@@bleudiamondbleu yeah I can kinda agree with that. I really enjoyed the casual girl chat but they were a huge let down when it came to politics. I think Amanda Seals was the only one who truly kept it real
My current boyfriend is shorter than me and let me tell you, he’s the love of my life. It’s my first time dating someone shorter than me and I’m loving it. He treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king. Update: he cheated on me and I left him.
Coya Darling This is encouraging... I just recently started dating a shorter guy than me and it’s my first time ever dating someone shorter plus I swore I never would lol. I’m freaking out coz he treats me so good but I’m still a bit uncomfortable with the height 🤦🏾♀️ I do hope I get over it soon Lord!
@@Winterof84 girl I swore I'd never date anyone taller than me too, but then came him. I used to feel uncomfortable with the height difference at first too but now I'm over it. All that matters to me now is our love for each other.
Coya Darling omg girl! I met my husband a month ago! We just couldn’t be away from each other and he is super short! And I LOVE it ! It never was appealing to me! But idk I just love him so much and he puts my heels on like Cinderella and Prince Charming when we go anywhere. We’re so in love! It’s crazy! I never thought I would go for someone like him but 🤩🤩🤩 lol
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t dislike Amanda. It’s just these ladies are the originals (minus Tamar) and they have a much closer connection (which is expected) they work so well together and you can feel that.
Here's the thing: if a guy kisses you or touches you and you didn't actually want him to, then after you say "Hey i really wasnt ok with that" if he says sorry or feels really bad and you can tell it was innocent, then don't go around telling people it wasn't. There's a difference between genuinely not knowing, and doing something that is uncalled for.
When it was just the 4 if them they did full segments about fat people sex and dating short guys🙄 Amanda brings more substance to the show and brings a deeper perspective. I love these ladies but the show was starting to feed the stereotype that this is all that young women of color talk about. We have intelligent conversations too!
I don't know if it's just me, but I don't think it takes away from the moment at all if you just take a breather and ask if everything is good. Every guy I have dated after college has always asked me "Can I kiss you?" before the first kiss. And If we are getting a little frisky a "you good?" "is this okay" "do you like that" before going all the way to me is sweet. You don't need to do every step of the way, but communicating and making sure everyone is enjoying themselves is something I like and prefer.
i feel like there needs to be a destigmatization of communication during sexual encounters. there’s nothing wrong with having an open and truthful conversation before a sexual encounter discussing ones kinks, how you can please your partner, what they are comfortable/uncomfortable with, etc. don’t expect romcom sex where you just fall into bed and have passionate sex. speak to your partner!
My boyfriend told me before the first date that he would prefer for me to take the lead on physical contact because he didn’t want to make me feel uncomfortable. I thought that was sweet.
Loni was way more relaxed,Funny, genuine,warm,and enjoyable. Every since Amanda got on Everyone seems so defensive Especially Jeannie and Loni I've noticed A HUGE SHIFT.
I'm so tired of Loni's MUA. Like for real. You gone send her out like that. The whole staff need to be fired for allowing her to go out like that. RIDICULOUS!!! And her seatmates need to speak up too. SMH.
Tiff Dawn I’m not surprised where at this point where now we don’t know where the line is drawn, like you said there should 100% consent but contracts and stuff makes it not worth thr trouble. The MeToo era has definitely made an impact of the dating scene
I LOVE EVERY BIT OF THIS SHOW!!! It’s so real. I love watching it on RU-vid. ROCK ON LADIES!!! Please try to stay together and keep having real fun. I love you all. 🥰
I’m with Loni on this one. The Me Too movement brought back the fear(respect) for women’s rights and I like that men wait for their cue or ask before doing anything.
Who else misses these types of topics? I feel everything has been so serious on the show lately... I love serious discussions, but I miss the funny, slightly naughty talk!
Loni love, no girl your make up artiste did you wrong. And no, I wouldn't have sex on the first date. You literally just met this person. You gotta build the connection before getting connected.
I'm taller and weigh more than my husband. We have known each other 20 years, been together 10+ years and married for almost 2 years. He has known me a big since day one and he loves me for me!
@Jamilla Dobson that's fine. That is why we as individuals have our personal opinions and answers. It may not be your preference or make sense to you, but it does to me. To each it's own.
I personally wouldn’t. The first date you’re just getting to know the person. No size shouldn’t matter when it comes to love. Why do people care? They’re not in the relationship. I never understood people who care about something that has absolutely nothing to do with them.
Sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. You can have a connection and they can be the best person ever but you dont hit it off in the bedroom, you will be SO unsatisfied as a woman
Shayna Dorsey I agree with you .but sometimes l get so horny ..like on holiday ..l banged the waiter at my hotel . My passions were running high .So were his . .
@@cathyb2967 wow. Nice. Lol. Ive had a one night stand before too. I have not done it ever since because of the negative stigma and because of the risk of the guy being a stalker or if I catch an incurable disease.
Don't knock the one night stands! In my freshman year of college I went or with this guy I met and he was finer than frog hair! That man had me doing things we should have went to jail for!! He had me talking in tongues like it was the third Sunday! The next morning I was walking to class thinking about our night and my knees literally buckled from under me! Help me Peter and don't tell Paul! That's why I was a pregnant junior in college. We married,had a beautiful baby girl, I eventually finished law school and we were married for twenty six years. No, he didn't die. I divorced his cheating ass and now I'm living my happily ever after! Take my advice and DON'T HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS!!!!!
Let's see... I earned a law degree raised a daughter who's a civil engineer, not to mention two college educated sons, all while being pregnant in college. Your takeaway was my daughter wasn't wanted? Bitch, please don't get it twisted! My daughter, as all my children, are very much loved. I was raised with strength, courage and compassion, as were my children.You sound like a.less than successful jealous bitch. It took eight years for your parents to have you because they knew you were probably going to be a failure. That's what usually happens when siblings procreate. I bet you're a beautiful princess..a la` Fiona!
Whoever did Loni's makeup did her dirty. Get someone who knows how to do dark skin girls right. She's beautiful, and that makeup is hiding her beauty, not bringing it out.
Had sex on our first date. We celebrated our four year anniversary this past February and we have a beautiful almost two year old daughter. We’re very happy!
This is how it should always be. Just THESE FOUR beautiful open minded loving women on The Real. This show really doesn’t need a fifth woman. Love you girls!
Please keep it this way with the 4 ladies!! I miss when J has her voice and amazing input in the convo! We don't need and they don't need the 5th girl.
I agree with Adrienne. I am not dating a guy shorter than me. I’m 5’2 and that would just look really crazy. I dated a guy the same height as me and it just didn’t work out not just because of his height. I just love tall men!!!!!!
In this clip from right to left I'm getting, Latino flight attendant, Black Mulan, Asian "she wore an itsy bitsy teenie weeny...", and a Biracial spider web lmfao. I love them though. Seriously though, I love Tam's outfit.
It’s not May! I wish they would post the full episodes at least if they aren’t going to post recent ones. Not everyone has a tv! Put the full episodes on Netflix or on here! I’m happy for this 14 min clip tho! Thank youuuuu
I've dated tall guys, my height, and literally a head shorter than me, and I always told myself I'd go for someone like 6 inches taller than me. In the end, I was talking to a guy without knowing he's shorter than me, and imma tell you, him in general is what I fell for that when we're together, it doesnt even matter, and it doesn't matter to him either cause he was calling all the shots hahaha Who cares about a number, you'll miss out on that guy/girl you are looking for.
I can so relate cause my boyfriend is a foot taller than me and he’s on the thin side but he’s fit as hell and I’ve always gotten people who act like such a struggle to kiss or complain that they couldn’t date a thin guy. Honey that’s why I’m dating him and you’re not cause I CAN make it work.
To be fair you say it sucks that the guy isnt making the first move but it isnt, it only sucks if you like the guy. If it stops a guy you dont like from making a move then it’s great
The love of my life was a hook up. We're in love now. The key is not the physical but the nonchalant attitude. I wasn't trying to trap my man and I made it clear that I was dating others and didn't want a commitment. He wanted that challenge and stole my heart. The challenge is not always sex.
That’s absolutely beautiful. I really think it depends on the person and how they were raised . I agree some hook ups turn into loving fulfilling relationships. It’s ok to hook up if the person likes you and wants to move forward with you then awesome and if not it’s ok. Just be safe. What someone does is there business.
Love isn’t always looks it’s whats inside You want someone that going to “do you” & leave. Or Have someone that going to show you passion and show you love
So..... Loni's make up artist really let her walk out looking like cake face....? like maybe it looks good in person but under these studio lights......huuuuuuuuney no!
@@czarinaczar people like you make my heart smile!!! I'm so grateful for people like you that are thoughtful enough to think of others safety. We're all in this together. Ijs
Ok I honestly have to say... true love should outweigh ( no pun intended ) the other stuff such as weight... my mom and dad have been married for 15 years together 20 years and my mom has always been the beautiful curvaceous, plus-sized one in her relationships but the one thing I have to give props to my dad is he never made her feel as if she's less beautiful just because she happens to be a big woman... he loved her just way she was and is and that's all that matters
Any man that admits he’s in a relationship with x other people is not going to be serious with you now or ever. No man who is seriously interested will risk losing you by making you feel you are just one of many even if he is dating others.
Not true, he's honest. Think about it this way, would you rather have a guy say "I'm looking for love, and that's why I'm date multiple people, to find the right one for me" or someone who doesn't say it, but is still looking around.
People are not islands. Guys will have friends and deeper relationships before they meet you. If a guy approaches me and tells me he is single, when he is not, I can work with that. Because I know he is trying to impress me and if he likes me as a person, the other women will fall off his radar. It’s guys that approach you and could care less about impressing you and reveal they are sleeping and talking to others that you should run away from. Because any man who is properly chasing you, wants to really impress you and will not risk it by offering up such info. It’s likely he just wants sex and doesn’t see you as gf material. Women will always have competition, but let a man chose you and earn you. Don’t worry about other women. Honestly, I don’t believe in sleeping with a man either before marriage. That keeps your mind clear and your options open if he’s not actively pursuing you.
Mogens Linnet and Loni has low self esteem. No woman should come on TV and brag about her sexual escapades like she is a dude. She acts low value and cheap, so men see her as such.
Mogens Linnet Think about it like this: if you were the most beautiful woman in the world, and you had rich men from the world pursuing you for marriage, which one of the stupid suitors would risk losing his chance to be with you by telling you “oh btw. I’m seeing other women”? Zero. Any guy that says that to you believes you’re average, at best, and you should view it as an insult. Who is pursuing who?
@@AkireMaru you have a point. But women want what other women want. There a reason, that men in a relationship get hit on constantly and single men don't.
I’ve dated multiple men shorter than me it wasn’t a problem for me because I liked them for who they were and eventually it became a problem for them and became self conscious from people saying he was not man enough for me “I am more than my body” I love that
y’all just didn’t learn about consent. That’s why jeannies saying her guy friends are “scared” to make the first move. They don’t understand how to ask for consent. If they did they wouldn’t be scared.
J P I think the reason jeannie’s guy friends are afraid to ask because if alcohol is involved on the date they have sex the woman doesn’t remember consenting to sex then presses charges on the guy that’s why the guys are afraid
I stumbled upon this channel and have enjoyed watching their videos. HOWEVER, I don't like it when they are hypocrites. For example, all of them would have trouble (with the exception of Lonnie) dating a man shorter than them. Yet, at the end of the video they are proud of the woman who has a thick torso and thighs but has a boyfriend who has six pack abs - and saying that (in so many words) two people should be able to love one another REGARDLESS of looks/size, weight, etc. If they really believe that, they should have no problem dating someone who is smaller than them. (BTW, I'm normal height), but of course they would!!!
