Hey Aditya, I like this idea and it is great. However, without cash flow, you can’t rent a flat. Since my parents can’t afford to pay the rent, it will indirectly increase their burden. It’s crucial to secure cash flow before leaving the house, especially for a middle-class family
Thh I come from lower middle class my father owns nothing literally nor he has anything under his sleeves. In such kind of conditions leaving your parents is just nearly impossible. Money matters real when you don't even have it in sufficient.
@@firstmasculinee Mera to padhai karke du au university mein selection hone ka number as gaya tha and maine kaha bhi ki mujhe registation karne do inki site pe college ke liye waha akele rahunga... But everybody said: abhi chote ho yahi pe rehkr padhai karo govt. jobs ki kai sari vacancy nikli hai uski taiyari karo ek bar naukri lag jaye fir jo karna hoga karna thode bade ho jao... (and my family is very sufficient in terms of finance) but even then Sala ek mauka tha ghar se jane ka wo bhi chala gaya, maine to unki baat hi ki acche no. laya but meri family mein koi ye nahi socha... F#ck! 1 week baad jakr main thoda cool hua hoon... But bahut dard ho raha h..
Aditya bhaiya I really want to move out but my father have a business which is totally managed by me bcz my father health condition is not good that's the reason " I don't move out "...
The best of the stories are derived from the hardest of struggles. My parents are constantly insisting me to take college in my local city (its a well recognised govt institute). But I know living here will destroy me more than studying outside in a local college. Thanks bhaiya. Aur beech me jyada gaali na dene ke liye shukriya😂. Ye wala video me kam se kam papa ko convience karne ko suna sakta hu. Agar nhi maane toh. Haha
Now I think the best course of action in this case is to go out from the house and just learn about different things. Instead of doing it until the person is 18 or 20 years old, why do I say that? Because now we are living in the modern era, not the ancient era where 12-year-old males had to go to wars. And in this era, getting work is kind of difficult especially for 15 or 12-year-old boys. That's why I think it's better if the person just learns about those things instead of doing it, until his age is 18 and 20 because at that time it becomes easier to handle those things. But if you are a person who likes difficulty, then sure you can go ahead and do those tasks earlier. But remember, my recommendation will be just to learn it instead of doing it. And, I don't think a person really has to go away from his parents' house to achieve and do those tasks. I think a person can gain his own money, his own food, his own clothes, and still live in his parents' home. So, that's why I don't think a person really has to leave his parents to achieve those things you are saying.
"The greatest stories sre derived from the hardest struggles" How do i make my parents accept that i want to move out cause its very hard + i got no job to pay for pg my clg is starting im 18 and my inner self is saying me to move out
Bhai tumhari bat to 100% shi hai par parents samjne to chahiye , unhe aesa hi lagta hai ki agar hamara ladka bahar nikla to use kuchh ho jaega , uski ye sab krne ki age nhi hai.
Bro right now im earning enough money for food, and other expenses. The housing and bills are bing paid but hopefully in future i will cover the bills been doing this since 18 and currently 19. Would you recommend the full expenses to athletes? And what is the ideal age?
Literally yar mera bhi yahi problem hai main move out kar ke kisi alag jagah par rehna chahta hun jahan ache se apne carier par focus kar sakon but ...... 💔😢
Bhai tune sahi kaha ghr pr koi kam krne ka man ni krta chah k v ni kr skta kuki comfort zone ki habit pdh gyi h ab pdhne v jata hu to library jata hu but koi skill ni h bahar jake kya kruga
Aditya bhai i adore your thoughts And i want to know your views on family business Many of us are stuck in problems of family business like what should a person choose family business or get a job please make a video on that
Bhi nikal kay karay kya jb apky pas paisay hi nhi ap khuch kamaty hi nhi to rent ka kharcha kon de ga or sb kharchy kon puray kry ga pehly apny ghr beht kr kamao phir niklna chaiye i think so
This is the thing i realised long time back, dad's super poor, and he has his fuckin ego, he has made a name for himself outside, is dominant and says things straight up to others, is associated with a political party and puts effort in that party, spends time with wealthy people, and i believe due to it he has become a bit fake, for him what matters is "respect" at the cost of even having to fake a little bit, that's what i see, he wouldn't feel good about me doing some small world, i don't have a computer system, just this laggy phone, he doesn't have money to get me a lappy, and heck he doesn't even have money to send me for my masters, i have to move out of my house, am afraid where the fuck will i go, I've been the afraid type since childhood, cause my dad was the really angry type and way too dominant in a toxic way, i became opposite of him, and i have no dominance, now i am learning its important, if i would go out i dunno where, and he'll get angry, but if I'll stay here, all he'll do is give me three times of food and a roof, and he thinks he is making me live like a king, me just being in my room, i don't feel motivated, just traped in my room, away from people, i feel good in socialising, but i prefer being at home cause if i go out he gets angry, that i keep going out, I'll have to move out to be able to build, i am a looser and will have to change that, if i won't take action now, I'll never be able to become someone peaceful in his life, i reached 22 age this month, i seriously need to do something now... Thanks for this video, it caused me to take the moving out part more seriously. True freedom and content is experienced by taking the risk to face your demons and letting yourself experience it all, then you truly are not afraid of feeling, nor afraid of expressing , you take the risk and you become free.... And I've done things in the past that validates this.
I am 17 I don't even have bank account pan card how can I move out me and my brother we are ready to move out but we are under 18 no pan card and bank account. There is ultra luxury and comfort in parents house, i know cannot become the man I want to become by staying in their house. Also should we move out in pg or flat
Bhaiya lekin abhi mai 10th me hu or maa baap keh rhe ki education puri krle 12th fir jo marji kariyo (mai abhi 15 ka hu ) maa baap ko convince kaise kre ki hum ghar chodne ke kabil hai . Or bhaiya agar hamne ghar chhod bhi diya to mai abhi khi se kama hi nhi rha or mujhe . Koi bhi kam krne me koi. Bhi dikkat nhi hai lekin mere maa baap mujhe vo nhi krne denge . Kya karu fir .
Dude instead of teaching people good shitt you are making people do the opposite. Independent and all is good but the real thing is you just have to become rich, not leaving house and living in separately and paying for everything yourself but hey? You are still an npc doing 9-5 passionless slavery, the Goal should be escaping the brain rot and rat race and I'm not saying this to the people who want to be a doctor to genuinely help the society but those kind of people who will be dying from inside with regrets for Not living up what they always wanted to. Paying current bills, or doing other small stuffs like this is nothing of you rich all these things be done by manager (rich people don't waste there time on shopping or paying their taxes or any kind bills by themselves they got people who can do so they can use that time to make more money), but yes one should have basic finances management skills and decent life skills but saying be yourself and independent doesn't. Millions of people in western countries like US, UK, Canada etc leave their parents after 18 and most of these people become drug addicts, p0rn, bad lifestyle (junk is super cheap, right?) and overall life becomes sh! tty and also you know 0nly fans works great in US why? Why would a person living with a family would watch that shitt lol it's easy to get addicted to stuff when you got no one in life 😅
Exactly. Mujhe ke lagta hai ye indirectly agli video me bolega ki ab mera course lelo creed me aa jao taaki financially independent ho jaao.. Bro jab ghar pe man nhi lag raha toh bahar ghanta lagega.. In fact iska worse ho sakta hai tum lonely ho jao aur kuch na kar pao if you don't have proper goal toh sb jagh chize kharab hi hai.. Btw I have my own channel related to this category - @kento.cult
