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girl chat: do i prefer being single? friendship break-ups 

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@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
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@TheFineArtisan
@TheFineArtisan 2 года назад
Ayana is one of those RU-vidrs that feels like a friend you haven’t heard from in awhile because u know they’re busy but whenever they call u it’s cool and like they never left if that makes sense. Also I’m sad the ghost story didn’t get a lot of views because I liked that one.
@gloribelirizarry6689
@gloribelirizarry6689 2 года назад
Yesss. I would love to hear ghost stories too. Please do a few more. I just came across this channel - so I'm new here but would love ❤ her ghost stories🙃
@gloribelirizarry6689
@gloribelirizarry6689 2 года назад
Ohhh. I just started to watch this channel but would love ❤ to hear your ghost stories Please 🙏. Just be careful - & yes u can by mistake bring one home that are stuck on an item or something. By the way, there was a TV show on cable TV that's called,"Ghost stories". I believe some are with celebrities- "celebrities ghost stories". * I know u from "Hip Hop Atlanta ". You are so beautiful inside & out. * Wish Many blessings to keep coming to you 🙏.
@marzipan2555
@marzipan2555 2 года назад
To be fair, it's perfectly normal to not know what you want to be when you grow up, even in your 30s
@terrijones1389
@terrijones1389 2 года назад
Heyyy I'm 51 Just bounce around..Jack of ALL Trades...🥰😁
@cuteniema1998
@cuteniema1998 2 года назад
You can always get married and have the ceremony later. They say if you last 7 years married, y’all will last for life . & sometimes people wait & have their ceremony 7 years later after marriage.
@jeanellreynolds7291
@jeanellreynolds7291 2 года назад
True.
@blueismylove3128
@blueismylove3128 2 года назад
Idk who says that, but they dead ass wrong 💀. My parents where together for 15 years before they divorced. And my grandparents 30 (they haven't legally been separated but they aren't together. We need to get outta the mindset that the longer you last the more successful the relationship will be. It's just not true, especially when not too long ago it was taboo to get divorced whether you were happy or not. Also, some short relationships have just realized they aren't good as a couple and are better off as friends. There's nothing wrong with that.
@faithyboo91
@faithyboo91 2 года назад
Not true lol
@kerrylevett9423
@kerrylevett9423 2 года назад
I am literally in that same situation where I feel my boyfriend and I are roommates instead of a couple. A lot of times I want to be single because honestly I was happier being single.
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
If you love him, address those concerns. If he's not willing to try and fix them.... LEAVE
@kerrylevett9423
@kerrylevett9423 2 года назад
@@ayanafite I do love him and I have addressed the issues before and he did change for a while but then it went right back to the same thing. I mean we literally don't do anything together anymore. We used to go on dates and just go for a car ride in the country and just talk and I enjoyed that, but now it's just boring. He is a good dude! One of the best relationships I've ever been in. Meaning he doesn't disrespect me, call me out my name, put his hands on me or cheated on me(as far as I know😒) which I have been through in previous relationships. I know this sounds cliché I just wish he did the things he use to do when we first got together. I can bring it up again but I know it will last for a little while then back to square one. I guess I have to pray about it! Honestly life was so less stressful and happier when I was single!
@sabrinaessix4486
@sabrinaessix4486 2 года назад
I felt the same way in our relationship. He couldn’t understand why I felt like that.
@AnnerzDrum
@AnnerzDrum 2 года назад
@@kerrylevett9423 I understand that this may be the best relationship you have been in... so far. I would say give the relationship a try one more time if you feel like it is worth saving. I would also say reflect on yourself as well. If you see the changes you have made on your end and he doesn't hold up his, I think it's about time you let him go. And let him know that as well in the kindest way possible. So no yelling just a good heart to heart. Let him know exactly what he will have to work on and listen to him when he says what he needs you to do. Overall there is no use in settling for someone that was just "better" than your previous relationships. I always say your SO needs to love and respect you as much as you love and respect yourself. If they can't do that then what's the use?
@Ebabie
@Ebabie 2 года назад
@@kerrylevett9423 sometimes in relationships we go through different phases together and individually. I wonder what’s going on with him individually that makes him not do all of those things that he used to do. Is he stressed or going through something within himself… whatever it is since he’s a good boyfriend and a good person to you… I feel y’all both deserve a chance to work it out. It’s hard to find that authentic type of love. So in my opinion I’ll rather work on “boredom” then to go through another heartbreak or dealing with someone who’s a cheater or a manipulator… boredom is so simple to work on than all of those other problems.
@Scenepuppetzz
@Scenepuppetzz 2 года назад
I recently ended my relationship with my ex girlfriend. I was happier and healthier being single so I moved out and broke up with her. It's been 8 months and the best decision I ever made. The peace I have is amazing
@yndzzz
@yndzzz 2 года назад
I respect you so much for knowing your worth and not budging with how much you want to get paid! Good for you seriously
@brucy7571
@brucy7571 2 года назад
The Spanish bit definitely made sense :) I didn’t realize the difference until I started taking Spanish classes and Latin American studies in college.
@MsNastasiaB
@MsNastasiaB 2 года назад
You offered some pretty good advice, especially for the 1st question.
@tdubbsimmons2602
@tdubbsimmons2602 2 года назад
You were the main reason why I watched the show! They did you dirty.
@lesbiannotthespian
@lesbiannotthespian 2 года назад
Currently watching this on my lunch break at work! Hey Ayana! 💜
@ashleysalazar2012
@ashleysalazar2012 2 года назад
I always enjoy seeing you pop up on my notifications ❤️
@imcoreylee4653
@imcoreylee4653 2 года назад
Y’all definitely can get dressed as if it’s a wedding and go to the court house! Just have a lit ass reception/celebration after. I want to do a intimate destination wedding when i do get married.
@AnnerzDrum
@AnnerzDrum 2 года назад
Honestly go to the court house and do the full nines. I always say just have the courthouse ceremony and then have a reception with the people closest to you. If not go with the vow renewal 5+ years down the road. I went to a courthouse wedding two months ago and I saw this couple that got married and she was in a wedding dress and she looked so pretty! I think you and Amy would look gorgeous regardless. I always saw myself doing a courthouse wedding over a traditional wedding.
@jeanellreynolds7291
@jeanellreynolds7291 2 года назад
Hi Ayana, thank you for chatting with us. Your responses are always on point. I agree with you regarding choosing you get married at the court. People spend so much money on weddings. You could have a nice reception and go on a wonderful honeymoon.
@sherondariley4224
@sherondariley4224 2 года назад
Let me find out you being a advice/relationship coach because all advice you gave in this video was spot on 😳😳😍😍🥰
@ShreeGrear
@ShreeGrear 2 года назад
Such a beautiful soul ❤️🫠
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
awwww thank you!
@protegemartinez6282
@protegemartinez6282 2 года назад
Facts ✔️💯😀
@tywanbrown3034
@tywanbrown3034 2 года назад
Hey Girly!! I love these chit chat/q&a videos.. Its like some cool gossip with your bestie LOL
@Dieppaloveplants
@Dieppaloveplants 2 года назад
That right Ayana we live and we learn💚💚💚
@taccora
@taccora 2 года назад
16:30 You didn't ask for opinions or thoughts, but I'm always a proponent for the court house with a witness. Possibly a nice reception for the people in your life that truly mean you well, and one hell of a honeymoon.
@ginathomas4514
@ginathomas4514 2 года назад
I love your story time and your vacations are priceless ✌🏽❤️🙏🏽
@myview8395
@myview8395 2 года назад
Watched till the end.... you are VERY authentic. Ride on ❤
@ruthkiemorris4138
@ruthkiemorris4138 2 года назад
Hey love I'm so glad to see you I know you be busy but keep the videos coming cause I be looking for you love ya 🥰😍
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
videos every week in September!
@imcoreylee4653
@imcoreylee4653 2 года назад
I felt that sleeping together part😂🥵 and definitely need your own personal lives/identity
@carolineboye7850
@carolineboye7850 2 года назад
Thanks girlll. You give the best advice 💞
@MJvlogs420
@MJvlogs420 2 года назад
If you don’t want a wedding ceremony maybe just have a wedding photoshoot?
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
This is exactly what I was thinking too!
@bparker4764
@bparker4764 2 года назад
Love it💜💜 yess more videos like this I love how real you are...thanks for being you
@eleciastewart
@eleciastewart 2 года назад
Loved this. Great conversation and great vibes watching you. I may have watched the ghost story on my cpu and didn’t sign into my account. I will make sure I go find it and hit like.
@devine6443
@devine6443 2 года назад
Girl screw them views you better tell that damn ghost story lol😂 I wanna here I love it it scared the shit out of me last time
@racheljeanpaul5944
@racheljeanpaul5944 2 года назад
Girl …ABOUT TIME!!! i’ve missed you😩 lol…glad to see you (watching while working/hardly working😂)
@CarasPlace
@CarasPlace 2 года назад
I love your videos. 🙌🏽 you’re so full of personality!
@dabarbie2102
@dabarbie2102 2 года назад
No babe please dont you are wrong. say for instance im trans and im subscribed to you, and i love you, like legit obsessed level love you and something comes out that you were being transphobic, imagine the heart ache id go through if you dont seem sympathetic or apologetic. now i do agree that people say ignorant things too but it doesnt mean it doesnt hurt people so you need to aplogise. saying that someone doesnt need to apologise is like saying you dont care what they think when these people have based most of thier life watching you. the apology is necessary, the apologies, not so much. but accepting that you are wrong and being able to ask for forgiveness for what you did or said wrong is the best way to move on.
@CollegeCutie10
@CollegeCutie10 2 года назад
I personally would rather see changed behavior than hear an apology. An apology is just words and most of the time they are not sincere. Change behavior actually takes effort
@devine6443
@devine6443 2 года назад
Can you talk more about rates for sponsorship and how it works because I see a lot of women low ball themselves and I don’t want to be one I don’t settle
@PuncieB
@PuncieB Год назад
Loved this
@geministar6167
@geministar6167 2 года назад
Where you get them earrings from?
@jklljones7224
@jklljones7224 2 года назад
Yes, please do kore of these videos, love it💛
@protegemartinez6282
@protegemartinez6282 2 года назад
Ayana thank u 🙏🏿 love the content ✔️✔️🔥more vacation videos please 😄
@roxxxymartin4987
@roxxxymartin4987 2 года назад
I love the ghost stories💜💜
@NikkiBankssss
@NikkiBankssss 2 года назад
Where r yo earrings from super cute
@MoeMoe280
@MoeMoe280 2 года назад
Hey gurl glad you vlog love energy gurl.
@RSHouseShorts
@RSHouseShorts 2 года назад
I feel like you can have hot girl summer with your man dont throw your relationship away for a fun summer and not a great lifetime with the person you love you can party club drink whatever together let him know you wanna live life party with friends opposed to run away from yo relationship
@karenbaker1855
@karenbaker1855 2 года назад
Please do more ❤
@protegemartinez6282
@protegemartinez6282 2 года назад
More vacation videos 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾💯✔️
@Futhi.Johnson
@Futhi.Johnson 2 года назад
Is it FDA approved? I missed you..do not disappear
@kaylahwilliams4l826
@kaylahwilliams4l826 2 года назад
Great video it was very interesting 👍
@nampah7477
@nampah7477 2 года назад
You so amazing🥰🥰
@protegemartinez6282
@protegemartinez6282 2 года назад
Very beautiful smart funny young lady🤞🏾💯🙌🏾😀
@WolfpacMaster
@WolfpacMaster 2 года назад
awesome video
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
Glad you enjoyed it
@protegemartinez6282
@protegemartinez6282 2 года назад
Always 🙌🏾✔️😀
@marissablack5726
@marissablack5726 2 года назад
Blossom don’t care about us 😭
@angelajones6523
@angelajones6523 2 года назад
Hey girl❤️
@dymkeyes2758
@dymkeyes2758 2 года назад
You can get married at the court house and have a small reception after with close family and friends
@cicihenderson9044
@cicihenderson9044 2 года назад
But where did you get the earrings sis lol
@yndzzz
@yndzzz 2 года назад
Wow I didn’t know about Amazon stores were another way that influencers make money. That’s so crazy
@TiffMoFlo
@TiffMoFlo 2 года назад
I know you said you didn't have care or have time to continuously remind people about commission codes, but have you thought about making a video and just inserting it in your videos?
@Divinehonesty1
@Divinehonesty1 2 года назад
😚
@janicedekle3880
@janicedekle3880 2 года назад
I was tell you about your dog eye bleeding it is call angel eyes l gave it to my dog it did not harm him I inquired about it at the pet store they sold it to me it’s a white powder but you know what’s best for your dog
@angmart2638
@angmart2638 2 года назад
whats the music in ur intro from?
@rhondahead2801
@rhondahead2801 2 года назад
I love you !! Keep doing what you doing, if she don't get it together call me, lol
@jasminemarecia
@jasminemarecia 2 года назад
Heyyyyyy
@egwthe1
@egwthe1 2 года назад
Spanish is a language spoken by PR's Cubans, dominicans, colombian, and. Guatemalan. Latino is correct. Instead of a wedding save the $$ and buy a house. Can we see a hair video. With your natural hair.
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
Thank you
@nakeishaduggan7223
@nakeishaduggan7223 Год назад
Sometimes I feel that way with my girlfriend like we r roommate 😏
@aundreafinesse
@aundreafinesse 2 года назад
Now friends stop disappearing on us ‼️
@jameidrad-rice4667
@jameidrad-rice4667 2 года назад
The devil is a lie! lol Break up with him? How about look for things to rekindle the 7 year relationship. Fantacizing a hot girl summer is "natural", HAVING a hot girl summer in a relationship is when it's over. I'd encourage her to seek the Lord in the relationship for guidance and/or reminders as to why they have lasted this long. Soul ties are being created so just breaking up with people because you are "bored" is definitely going to lead to more boredom eventually.
@terrijones1389
@terrijones1389 2 года назад
So true. 🌸🌺
@michellearroyo816
@michellearroyo816 2 года назад
Hey chica iv loved u from jump iv had my boobs done since I was 23 I just turned 42 on aug 25th I live in Utah I’m scared to death to go back under cuz I have a underlying health condition and iv been on pain meds for 5 years I’m afraid of waking up during the surgery cuz all the meds I have to take daily PLEASE HELP ME WITH WHAT I SHOULD DO my rite implant is smaller than the left cuz there way over due I’m also scared of my body rejecting the implants since iv got GRAVES DISEASE 10 years ago I can’t even get my ears or the other side of my nose pierced without it getting so infected I gotta take em out and please believe me I tried 3 times ok so if that happens 2 me how can I remove the implants without them falling 2 the floor is it possible 2 take em out and still have nice boobs I trust u chica so please get back 2 me on wtf I should do iv gotta 7 yr old and a 5 yr old they need they mama thank u hope to hear from u also I don’t no if my doc is still in Utah so can I get some price rates I don’t have ig so I only watch ur RU-vid take ur time I asked a lot of serious questions can’t wait 4 ur response stay blessed beautiful queen
@보모
@보모 2 года назад
_algorithm_
@theestalli0n
@theestalli0n 2 года назад
why would you not apologize for offending a whole community? people are so insensitive
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
Maybe I didn’t articulate my point correctly. I would rather see changed behavior than a lackluster apology. How many times have we seen youtubers do a whole fake apology video and then go back and still have the same problematic behavior? I’d rather see changed behavior. I could care less about the apology
@theestalli0n
@theestalli0n 2 года назад
@@ayanafite love this!!! i can delete the comment if you want me to. I have a much better understanding ❤️❤️
@lovejoy6710
@lovejoy6710 2 года назад
Pray and anoint your home with oil period.
@qcouple4930
@qcouple4930 2 года назад
Girl I love you, but can you PLEASE put the sponsorship stuff in the middle of the video or close to the middle. I get so bored with the sponsorship stuff then I click off. If you start with the tea it’s more captivating.
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
They pay for the beginning sis lol.
@qcouple4930
@qcouple4930 2 года назад
@@ayanafite That company must not understand analytics and have an incompetent marketing team. If they analyzed data from videos they would know that sponsorships in the beginning increases your click off rate which equals less views 🙄 When content creators start videos with the reason why people click then the viewer has no choice but to watch the sponsorship. They are less likely to click off.
@qcouple4930
@qcouple4930 2 года назад
@Alysia Williams Inaccurate! That company must not understand analytics and have an incompetent marketing team. If they analyzed data from videos they would know that sponsorships in the beginning increases your click off rate which equals less views 🙄 When content creators start videos with the reason why people click then the viewer has no choice but to watch the sponsorship. They are less likely to click off.
@milamasami
@milamasami 2 года назад
@@qcouple4930 I promise you it’s not that deep 💀
@qcouple4930
@qcouple4930 2 года назад
@@milamasami it’s deep enough for your response 💀
@veeladyleo7753
@veeladyleo7753 2 года назад
Can you imagine where your subscriber count would be if you were more consistent
@ayanafite
@ayanafite 2 года назад
Don’t make me depressed lol
@m.d.w7328
@m.d.w7328 2 года назад
Hi. I sent u a DM on IG. If u have time can you reply. Its a question. Thank you in advance. Take care
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