Many people think a divorce is embarrassing, but once you see a friend in that boat, it’s that much easier to get on the boat, rather than being the first on it.
C A exactly this! You may have been thinking it for years but wondering if you’re exaggerating, and if everyone else is making it work in theirs you should too. When someone else goes through it it almost gives you permission and validation to do what you needed to all along.
@@dayjahomara They don’t need validation to know their relationship isn’t working. They need a force other than themselves to take the massive step of divorce.
Whoever is reading this and you have been falsely accused, always misunderstood, rejected and used by people. Don't lose hope. A time is coming when people will look up to you. You will win
Divorce is not contagious HOWEVER ( shocking right ) negativity is... so when a person is going through something they have the power to either look at something they’ve went through and look at it as a learning lesson and something that was meant for them to grow and not a mistake that needed to be changed because they regret and resent that person.... which is why people need a friend like Jeannie who is a person who loves love not only for herself but for those around her... she ( Stated on the show ) she told Loni wayyy first as well as Tamera that she was getting a divorce.... and Adrienne was getting married and Jeannie being the friend and person she is was not a Debbie downer and bringing down the morale so it was best she didn’t tell Ade when she did
I’m with Tamera on the dishes! I grew up with strict parents that always wanted the house clean and stuff and she seems happy and content now so hopefully I’m like her one day 😂
I mean tbh anybody and everybody hates doing the dishes... it’s such a lowkey annoying task especially when other people don’t rinse the stuff they use and they just expect u to clean it or if there is grease and grime you can’t get through ! But I feel like a simple compromise would be to oscillate and say “ u do dishes on Monday , Wednesday , Friday ! You do them Tuesday , Thursday Saturday & whoever cooks on Sunday the other can do the dishes”
Yes at times is contagious.When you hear someone is getting a breakup most times you start reflecting on yours and also think that you can be alone without a man.
It can be very HELPFUL to listen to the advice of others, but, at the end of the day, YOU have to be the one to make the final decision, especially when it comes to big stuff like divorce.
Men don't need to be "paid" to pull their weight at home. If I work and you work, doing the dishes is as much your responsibility as mine. This emotional labor (and real labor) is just bs.
If only African parents could see this and stop trying to raise females to be caretakers Like please ...... we are both breadwinners we can be both take care of the house Equality!
unfortunately when i hang out with couples that have been married for 10+ years all they do is complain and they keep telling me that thats what happens after a long period of time , now iam married for 4 years and my marriage is only growing stronger.stay away from those people !
i'm just like A i find washing dishes is calming and my gf loves the laundry . and she knows i hate to vacuum so she does that in the morning before i get up . so its just about finding the right person
The ladies were not being REAL suggested to re wear the same dress. Nobody is doing that...Loni is right in saying to buy some dresses from Ross or Marshall’s!! They’re affordable anddd good quality
Yeahhh my partner really dislikes washing dishes and he usually cooks cos he likes that more, so I mostly wash up cos I don't mind and I know he doesn't like it.. And yeah it is kinda therapeutic, same with cleaning.. Or we just do both together, we both cook and both wash up.. It works out anyhow :)
You are not obligated to go to anyone’s wedding especially if it’s a destination wedding. If it’s local I’d be hurt if you didn’t come and had no excuse, but if you have a destination wedding you need to expect that a lot of people can’t come.
That is true my two friends and I got divorces. My other two friends I have to talk to them out of it and remind them the good things in their marriage. But some of my married friends I cut them out or I talk to them less because I have no good things to say about marriage so I keep my nativity to myself and my freedom 😁😁😁😁😁☺️ I had my excitement too.
I feel women don’t like spending money when it comes to anything extravagant because what ? They have to pay for MORE... from the dress to the accessories , to the shoes to the hairstylists and then possibly depending on where the wedding is... the travel costs ! And it’s more like a task at this point when all u want to do is celebrate the love of two people coming together under God 😂 Bless y’all cuz idk how y’all hold it together
Battle Rifle how do u know girls are doing that? It’s not like they do it in front of men. Let’s not act like men don’t bash women, Many time, *literally*
Battle Rifle men bash women, heck, they created the B word TO bash women and these silly females are using the sexist slur to bash women for venting about their cheating ex husbands
im so annoyed with dishes my man doesn't do them at all bc "his stepdad would make him" when he was growing up SO ANNOYING but I'm not gonna leave him lol
mkgcbeauty woow everybody’s father or mother makes them do dishes, how is that a good reason not to do dishes as an adult 🤔 I doubt women are allowed these silly excuses
Amanda is the worst, these shows where sooo much better! Loni also changed since Amanda joined and I feel like Amanda hates Jeanie now Loni supports her on it too! Idk, I just want the old show!
Agnesa Selimi I agree with you! The Real has lost what made them a great show and better than the other talk shows. They are going the way of The View and it is sad.
This is a dumb argument. My wife hates doing dishes and I hate SEEING dirty dishes so I'll usually do them. If I cook, I clean as I go so there's no mess when we eat. The ulterior motive beyond my need for a clean kitchen is to make sure there are as few barriers to a healthy sex life as possible. If she gets home and has nothing to clean or cook then anxiety and stress is lowered and sex is probably going down. I work from home so I do tend to take a few more cleaning breaks than the normal dude.
Gm edagdwg you have to know what your husband is like facing the truth what is happening in your home pay attention to what you say and do to each other love is real share your things make sure you tell each other I feel your love soooooo blessed to have a real true love Linda j. Peace