I love your videos, they are my comfort zone. Keep doing what you feel like, Kayli. If you feel like talking, talk and if someone does not like that then they can simply skip that part or wait until you upload one that is short and you not talking. I love long videos and especially when the RU-vidr speaks so. Do you girl

bro this is my favorite youtuber from now on i'm not even kidding

IDk if you are going to see this lol but for the cake, try to whisk the eggs and the sugar (if that is what you have in the recipe) longer for more volume in the batter

I loved that red lipstick it looked so good with that hair ❤

Thank you for talking me out of cutting my hair short and layered, by myself, today lol

Ngl, the red lipstick was amazing with your hair.

"I lowkey love it" your guy is the sweetest ❤ but even sweeter, who are you? Making valnetines day cake and looking THAT beautiful. U slay sis, slaaay 🔥

Kayli, I really like you! In most of the time I fell like we already know each other... you are so relatable and such a comfy/shiny/funny person. You helped me in many different topics like self-love or to just grow up. I'm really glad you are existing and making vídeos somewhere in this crazy planet. - kisses from Brasil!🇧🇷 (sorry about my english guys**** please feel free to correct the mistakes)

Your prom picture was so pretty omg

girl dont listen to the haters i love hearing you talk lol, its comforting Im literally doing my homework while watching this it feels like a podcast of sorts. I like long talking videos from certain people and you are one of them so don't stop keep going! And I think for the people hating these get ready with me videos just arent for them so they can either watch or click off 🤦‍♀ Im sorry you havent been feeling the best I hope things get better for you!!!

❤️ Aww! Everything looked so cute! Love the Valentines Day effort ❤️ Yeah I agree that I enjoy the "hanging out" kind of videos its especially great for those of us that don't live near any friends or have any friends. It's een crazy watching you kind of grow up over the last several years. Hoping you find a balance of letting yourself be the kid you are and want to be as you start aging. Adults are really just grown up kids.

I love the conversational videos they’re so cozy 😊💕

My fave lil white RU-vid girlie😭🙌 every time you post I have to drop everything to watch.

the cake looked so cutteeee! I love the way you make your videos, its intimate i feel like we're friends

smart dude. don’t ever tell your girl you don’t like something she made. i love this channel. dont listen to people who put you down. you are awesome.

Hi Kayli! I just found your channel yesterday and I love your videos. I feel like I've learned so much about taking better care of my hair and I'm so inspired to start incorporating some of your tips and techniques into my routine. Your hair is gorgeous and I really appreciate your chats and personality too. How anybody could hate on you is beyond me!! I appreciate you :)

10:16 girl, i watch these videos while i do my makeup and I LOVE doing this it's like i have company and when u ( and by u i mean any girl who talks in her makeup videos) say smth i relate to I would be saying yeah, mhm, i get u, i agree, yk?? It's like i really have a conversation w someone and it's sooo good. Just keep doing what u're doing and don't give those mean comments a shit

I LOVE to listen to you talking!!!!❤ keep going! The videos ARE so comforting!! Love your videos so much! I would love to be your friend!

omg I'm french and I'm just discovering your chanel and omg I love so much your videos and the way you talk to us , I litteraly feel like I know you since my childhood , anyway love you

anyone in 2024 rewatching this because kayli is ur comfort channel?

Hi Kayli! I found your channel a few weeks ago via the Vogue recreations and I absolutely love you! I love how good you are with hair, makeup, nails and generally everything. You’re mellow and calming and I think for a young 20’s chick, you have an extremely good handle on life. I felt what you meant by aging out of childhood in your early 20’s. I remember going through that too and my heart melted for you. I’m glad you spent time with your parents when your heart told you you needed them. ❤ please keep up the good work you do. I love watching your videos. I’m in my late 30’s and am trying to get my hair game under control. You make it look effortless and professional and I am in awe by your skills! Great job 👏

That red lip on you…!!!! 🤩❤ you looked like an old Hollywood movie star!!

I’m 33 and when I get sad about getting older. I think about all the experiences I’ve had and I still have more to experience.