OMGNESS! I am You and You are me! This is exactly how I feel, and I had to step back from some friends because I was always the after thoughts. Mind you, I am the friend that will DROP EVERYTHING AND BE THERE FOR THE ONES I LOVE, and I never wanted anything in return. Lately, I needed to be the one that is a priority to my friends, but I was let down on so many levels. I had to reevaluate, and the season is still on for one or two, but unfortunately, the season has ended for most.
Life has been interesting to me i cant even say thank you enough Ms Bimbo for sharing these words 🥰 And i will currently start to live life with less regret and learn to forgive myself as well cause all the tunes of friends have had have repeatedly hunt me but today i wull free myself
This video is so insightful. 2023, taught me that we all need good people in our corner, also that there are good people out there. We can also meet our best friends at any age, not by how long you have known somebody. Thank you Abimbola for this video. Love ya!
Wow ABIMBOLA, you are so articulate, intelligent, eloquent, everytime I watch u anywhere, am always ready to listen to you express yourself, great knowledge you have👌🙌🙌🙌U just described me in this video, am a friendship gurl, I love friendship but I just realised recently that friendship is different as you get older. Am still navigating some and waiting for seasons to know which stays or ends but then I pray for spirit of discernment. Thank you for the prayer. I wish you well too❤
Thank you for this video. I have been going through this a lot this year and for a long time I couldn't explain how I was feeling and I even felt some shame/guilt for feeling the way I felt. Friendships are interesting and can be difficult to navigate. I pray God gives us the grace navigate our relationships here on Earth. We must remember that we are imperfect people trying to love one other. We are bound to hurt/step on each other toes/offend each other. I like the message of forgiveness. Thank you. ❤🩹❤❤🔥
I feel like you just described me in this video. I've experienced quite a lot of friendship hurt and this really helped and spoke to me. Thank you for sharing this. ❤❤❤
I used to wonder why I Iove you so much, I have my answer in this Vlog. Thank you Abimbola and there is no need for you to act or be any other way. Your people will find you and they will stay and this message is for myself too. Thank you sis!!❤❤
It's crazy how this video relates to what I have been through and still trying to move away from. I'm learning not to allow others mistake take away the people that are trying to love and care for me. I pray for the grace to be able to let go for my own sake. Thank you for the prayers, the intentionality that comes with each words of prayer is 💯
Bimbo! You say "So Random"; I say So REAL. It's truly been an honour watching you share more of your emotion and vulnerability in this video. And so much of what you said here is Relatable, honestly. Friendships, Seasons, and Life itself; are Interesting and DYNAMIC. I really hear the thoughts on your heart in regards to friendships; and I know all too much about being #Seen. Lean into the discomfort of your vulnerability; I'm Living for it! 💓
I have been constantly praying to God to connect me with goods friends,I'm tired of walking around with friends that don't have impact in my life it's really affecting me maybe because I'm the only girl child..I'm just sick and tired of this lonliness life.. I need good people to talk to, advice, and encourage me Holy Spirit I need you in this.
I always say we should choose friends who choose us too. I was so heartbroken when I realized my friend will choose his body counts (not partner ooo) over me
God bless you, Bimbo. Thank you so much. I've carried the pain of an offense in my heart for 2 years now. It has eaten me up so much. And listening to you now and saying "amen" to your prayers have given me peace. Thank you.
Peperempe darl, good evening. The fact that I came straight from SGIT S4E3. Rewatching for the fifth time in 4 years. Thanks for talking about friendships. We hardly talk about the emotions we expend in platonic friendships. I have just two closest friends. I love them with all my being and let them know all the time. As someone who struggled with validation from having many friends in my teenge years, having these two girlies by me, loving me almost more than I love them, I cry sometimes thinking how grateful I am. My advice to young people would be you dont need to meet your best friends as a young person. Your adult years holds so much in stock. You'll meet the absolute best persons who value you just as much as you age and y'all become wiser. Remain blessed, nne ❤
