I couldn’t be more grateful for this video! My parents are divorced and both are having health issues. Our older kids (21 & 23) moved in with my dad and our youngest son, hubby and I moved in with my mom. It’s been a tremendous adjustment living with my mom. I know it’s not “her” that says the awful, hurtful and horrible things she says- it’s her illness, but it is truly TOUGH! I miss our kids fiercely even though we are only about 10 mins away. Everyone’s jobs and schedules are all over the place. Your vid was truly needed and I thank you for being so “Frank”! Much love & encouragement from my heart to you! ❤
An AWESOME event that happened in April of 2023 I retired at 59 yrs old Y E S ! Never thought this would be possible, as I raised three boys alone working two, sometimes three jobs to support them, W O W !
❤ Frank! Praying for a wonderful 2024 for you and your husband. You both deserve it. I got hold of my health in 2023. I’ve lost about 90 pounds. This year, I want to continue with my health journey. Thank you for all you AND Dave do for your viewers and for always being real with us. ❤
I didn't think this was a downer at all! Great job and very interesting! You are so beautiful and you make me laugh! I love your videos! I turned 50 and I am fairly cautious with my style. You help me look at individual pieces separately and teach me how to work them into my closet. Thank you for all the hard work!
Your story really encouraged me! Thank you for sharing your story. I can see that obstacles don’t mean defeat! I know that God works all things together for my good. God bless you.
You cannot compare your trials with anyone else’s. The stress still affects you and stress hormones will mess up your body. I found meditation and yoga helped me. Night sweats just suck. Give yourself grace and allow for time to take care of yourself. You have brought joy to me during my recent hard times so thank you❤.
You are such a trooper Jen! God bless you and Dave! I can relate so much! The past few years have been a Rollercoaster for us. I won't get into it too much, but we lost our oldest son in 2016, and my husband almost died in 2021. Sending you much love! I support you 100%!❤❤😊
I just love you and could hang out with you all day😂 I'm so happy Lexapro is working for you and you have your best friend next door. I am going to be praying for you today. I'm so sorry about Tilly. You will never forget this year. You are back on track with your mental health and promotion and weight. I had to live with my parents in a tiny house and take care of my grandma who died 2 weeks after I brought her home from the nursing home. Then stayed another 10 months to take care of my mom. She died unexpectedly June 22, 2021. It is very hard. My mom had been abusive in every way until I was 15 and hit back. I am a Christian and depend on God for everything. I don't think I could have done it without faith and prayer. Hugs to you and Dave❤
Frank! We had a similar year….moved 12 hours, did it ourselves. Sold a multi-gen house, rented a house and bought a multi-gen house. I work from home, husband started a new job. Been a ride! Multi-gen living isn’t easy, with all I have learned, I would do it very different. Completely separate buildings is the way to go!
Thank you for sharing. I’m a firm believer that what doesn’t kill us will make us stronger. I hope everything moving forward goes in the best direction for you and your family. ❤️
I welcomed 2 new grandsons in 2023. My daughter had a very difficult pre-term birth and their son stayed in the NICU for 5 weeks. They rented an efficiency apartment across the street from the hospital the entire time. I’m happy to say that little family is doing well now!
WE NEED MORE of THESE VIDEOS!! Loved it! Sorry about everything that you went through! Thank you for being honest about your mental health! I can relate!!❤
Awe Jen, hang in there girl…..I am so sorry to hear about your rough patch, unfortunately I think most of us can totally relate. Give yourself some grace and never loose your sense of humor, it will serve you well😉 hugs❤ FRANK❤❤❤❤
Well, now you are a real person to me, not just that pretty lady that shops a lot and makes me laugh. I’m sorry you had so many struggles in 2023, the loss of your Tilly has got to be a constant weight on your heart. But look at all you have now! Frank, Dave, a new pup, a new home, a flourishing career, a best friend neighbor! Riches! 2023 was a banner year for me - I got engaged at the age of 64! Yes, good things happen when you aren’t looking sometimes! And I retired. And so maybe I gained a few pounds also, but you have to know what’s most important- happiness. Look forward to seeing you glide gracefully thru 2024, styled like a diva! Keep being real!❤
Living with family, extended family is not always easy. Someone often feels screwed over and someone often wants to sometimes unknowingly so the king of the castle. The other thing is a mistake people often make is putting the older adults upstairs or downstairs in a basement. As people age stairs are a big no. I would never consider putting older adults in a living situation where daily stairs are a requirement. Hopefully things turn around for you. Still love your channel.
Thanks. I mean we did think about that. The plans for our old home were 100% handicap accessible with wide doorways, a walk in handicap shower and stair lifts. So are the apartments. We really did try to think of everything.
You are really inspiring me to make some changes. Keep up the amazing content. You rock lady! I've been on the perimenopause train and now menopause (yuck). You can make it through. I definitely recommend getting all the hormones checked. I took many vitamins and got on the antidepressants. It helps. It's definitely a roller coaster ride. Best thing is to find a doctor that specializes in women's issues. I went through many doctors that just didn't have a clue. Good luck! You got this!
Hahaha I had the same moment! Although mine is more that my fiancé and I share a walk in closet and it is definitely 80% my stuff, including the tall dresser that he only just realized he has 2 drawers for his things and offered one of them up. I have a LOT of stuff. 🤣
I think 2023 was a tough year for A LOT of people-- maybe it was a year we need to chalk up to re-emerging from a very weird time --maybe it was always going to be something we just needed to trudge thru to get to the other side of….good riddance to it regardless! Hoping 2024 is smoother going! I plan on doing as much traveling as I can in 2024…I have two big trips planned already and am very excited and happy to have something positive to look forward to. I love all your content, I actually really enjoy the long, chatty videos! I will be here for whatever you choose to post ❤
I start my day with your videos because of you definitely uplift me. Thank you! Definitely talk to your doctor about the lexapro because both sweats and weight gain are pretty common side effects.
I enjoyed this video. I would love to see your renovations in videos. Please ignore the Instagram hate. It’s going around on all types of content on there.
Hey Jen: I’m in my mid Sixties. We built a multi-generational house 30 years ago to facilitate my in laws (snow birds) The situation worked well for years… however that changed drastically as of late. A lot of stress and conflict ensued unfortunately and I crave my privacy. Good luck Jen I’m having to rewatch your posts until you return. Love your channel💕
I Frank - ing ❤ you. Thanks for the life update. We are doing the multi generational lifestyle change. My mom can’t live at home by herself anymore with her four dogs so we are selling our home, selling her home, and buying a home together. so she’ll either have an ADU or the whole basement??? We have been searching and searching for the right property for months. so many have been sold out from underneath us. It has been crazy out here in California. So many people are paying cash for homes. They are going very quickly and it’s hard to find the type of home and the size of Home with all the things were looking for At a decent price. I am so glad things are working out for you. Hopefully 2024 will be a better year. Wishing you all well. Take care, Tracey.
The best thing that happened to me in 2023 was my daughter came home for a little bit. For 2024, is do the clutter and to TRY MY BEST to get the hubby on board. ❤❤❤
❤Frank---I'm so sorry that you had to go through all that stuff but glad it worked out in the end. Best of luck in the new house and with the multigenerational living. Looking forward to more videos from you!
2023: I had 2 surgeries but also got to see the US Women's National Team at the World Cup in NZ and AUS and also got to take my Mom on a Christmas markets cruise in Europe! 2024 has started with me finally starting my small business. Your 2023 was full of crazy but I'm glad you have a supportive partner- makes such a difference! Frank-ly I'm not surprised that you persevered. We don't know each other in person but you exide your character in your videos. Hoping 2024 is less stressful for you. Almost forgot- there are different antidepressants that can help with hot flashes and night sweats as well as depression and anxiety. Just ask your doctor what your options are.
Always enjoy your videos regardless of what they are! I started a new job in a whole new profession in 2023 and also with my son purchased a mini donut trailer, so 2024 is gonna be awesome and full of fun 🤑🍩 keep up the good work and all your spunk😘💜FrAnK💜
Oh my!!!!! Trying to at least listen to your video! 😂😂 You both went through a lot! Ugh!!! Im sorry gf!! My 2023 wasn't the best year, but one great thing that happened was that I got a job in a great hospital where I can do so much for the patients. Not for their physical health but mostly for their emotional health. I laugh and cry with them! As soon as I graduate I plan to work in Hospice so that opportunity has been a great start! Looking forward for this year and what it will bring! I found the answer to that!! When people ask me how do I do this and that, how do I still have time, etc. 😂 I used to say: "I dont know". They got me thinking 😂😂 And the simple answer is I JUST DO IT! Meaning that I am in auto mode. Thanks for sharing gf!!! Glad you and Mr. Real got the money back. I can't wait to have my own house. Thought it was going to be sooner but with what happened in 2023, have to wait! Maybe 2 years from now. But I always get so excited when others get their own house! Makes me happy!!! ☺️☺️☺️
FRANK! ❤ I enjoy watching your videos. You keep cookin dem looks, and dont let Haters "Hate". Could you do some looks from Torrid? I would love to see you style their clothes. 😊
Jen you are beautiful inside and out and so very sorry you had to go through all of this, but so glad you did and that things are getting better. Also sorry for you loss of T, we list our pup last sept. 🐶🧡 Please keep the vids! Coming ❤FRANK. lOVE YA! BYEE! 😘
Frank!!!!❤ Haha that's my middle son's name and he's a real-estate developer here in Pittsburgh and he got a kick outta that!!😂 I'm so sorry you got so stressed out, ugh that's quite a story. Hope things go much more smoothly here on out!!!
So sorry you had all this on your plate! And so sorry to hear about Tilly 😢 I love your videos and they help get through my own problems in a weird way - I think you make me laugh off my stuff more. Thanks for that! Can’t wait for all your 2024 videos. ❤
Damn you are amazing! Most people would crack under those circumstances. So happy it worked out in the end. I am sorry about your doggie, I know how heartbreaking that is. Here’s to 2024 being a better year!
So sorry about your pup, it’s heart breaking and I feel for you, I hope the new puppy is healing your heart, Jen. We had a home buying/selling situation this last year too and it’s so stressful. Glad you’re on the upside of that. Excited to see the progress on the home channel. 🤩💓
Hi Jen, I love your content ❤ and thank you so much for the life update. 2023 was great for me I got offered an early retirement from my job that I worked for 23 years and I am only 56!! 😁❤💃🏽We also recently moved to Florida 🏝 so this retirement happened at the perfect time. I also gained about 25 pounds as well from 2020-2023 due to menopause. I get hot flashes 🔥 then a few minutes later I am freezing .🥶 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ This year I also plan to take control of my health as well. Please include updates on your home and apartment renovations. 😍😉
Girl I’m exhausted just listening to this. You are so strong. Yep 2023 sucked but 2024 is a new year to look forward to. Start by putting yourself first. That is so important. I started my health journey in 2017 when my husband got diagnosed with prostate cancer and my grandson got diagnosed with autism. That set my in a downward spiral. I started working out and taking my health back. Find time to take walks it really helps. Keep the videos coming. I would love to see videos duping high end outfits. This girl is on a budget. 😂
What a great video , im glad your year ended well. I'm glad i found our channel , Just to let you know. And very sorry for your loss of your pet . 😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You should be proud of yourself Jenn- that’s a lot to go through. Looking forward to your vlogs in 2024! Would love to see some organization tips, travel, a day in the life, date night, health journey videos. Wishing you the very best ❤️👏🙏❤️🌸
Frank! 2023 tried you on multiple fronts and you did not let it win, proud of you!! My success for 2023 - I took a break. Work was physically too demanding and I took a break, these 12 weeks have been restorative. I'm 42 and definitely in peri menopause, I waited til I was in a murderous rage before talking to my gyn, don't be like me. Estrogen patch has been a lifesaver, for me and others :)
Holy moly! Your 2023 was ROUGH! But kudos to you for making it through and still serving up great content for us! I loved this style of video, and I vote sharing more about periomenopause and those changes as I'm approaching that myself and not many influencers talk about it🙂 In 2023, I went back to school (to hopefully make a career change).
❤so Frank. I love that you call Dave your personal manager. I feel like even without having a second career that in marriage someone has to be the manager. I get called the Boss a lot and I’m pretty sure I’m doing a half ass job personally managing that guy. Micromanaging, setting ambiguous quality goals, inadequate feedback….so corporate. I’m so glad stuff is working out for you. Last couple years have been a little rough for us with loss of parents and pets and I’m more than likely to lose another parent soon but. Big butt. Super secret. Like anyone here knows me. I’m gonna be a grandma. My daughter is barely pregnant and doesn’t want to announce it but like who ya gonna tell? She doesn’t enjoy the rando name suggestions and has no idea how much baby accoutrements I’ve hoarded waiting for this moment.
❤Frank! I don’t usually comment much but just wanted to give you some kudos. What a year, your resilience is admirable! Perimenopause is a beast that I am discovering as well. 🫠 I hope you take us a long on your house update journey, before and after, even if this is a fashion channel. Godspeed!
Everyone has something going on that makes life stressful. You are a strong woman and to share your experiences will help others. I really appreciate your honesty. ❤ Frank. You have such a positive vibe. Thank you for all your videos.
Frank-Ly. I love everything you do. Is love to see more of your new puppy!!🐾🐾♥️♥️🫶🫶. Breed, name, little boy or girl. Love doggie content. Thankyou Jenn♥️
Sending hugs Jen❤ Thank you for sharing, I love your videos and style. I am a young 54 lol and used to be a cosmetologist and have been in the corporate world for many years also. I and 7 yrs post menopausal and omg it can be rough soooo many symptoms! There’s great information from Kari Ann Wright in RU-vid. My mom passed away many years ago and never told me what to expect. Diet can help along with other things. I notice I get more hot flashes when I drink caffeine or eat sugar. Can’t wait for more videos- hey you should contact HGTV maybe they will redo your home!
Jen the real fluencer is soooo gorgeous in her make up but trust and believe, just Jen with no make up OMGASH u look like a darn teenager!!! themmmm BABY BLUES girl! WoW Xojodiamen, 50, NE BOS coast ⛱️ USA 🇺🇸
Wow I never would have known you were going through so much. I don’t really do instagram. But wow, kudos to you! I’m sorry you lost Tilly, I lost my Abby (same breed and same illnesses) l last year. and it was devastating. You doing makeup is mesmerizing. Especially your brows. What pencil and color do you use? I admire you and your realness as most of RU-vidrs appear to be Barbie dolls and phoney. Thank you
"Frank". Wowzers that was a heck of a year for you, but I do appreciate that you shared it with us and that's why you truly are a realfluencer. That's why i like watching your videos, no fake b.s., just real life as it happens.
You are amazing and I'm so honored to know your behind the scenes struggles and accomplishments. I struggle with depression, as well, and am a strong powerful woman like yourself. It just happens and sometimes for no reason at all but you've certainly had things to deal with. Just know you're admired and appreciated for all you do for us, here, and for those in your personal circle. Bless you and your next steps and I pray 2024 is less stressful for you, and full of great progress! And don't forget to cut yourself some slack.
FRANK 💪🏽🤣♥️ I LOVE YOU DID A UPDATED THIS WHAT BROUGHT ME TO SOCIAL MEDIA I WISH ALL TUBERS WOULD DO THAT AT LEAST ONCE IT IS NOT LIKE MID-YEAR JUST SO NEW PEOPLE CAN KNOW WHICH MANY PROBABLY DON'T CARE BUT I DO IS JUST NICE TO KNOW WHAT BROUGHT YOU GUYS HERE AND I'M SORRY FOR ALL THE MISHAP AND THE PAST YEAR BUT OBVIOUSLY THAT I'M SURE MADE YOU STRONGER AND WISER THE BAD TO ME IS GOOD CUZ IT'S ALWAYS GROWTH FROM ALL. AND I COULD TELL I COULD TELL YOU WAS A SPECIAL ONE THAT'S WHY I SUBSCRIBED NOT ALWAYS RIGHT BUT THINK I'VE BEEN SUBSCRIBED TO YOU FOR MOST OF THE MONTH NOW OR TWO 😅
Such a wonderful story of your year 🥳 YOU DID IT!!! You made it & now this will be a year to look forward too. I am excited to see where you go from here 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🥰
Hey Jen, I really enjoyed this style of video. I am so sorry about your precious baby Tilly. Sending you hugs 💗💗 I’m not on instagram, so I had no idea all of this was going on. I enjoy all your content and it’s nice to get a glimpse of your real life. Glad you feel comfortable sharing. We all have struggles. But you seem to take it all in stride. I don’t know I’d be that strong. You are a positive influence 😊 The realfluencer 😉
Thank you for sharing all of that. You are such an inspiration. On the weight loss front, nothing worked for me until I found intermittent fasting. It can be so flexible, and I find that being able to still have black coffee and pickle juice in my fasting window makes it doable. You got this, Jen!!!
Thank you for sharing ❤. I’ve also been going through so many changes in my life ugh! I pray a lot and I will for you. Thank God myself and my husband are on the same page in our home and in life! Definitely having that support and love makes a huge difference getting through ❤️.
