I love her but hate every character she creates. It's a real skill to make people hate a character within 10 seconds. She's just so good that the characters feel like real and awful people.
the detail of her sharing a very sincere, vulnerable moment about her husband about his love for her and she tells the story to 1 show off and 2 poke fun of his vulnerabilities in an extremely casual conversation to her girl friends is just... holy shit cate is too fucking genius how on earth does she fucking do this.
I was looking for a comment like this! Seriously, the narcissism/lack of empathy for her husband after him expressing such obvious love for her is wild
She channels her powers for good, not evil. She recognizes all those characters because she could be any one of them, but turns judgment into performing for an audience instead of gossiping for a crowd.
i've seen women do this countless times, and I've even heard it from people i barely know but think it appropiate to share super vulnerable moments of their BF's to strangers. all I can think is damn girl i wasn't supposed to ever know that
Basically, if you cringe hard and can't really watch one of her shorts then there's a good chance that's either you or you've been burned by that exact person
It's making me now be conscientious of how many people I know that I was tolerating their idiosity for too long You know if you're the quiet one, you're at least not the annoying one. At least in the circles I've been, the talkative ones were like this. I guess there's nothing wrong with being quiet now
The last 10 seconds are physical comedy gold. The fake anguished tightening of her face, the scream, the smile through a bombshell of a confession. Damn this is funny 🤣
Right? And like does she understand that some of the unfinished watches are when I’ve had a bad day and I can’t stand to be with the person she’s acting like because she so spot on so I have to click off?
I actually have a friend like this who used to brag about having an affair while being married, while I was single at that moment. "I'm so lucky two men are in love with me while there are women out there, who have none." Yep, that's me, right here, listening to you.
I had a close friend like this. Used to rub her relationship and cheating habits in my face for 5 years when i was single, just like that woman does to you. I had to ditch her because eventually, when I got a boyfriend, she tried to convince me to cheat on him. Be careful around those types of people. Sometimes, they will rub their love life in your face for ages, then try to sabotage you when you end up in a healthy relationship.
@@krystal2441 You are right. When I met my future husband, she did her best to twist perceptions to make him look "ridiculous and desperate" to want to be with me.
@@nint357 ikr It’s because Caitlin did such an amazing job of painting such a vivid picture of this woman and her marriage in this short video, you couldn’t help but be invested in the characters.
@@legroom4575 Lol no one was saying they weren't?? They were just pointing out that someone who cry's over movies (gender doesn't matter) probably is super sensitive or emotional (which isn't a bad thing) so he'd probably be destroyed when he found out about the affair.
I was watching this and during the "anecdote" of the zombie movie I was thinking, "ugh, why does this give me such Ned from the Try Guys energy?" Then I finished the video lol
I used to have this exact friend and it's so accurate! Down to the facial expressions, exaggerating, lack of empathy, cheating told as something quirky/naughty...
A friend of mine told me that she was leaving her boyfriend of 5 years for a man twice her age. She also admitted that the relationship started well before she had broken up with him. I guess I looked shocked or upset or something because she said oh my God I feel like you're judging me. Well, yeah. I am. It doesn't mean we can't be friends but I'm not going to validate your bad behavior lol.
@@chlorine5795 I mean, if someone went around engaging with people who were already married, forget about destroying marriages. It would be "destroyer of lives"
i kind of felt more like it was jokingly saying “let’s not watch something that makes you that uncomfortable anymore” bc i thought it was an innocently annoying character up until the cheating part lmao
@@MellyWilliams well, that too lol but i don’t read social cues all that well unless it’s painfully obvious. i was rationalizing it in a different way. i guess that’s why i keep ending up with people who aren’t very good for me rip
Yeah honey cheating is not a flex what gets me is they say he’s never around and stuff and that’s why they cheat like seriously 😒 or not they’re not happy so instead of filling for divorce they go around galavanting and stuff trying to look for men to hook up with I think it’s easier to separate then cheat on her husband and trying to save your marriage if you don’t want to be in a committed relationship and would rather go around being trashy then why tie down to one person who they think they’re going to be the faithful but are going around acting like trashy hoes is ridiculous people who cheat I have no sympathy for them they made their bed and would have to lie on it period
This lady's talent is unquantifiable, she knows how to get under your skin and push every one of those buttons that make you seething with other human beings lol all of her videos are absolutely amazing, incredible personality.
@@meganchambers8108 I never understood why people insist on posting happy b-day or anniversary messages on FB for their spouses for the whole world to see instead of just wishing them a happy b day directly when they are sitting two feet away from them in their own living room.
Also when she says he's my husband and I've known him for years pleasee sometimes I think I know my dad better than my mum knows him and she's been with him for 20 years.
Don’t forget “Josh bought us this really expensive carpet but I won’t say the price. It came from the middle east. I begged him not to buy it. Okay it was $5000”
@@tearfrost984 She’s so good at acting, she made me feel like I was actually getting lunch with a friend who’s married (referring to the title) 😁 Thank you & you too!
i don't have a friend who's married, but this character feels vaguely like people my mom used to be friends with. If you don't know these characters yourself, chances are you know someone who knows them so you've still met someone like them once or twice
@@tearfrost984 Basically someone who's always bragging about how "they know their so so well" or "they found their soulmate" and how they "do everything together" but actually they've got a lot of problems underneath the facade
For me it's that she captures the logical flow of conversation perfectly Friend: We fart on each other, isn't that funny Me, in my head: Sounds kinda gross, like you're closer to being platonic roommates than-- Friend: I am having an affair Me, in my head: There it is
Saw her on a RU-vid short one day, just bored and scrolling. Now I dread clicking everyday when I see a new post from her. She does such a good job mimicking people I feel I know in real life it actually makes me uncomfortable, but I love these videos.
Bruh ik my friend was cheating on her original boyfriend and she was so chill about it she literally said “oh yeah I’m like hooking up with that dude” the brownie analogy is accurate
in David’s mind though, he would probably trip her so the zombies get to her first and he could run away. He was crying because he would finally be free. ✌🏼
Words cannot describe how much a lot of your characters make me want to throw things at them. I hate them with all of my heart. You're a good actress. Good job.
There's the part when they tell you "oh don't you EVER get married, is so much trouble" and then right after will say "oh marriage is SUCH A BLESSING, it's so good to have someone for you"
just like a parent complaining about their kids 24/7 and prefer to stay at their job place a bit longer but then when they heard someone choose to be childfree by choice, they snap and said '' kids are such BLESSING'' or ''you will never know the true love until you have kids''
@@eva_unit_01 But that's not really hypocrisy like the above example. The sad thing with extremely religious people is that they can be fully aware of how unhappy they are in their marriage, but they can't get out because then they go to hell. It's like: "Y'all this is torture, but that's just whatcha gotta do to get into heaven, am I right fellas lmao".
I’ve been married two and a half years and since the day I met my partner I have neverrrr seen him cry, meanwhile I cry like every other day like it’s a normal thing
How have I not discovered @Caitlin Erilly until today? Only a few videos into her world, but I'm amazed. The writing, the acting, the storytelling and even the editing are so good. She's basically an independent filmmaker using just a phone.
My sister who is not married but describes her relationship like it's something straight out of romcom and super profound also at the same time shamelessly admits fooling around with someone else. I'll never get it but Caitlin apparently gets it better than anyone else. Bowdown! You keep nailing these characters over and over again with extreme accuracy!
"i would say the most interesting thing about being married is that you just have someone who loves you unconditionally." Later.... "I am having an affair... I was just like so deeply unsatisfied."
Literally no one more talented at capturing real life people we hate/love!!! I’m obsessed with her videos and I literally wait for a new one every day!!!!!!
it’s always rubbed me the wrong way when people say shit like “the best part of being married is having someone who loves you unconditionally” like did they not love you before? did that only happen the day of your wedding? i’d imagine unconditional love would be a prerequisite for marriage, not a quality only found in marriage.
I always wondered if when people say that, they mean they treat their spouse terribly and they've just gotta stick around anyways. And Idk. Even if I am fangirling over my hypothetical husband, would I really talk about 'unconditional love' like that? The other thought is conditional love or love that leaves, and I don't think I wanna reveal that I'm insecure about the guy not loving me one day.
I got married 3 weeks ago and I know I’m INSUFFERABLE for how much I enjoy saying “my husband” in conversation as much as possible Edit: *end of the video* - WAIT NOT THAT NOPE NOT THAT
You know this actually helps me be a better person whenever I watch her videos it makes me evaluate my personality and see if I'm like that with people and try to not do that lol
@Dead Poet But Not Gay IKR I have spent my entire life being genuinely kind to people and they would always just walk over me and never take advantage of me . I have gone out of my way and helped people so many times only to recieve " well who asked you to?" Instead of a thank you . I later realised that these people never considered me their friend in the first place and just used me . I am glad I have self reflected on my past self during self isolation.
@Dead Poet But Not Gay I guess self evaluation is still important and we need to assess why some people don't like us. Some people are just going to be assholes, i get it. But that's not always the case. Sometimes we're the asshole which is why self reflection and action is important.
David is in deep denial and won't believe you if you tell him. Years later, he'll chat up women with the sad tale of his ex wife who took everything from him, and he took her back every time.
“Like I know this man. Like he’s my husband, I know him” Why have I heard almost this exact same thing said in almost the exact same tone so many times? She truly captures that absolute need some woman have to make others believe they know their partner in and out. We need to start an Internet Oscars awards just so that she can get them all.
@Alyssa that’s great. Yes we did lots of marriage councling before we got married. We have gone through ups and downs but we are still best friends at the end of the day. Good luck thanks for sharing! 😁
@Alyssa How does one not get into a relationship where theyre being used? Everything ive ever been in has turned one sided, even when the other person is talking and acting like theyre committed. I just got broke up with last month out of nowhere, its like nobody will communicate and its so frustrating
On another of Caitlin Reilly's videos, there was a comment speculating on a cinematic universe among Reilly's characters. Sure enough, David the newlywed is the son of the WASP mom. I would imagine that he already experienced emotional abuse for some time, so for his wife to continue this pattern... it breaks my heart. I send my thoughts and prayers to David. 🙏
that woman who moved to LA to sell make up online and hook up with her boss is probably his sister. She thought she would escape WASP life timeline that way but is just making other mistakes instead.
i also send thoughts and prayers to David. i hope he can start gardening or join the 501st with his movie accurate clone trooper armor and go cheer up kids with the guys.
Then you just have to sit there and be the supportive friend when they fight but not taking sides by smiling and nodding like: 🧍♂️ “Uh huh...right...yeah...I totally understand...damn, that’s crazy! I see...very true...tell me more...”
For real though. So many of the people in my life who are in relationships love to use me as some sort of therapist. Like they think because I’m not in a relationship I should be the one listening to their problems. I should write a book about their drama just to spite them.
@@lindseylee5302 my mother calls her side of the family and complain about her bf they've fought at least 3 times this month alone and then she'd complain to me.
Then she mentions her husband is too good for her and doesn't deserve to be cheated on but she will try to tell him and make things work when the time is right but she needs to find herself because she feels like everything in her life happened so fast and she needs to discover what she wants. *sips tea in poker face*
The storytelling that you can't help but get absorbed, the character that feels so real despite not knowing someone like that, the punchline that absolutely hits you like bricks. God I admire this woman's brain and humor so much
How have I not known about this woman till yesterday? She is automatically in my top 20 funniest people ever and I've only watched about 3 of her clips. Is she famous? Like, is she on SNL or some Netflix series?
I know someone exactly like that! Constantly talks about her fiance, making it look like they're deeply in love, but is secretly having an affair. SMH. I have a feeling people overshare their relationship to make themselves and others believe nothing is wrong.
From being the cheated on person, theyre probably constantly accusing their SO of an affair too. Cheaters are just genuinely bad people on multiple levels.
You forgot the part where your friend goes, "Oh, you're still single? My husband has this cousin you should go out with... he's pretty weird socially and like, ten years older than you, but age is just a number, right?" As if you being single is a problem to be fixed by her, the paragon of happy relationships
This defo is not Aighmih, because that teenage girl is so sad. This is Neighvee, that eldest daughter who didn't finish college because she got married, then blame her lack of employment to partiarchy. Then when her girl friends are having ready good jobs and high positions in the corporate world, she's like, "Women aren't supposed to work forever tho. Get a husband! You'll never have to work! Look at me!"
"The interesting thing about..." If someone starts talking about something like this, they're trying to convince theirself it's worth it and not a mistake. I DON'T KNOW WHY but the conversation always takes a dark turn after they say this 💀💀
