Loving all your honesty and vulnerability in your vlogs lately. And yes acotar is the greatest thing to ever happen to me and I’ve never been the same. I’m also on dating apps and this vlog was like my entire inner monologue haha. Enjoy the series, I wish I could go back and read it for the first time!! Men written by women are just… there’s no words. Why can’t real men just take notes and realize we are starved for this. Anyway loved this and I related so hard ❤
I have been a fan for a long time, but fist time commenting here. I love your happy and productive vlogs which almost all of your vlogs are... but this episode hit me really relatable to me and I start crying. Anxiety and pets grieving while they are perfectly alive. Your gratitude meant so much more after you shared what you went though the dark rabbit hole of negativity. Thanks for being honest. I know it was hard to click upload but so many of us are thankful that you did it. We are all in this together. sending lots of love and hugs.
This vlog was so relatable... I literally cry about my dog dying at least once a month and he is 7 years old... he has grey hairs though, it breaks my heart. I just want him to be a baby again. Thanks for opening up and being vulnerable. These days always pass. Warm hugs girl.
I love how you are so open and sharing even your bad days This is what makes you so relatable and down to earth I truly wish you the best! 💕(and a really handsome guy as well, lol)
I’ve been a viewer for the longest time but don’t usually take the time to leave a comment. Thanks for being so real and vulnerable, makes so many of us feel seen.
In my personal opinion, the older you get, the more you appreciate to spend time at home and by yourself. You can get 'social' by going to the gym, visit a family member. In my opinion people that make videos always feel the preassure to film themselves at events, in parties, in trips, otherwise feel their content is boring. And that's not truth. Vlogs at home, of routines are also nice to watch.
I agree about the pop with a fast-food sandwich! I usually avoid Coke, but there is one type of sandwich that is just not the same without it! And don't despair about the dating scene: a family member just got married, she's in her early 30's and just had not found the right guy until two years ago. He was not at all what she expected, but he was the right one - so nice, such a gentleman, hard-working. There is hope!
i think what helps ground me is reminding myself that there's a reason people write those stories and it's that they're not rooted in reality. it's nice to have somewhere to escape to but we have to come back. it's like going on vacation or to an amusement park. i also remind myself that im not perfect either or im not the perfect fantasy character in the books lol so i shouldn't expect anyone else to be either. as far as not thinking about our dogs dying... girl i dont know but i can't stop thinking about it either and it's a problem lol. i constantly tell my dog he better beat the odds and live until he's 25 😂
Love you girl. The guy you are talking about, you won't find on a dating app. Prayers for you honey. May God bless your faith in Him. And bring you your man! ❤
I get that you like the fantasy but it's not real life so I say put the series away and get out into the world. Do it NOW while you're young because- trust me- you will regret. We are all not going to get this time back- you don't want to look back in 5 or 10 years from now wishing you had gotten out more. Glad you are back and feeling better and lots of hugs to Tika!! ☀️🌴🦩☺️😊❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰
January was an emotional rollercoaster for me as well. I started hyper motivated into the new year and i‘m already falling behind my to do list and i was not sick. 😂 than i created much more work and chaos when i accidently set my microwave on fire - well it was more smoking. But still i had to clean the kitchen vom top to bottom to get rid if that intense burning smell. So i guess- it can only get better now.
My dog ended up biting my neighbor who is unfortunately a cop while I was on vacation. I told my mom that I knew it was not a good idea for him to watch her and the situation was totally preventable because they live next door and there was always something territorial going on. I gave my mom months in advanced but our schedules did not align and she waited last minute to find someone to watch her. And even alive and well my mom without me knowing gave her back to the shelter because our neighbor could have sued us or ordered the dog to be put down so even if your dogs are alive cherish them forever. I had no choice in the decision and mourn her every single day. She was my best friend. My mom had an hour talk with the lady at the shelter and that is my only prayer that someone has my dog in their corner to give her a second chance. You never know what can happen alive or not. Just enjoy her while you can. I had so much anxiety with that dog because she was adopted completely wild, we spent 2k on training her ect and I taught her what love was but it was still not enough so just enjoy your dogs while you can and same with people too 😢 life is never what we can expect
😍😍 please keep us updated on ACATOR, I’m at the gym now and got a notification book 3 is waiting for me at home!! Book 2 was so amazing, love your videos and waiting you grow!!❤️ stay happy
I relate to so many parts of this video. More importantly, I also just finished ACOTR and I don’t know if I can emotionally handle the next book. It was so amazing but also wrecked me. Glad someone else can relate!
No way - the 3rd book is the BEST !! Sadly for us, the male characters were written by a woman 😋 So they might exist only in our fantasies. Don't give up tho! Lots of amazing men out there. It only takes one ❤️
I'm glad that you are feelling much better now. It will be ok. I told you that I'm single as well so I totally understand your mood .... Hugs and kisses❤
I’m watching this vlog because I’m having the same feelings as you. Needed a distraction. So just know you aren’t alone, and thank you for letting me know that I am not alone either.
My dogs are both under 2. I've dealt with pet death several times with past family dogs and it's a horrible feeling. But this for some reason seems worse mainly because they are my very own if that makes any sense at all lol my pets are both so young, but I definitely had this thought even already. 😢 I dread the day to come
This is very relatable. I think about sad things every single day esp about my pets!😭 I have two horses and three cats. Most of them rescues. It’s torture to have pets and torture not to have them
Those books also absolutely consumed me, I was checked out of reality just escaping into that amazing fantasy land and it is so much fun! But after obsessing about it for a hit afterwards, things do go back to normal, don't worry haha my standards are just a little bit higher now but they will balance out again, just enjoy the books while you read them for the first time!
@@MelissaMerk all of my friends have recommended ACOTAR to me but I don't know- I tried listening to an audiobook of it and didn't get into it after the first 2 chapters. Does it pick up a lot? Maybe reading it is better which is why I asked about the kindle!
When I read the ACOTAR series, I felt like I barely even lived in the real world and I was incredibly anti-social haha so it's an understandable feeling. But worth it!
I’m sure you already know this but just in case because we LOVE your fur baby, make sure the essential oils you’re putting in your humidifier aren’t toxic to dogs. A lot of them are. I don’t use them at all anymore.
I feel like we are both in a similar place. I was so motivated December and then I also got sick this month as well and now the months over and I feel behind in everything and like it won’t change either. It’s just temporary, we got this! Also, can I ask where that painting/photo of the flowers in the field on the wall is from?
Lol I so relate to fantasy romance vs reality. It makes real life hard lol.. I love the delu. I am no longer reading fantasy romance novels I need to face real life 😭😭😭😭
Omg we are the same! I’ve been in my hermit era, falling in love with fictional male love interests 😂 and then I go on TikTok and the comments from m3n are so 🥴 I just block and go back to reading hahaha
I also just finished the first book of the series!! ahhh it was so good but I also realized that I shouldn’t be reading the second book for now and just focus on light reads. But girl I can relate!! 🎉