Thank you! Well-spoken, my sister! I'm here in the States, NJ. You've expressed my exact thoughts and the experience I faced years ago. I had to divorce the lady for the very reasons you talked about, and now I find it so difficult to trust our women out here in America. I'm contemplating finding a woman back in Ghana, but I know that, too, has issues of grave concern. Hard to decide which isn't it?
Brother, I’ve been through similar and eventually married a woman from Ghana, who rather was worst! Best thing I later did was marry a white lady and I’ve known peace in tranquility and our finances have shot through the roof with over 4 houses to our names. Talk less of other properties both here and in Ghana. Be advised bro.. cheers
Wow! This truth runs deep, but it may be challenging for many women to accept. I can only hope that someday they will be willing to listen and reflect upon it.
Go for Ghana woman in Abrokyire at your own risk. Please, get Akata, you can run away when things get tough. At least you will only have to fight in Abrokyire and not in Ghana too.
Facts,facts,facts. You both spoke very well and the truth. This is a help advise or message for Ghanaians and Africans in general abroad. I heard a Nigerian RU-vidr narrating similar message a few weeks ago. Africans, we have issues.
When I came to the USA in the 90s, the best decision I made was to date a non Ghanaian woman. After all these years, my lovely wife is right by my side strong.
Some years ago i lived in Switzerland Zurich 🇨🇭 for four years to looking for Ghana wife because of i didn't have any piper's no one can follow to the time they send me back to Ghana
She is so right. I am a responsible single man in Europe and wanted to marry but couldn't because all the Ghanaian ladies I met despised me because I didn't have legal stay. Now I have my legal stay by God's grace and hoping to find someone genuine to settle with. Hit me up if you are single lady and ready to settle
I believe this is an issue only people not born or didn’t grow up in abroad face this. Women who behave like this are usually those that moved to abroad as adults, and changed because now they’ve tasted a system that favours women. Been living abroad my whole life, I don’t agree to the idea that there are no responsible Ghanaian or other African men here, you may just not be their type. Also, don’t just be focused on dating just a Ghanaian. Be open minded and date a non-Ghanaian or African. It’s 2023 lol
3y3 sad paa... For some of us we decided to try other Africans and some also go for Abrofo. But they also have their issues which are not immediate but more of long-term. African men are generally suffering in the hands of our African women.
This lady is too real and truthful. God bless her and grant her with a very good husband, because she deserves it. Am in the STATES and what I’ve observed is most Ghanaian ladies are very wicked, not all of them though but majority of them. It’s easier for a Ghanaian man to give his documents to a Ghanaian lady than a Ghanaian lady to give it to a Ghanaian man. Most of them are influenced negatively by their family members and friends. It is better to marry a black American lady or a white or any other nationality than to marry a Ghanaian lady. Ommo tlimu 3den aaankasa. In Ghanaian churches like what my brother was saying 3tan koraa. Ghanaians naturally don’t love ourselves when we travel.Greediness, hatred, wickedness, gossiping and selfishness is what most of them exhibit here. The worse part is if you don’t have a STAY they make it look like you’re not even a human being. Even in Ghanaian churches they do the same thing. 3y3 ns3m piii. Ghanaian ladies are really wicked when they travel.
My sister.. they're blocking our chances and it's painful. The men abroad now are just using ladies back home in Gh because of fear of changes in character and attitude once they marry and help them relocate abroad. It is well! 😢🙏
Please STOP using the word,AKATA,its a big insult to my black american brother's/sister's, most of us are married to them,we are coming together as one black family ,take that word out of your vocabulary, its a big insult.
Men in Ghana do not fall for their tricks. If you can get the money out of them, go for it. Because she will make your life hell after divorcing you abroad. Be warned!!
We love ourselves when we are living in GHANA but as soon as we arrive in overseas that's then the problem starts. Some of the women starts to listen to their friends and most of the time those have no husband so they are looking for some to be like her ? Please I will end here I have got a lot to write about.
You see, no one left the shores of Ghana for marriage. They came for work and money. Hence, no one wants to be yoked with a stressful relationship. That's why they jump ship.
Every responsible man need humble and submitted respectful women if you are women and you need married not the one sleep or going out with u take this 3 advice the word to a wise is enough
The responsable once are difficult to find, is the same ,nice women are difficult to be find, you are talking about ghanians men, why not to find a White man or, they are better than ghanians men, i promis you, they will not lair to you all the time, Sister is better to be alone than to find those men or woman,
